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There are so many and I want to...answer them all!
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Hi it's Emily from Bite Size Vegan
and welcome to a vegan Q&A.
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It's been quite a while since I've done a Q&A for you guys. Except the time that I did the back-to-back live
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Q&As on Facebook and YouTube in October. And I'll have the link to those and all the of the other
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Q&As I've ever down in the description below, along with all of the questions that I answer today and
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additional resources for each. Before I jump in—because this is one of the rare
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So I got of great questions from you guys and a good number of them are going to need their own dedicated
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videos so if you don't see your question answered today, it might be that I'm answering it later in its own
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full video, or that I'm saving it for another Q&A, but because there was quite a good number of them
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And you guys, Ii did answer on the actual... platform
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So Clara Rodriguez—I'm sorry if I'm not
pronouncing that correctly—asked:
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"What's the best for doing activism in a place where veganism is very unknown and rejected by most people,
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and where animal agriculture is
something normal? I live in Uruguay."
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That's a really great question and that's something that I even faced when I was looking into doing the speech
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for Ireland. I think there is great value in considering the differences and coming from a perspective that will
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most effectively connect with whatever kind of cultural framing there is. And at least what I tried to do, is use
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that framework to kind of bring down people's walls and meet them where they're at.
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But the end message and the core
of what I always end with is the same.
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I kind of try to use the the framework of the familiar.
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And so in a lot of my videos you'll hear me say
things like "pets," or in my "Bestiality video,"
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if you abandon it within the first couple minutes, you might think I'm going in a super shady direction...
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So I try to start kind of in the framework with which most people are familiar. And so you would know that
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in your culture in Uruguay far more than I would.
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So kind of starting with the language, the beliefs,
the concepts that are familiar and that are
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espoused by the majority of people. But then it using that in a way to kind of, you know, at least identify, and
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connect with your with the people that you're talking to.
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But the heart of a message is the same. The way that we exploit non-human animals, and even one another,
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is pretty universal— these are living beings,
they're sentient. They feel just like we do.
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Mother cows want to have their babies with them
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just like mother humans want
to have their babies with them.
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It's kind of just bringing it down to these base logical things. And showing people—
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I think one of the most effective things showing people how the values
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that they already have aline with veganism
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and so it's not like this big radical change or this, you know, turning
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against one's culture and country but rather just starting to act the way that
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we believe already and if you're looking
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through the the human perspective and
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and we think about there's a tradition
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maybe within our culture that involves
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consuming the bodies of certain animal
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if you just come straight out that and
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say you know this is wrong to do this
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that can be interpreted as my family
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history is wrong with these very
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deep-rooted things of value our are
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being threatened whereby if we can
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disarm and in bringing people through
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this thought process to the point of
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things from the perspective of that
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animal then it becomes far more evident
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that to that being the one who is going
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to have to throat slit or who is going
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to die in some terrifying painful manner
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how does it being a tradition alleviate
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that suffering and how did it justify
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that suffering There's all kinds of examples
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throughout human history of things that
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we've done because of its the way that
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we've always done it or it's been tradition
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or it's been widely accepted
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and we even look back on these things
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in horror today. And you can wonder like how
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could that even have been acceptable?
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The final thing that I would say is to dig
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through the the actual laws and
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regulations of your country if you can
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find them, if they have them, because
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a lot of times what we think happens is
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not even close to what actually does happen.
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And what the laws say is like the
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ideal and usually what's happening is
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far less than ideal, but when we actually
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look at the laws in and of themselves
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they can be pretty awful a lot of times
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which is what i found in any country that I've looked into.
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Peace.and.plants asks:
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Have you heard about taking wild yam pills as "herbal contraception"?
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I have not, but I did do a quick search on it and
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this is by no means expensive, but I will
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put links to the rest of the resources
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on the blog post so that will be down
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below because there's a number of them
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and it's too much to pop into the
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description. What I did find was actually
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a lot more information and research on
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wild yam being used for like menstrual
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cramps and menopause and things like that.
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And not really any research
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directly on birth control.
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So from what I found is then used for
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quite some time for a number of
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applications. But as far as the birth
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control aspect, it does contain diosgenin
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which is a phytoestrogen or
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plant-based estrogen. And diosgenin was
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used to make the first birth control pill.
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But even with the studies but I did find
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on treatment for menopause, menstrual cramps and those kinds of things
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there doesn't seem to be any kind of
conclusive proof of the effectiveness.
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And again like I said nothing actually
looking at it as a birth control method.
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And the reasoning for this might be that our bodies cannot convert diosgenin into progesterone
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on their own. It has to be done in a lab setting.
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I do have a whole video on birth control methods, and talking about whether they are vegan or not.
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So there are options.
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And there are ones that have, you know , pluses and minuses for each.
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And I'll put that down below.
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So zm_vegan asked: As a new vegan,
how do I get the balance right
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between being true to my values -
WITHOUT annoying my family and friends?
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I think we'd all like to know the answer to that question.
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I think that's a huge concern for new vegans and even long-term vegans.
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Family and friends, family especially, can be
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very difficult to navigate. I think that
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maybe re-framing this might be a little helpful.
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Just even having to ask the question about how to balance your values
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based on making other people comfortable
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I mean that alone in and of itself is a bit of a troubling question.
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Especially because the value that you're you're talking about are
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you know, not harming innocent beings.
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I guess for your own sanity and comfort, continuing to educate yourself
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and knowing that you're not alone in this.
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And, you know, many of us have been there before and many of us will go there again.
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And so, I would really also recommend reaching out to other vegans or just people that you do feel you can
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talk to and knowing that... you shouldn't have to apologize or feel bad about not wanting to harm others.
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you know, you shouldn't feel bad or like your family is going to turn against you because you want to be non-violent
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and you don't feel like it's your right to break up other people's families
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or sentence them to an early death or confine them
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or violate them in any number of ways.
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I know that doesn't make it easier or give you a blueprint necessarily for exactly what to say
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to your family... but I just want to emphasize that, you know, you shouldn't have to
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sacrifice your values, especially when they're the values of not wanting to hurt.
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Family can be the most difficult. And, sometimes, just living by example and continuing
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to educate yourself and sharing that with them when it feels appropriate.
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But also, know that you can set boundaries if you need to.
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And it doesn't mean arguing or yelling or even telling them that they're horrible people.
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But, coming kind of more from the perspective of: This is something that's really important to me.
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This is a decision I've come to based on these things that I've learned
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and I'm happy to share them with you and to tell you what it is that made me decide to make these changes.
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But regardless of whether you agree with them, I would love to have your support in just doing what I feel is right
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and being able to follow through with my own core values.
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Rebecca Clark asked: What are your thoughts on the growing criticism of people who come to veganism only for health reasons
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or the argument that we should not use health claims to promote veganism?
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So I've said from the very beginning of my channel that there are a million reasons to go vegan
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and that I've actually yet to find a reason NOT to go vegan.
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People often ask me why I'm vegan. And honestly, I haven't found a reason not to be.
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So I decided to do a number of little clips that have bite size information about different reasons to go vegan.
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And I have always been of the mind that whatever gets you there, GOOD!
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As long as it can keep you there or you can find something that will keep you there.
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And I do find that, you know, the health perspective of veganism can bring a good deal of people into veganism.
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When I say "the health perspective", that's again an infinite range of approaches within that.
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I do think that it's important to have scientifically backed up, accurate claims or studies, or even
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at least saying we're not sure, but these kinds of things.
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But, I tend to interview Dr. Greger or bring on specialists instead of myself trying to make any kind of health claims
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when I don't have any formal training, it's really not my place.
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However, as far as it bringing people in for the health, good!
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Whatever is going to connect with them, and make them feel that this is a choice that is in line with their values
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go for it!
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Because, I mean, that's really what I've always said, that I think the vast majority of people already are vegan in their mentality.
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You know, whether that's - I do think a lot of that is ethical because I even think that people who go vegan
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for health reasons would still not stab a pig in the throat if that baby pig was in front of them.
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I don't think they would do it.
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I have a whole video on bacon lovers who melt when they actually have a pig in front of them.
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So, I just think sometimes it's depending on the intensity of the reason that got you into being vegan - at times
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there needs to be... or can be... a shift or a further rooting, or further identification with other aspects
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of it that really kind of locks it in. And makes it less of a "I'm gonna try this" and more of something that
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"this is of vital importance". emkat14 says: I'm in middle school and my friends always make fun of me for being vegan.
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In the past it made me want to give up, but I kept going and even though they still make fun of me,
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I tell myself that I don't care what they think, but sometimes it makes me want to quit and I definitely don't want to do that.
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Can you give me some tips on how to deal with hate from kids my age?
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Oh, man! I'm so sorry that you're going through that and I do hear that from a lot of people of all ages.
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And I would love to tell you that it gets better with age and that people grow up and are more mature.
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I've been kind of waiting for that to happen for quite some time and I'm still waiting. We'll see.
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I mean I really wish I could just kind of protect you and everyone from that kind of experience
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It's an indication of how far we've come from our true nature that someone just saying,
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"Hey, I would like to not hurt these beings; these animals"
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- As kids, you know, we adore, we love movies with them. And instead of saying, "I'm gonna love this
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particular animal and I'm gonna eat this other one and this one doesn't deserve to live",
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you're basically saying, "Hey, this makes no sense. They can hurt, they can feel, they have families
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and I don't want to hurt them".
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I mean that's— that is nothing to mock, that is nothing to make fun of.
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That's certainly not something anyone should feel bad about.
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I don't think it's going to make everything better, but, sometimes it can
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be helpful to kind of take a step back and realize that that kind of reaction
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from people is never really about you or what you're doing. A lot of times
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it's more of the individual feeling implied judgement that because of you
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being vegan, it's this attack on the way that they eat and what they do.
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And that—in and of itself—is pretty telling. We don't tend to get defensive
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unless we kind of feel deep down that maybe something we're doing is wrong.
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There's a big pressure as well to fit in and to go with the flow, go with the mainstream
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go with the, you know, the "popular kids." And not be kind of the one "sticking out"
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or the "different person," the "different kid." I was always the the
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"different kid," and I'm still very much the "different kid," so to speak.
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But for me it helps thinking about the animals and what they're going through,
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and thinking about the environment and where our planet is headed.
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And even if it's uncomfortable for me at times, or it's hard at times, and
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even if it can be a struggle, I still don't want to be part of that.
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I still don't want to hurt innocent beings and I still don't want to be part of the world
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racing towards destruction. And I would rather take being unpopular or having people
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give me a hard time over that. And I don't say that to imply that what you're going
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through isn't valid, isn't important, isn't incredibly painful—because I'm sure that it is.
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It's not easy. My hear goes out to you and I just want you to know that you're not alone.
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And you're not wrong. And you're incredibly strong for making this choice, especially
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early on in life. So please know that you're doing the right thing. And you can reach out
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to others. If you don't have anyone in your area, you can reach out online, find some community.
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I do have a number of videos interviewing vegan kids and a number of them have, in the videos
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even, said that they would be open to people contacting them. So I'm going to link those
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videos down below and you can maybe even try to get in touch with the kids in the videos who
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have their own channels and their own platforms and are very receptive to helping others.
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Okay, just a few quick ones because it's getting kind of long.
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So Wendy Linton asked about when people say that they buy organic, humane, free-range type of products
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and using that as a kind of solution
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to the way that animal are treated. I have a number of videos on the Humane Myth and an
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entire in-depth speech that I gave in Ireland called "The Best We Have To Offer."
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And I'm going to link all of those below.
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meghs_muggs ask about palm oil and said that she didn't know if I already
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had addressed this. I have—I have a video on palm oil, so that will be below.
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And Lauren Walker wanted to know the story of my tattoos and necklace
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I've actually answered those as well so I will link below the Q&A where I talk
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about the necklace and then I have three tattoo videos that will be linked below as well.
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So I know I didn't get to SO many questions and I'm really sorry about that.
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I also wanted to let you guys know: If you've emailed me, if you've messaged me
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and I haven't gotten back to you, it is by no means anything personal.
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I kind of have a good bit of overload with all of the different avenues that are
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coming in. And it doesn't make it okay, it doesn't make it excusable for you guys
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to not get a response, especially because I know a lot of the things that are
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sent are very important and it does really break my heart to find these things
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months later sometimes. I'm just I'm not that kind of person— I've never been
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that kind of person. I've always been someone who's very accountable and
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good on my word and consistent and reliable. And it just seems, you know, especially
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in the last year that the the workload has almost necessitated or created... me being
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this this kind of person that I really don't want to be. So please know that it's
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never intentional. And I honestly truly want to answer every single person,
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and I want to be able to address concerns. I want to be able to help as much
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as I can... It's... it's just not possible at this point. And I'm trying my best to put
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together the systems where I can be more effective, I can be more available, I can
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create more content. And it's just going a lot more slowly than I would like it to.
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And a lot of that kind of area of navigating— these kind of, you know, business side
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of stuff, or structural side, legal sides—I'm not terribly well-versed with these.
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So it's a bit difficult to navigate, and I'm doing the best I can. So, thank you guys
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for your patience, thank you for your support, thank you for sticking around.
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And I will keep doing the very best I can. And I can never thank you enough, for everything.
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Just see how much we're gonna tolerate before we just go: "No more! No more, YouTube!"