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The First 8 Exercises of Mindful Breathing | Thich Nhat Hanh (short teaching video)

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    There is a text called
    'Mindfulness of Breathing'
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    in which the Buddha proposes
    16 exercises on mindful breathing.
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    It's very practical.
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    And everyone can do it.
    Not complicated.
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    You can already notice the effect
    of the practice after one or two hours.
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    The first exercise is so simple.
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    To be aware of your in-breath
    and out-breath.
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    This is what we practiced this morning.
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    Breathing in,
    I know this is an in-breath.
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    To identify the in-breath as in-breath,
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    and to identify the out-breath
    as an out-breath.
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    Breathing in, I know
    I am breathing in. So simple.
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    And yet the effect can be great.
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    Aware of...
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    Aware of in-breath and out-breath.
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    [1. aware of I + O]
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    As you breathe in, you pay attention
    to your in-breath only.
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    Your in-breath becomes
    the only object of your mind.
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    And if you are truly focused,
    mindful of your in-breath,
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    you release everything else.
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    You release the past, you release
    the future, your projects, your fear,
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    your anger, because the mind
    has only one object at a time.
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    And the object of the mind now
    is the in-breath.
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    Breathing in, I know I am breathing in.
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    So you focus your mind on your in-breath
    and you release everything else
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    and you become free.
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    There is regret concerning the past,
    sorrow concerning the past.
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    There is fear and uncertainty
    concerning the future.
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    All of that you release in just 1 or 2
    seconds because you are focusing
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    all your mind into your in-breath.
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    So breathing in mindfully sets you free.
    You have freedom.
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    If you are to make a decision, it's better
    you have enough freedom to make it.
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    You are not under the influence
    of anger or fear,
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    and your decision is much better
    than if you are not free.
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    So just breathing in makes you free.
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    And it is pleasant also,
    it's pleasant to breathe in.
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    So the exercise is so simple
    but the effect can be great.
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    The second exercise is to follow
    your in-breath all the way through
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    and to follow your out-breath
    all the way through.
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    And you may enjoy these two exercises
    at any time and anywhere.
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    Breathing in, I follow my in-breath
    from the beginning to the end.
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    Suppose this marker represents
    my in-breath.
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    It begins here
    and this finger is my mind.
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    Breathing in, I follow my in-breath
    all the way through.
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    There is no interruption at all,
    not a millisecond of interruption.
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    So during the time you breathe in mindfully,
    you cultivate concentration.
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    You are not only mindful of your in-breath
    but you concentrate on your in-breath.
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    The energy of mindfulness carries
    within herself the energy of concentration.
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    And it is also pleasant,
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    because to be mindful and to concentrate
    on your in-breath can be very pleasant.
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    You don't have to suffer.
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    In fact you can feel wonderful,
    just breathing in,
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    especially when the air is fresh
    and if the nose is free.
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    So the second exercise is...
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    [2. follow I + O]
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    to follow your in-breath and
    your out-breath all the way through.
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    We know we can do these two exercises
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    anytime we like.
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    The third exercise is
    to be aware of your body.
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    [3. aware of body]
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    Breathing in, I'm aware of my body.
    You bring your mind home to your body.
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    And your mind becomes an embodied mind.
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    That will help you to be established
    in the here and the now,
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    you are fully present,
    you are fully alive.
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    And you can live that moment
    of your daily life more deeply
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    if body and mind are together.
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    The oneness of body and mind is
    what you realize with the third exercise.
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    When you spend 2 hours with your computer,
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    you forget entirely that you have a body.
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    You are not truly alive in that moment.
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    You are truly alive only
    when the mind is with the body.
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    You are fully in the here and the now
    and you touch the wonders of life
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    in you and around you.
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    Many of our brothers
    and sisters in Plum Village
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    program a bell of mindfulness
    in their computer.
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    And every fifteen minutes,
    they hear the bell, they stop working,
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    they go back and enjoy
    their in-breath and out-breath,
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    smile and enjoy their body.
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    And release the tension in their body.
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    That is what the Buddha recommended
    2600 years ago.
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    There's the fourth exercise.
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    Breathing in, I calm my body,
    I release the tension...
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    in my body.
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    [4. calm body]
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    When you come back to your body,
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    you may notice that
    there is a lot of tension in your body.
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    Then you may like to do something
    to help your body to have more peace,
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    to suffer less, and with your out-breath
    you allow the tension to be released.
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    That's the first four exercises of mindful breathing
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    recommended by the Buddha
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    so that we can take good care of our body.
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    And with the fifth exercise
    we go to the realm of the feelings.
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    The fifth exercise is to generate
    a feeling of joy. Generating joy.
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    [5. Generating Joy]
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    A good practitioner knows
    how to generate a feeling of joy,
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    because she knows that
    mindfulness allows her to recognize
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    all the conditions of happiness
    that are already available.
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    We can remind ourselves and we can remind
    our beloved ones that we are very lucky.
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    We can be happy right here and right now,
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    we don't have to run into the future
    to look for happiness.
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    There is a teaching given by the Buddha.
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    That is the teaching of
    "living happily in the present moment."
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    Life is available only
    in the present moment.
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    And if you go back to the present moment
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    you will notice that there are
    so many conditions of happiness
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    already available.
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    That is why joy and happiness
    can be born right away.
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    The expression living happily
    in the present moment
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    was found in a sutra...
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    five times.
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    The Buddha was teaching Anathapindika,
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    a businessman, in the city of Sravasti.
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    That day Anathapindika, the businessman,
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    came with many hundreds
    of businessmen to visit the Buddha.
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    And the Buddha gave them that teaching.
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    "Gentlemen", he said, "you can be happy
    right here and right now.
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    You don't have to run into the future,
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    you don't have to look for success
    in the future in order to be happy."
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    I think the Buddha knew very well
    that businessmen,
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    they think a little bit too much
    about the future and their successes.
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    And that is why
    the expression living deeply,
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    "living happily in the present moment"
    was used by the Buddha five times
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    in the same sutra, the same scripture.
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    Drstādharmasukhavihara.
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    [drstādharmasukhavihara]
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    "Vihara" means to dwell or to live,
    "sukha" means happily,
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    and "drstā-dharma"
    is the present moment.
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    (Chinese: 現法樂住)
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    So a good practitioner
    does not look for happiness in the future.
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    He knows how to go home
    to the present moment
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    and recognize all the conditions
    for happiness that are available
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    and make joy and happiness
    available right away.
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    And she does that for herself
    and she does that for the other person.
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    Creating happiness is an art.
    The art of happiness.
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    So the fifth exercise is to generate joy
    and the sixth is to generate happiness.
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    [6. Generating Happiness]
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    The seventh is...
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    to be aware
    of a painful feeling or emotion.
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    Breathing in, I know there is
    a painful feeling, a painful emotion
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    that is coming up in me.
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    [7. Aware of Pain]
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    The practitioner does not try to fight
    the pain, to cover up the pain inside
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    or to try to run away from the pain.
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    In fact, because she is a practitioner
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    she knows how to generate
    the energy of mindfulness.
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    With that energy she recognizes the pain
    and she embraces the pain tenderly.
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    'Hello my little pain. I know you are
    there. I will take good care of you.'
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    Whether that is anger or fear
    or jealousy or despair.
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    We have to be there for our pain.
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    There is no fighting.
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    There is no violence
    done to our suffering.
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    Yesterday we spoke about a mother
    holding the crying baby.
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    Our pain, our suffering is our baby
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    and the energy of mindfulness generated
    by our practice is the loving mother.
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    And the mother has to recognize
    that the baby suffers.
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    She takes the baby up and holds
    the baby tenderly into her arms.
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    That is exactly
    what a good practitioner will do
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    when a painful feeling arises.
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    You have to be there
    for your painful feeling or emotion.
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    You continue to breathe
    and to walk in such a way,
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    that the energy of mindfulness
    continues to be produced.
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    With that energy of mindfulness
    you recognize the pain
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    and you embrace the pain tenderly.
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    In Buddhism we speak of consciousness
    in terms of "store" and "mind."
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    There are at least
    two layers of consciousness.
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    The lower layer
    is called "store consciousness."
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    Our fear, our anger, our despair are
    there in the bottom of our consciousness
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    in the form of seeds.
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    There is a seed of anger here
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    and if the seed of anger
    accepts to sleep quietly down there,
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    we are okay.
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    We can laugh, we can have a good time.
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    But if someone comes and says something
    or does something
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    and touches off that seed of anger,
    it will come up as a source of energy.
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    Down here it is called a seed.
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    [seed]
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    (Chinese: 種子)
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    Bija.
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    [bija]
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    And when it comes up here
    on the level of "mind consciousness,"
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    it will become a kind of energy
    called mental formation.
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    [mental formation]
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    And this is the mental formation
    called anger.
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    [M.F.]
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    So when the practitioner notices
    when anger is coming up,
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    she, right away, breathes
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    and invites the seed of mindfulness
    to come up as energy.
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    Mindfulness is another seed that is here.
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    If we are a good practitioner,
    the seed of mindfulness in us has grown
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    to become a very important seed.
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    It needs a touch lightly,
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    then there will be a lot of that energy
    coming up for us to use.
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    If we are not a practitioner, the seed
    of mindfulness is there but very tiny.
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    If you practice mindful breathing,
    mindful walking everyday,
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    the seed continues to grow.
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    Whenever you need that energy,
    you just touch it,
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    and you have a powerful source of energy
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    to help you to deal with
    whatever is happening up there.
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    So the practitioner begins
    to breathe or to walk mindfully.
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    The second mental formation
    is manifested on this level.
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    Another mental formation...
    And this one is mindfulness.
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    So it is the energy of mindfulness that
    will take care of the energy of anger.
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    There is no fighting.
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    Mindfulness does at least two things.
    First of all to recognize,
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    a simple recognition of the pain.
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    And that is the seventh exercise.
    Breathing in, I know anger is in me.
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    Or despair is in me or jealousy is in me.
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    Recognize simply, not fighting.
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    The second thing mindfulness will do
    is to embrace.
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    And that is seen in the eighth exercise
    is to calm down the pain
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    [Calm Pain]
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    like a mother holding the baby.
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    The mother does not know
    what is wrong with the baby.
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    But the fact that
    she's holding the baby gently
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    can help the baby suffer less right away.
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    The same thing is true
    with the practitioner.
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    She does not know what is the cause
    of that kind of anger or fear.
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    But the fact that she is recognizing
    and holding that energy of fear and anger
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    can help her suffer less right away,
    after one or two minutes.
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    So this is...
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    the art of suffering.
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    This is the art of happiness.
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    How to generate a feeling
    of joy and happiness.
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    How to take care
    of a painful feeling and emotion.
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    How to calm it down, how to get a relief.
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    And with the exercises that follow
    you can go further
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    and you can transform pain, sorrow, fear
    into something more positive,
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    like making good use of the mud
    in order to grow lotus flowers.
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    So a good practitioner
    is not afraid of pain.
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    She does not try
    to run away from the pain.
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    In fact, she tries to be with the pain.
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    She knows how to handle
    a feeling of pain,
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    a strong emotion.
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    And she knows how to make
    good use of that mud
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    in order to create
    understanding and compassion
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    which are factors of true happiness.
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    So with global ethics,
    with the practice of mindfulness,
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    with a spiritual dimension
    in our daily lives,
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    we know how to overcome difficulties
    that present themselves in our daily life.
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    And that is why each one of us
    should bring a spiritual dimension
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    to our daily life.
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    Without that kind of practice, we
    don't know how to handle the difficulties
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    that come everyday.
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    The image of a mother holding a baby
    is very helpful.
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    If your mindfulness is powerful enough,
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    you embrace your pain, your sorrow,
    you continue to breathe
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    or to practice walking meditation.
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    It's like giving your fear,
    your anger a mindfulness bath.
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    Maybe 3 minutes, maybe 5, 10 minutes.
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    After that, she will lose
    some of her strength
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    and go back to the original place,
    down there in the store consciousness.
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    After having taken a mindfulness bath,
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    she goes down into the store and
    goes back to where she had been before.
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    Losing some of her strength.
    That is the power of mindfulness.
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    In the Buddhist tradition,
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    we speak about 51 categories
    of mental formations.
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    As a novice monk, I had to know by heart
    all these mental formations,
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    so that every time one of them came up,
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    I should be able
    to call it by its true name,
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    'Hello my fear, I know your name,
    I am going to take good care of you.'
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    Recognizing and embracing.
    That's the first step of the practice.
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    There are wholesome, positive seeds
    down here, we mentioned mindfulness.
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    We mentioned concentration,
    we mentioned insight,
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    we mentioned non-violence,
    we mentioned joy, we mentioned compassion.
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    There are many good things down there.
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    And as a good practitioner,
    we know how to recognize them
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    and help them to come up
    as frequently as possible,
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    because they will make the landscape
    of the mind consciousness beautiful.
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    We are happy if we know
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    how to invite them to manifest
    as mental formations up here.
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    As for the negative, unwholesome mental
    formations like fear, anger, despair,
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    we better keep them down there,
    do not give them a chance to come up.
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    And they will grow weaker
    and weaker and weaker.
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    We do that for ourselves and we do that
    to help our beloved ones to do the same.
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    (Bell)
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    (Bell)
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    If we speak about
    the life of a school teacher,
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    we know that there is suffering
    inside of the teacher,
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    and there is also suffering
    inside of the students.
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    That is why if school teachers know
    how to handle their own suffering,
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    if teachers know how to generate
    joy and happiness
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    they will become happy teachers,
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    they will suffer less,
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    and when they go to their class, they can
    help their students to do the same.
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    During the last two decades
    of the last century,
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    there was a professor of mathematics here,
    in Toronto.
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    He taught at the French Toronto School.
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    He came to a retreat
    organized in Montreal.
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    He came back
    and tried to put into practice
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    the practice of mindful breathing
    and walking.
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    His name is Henry Keekoo
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    and he is director
    of the program of mathematics
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    in the Toronto French School.
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    Two journalist from The Globe and The Mail
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    came to his class to interview him
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    about why he wanted to introduce
    Buddhism into his class.
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    This is forbidden here in Canada.
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    And then he invited the two journalist
    to come to his class
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    and see how he taught his students.
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    The day he came home from the retreat
    and resumed his class
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    he walked in mindfully,
    slowly and mindfully.
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    And he came up to the blackboard
    and he erased things mindfully,
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    and the students asked him,
    'Papa, are you sick?'
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    (French) 'Papa, es tu malade?'
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    'No, I am not sick,
    I am practicing mindfulness.'
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    (Laughter)
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    So he told the students about
    what he has learned in the retreat.
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    Breathing, walking, easing,
    calming and so on.
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    And he proposed that
    every half an hour, 15 minutes
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    a boy would clap his hands three times,
    replacing the bell of mindfulness
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    and everyone practice mindful breathing
    in and out to calm themselves.
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    And the class made a lot of progress.
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    there's a lot of joy
    and progress in his class.
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    And he taught in many classes
    of mathematics in that way.
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    So when the two journalist came,
    they witnessed that,
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    teacher and students sit down
    and enjoy breathing together,
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    breath out laughing together.
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    And every time they hear that (clapping),
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    everyone stopped teaching, learning,
    and enjoyed breathing in and out.
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    That had a good impact on the learning
    and the teaching of the school.
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    So when the time for retirement came, they
    asked him to stay for another three years.
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    And other classes have adopted
    his way of teaching.
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    So for a teacher,
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    or school teachers,
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    the first thing to do
    is to come home to himself or herself.
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    The way out is in.
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    Go back to oneself
    and take care of oneself.
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    Learning how to generate a feeling of joy,
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    learning how to generate
    a feeling of happiness,
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    learning how to handle
    a painful feeling, a painful emotion.
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    Listening to the suffering
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    allow understanding and compassion
    to be born and suffer less.
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    This is the first step and he or she
    has to do that. That is the first step.
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    A sangha, a community of practice
    in the neighborhood can help him,
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    can help her to deepen their practice.
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    You have to begin with yourself.
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    And the school teacher also
    has members of his family;
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    a partner, children. So like that.
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    So after he has done it for himself,
    he can help the other to do the same.
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    It's much easier. When you
    have not changed yourself,
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    it's very difficult to help
    change the other person.
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    To help him or her suffer less.
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    So with loving speech and deep listening,
    with more peace and gentleness in yourself
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    you become more pleasant.
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    That is why you can help
    the other person much more easily,
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    and she or he will be able
    to do the same thing.
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    And we become co-practitioners.
  • 36:58 - 37:02
    We share the same values,
    we share the same spiritual practice.
  • 37:03 - 37:08
    Because we know that each day
    the situation improves;
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    there's more peace, less suffering,
    more joy, more happiness
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    and the children will profit from that.
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    Because the children
    can practice very well also.
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    And when you have
    a united harmonious family,
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    then you can bring that
    into your workplace.
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    Then maybe first you have your class
    and you transform your class.
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    Your class becomes a happier place.
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    Your class can become a family
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    because there are many children
    who are unfortunate.
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    Their parents are not in good terms
    with each other. They fight,
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    they make each other suffer
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    and the child has had no chance
    to learn what love is.
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    The class may be the second chance
    for the child.
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    And the school teacher can play
    the role of the father or of the mother
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    and can teach the young person
    how to love, what is love.
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    It's something real.
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    I remember this summer opening
    in Plum Village
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    there was a child that
    came up for questions and answers
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    and she made the whole sangha cry.
  • 39:03 - 39:08
    She said that her parents are divorced.
    They fight each other,
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    they make each other suffer
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    and when they come, they still fight
    each other in front of the child.
  • 39:18 - 39:26
    And the child asked, 'What is love?
    I don't know, what is love?
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    Why do they fight so much,
    even in front of us?'
  • 39:31 - 39:36
    Many people cried. Very disturbing.
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    So it is possible to give children
    like that one a second chance
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    by transforming the classroom
    into a family,
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    and Henry Keekoo was able to do so.
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    There are other classes in the school
    and there is the administration,
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    and of course they will do everything
    in order to improve the quality of life,
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    the quality of teaching and learning
    in the whole school.
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    We continue tomorrow.
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    (Bell)
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    (Bell)
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    (Bell)
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    (Bell)
Title:
The First 8 Exercises of Mindful Breathing | Thich Nhat Hanh (short teaching video)
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Video Language:
English
Duration:
24:27

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