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2017 11 16 Br Pháp Hữu: Being At Home and Enrich Our Practice

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    [gong sounds]
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    Good morning, dear respected Thay,
    dear noble Sangha,
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    today is November the 16th
    in the year 2017
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    and today I have the great opportunity
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    to offer the first Dharma talk
    of the winter retreat.
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    Looking at the community,
    I see a very big family.
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    For any of you who is here
    for the first time at our winter retreat,
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    welcome to the Plum Village family,
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    welcome to the spiritual family.
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    I hope that during your time with us,
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    you will arrive and
    feel at home at every moment.
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    When you walk you'll see that you're not
    walking in a foreign place
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    but you feel that this is your home too.
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    In our tradition the winter retreat has
    a very important aspect for us monastics
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    but also for all those who aspire to live
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    and to put into practice
    the life of mindfulness.
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    In this tradition that carries
    the spirit of calming, of being at home,
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    learning to still oneself in mind and body
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    and also to enrich and deepen
    our practice, our aspirations,
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    and at the same time, learn to live
    in harmony with the community.
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    Today I would like
    to break it down one by one
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    with the practices that I have used
    throughout my years in these retreats.
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    As a monk, I never knew
    that we would travel so much.
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    The idea was, you go and shave your head,
    you wear a robe and you sit all day
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    but actually it's quite opposite.
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    The more you learn
    and the more you practice,
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    you actually see that what you have,
    you don't want to be selfish about it
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    you want to be able
    to share it with other people.
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    So, in this tradition we have
    the culture of opening our doors
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    to welcome the many people
    to come and learn and practice with us
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    and at the same time as a monastic,
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    we have the opportunity to travel
    to different places around the world
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    to be in touch with different cultures,
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    to be in touch with different environments
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    and in order to share what we
    have invested our self into,
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    to touch the wonderful
    seeds in other people.
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    So actually, as a monk
    we also travel so much
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    and travelling has its benefits,
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    we get to expand our horizons
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    we get to see and learn
    new things to enrich our life
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    but at the same time, learning to be home
    and learning to be still is as important.
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    Going home,
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    what is important is to be
    in touch with ourselves
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    with the real how, who we are
    how we are doing
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    we have to always come
    back to that question
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    because mindfulness is the ability
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    to know what is going on
    inside of us and around us
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    it's easier sometimes to take care of
    somebody else than to take care of oneself
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    so here we need to learn
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    and we need to really put our energy
    in caring for ourselves
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    in order to fuel ourselves
    with the practice,
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    with the energy of mindfulness
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    so that we have something
    that we can offer throughout the year.
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    I see that our roots are very important.
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    All of us, we have roots that we have to
    be in touch with and have to connect to.
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    And as a monastic, as a practitioner
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    the roots of our spiritual family
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    is something that we always
    have to be in touch with
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    and as a lay member we can also
    be in touch with those spiritual roots
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    they're coming from our ancestors
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    coming from our culture
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    it is deep down inside
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    the feeling of wanting
    to be able to touch peace
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    the ability to be in touch with happiness
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    the ability to make one mindful in-breath
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    those are all spiritual elements
    that are deep down inside of us.
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    And we have this very special opportunity
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    every day, to enrich it,
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    every day to deepen it,
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    every day to cultivate it.
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    These roots are what connects
    all of us in this room
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    we all have aspiration
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    but how can we live in harmony
    and how can we be happy together?
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    It's because deep down inside
    we all do have a same aspiration
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    and when we are in touch with that,
    we can feel the connection,
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    we can feel the interbeing of one another.
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    Me and my brown brothers,
    my brown sisters,
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    me, brown eyes in the robe,
    the brown family,
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    we have to see that,
    we have to see those roots
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    that connect all of us.
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    There's always a void
    that comes from time to time
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    the feeling of loneliness,
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    a feeling of separation is there,
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    but when you can make an in-breath,
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    or you can connect to your brothers'
    or your sisters' energy of practice,
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    then, somehow you feel embraced
    by their presence,
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    you feel embraced by their practice.
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    That connection is one of the values
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    and one of the treasures
    of being in a community,
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    and as a member of this community
    we also have the responsibility
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    to offer that to our brothers and sisters,
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    to offer that to our community.
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    So, just like the practice
    of mindful breathing,
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    the first exercise is to identify
    the in-breath and the out-breath.
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    Very basic but very crucial.
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    When you have the capacity to recognize
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    and to identify just the in-breath
    and the out-breath
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    then that means you will have the capacity
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    to identify your suffering
    and your happiness.
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    The things that are going on
    happening inside.
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    So if you cannot identify
    your in-breath and your out-breath
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    at any moment that you need,
    then there's some training to do.
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    If we cannot identify our
    in-breath and out-breath,
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    then how can we recognize
    what is going on inside of us?
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    That's why the basic,
    fundamental practice is very crucial.
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    It lays our foundation,
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    for us to go deeper
    into other elements in our practice.
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    So at any moment in the day
    in the retreat you feel lost,
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    you know there is a friend with you,
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    and that is your breath.
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    The breath is always with you,
    no matter what.
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    As long as you are alive,
    that breath is with you.
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    So identifying and
    being one with the breath,
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    it's a discipline and
    it's an important practice
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    because that is what is the beginning
    of the practice of awareness.
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    The beginning of mindfulness,
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    just one in-breath and one out-breath.
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    And when we follow along
    with the second practice,
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    if we follow our in-breath
    from the beginning to the end
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    and we follow our out-breath
    from the beginning to the end,
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    when we're able to practice in that way,
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    we give rise, and there is
    a concentration that is born within us.
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    And when you are concentrated like that,
    you give your mind a break,
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    a break from running
    from thought to thought,
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    from this to that,
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    but concentrated with just one
    in-breath and one out-breath
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    and that develops the concentration
    which helps still the mind.
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    And at the same time,
    when the mind is still,
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    then the body will also follow.
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    Sometimes the mind is too active.
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    Then we pay attention to the body,
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    that's what comes at third practice.
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    As you breathe in,
    you become aware of your body
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    as your body is a physical presence.
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    It's sometimes easier to be aware
    of the physical presence.
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    Sometimes the mind is harder to grasp,
    it's harder to follow
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    but the body is something you can feel.
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    The tension, the pain or the relaxation.
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    A relaxation you can offer to your body.
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    Aware of your body as you breathe in,
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    and relaxing the body as you breathe out.
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    You can feel it in your shoulders,
    you can feel it in your neck
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    your chest, your abdomen,
    your whole body.
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    And when we learn
    to be in touch with the body,
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    we are one with the body,
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    then we're also welcoming
    the mind home to the body.
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    And the more we are able to recognize,
    and be with the body and the mind
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    then we are enhancing our presence
    in the here and the now.
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    The practice is to be
    in the here and the now,
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    and that is the aspiration.
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    But I don't think we can always
    be in the here and the now,
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    not many of us are there yet.
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    If you are, you are the Buddha
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    and we'll be bowing to you.
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    But most of us,
    we are part time Buddha's, right?
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    Like what Thay says, not full time,
    but we are part time.
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    So the more we are in touch with the
    present moment, with our body and mind,
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    the more we enhance our capacity of
    being in the present moment,
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    and we are nourishing more
    our Dharma body.
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    Each and every one of us
    has our physical body
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    that we care for by exercising
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    by sleeping, by resting and by food,
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    but when you start to practice
    and you are in this community
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    there is a second body you give rise to
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    and that manifests as you practice
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    and that is the Dharma body.
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    The Dharma body also needs food,
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    and the food comes from the practice.
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    You know, every morning when we do sitting
    and we hear the morning chant,
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    the Dharma body is bringing morning light.
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    So each and every one of us
    has this fire within,
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    this fire that glows.
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    When you look...
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    one of the reasons why I
    became a monk...
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    ... was because I saw how
    beautiful the monastics were
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    they had this glow,
    and many of you still do.
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    They had this glow
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    this glow that didn't
    need words to express
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    but they carry it
    through just a way of being
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    the way of walking,
    the way of approaching me,
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    the way of sharing.
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    I will never forget
    my first encounter with a monk,
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    a Plum Village monk.
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    it was in 1996,
    my first time to Plum Village.
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    My father said, we were going to France
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    so I thought, oh, Paris, Eiffel Tower,
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    but the first stop
    was Village des Pruniers.
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    I had no idea what
    we were getting ourselves into
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    and I remember the monk picking us up
    from Sainte-Foy-La-Grande.
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    He was the first young monk
    that I've ever met in my life,
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    and the way he greeted us,
    kind of blew me away.
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    Just the way he bowed.
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    He joined his palms
    and he bowed to us.
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    And I was only nine
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    and I somehow felt, oh my god!
    A monk is respecting me,
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    wow! this is weird, this is rare...
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    and I was really in awe by his presence.
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    And then the way he took our luggage,
    the way he brought us to our room,
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    he showed us where to serve our food.
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    Just a very small detail
    I carried in my heart
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    I carry in my consciousness, too, now,
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    it's something that changed my perspective
    of Buddhism or of a monastic
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    and that wasn't done by word,
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    that wasn't done by a Dharma talk.
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    That was done just by his presence,
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    but that was done, and what
    I saw, was his Dharma body.
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    His Dharma body that he has cultivated
    through many years of practice,
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    and that has been
    translated into his daily life.
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    So each and every one of us
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    we have this Dharma body that we are
    cultivating and nourishing.
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    And nourishing it is as important
    as nourishing our physical bodies
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    and in this winter retreat,
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    it really carries the essence
    of deepening the practice,
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    of resting, of being at home.
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    It's like a big reunion,
    a big family reunion
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    for many of our brothers and sisters
    from afar, coming home,
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    and many of our lay friends,
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    having the courage to come for 90 days,
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    to let go of the outside
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    to let go of the noise outside
    and cut ourselves off
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    and to come and to rest.
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    So it's something
    that is very, very valuable,
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    these moments, that we have to recognize,
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    just like the in-breath and out-breath,
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    every day, we have to recognize.
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    One of my younger brothers said, wow,
    today is day 89 of the winter retreat!
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    I don't know if he's
    counting it down as in,
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    I have to value 89 more days, or as,
    oh man, I got 89 more days.
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    well I leave it for that brother to see,
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    but every day is an opportunity.
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    Just like our gatha,
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    Waking up this morning,
    24 brand-new hours
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    and we can say, waking up this morning
    another day with the community
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    how lucky we are!
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    And being in the winter retreat
    is also the practice of not going out
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    and not going out here,
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    our teacher expanded it not to
    just physically go out of the boundaries
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    that's why we have boundaries
    in the winter retreat.
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    It's to help our habits of running,
    of wanting to go out.
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    So to rest means to be still,
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    and to heal, we also
    have to learn to be still.
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    So we can learn from the animals.
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    The animals, when they are hurt
    they know how to rest.
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    They don't have medication like we do,
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    but they know how to rest.
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    We have medication, but sometimes
    we don't know how to be still.
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    So going out and having
    the boundary, is a practice,
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    it's something to help us,
    it's a helping hand
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    so that we don't have the urge.
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    Sometimes our habit is the urge
    to always go out,
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    never feeling still,
    stillness.
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    And to go deeper into this practice,
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    going out here, is also in here.
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    So for many of the winter retreats,
    our teacher always encouraged us
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    to take a break from social media.
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    That's also very important and
    maybe a bit difficult practice.
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    Being online is a necessity,
    but there should be a limit
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    and there should be a practice to it.
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    So going out here is not just
    physically, but also mentally.
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    So that is also the practice
    of the winter retreat,
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    and the spirit of the winter retreat.
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    Learning to be with oneself,
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    learning to be with this community.
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    To rest is such an important practice
    and it sounds so simple, resting.
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    I think we all need this,
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    but at the same time it's so hard
    because there is so much to do
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    there's so much we want to learn,
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    there's so much we want to achieve.
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    But the question always comes,
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    how much are we sacrificing
    in order to reach those achievements?
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    Even as a monastic, there's so much to do.
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    I'm the abbot of Upper Hamlet
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    and I see, the more I'm a monk,
    it seems like the more I'm busy.
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    and it's my koan this winter retreat,
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    how do I rest? How to rest?
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    How to rest more and
    how to be more present for the community,
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    it's my ongoing koan, my ongoing practice
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    because there is
    a restlessness that I have.
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    I feel that moments
    where I'm not doing something,
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    it's a moment that I
    should be doing something, right?
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    I think I'm not the only one
    that had this feeling.
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    So learning to rest is a necessity
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    because I always ask myself
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    to do that, to finish something
    do I feel more achieved,
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    or do I feel more connected?
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    Sometimes I feel I achieve
    a lot of things for the community
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    but I am distancing myself more
    from the community.
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    So there's one side,
    I'm achieving for the Sangha
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    but at another side, I'm distancing
    myself from the community.
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    So I have to revisit this
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    and I have to see what are my
    relationships with work, with service?
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    Service is a very important aspect
    of a monastic or as a person
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    we all want to feel that we are
    offering something back to society,
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    but to what expense
    and how much of stability
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    and of value, of peace
    and happiness that we have
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    that is actually the real thing
    that I want to offer
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    to my brothers and sisters
    and to the community.
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    That was my beginner's mind, but somehow,
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    slowly it became more projects,
    and projects, and projects.
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    so for those of us
    who are in the community
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    today I feel I have this opportunity
    to speak more to the internal family,
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    because we're all
    here for the three months
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    and we're all of the monastics
    that are here at another residence,
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    because all of us,
    we go through the same thing
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    we all go through the sense
    and the feeling of doing too much,
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    not having enough time to rest,
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    not having enough time to be
    in touch with our real aspiration.
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    Yes, my real aspiration was,
    I think it was to be enlightened,
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    and I shouldn't forget that, right?
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    And I think each and every one of us
    has to come back to it,
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    and not be carried away by the projects.
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    The projects are there,
    it's always gonna be there,
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    but at the same time we have
    to revisit our beginner's mind,
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    our bodhicitta from the beginning.
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    And when we are not in touch with that
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    then it's very easy to take a detour.
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    And this detour,
    how long it goes depends on us.
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    It depends on our capacity to be
    with the in-breath and out-breath,
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    recognizing again,
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    what is our aspiration?
    What was it that brought us here?
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    So I know that to be restful
    and to heal, and to be there,
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    means, I have to be true
    and I have to honor my aspiration,
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    I have to honor my goals.
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    And that means, having to retrain oneself
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    re-disciplining oneself.
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    The monastic culture in the
    tradition in the monastery,
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    there is a discipline,
    and this discipline is not to...
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    the discipline here is not,
    if you do something wrong, you get a stick
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    or you're gonna get scolded,
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    but the discipline here is a discipline
    to enhance our beginner's mind,
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    our aspiration,
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    because we have habits.
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    All of us have habits and
    if we don't have a discipline
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    if we don't have a training
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    then it's too easy
    to fall back into our habits.
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    Just like when you exercise, right?
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    the exercising to build the body
    doesn't mean just a physical activity
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    but it also means our diets,
    what we eat, what we intake.
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    So, in the community, in the schedule in
    this sangha it's the same, we have that.
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    So our guideline, the spine
    of the community is the schedule,
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    the community schedule.
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    And the community schedule
    is what unites all of us,
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    and what collects
    the energy of the community,
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    collects every individual presence,
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    and when everybody is there,
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    you just are embraced by this powerful
    collective energy of mindfulness,
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    energy of presence.
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    Just like yesterday,
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    I don't know how you felt,
    but in the ceremony,
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    when the community chanted together,
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    I ride the wave of the
    Sangha at that moment,
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    I said wow, this is awesome!
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    You have to be able
    to recognize those moments,
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    to ride the wave of the Sangha
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    because the energy of the
    Sangha are waves that come,
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    and if you have a surfboard,
    you can go very far.
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    and sometimes you may
    drown a little bit, right?
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    Suffering comes from time
    to time, that's okay,
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    but there are other safeguards,
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    there are other surfboards
    that are always riding these waves
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    and having the capacity,
    having the realization
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    to take refuge into our
    brothers and sisters,
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    our friends or practitioners,
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    it's at the same time
    as essential as practicing for oneself.
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    So the wave of the Sangha is there,
    the surfboards of the sanghas are there,
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    and we sometimes have
    to learn to open our hearts.
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    Open ourselves a little bit.
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    It doesn't mean you have to show us
    everything at the beginning,
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    you know, you can
    take it step by step.
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    Sometimes we have
    to see also what is inside of us,
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    what is going inside
    and how much to bring out,
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    because everything has
    to come with moderation
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    Plum Village is not a transformation box.
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    Some people have the idea, you come to
    Plum Village and you go out as a flower.
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    You come in one end and then
    you come out as a different form.
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    That means that you
    don't have the capacity
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    to see the mud that's also there,
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    and then we set our goals too high,
    and we set our own expectation
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    or we set the expectation
    of the community too high.
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    I love the way Thay shared,
    that the community is an organism,
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    it's a living body, and each and
    every one of us is a member,
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    is a cell in this body.
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    And when the cells are in harmony,
    then the body is healthy
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    and it works, it's strong.
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    But sometimes there are some parts
    of the body that aren't working so well,
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    but it doesn't mean the body dies.
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    But the other parts would take care,
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    take care of the place that is injured,
    the place that needs healing.
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    So we have to also see ourselves
    as a cell in this body.
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    So the moments when we serve
    and we support the community,
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    like the cooking, the washing up,
    the raking of the leaves,
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    all of that is caring for this body
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    and then when we come
    to the sitting meditation,
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    we come to the walking meditation,
    we come to the meals,
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    those are also caring for the body.
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    When there is unison, the Harmony brings
    about the strength of the collectiveness,
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    and the collectiveness here,
    in the body of the community.
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    So let us all breathe together
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    as we listen to a sound of the bell,
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    to harmonize the collective energy of
    everyone that is here in this hall.
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    [gong sounds]
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    Sometimes it's good to have
    a refresh button in ourselves,
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    in what is going on
    inside of our life with our life,
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    and sometimes there needs
    to be a new opportunity,
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    a new condition in order for us to feel
    that we have the opportunity to refresh.
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    Just like a computer has
    the button to reboot,
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    sometimes we also need that.
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    So the winter retreat is an opportunity
    to press that reboot button,
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    whether you are a monastic or you're a
    lay, it's all the same,
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    we have this opportunity to refresh
    and to reboot ourselves.
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    It's like the changing of the season,
    it's a new season, a new beginning,
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    and in a new beginning, you feel like
    everything is possible, right?
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    A lot of us come here, I think,
    we have goals, we have an aspiration
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    I think for ourselves, too,
    the monks and the nuns in the community
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    we should also have the goals
    and aspiration,
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    even though this is home,
    but it's a new season
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    and every season we want to feel and
    see that we can enrich our life more,
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    and we can enrich our Dharma body more.
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    So we need certain moments in our life
    that contain momentum to push ourselves.
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    For myself, every winter retreat is
    a time to revisit my aspiration.
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    just like I shared, just to come back
    to my bodhichitta, my beginner's mind.
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    Come back, ask yourself,
    what is it again that made me a monk?
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    What is it again that made me a nun?
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    and for our lay friends, what is it that
    made me come to Plum Village to practice?
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    And when you are in touch with that,
    and you can answer that,
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    then you can see, ah,
    first of all I want to be here,
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    and when you want to be here,
    that's a source of energy.
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    I hope nobody forced you to be here
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    because when you see that you want to
    be here, then your attitude also changes.
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    Your attitude towards
    living in the community,
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    your attitude towards the activities,
    your attitude to the practice.
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    I've been a monk for 15 years now,
    and yes, sometimes it gets boring.
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    And sometimes I take it for granted.
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    I'm like, oh man,
    I gotta go and sit again!
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    you know, oh man, I got to line up
    and eat, have cold food...
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    and then sometimes you're in line,
    you hear the scraping sounds,
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    oh man, the cooking team
    didn't cook enough food again...
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    you know?
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    so there are moments like
    that you know we all go through,
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    and there are moments sometimes that if we
    are not careful, then it carries us away,
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    that carries us very far away.
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    So the winter retreat for me
    is always this rebutton
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    this button to click, to restart, refresh.
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    And we all know, for the monastics,
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    at the end of the winter retreat,
    we all get this report card, right?
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    we all get this shining light letter,
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    that tells us the things that we
    have enriched ourselves in,
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    and things that we need to put
    more energy into transforming,
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    or put more energy into
    training.
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    But for me it's like, why do I have
    to wait until the end of the retreat?
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    Why do I have to wait until the
    closing ceremony to receive that letter?
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    Why don't I see that
    right now, right here?
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    This is a new opportunity.
    This is a new start to refresh oneself.
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    And it's funny, like,
    as a monk, I live in this community,
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    and I would say,
    I have all the best conditions
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    to enrich my life
    in the practice of mindfulness,
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    in the practice of sitting,
    of walking or studying.
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    But sometimes, when I go on a home visit
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    and I say, okay, I'm gonna make
    the best out of this, I'm gonna...
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    every day I'm gonna wake up
    at five o'clock, drink tea,
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    there's no schedule,
    I can do whatever I like
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    I can sit as long as I want,
    I want to read as much as I want,
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    so but then I ask myself,
    but why can't I do that in this community?
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    Why can't I do this in this
    environment, where this is home?
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    This is my field!
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    This is my field where I have planted
    all these seeds that I want to harvest.
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    and I just see, it's just a state of mind.
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    The mind is a painter, right?
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    So sometimes we have to mentally
    tell ourselves, this is a new beginning.
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    We have to refresh that button.
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    We have to refresh our aspiration,
    we have to refresh our practice.
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    And each and every one of us
    has now 89 days to do that,
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    and when you look at it, that's a lot.
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    That's a lot of days,
    a lot of opportunities.
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    and what I've learned to do is,
    I have to learn to break down.
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    I break down my aspiration,
    I got to break down my goals.
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    So like I said, we may sometimes carry
    a very high expectation for oneself,
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    and then there's a moment you say,
    oh I'm not I'm not giving myself 100%.
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    Then you start to lose motivation
    and then you lose your energy
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    of wanting to arrive
    at the goals that you set.
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    So as a practitioner, you have
    to learn to break it down,
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    we have to learn to break our
    aspiration down, break our goals down.
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    Don't just try to be
    a fully enlightened Buddha.
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    See and value the part time
    Buddha that we can become.
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    So we have to take the baby steps.
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    For example, Thay gave us many
    homeworks throughout the years.
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    I remember one year, Thay printed out
    for each and every one of us
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    it's like a business card
    and it said, 100% .
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    and anything we do, we have to see,
    I want to do it 100%.
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    So you got to break down your day.
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    Today, our aspiration is to be
    mindful throughout the day.
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    That's the aspiration.
    Reality? Not so much.
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    So we have to be real
    and we have to choose.
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    All right, today,
    every time I open the door,
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    I'm gonna close the door mindfully.
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    Make that a practice.
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    And the next week, choose something else.
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    The moment I see the brother,
    the sister I don't like, I will smile.
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    I don't need them to smile back
    but I will smile to them.
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    That's a very difficult practice,
    but that's our aspiration right?
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    To grow compassion,
    and to grow understanding.
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    Another aspiration,
    every moment I come into the hall
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    I don't wait until I sit in the hall
    to practice sitting,
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    but the moment I'm in the hall,
    the first step I take,
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    that should be a step of mindfulness.
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    so, be skillful, be creative, and
    make these small aspirations into reality.
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    Make these small goals into reality.
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    and when you can taste
    the fruit of those practices,
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    and you can see those achievements,
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    then you see, ah,
    I have the capacity to do this.
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    Not only Thay can do this, not only
    my elder brothers and sisters can do it,
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    but I can do it, too,
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    and when you can taste and you can
    feel and you can recognize
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    those fruits of practice,
    that gives you so much more motivation.
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    It gives you more aspiration,
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    like when you help somebody,
    you get back so much,
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    that's the same. When you can see
    the goals that you set and you can do it,
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    it gives back to you so much.
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    And at the same time, it gives
    to the community just the same,
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    to the collective practice and
    collective energy of the Sangha.
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    [gong sounds]
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    So take this opportunity
    to rekindle our fire.
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    We all have a very strong fire
    at the beginning,
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    and for some of us, the fire has dimmed
    down quite a bit and we need to rekindle,
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    we need to relight that fire,
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    we need to enhance it again.
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    Because with that, it gives warmth within,
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    and it gives warmth
    to our aspiration and our goals,
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    and it gives purpose.
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    A feeling that we have a purpose.
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    It's so important because
    the purpose brings connection,
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    and connection is something that is
    very important in community life.
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    For some of you
    who are here for three months,
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    this may be the first time you're living
    in a room with eight people together.
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    You're sharing the space
    and this practice is very deep,
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    it's a practice of no self.
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    You see, their well-being
    is your well-being.
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    And your well-being is their well-being.
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    Their happiness is your happiness.
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    Your happiness is their happiness.
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    And you get to learn, you get
    to see somebody else's transformation,
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    and somebody else's practice.
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    And this is something
    that is very meaningful.
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    It's something you will remember,
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    because it will also touch you.
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    Touch the roots that you have
    planted in this community,
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    and for monastics
    we also have the opportunity,
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    every winter retreat we get new roommates.
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    We change rooms and we get new roommates.
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    And this is also
    an opportunity for us to learn,
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    to really learn to be open
    to our new brothers,
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    our new sisters in a room,
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    and also the practice of no self,
    seeing them in you and you in them,
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    and the support that you can offer,
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    it's not just for them,
    but it's for you too.
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    and one of the things that I have
    learned when living with somebody
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    is that their transformation
    sometimes is your transformation.
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    Sometimes they transform something
    and it moves inside of you, too.
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    and you kind of thank them,
    thank you for practicing
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    now I don't have to do that.
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    But at the same time,
    the things that you are practicing
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    and that you are transforming, enhancing,
    also affects them.
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    And in our practice, that's called the
    interbeing, interconnectedness.
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    In the community,
    taking refuge is a practice.
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    Refuge here is not just a shelter,
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    but also, sometimes we have to learn
    to surrender ourselves to the community,
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    and sometimes we have to learn
    to borrow the energy of the Sangha.
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    Sometimes, our teacher would say,
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    when you're feeling down, and you feel
    like you want to be alone,
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    that's actually a time when you
    need to be with the Sangha,
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    to borrow and to take the collective
    energy of the community.
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    Sometimes when you're feeling down,
    if you're feeling weak,
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    oh yeah, maybe I'll skip
    sitting meditation today,
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    the community will understand,
    I'm feeling down, I'm feeling weak.
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    They'll say I need space, but actually,
    if you go, and you sit,
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    and then you take in
    the collective energy of the community,
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    that may be actually what you really
    need, that energy of the community,
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    this collectiveness.
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    So the community is there,
    and we all will be challenged at times,
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    like, do I go with the community
    or do I not? Do I go, do I not?
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    and sometimes this yoyo,
    this back and forth, back and forth,
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    sometimes you just gotta learn
    to let go, I just go, I just flow.
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    That's part of our training in the
    monastic community and the Zen tradition
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    so sometimes we have to see
    not just our own needs,
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    we'll have to see the collectiveness.
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    that sometimes are our own thinking is
    what's distancing ourselves more and more,
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    but when you learn
    to be embraced and to surrender
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    that can enrich yourself much more.
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    So that is something I think each and
    every one of us will be challenged with
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    throughout this winter
    retreat from time to time.
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    and just remember, sometimes
    learning to let go is what is needed.
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    Let go, just go for it,
    why not? Give it a try.
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    Just like the courage why not?
    I'm here for three months, you know?
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    So all of these moments that we have
    here together, will later become a past.
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    and so every moment is a precious moment
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    and there's a moment for you
    to draw and to paint.
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    The practice, the Sangha, are the paint,
    they are the brushes that we give to you
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    and each and every one of us
    will paint our own picture,
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    and we'll paint our own foundation
    in this winter retreat.
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    I hope we make use of the paint
    and of the brush and of the paper
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    that the community is offering for us,
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    so that in the future when we look back,
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    like, wow, those three
    months were really rich,
  • 54:23 - 54:26
    those three months
    really enhanced my life.
  • 54:28 - 54:33
    And as for a monk or a nun, wow, those
    three months being with the community,
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    the collectiveness, really helped me
    develop, really helped me grow.
  • 54:40 - 54:46
    So every moment that we have,
    eighty nine more days,
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    they're all opportunities .
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    So you become the painter now
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    and you have to paint this picture that
    for the future can become a foundation,
  • 55:01 - 55:03
    and that can become a beautiful past.
  • 55:05 - 55:15
    A few days ago, I received a letter
    from a friend in England who I don't know,
  • 55:15 - 55:18
    but wrote to Thay and the community,
  • 55:19 - 55:28
    and our friends shared that a few years
    ago, he was training to do the marathon,
  • 55:29 - 55:35
    but he fell into an accident
    which fractured his spine,
  • 55:37 - 55:42
    and through the healing,
    there was some obstacle,
  • 55:42 - 55:47
    where now he cannot move a lot
    and cannot go very far.
  • 55:49 - 55:57
    And through that pain and through
    that suffering, he found Plum Village.
  • 55:59 - 56:01
    And guess what? Through YouTube.
  • 56:03 - 56:07
    And from YouTube he expanded to books,
  • 56:08 - 56:12
    and then following Thay's Facebook page
    and following Plum Village Facebook page,
  • 56:13 - 56:16
    and I didn't know this,
    but apparently there are people
  • 56:17 - 56:21
    who do also follow our winter
    retreat through Facebook.
  • 56:22 - 56:29
    So they also apply the same principle
    of the schedule in their daily life,
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    and they follow the Dharma talks that are
    offered throughout the winter retreat,
  • 56:37 - 56:42
    and our friend shared that he has done
    two winter retreats with the community
  • 56:43 - 56:47
    via Facebook...
    I was like... wow!
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    and here we are physically in Plum Village
  • 56:53 - 57:00
    here we are physically with a community,
    monks, nuns, lay men, lay women
  • 57:01 - 57:03
    how rich and how lucky we are!
  • 57:04 - 57:09
    So after reading that letter I said okay,
    you know, I can't take this for granted.
  • 57:10 - 57:15
    This is such a rich and
    such an important moment for me.
  • 57:17 - 57:22
    So I wish everyone a very happy
    and successful winter retreat.
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    So let us be there for each other,
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    let us enjoy the practice
    and let us enrich our lives,
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    so that we can also enrich society
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    that very much needs the
    collective energy that we cultivate here.
  • 57:41 - 57:43
    Thank you,
    brothers and sisters
Title:
2017 11 16 Br Pháp Hữu: Being At Home and Enrich Our Practice
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