Three Powers - by sister Hội Nghiêm - 2019.12.27
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1:05 - 1:08(Bell rings)
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1:50 - 1:53(Bell rings)
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2:47 - 2:49Dear respected Thay
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2:49 - 2:52and the whole community
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2:55 - 2:56The sound is ok
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2:56 - 2:59It's a little bit loud
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3:06 - 3:09Today is the 27th of December
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3:09 - 3:11the year 2019
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3:13 - 3:16We are in the
Assembly of Stars Meditation Hall -
3:17 - 3:21at Lower Hamlet.
So welcome to Lower Hamlet -
3:21 - 3:23for the Mindfulness Day
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3:25 - 3:27I hope that everyone enjoyed
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3:27 - 3:29Christmas time together.
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3:31 - 3:33Are you happy with Christmas time
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3:33 - 3:37at Plum Village? Yes, thank you.
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3:38 - 3:41So, thank you for coming here
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3:41 - 3:43to celebrate Christmas time
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3:43 - 3:46together as a . . .with family
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3:47 - 3:49as a spiritual family
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3:50 - 3:52Christmas time is a time for
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3:53 - 3:54us to go home
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3:56 - 3:59to celebrate Christmas together
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3:59 - 4:01so in that spirit I would like
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4:01 - 4:03to share with you
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4:03 - 4:05about going home.
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4:05 - 4:06How we can go home
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4:07 - 4:09to take care of ourselves.
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4:14 - 4:16By breathing
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4:18 - 4:20we can go home to our body
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4:23 - 4:25and follow our breathing.
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4:27 - 4:28It's simple
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4:28 - 4:32to follow inbreath and outbreath.
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4:34 - 4:37And we calm
our inbreath and outbreath -
4:39 - 4:42and we can smile to
our inbreath and outbreath -
4:49 - 4:52And we feel very peaceful
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4:52 - 4:55when we enjoy our breathing.
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5:08 - 5:11And then we are aware
of our whole body -
5:13 - 5:16and relax our whole body
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5:17 - 5:19Calm our whole body
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5:25 - 5:27When we are aware of our whole body
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5:27 - 5:30we can feel the tension
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5:30 - 5:32in our body
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5:33 - 5:35and then we release the tension
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5:40 - 5:43We can pay attention in that area
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5:44 - 5:46And breathe with that area.
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5:47 - 5:51And slowly, slowly you can feel relaxed
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6:02 - 6:04And the Zen method
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6:04 - 6:05we can
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6:06 - 6:08be aware of our feelings.
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6:12 - 6:15So what feelings come up
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6:15 - 6:18in our mind
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6:19 - 6:21we can be aware of them
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6:22 - 6:24and smile to our feelings
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6:26 - 6:28and calm our feelings.
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6:38 - 6:39And also
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6:39 - 6:42the same with our mind.
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6:43 - 6:45So what comes up in our mind
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6:46 - 6:49present in our body.
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6:49 - 6:53We can be aware of our mind
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6:53 - 6:56and calm our mind down
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6:57 - 7:00and smile to our mind too.
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7:06 - 7:08And when we can do that
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7:08 - 7:10we feel at ease,
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7:12 - 7:14we feel peaceful.
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7:19 - 7:21We can manage ourselves,
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7:21 - 7:24we can master ourselves
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7:25 - 7:27and we can be free.
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7:30 - 7:33The fact that our body and
our mind relate to each other -
7:33 - 7:36what happens to our body,
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7:37 - 7:38it will happen to our mind
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7:38 - 7:41and also what happens to our mind
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7:41 - 7:43will stay in our body.
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7:43 - 7:47So take care of our body
in order that we can take care of our mind -
7:48 - 7:49And to take good care of our mind,
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7:50 - 7:52we can take
good care of our body, -
7:54 - 7:56and we feel at ease.
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7:57 - 7:58You feel solid,
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7:59 - 8:01you feel comfortable
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8:02 - 8:04to our body
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8:05 - 8:06to our feelings
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8:06 - 8:09and to our mind.
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8:13 - 8:15When we go somewhere
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8:16 - 8:18for a long journey,
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8:19 - 8:20and sometimes we are tired
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8:20 - 8:22because of the long journey.
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8:22 - 8:25And when we come home
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8:25 - 8:29come back home,
we feel at ease, -
8:29 - 8:31we feel relaxed,
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8:31 - 8:32and we don't want to go
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8:32 - 8:34anywhere else.
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8:34 - 8:36Lie down and relaxed,
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8:38 - 8:40feel warm and feel cozy.
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8:42 - 8:43And so we do the same
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8:43 - 8:45when we go back home to our body.
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8:46 - 8:48We also feel at ease,
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8:48 - 8:49comfortable,
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8:49 - 8:51relaxed,
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8:52 - 8:54peaceful and solid.
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8:56 - 8:58And we can be our home.
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9:01 - 9:04And then, when we can be our home
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9:04 - 9:08we can sustain our home to other people.
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9:10 - 9:13When people come to us
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9:14 - 9:16they also feel at ease.
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9:16 - 9:20They feel peaceful, they feel relaxed.
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9:21 - 9:24And they can take refuge in our self.
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9:26 - 9:30Because our home now is very relaxed.
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9:32 - 9:35Our heart is bigger.
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9:38 - 9:41And we can be the place
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9:41 - 9:44for other people to take refuge in.
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9:44 - 9:48And first of all, for our beloved one.
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9:54 - 9:56When your partner comes to you,
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9:57 - 9:59they feel at ease.
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10:00 - 10:02When your children come to you,
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10:03 - 10:05they feel joyful,
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10:05 - 10:07happy, peaceful.
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10:10 - 10:13And then we can sustain our home
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10:14 - 10:15to other people, for example,
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10:16 - 10:17to our friends,
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10:18 - 10:19to our colleagues,
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10:20 - 10:22to our workers,
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10:23 - 10:26to the people around us,
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10:27 - 10:29to our Sangha.
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10:30 - 10:32And then we can sustain our home
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10:33 - 10:37to all people; to all humankind.
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10:37 - 10:39And our home becomes bigger
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10:39 - 10:42and bigger and bigger and bigger.
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10:43 - 10:45It's never limited.
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10:51 - 10:55We have to feel this before we
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10:55 - 10:58celebrate the New Year.
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10:58 - 11:02In Vietnamese tradition we prepare
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11:02 - 11:04a lot for the New Year.
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11:04 - 11:07And Vietnamese New Year, we call it.
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11:07 - 11:12And we don't wait until the 1st of January
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11:13 - 11:15to welcome the New Year.
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11:15 - 11:17But we also call the last days
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11:17 - 11:19of the year is like New Year,
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11:19 - 11:22like the 26th new year
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11:22 - 11:25(Vietnamese)
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11:26 - 11:2826th new year, 27th new year
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11:28 - 11:3128th new year, 29th new year
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11:31 - 11:3330th new year until the first day
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11:33 - 11:35of the New Year.
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11:35 - 11:37So we celebrate the new year before.
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11:37 - 11:40We prepare a lot of things.
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11:40 - 11:44We clean up our house.
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11:44 - 11:47We plant a lot of flowers.
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11:48 - 11:50We prepare a lot of food.
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11:51 - 11:53We have the new press.
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11:54 - 11:56Many things
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11:56 - 11:58to welcome the New Year.
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11:59 - 12:01So I would like to invite you
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12:01 - 12:03to benefit the spirit
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12:03 - 12:06at the Vietnamese New Year.
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12:06 - 12:09We can go home
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12:10 - 12:13to clean up our home.
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12:15 - 12:17To prepare ourselves to
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12:17 - 12:20welcome the New Year.
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12:20 - 12:22To plant in our garden
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12:22 - 12:24many kinds of flowers.
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12:27 - 12:29And maybe in our home
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12:29 - 12:31there is some garbage
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12:32 - 12:34so we can throw it away.
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12:34 - 12:36In order that our home
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12:36 - 12:38can be spacious,
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12:39 - 12:42our home can be clean,
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12:46 - 12:48can be beautiful,
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12:48 - 12:50and can be breathable
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12:51 - 12:52for us to enjoy.
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12:57 - 12:59So I would like to invite you
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12:59 - 13:02to reflect on yourselves
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13:02 - 13:05to see what kind of garbage
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13:05 - 13:08that you want to throw away.
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13:11 - 13:13There is some furniture
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13:13 - 13:16some things that you store
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13:16 - 13:18for a long time
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13:18 - 13:21and it's accumulating a lot of dust.
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13:22 - 13:24And maybe we never touch it,
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13:24 - 13:27and we don't want to throw it away.
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13:28 - 13:31And it occupies our home, our room
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13:33 - 13:36and maybe for 10 years we don't touch it.
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13:37 - 13:39So now we have to be brave
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13:40 - 13:44to recycle them, to throw them away
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13:44 - 13:49for our house to be spacious.
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13:52 - 13:54So we do the same to see
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13:54 - 13:57what kind of mind we have
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13:58 - 14:01that prevents us to be happy,
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14:02 - 14:04that prevents us to be free.
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14:05 - 14:08And we take it, put it in a bag
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14:09 - 14:12and bring it to the recycle area.
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14:18 - 14:20So I,
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14:21 - 14:22and to
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14:25 - 14:26to throw the garbage
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14:26 - 14:28sometimes we need the courage
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14:30 - 14:31because we feel regret
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14:31 - 14:34that we don't want to throw them away
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14:35 - 14:38and sometimes we need the courage.
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14:41 - 14:45And courage is one of the three powers
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14:47 - 14:49that lead us to be happy,
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14:50 - 14:52that lead us to be peaceful.
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14:55 - 14:59And sometimes we call this power virtue.
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15:00 - 15:02This power is not the power of money
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15:03 - 15:04it's not the power of fame,
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15:05 - 15:07it's not power of wealth,
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15:07 - 15:09it's not power of position.
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15:12 - 15:14But it's a power to lead us to
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15:16 - 15:18happiness,
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15:19 - 15:20lead us to be,
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15:21 - 15:22peaceful.
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15:27 - 15:31So I would like to write on the board
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15:32 - 15:34the three powers.
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15:54 - 15:57So the first power is compassion.
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15:59 - 16:00And first of all, we have to have
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16:01 - 16:02self-compassion.
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16:03 - 16:05We have to love ourselves.
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16:06 - 16:07We have to accept ourselves.
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16:07 - 16:11We have the capacity to forgive ourselves.
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16:11 - 16:13Sometimes we make a mistake
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16:13 - 16:16and we feel regret and we suffer
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16:16 - 16:18because of the regret.
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16:18 - 16:19We don't have the capacity
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16:20 - 16:22to forgive ourselves, so that is why we
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16:22 - 16:24are not so free.
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16:24 - 16:27So we have to have the capacity
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16:28 - 16:30to forgive ourselves.
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16:30 - 16:32We can practice to begin anew.
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16:33 - 16:35We can do it in a different way.
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16:36 - 16:38I remember that the
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16:39 - 16:40first days when I came
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16:40 - 16:43to Plum Village to become a nun
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16:43 - 16:45I missed my family a lot
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16:46 - 16:48and I also cried a lot.
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16:48 - 16:51Especially I missed my Mom
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16:51 - 16:52because I love her.
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16:53 - 16:56But also because I felt regret that in
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16:56 - 17:01the past I caused her a lot of suffering
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17:01 - 17:04so it is why I feel regret.
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17:04 - 17:08I was very stubborn;
I didn't listen to her, -
17:10 - 17:12and so it is why I feel regret.
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17:13 - 17:15But with the practice
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17:15 - 17:16I communicate with her
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17:17 - 17:19and try to forgive myself.
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17:21 - 17:24And I say to myself that I have to
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17:24 - 17:27live wholeheartedly in this environment.
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17:27 - 17:29So when I leave this place
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17:30 - 17:31I don't feel regret.
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17:31 - 17:33But when I left my home
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17:33 - 17:35to become a nun,
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17:35 - 17:37it was a good lesson for me
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17:37 - 17:39It was a big lesson for me
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17:40 - 17:43so wherever I am I live wholeheartedly
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17:44 - 17:45in order that in the future
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17:46 - 17:47I don't feel regret.
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17:47 - 17:51Sometimes we suffer because we feel regret
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17:51 - 17:53what we have done in the past
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17:54 - 17:56or what we didn't do in the past
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17:57 - 17:59that instead we have to do,
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18:01 - 18:04so we try to live wholeheartedly
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18:04 - 18:06in the present moment,
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18:06 - 18:09and we don't feel regret later on.
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18:10 - 18:14So we have the capacity to forgive ourself
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18:15 - 18:17and to free ourself.
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18:17 - 18:19And when we are free,
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18:20 - 18:22we have a lot of space and we can
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18:23 - 18:26bring joy and happiness to others.
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18:26 - 18:28Like when I am free
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18:28 - 18:31I can bring joy and happiness to my Mom.
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18:32 - 18:34And I stopped (inaudible) communication
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18:34 - 18:35with my Mom.
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18:36 - 18:39And I become happy.
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18:40 - 18:42So compassion first of all,
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18:42 - 18:44you have to compassion,
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18:45 - 18:47you have to be compassionate to yourself.
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18:47 - 18:49Forgive yourself,
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18:49 - 18:51and embrace yourself.
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18:58 - 19:01Sometimes we cannot accept ourselves.
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19:02 - 19:04We feel we are not good enough.
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19:05 - 19:07We are not beautiful enough.
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19:09 - 19:11And we become suffering.
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19:12 - 19:14We are very clumsy.
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19:15 - 19:17We have a lot of shortcomings.
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19:19 - 19:22So imagine that we have a child
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19:23 - 19:25who is not so beautiful,
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19:26 - 19:28who is also very clumsy.
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19:31 - 19:33She did a lot of mistakes,
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19:34 - 19:37and the people disparage her.
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19:39 - 19:43And she suffers a lot and she cries a lot.
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19:45 - 19:49So what should we do as her mother?
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19:52 - 19:54We should embrace her,
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19:55 - 19:58and telling her that "you are ok."
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19:58 - 20:01"You are beautiful already in my heart."
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20:02 - 20:03Right?
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20:05 - 20:07You don't want to yell at her anymore.
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20:07 - 20:09You don't want to blame her.
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20:10 - 20:12You don't want to punish her
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20:12 - 20:16because she suffers a lot already.
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20:17 - 20:21You don't want to make her more suffering.
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20:23 - 20:25So we do the same with ourselves.
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20:26 - 20:28We suffer a lot already.
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20:28 - 20:31We don't want to make ourselves suffer more.
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20:32 - 20:36And we are a mother of ourselves.
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20:36 - 20:38To embrace our body,
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20:39 - 20:41to embrace our feelings,
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20:41 - 20:44to embrace our mind.
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20:46 - 20:49As a mother, to embrace our child.
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20:51 - 20:53And we can say to ourself,
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20:54 - 20:55"You are ok."
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20:56 - 20:59You don't want to become another person.
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20:59 - 21:02You don't want to become another
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21:04 - 21:06and you don't want to become
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21:07 - 21:08another thing.
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21:14 - 21:16And the mother is mindfulness.
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21:17 - 21:20Mindfulness helps you to embrace yourself
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21:23 - 21:26and calm down your feelings.
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21:26 - 21:28Calm down your suffering
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21:30 - 21:32Calm down your mind,
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21:33 - 21:35until you feel release,
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21:36 - 21:38until you feel relaxed.
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21:44 - 21:46Then you have the capacity
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21:47 - 21:49to help other people to do the same.
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21:51 - 21:54The people that also
have a lot of suffering -
21:57 - 21:58and you can help them
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21:59 - 22:01to go back to themselves.
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22:01 - 22:03To accept themselves
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22:03 - 22:06and to water the
good seed inside of themselves. -
22:13 - 22:15Sometimes we both lose something
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22:16 - 22:17to make us suffer
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22:18 - 22:21and we become angry
with that person -
22:22 - 22:25and sometimes we
become hatred with that person. -
22:26 - 22:29And we cannot forgive her or forgive him.
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22:34 - 22:36And we cannot forgive him
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22:36 - 22:38because the wound is still here
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22:39 - 22:41in our body and in our mind.
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22:42 - 22:44And every time
we think of that person. -
22:44 - 22:46give you hurt.
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22:46 - 22:47You feel painful.
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22:51 - 22:54So that is why we have
to go back to our body -
22:54 - 22:56to take care of the wound.
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22:57 - 23:00By the breathing, relax our whole body,
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23:03 - 23:04release the wound.
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23:05 - 23:07And when you are healed
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23:08 - 23:10you have the capacity to forgive.
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23:14 - 23:16If not, there is no way to forgive.
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23:17 - 23:20Maybe the first time it's easy to forgive.
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23:20 - 23:22The second time it's easy.
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23:22 - 23:25But when the person makes the same mistake
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23:25 - 23:27and cause you suffering,
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23:27 - 23:29it's really, really difficult.
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23:29 - 23:33"Why do you keep repeating this thing
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23:33 - 23:35again and again and again?"
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23:36 - 23:38And so it is really difficult.
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23:39 - 23:42And when you see that it's
really difficult for you to forgive -
23:43 - 23:45so it means that the wound is still here.
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23:47 - 23:49But when the wound is healed,
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23:49 - 23:51you can forgive them easily.
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23:51 - 23:53And sometimes we don't need to say that
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23:53 - 23:55"I forgive her."
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23:56 - 23:58But forgiveness happens naturally,
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23:59 - 24:01because the wound is gone.
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24:04 - 24:06Sometimes they make a mistake
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24:06 - 24:08and you wait for them
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24:08 - 24:10to say sorry to you.
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24:10 - 24:12"Why did you make a mistake with me?"
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24:13 - 24:15"Why did you cause me this suffering?"
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24:15 - 24:18"But you don't want to say 'sorry" to me?"
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24:18 - 24:21And we only forgive her or him
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24:21 - 24:23when they say sorry to us.
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24:25 - 24:26But they didn't.
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24:29 - 24:30Why do we have to wait
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24:30 - 24:34until they say
sorry to us to free ourself. -
24:36 - 24:39We have to free ourself first
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24:39 - 24:40not wait until
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24:41 - 24:42they say sorry to you.
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24:43 - 24:45Because maybe it's too late
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24:45 - 24:48maybe they never say sorry to you.
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24:50 - 24:53So please don't become the victim.
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24:56 - 24:58We can overcome the suffering.
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25:00 - 25:03And when we change, the people will change.
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25:06 - 25:09But sometimes because of our habit energy
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25:09 - 25:12we want that person to say sorry to us
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25:16 - 25:17and they never did it
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25:18 - 25:19and we suffer forever.
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25:20 - 25:23So if we are wise, if we are smart
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25:24 - 25:25So please . . .
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25:27 - 25:30liberate ourselves as soon as possible.
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25:33 - 25:36Don't wait for other people to change
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25:36 - 25:37for us to be happy,
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25:38 - 25:39for us to be free.
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25:42 - 25:45So it is a way we love ourself.
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25:52 - 25:55It is a way to take care of ourself.
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26:01 - 26:04And by this way we can transform
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26:07 - 26:10our wounds, our suffering,
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26:12 - 26:16our obsession into joy and happiness.
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26:17 - 26:20There is some (inaudible)
that makes us to -
26:23 - 26:24obsess.
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26:26 - 26:28And we don't want to think of it
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26:28 - 26:31because every time we think of it
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26:31 - 26:32we suffer a lot.
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26:33 - 26:35And we don't want to touch it.
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26:39 - 26:42And when the times come
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26:42 - 26:44you feel suffering.
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26:44 - 26:46For example, if we
have the wound happen -
26:46 - 26:48during the Christmas time
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26:48 - 26:50We feel very scared
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26:50 - 26:53when the Christmas time comes. Right?
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26:54 - 26:57Because we think of our obsession.
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26:58 - 27:01We think about the haunting memory.
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27:06 - 27:08And sometimes we run away
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27:08 - 27:09from that time.
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27:09 - 27:13We don't want to free to ourself.
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27:14 - 27:16If we have the wound happen
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27:16 - 27:20in the Christmas time we feel
very scared when Christmas comes. -
27:21 - 27:22If we have the wound
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27:22 - 27:25in the new year we feel afraid
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27:25 - 27:27and scared when the new year comes
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27:28 - 27:29and we want to run away.
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27:32 - 27:34But by the way to come back to ourself
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27:35 - 27:36and heal the wound
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27:36 - 27:39we can transform the obsession.
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27:41 - 27:44We can transform the haunting memory.
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27:46 - 27:49And it becomes the big lessons for us.
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27:51 - 27:54We can do better, we can behave better
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27:56 - 27:58in order that we don't create
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27:58 - 28:02the same mistake again in the future.
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28:02 - 28:04So, whatever happened
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28:04 - 28:06if we are mindful,
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28:06 - 28:07if we are aware of it,
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28:07 - 28:10it becomes a big lessons for us.
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28:11 - 28:12And we can do better.
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28:15 - 28:16And by that way
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28:16 - 28:18we have the capacity
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28:18 - 28:20to begin anew,
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28:21 - 28:26and also we have . . .
we offer other people opportunity -
28:27 - 28:29to practice beginning anew.
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28:30 - 28:33And we look at
other people with the new eyes -
28:34 - 28:35We don't judge them,
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28:35 - 28:37we don't prejudice with them,
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28:37 - 28:40because they're already changed.
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28:40 - 28:43And we always look at her past,
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28:43 - 28:45we overlook his past.
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28:45 - 28:47And sometimes she wants to change.
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28:48 - 28:51She wants to change
but we always look at her past -
28:51 - 28:54so she doesn't want to continue
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28:54 - 28:57to practice begin anew.
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28:59 - 29:03So we understand ourself
and we can understand -
29:03 - 29:04other people.
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29:08 - 29:13So it is the first power
that you need to nourish yourself. -
29:13 - 29:15And when the people come to you
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29:17 - 29:19they feel embraced by us.
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29:21 - 29:26They feel that they receive
the forgiveness from us, -
29:27 - 29:29and they feel peaceful.
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29:30 - 29:33They can do beginning anew.
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29:34 - 29:39They can be the start of a new person.
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29:43 - 29:46And the second power is:
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29:50 - 29:52Clever.
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29:54 - 29:56Sometimes we call wisdom
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29:59 - 30:01or insight.
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30:09 - 30:11Sometimes we are caught.
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30:11 - 30:15We are caught in something
that we cannot overcome. -
30:19 - 30:21But if we look deeply
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30:21 - 30:23into the situation
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30:24 - 30:26we can find the way out.
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30:28 - 30:30And clever here is not
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30:30 - 30:31the knowledge that you can
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30:32 - 30:33find in the book
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30:33 - 30:35or you can find in the DVD.
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30:36 - 30:38You can't find in my talk.
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30:40 - 30:43But this "clever" it comes from yourself.
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30:44 - 30:46It comes from inside of yourself
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30:47 - 30:48by your practice
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30:49 - 30:51in the daily life.
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30:54 - 30:57And all the lessons we learn (are)
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30:57 - 30:58the same.
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30:59 - 31:01You don't see (them) in the book.
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31:02 - 31:05You cannot learn compassion
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31:05 - 31:08when you open
the book and you read it, no. -
31:09 - 31:12But by the way
we contact with the people, -
31:14 - 31:16by the way we
transform our suffering, -
31:18 - 31:20so we have the compassion.
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31:20 - 31:23We cannot learn the patience
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31:23 - 31:24in the book.
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31:25 - 31:28Or ways to deal with
the situation during the day -
31:30 - 31:32in your relationships
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31:33 - 31:35then you learn the patience.
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31:38 - 31:40So it is the same with clever,
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31:41 - 31:43with insight, we never learn
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31:44 - 31:45in the book.
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31:46 - 31:48So it is not the knowledge
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31:48 - 31:51that you accumulate
while you (are) reading books -
31:51 - 31:53or you watch a DVD.
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31:54 - 31:56You go to the YouTube and search
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31:57 - 31:59for what you need.
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31:59 - 32:01But it's not the insight.
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32:01 - 32:04But the insight
comes from your experience. -
32:10 - 32:13And it also comes from your peaceful mind.
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32:14 - 32:17When you go home to your body,
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32:17 - 32:18calm down
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32:21 - 32:22your feeling,
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32:22 - 32:24calm down your emotion,
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32:24 - 32:26calm down your mind,
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32:26 - 32:28so you can see things clearly.
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32:30 - 32:31So it is the insight.
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32:31 - 32:33And insight comes up quickly.
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32:35 - 32:39It's like the thunder.
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32:41 - 32:42It comes up naturally,
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32:42 - 32:44quickly.
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32:45 - 32:47So sometimes we have
the problem and we don't know how -
32:47 - 32:49to solve the problem.
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32:49 - 32:51Try not to think
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32:52 - 32:54but just go back to yourself.
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32:55 - 32:57Let your mind become peaceful,
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32:57 - 32:59and when you are peaceful enough
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32:59 - 33:01the solution comes up.
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33:03 - 33:05Of course we need the knowledge
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33:05 - 33:07because if we don't have the knowledge
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33:08 - 33:11maybe we don't kn.ow
how to nourish it -
33:11 - 33:14We don't know how
to nourish the insight. -
33:14 - 33:16For example, if we don't know
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33:16 - 33:20how to breathe maybe we
don't breathe properly. -
33:21 - 33:22We if don't know how to
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33:22 - 33:25calm down our feeling and our mind
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33:25 - 33:27maybe we don't know how to do it
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33:27 - 33:28correctly.
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33:29 - 33:31So we have to
learn how to do it. -
33:31 - 33:34And then we know how to do it
we have to put it into practice. -
33:35 - 33:36We have to apply it.
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33:38 - 33:40And then we have the insight.
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33:40 - 33:43And sometimes we call it understanding.
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33:45 - 33:48And if there is .no understanding
there is no love -
33:48 - 33:50We cannot love other people
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33:50 - 33:52if we don't understand them.
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33:52 - 33:55We may think that we love them
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33:55 - 33:58but in fact we cause
them a lot of suffering. -
34:00 - 34:02As the parents
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34:03 - 34:06we see our children as our
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34:06 - 34:08treasured property.
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34:09 - 34:11We do everything for them.
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34:12 - 34:16Buy the new thing for them
buy the new beautiful clothes for them, -
34:16 - 34:18raise them up.
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34:19 - 34:22Help them to go to the university,
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34:22 - 34:25to have the good job,
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34:25 - 34:27to buy the car for them. And
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34:27 - 34:28you think that you
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34:30 - 34:32have done everything for your children.
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34:33 - 34:36But in fact, you don't
understand them. -
34:37 - 34:39You don't know what they want.
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34:40 - 34:43You don't know their
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34:44 - 34:45aspirations.
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34:46 - 34:48And you may never have a chance
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34:48 - 34:50to listen to them.
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34:54 - 34:56So you may come back
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34:56 - 34:59to have a good communication
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35:00 - 35:02with them to understand
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35:03 - 35:04your children.
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35:05 - 35:07And when you understand your children
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35:08 - 35:10you can bring them
a lot of joy and happiness. -
35:12 - 35:15So that is the insight,
that is the understanding. -
35:18 - 35:20And you see that your children
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35:22 - 35:23are your continuation.
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35:24 - 35:27You take good care of your children
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35:27 - 35:29is to take good care of your continuation.
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35:31 - 35:34Then your children can
bring you to the future. -
35:37 - 35:38So it is the insight
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35:43 - 35:45And we have many kinds of insight.
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35:47 - 35:49Impermanent insight.
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35:49 - 35:50Non-self insight.
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35:51 - 35:52Interbeing insight.
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35:53 - 35:55So we have to learn about
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35:55 - 35:58impermanence.
We learn about non-self, -
35:58 - 36:00we learn about interbeing,
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36:00 - 36:02we learn about love,
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36:02 - 36:05and we put them into practice
in order that we have the -
36:06 - 36:08insight.
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36:08 - 36:09And the insight
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36:10 - 36:11can liberate us.
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36:15 - 36:16And the third power
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36:22 - 36:23is courage.
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36:27 - 36:29The courage
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36:31 - 36:32to cut through
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36:37 - 36:39afflictions.
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36:45 - 36:47Sometimes we call courage
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36:47 - 36:50sometimes we call
"cutting through the afflictions" -
36:50 - 36:52or sometimes
we call "letting go." -
37:14 - 37:16We have the courage to let go
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37:17 - 37:19of our ideas.
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37:24 - 37:27Sometimes the idea makes us suffer.
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37:30 - 37:32We think that we are right
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37:33 - 37:36and the people
other people are wrong. -
37:37 - 37:40So it is why
we are with each other -
37:41 - 37:44we bring disharmony
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37:44 - 37:45in our family.
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37:49 - 37:51I remember that when I was young
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37:52 - 37:55sometimes my parents
are with each other -
37:55 - 37:58and my Mom
thought that she's right -
38:00 - 38:02and my father thought that
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38:02 - 38:03he was right.
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38:04 - 38:06And both of them were right.
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38:07 - 38:10But I cannot ask the
other people's ideas, -
38:10 - 38:11other people's view.
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38:12 - 38:15So it is why they cause
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38:15 - 38:17each other suffering.
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38:17 - 38:20And they make
their children suffer. -
38:24 - 38:26So we have to be courageous
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38:27 - 38:29to let go of our ideas,
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38:29 - 38:32even we think that we are right.
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38:33 - 38:35But if it doesn't bring harmony
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38:36 - 38:38in our family so we can
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38:38 - 38:40bring it home
oh sorry we can -
38:41 - 38:42let it go.
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38:45 - 38:48Because it doesn't
bring happ.iness to each other -
38:57 - 39:00So maybe we can contemplate
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39:00 - 39:03to see what we need to let go
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39:04 - 39:06what we need to cut through.
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39:10 - 39:13And the first thing
we need to cut through -
39:15 - 39:16is our craving.
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39:27 - 39:29So there are many kinds of craving.
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39:33 - 39:36We are craving for food, for example.
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39:36 - 39:39It can bring us a lot of suffering.
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39:39 - 39:42It is very tasty, very delicious,
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39:43 - 39:45but it's not good for our health.
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39:46 - 39:48So maybe we can let go.
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39:51 - 39:52We desire
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39:53 - 39:54to have a car,
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39:56 - 39:57a beautiful car.
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39:58 - 40:01And we do a lot of work,
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40:02 - 40:05we work hard to earn
money to buy a car. -
40:09 - 40:11But, in fact, that when we have the car
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40:11 - 40:13we are not so happy.
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40:13 - 40:16We accumulate more
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40:16 - 40:18tension . . .
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40:18 - 40:20stress.
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40:20 - 40:22And when we are
tense-ful and stressed -
40:22 - 40:25we make other people suffer also.
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40:25 - 40:27But we may not realize that.
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40:30 - 40:34And somethings
that we think that if we have them -
40:34 - 40:35we are happy,
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40:35 - 40:39but in fact that when
we have them, we are not happy. -
40:41 - 40:43So we have to look deeply to see
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40:43 - 40:46what kind of desire we have
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40:48 - 40:51that doesn't bring us happiness,
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40:51 - 40:54but we think that it
will bring us happiness. -
40:56 - 40:58And we have to be courageous to let
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40:59 - 41:01them . . . . go away.
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41:02 - 41:04We have to let go.
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41:09 - 41:11It is the same with the material things
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41:14 - 41:16and spiritual things also.
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41:16 - 41:18We have to let go.
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41:23 - 41:25So . . .
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41:26 - 41:28when we look deeply
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41:28 - 41:31into the things
and we can realize that -
41:31 - 41:34maybe the simple life is the best for us.
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41:34 - 41:37We don't need to have
much things to be happy. -
41:41 - 41:43We live simply,
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41:43 - 41:45where we have time for ourselves,
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41:46 - 41:48we have time for our beloved one.
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41:51 - 41:54Sometimes we feel tense.
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41:54 - 41:56We feel stressful
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41:58 - 42:00but we don't have time to relax.
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42:03 - 42:04We do thing after thing.
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42:06 - 42:10And we think that when we finish
these things we have opportunity to relax, -
42:10 - 42:12to rest.
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42:12 - 42:16But in fact when we finish
one thing we have another thing to do. -
42:16 - 42:19And we never had the chance
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42:19 - 42:22to relax and to rest.
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42:25 - 42:29And even when we go to the vacation,
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42:29 - 42:32we also do a lot of things,
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42:33 - 42:35arrange a lot of things,
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42:35 - 42:38for us to relax,
but in fact we accumulate more -
42:38 - 42:42tension . . . in our body and in our mind.
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42:56 - 42:58We want to have a big house
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43:01 - 43:03but in fact that when
we have a big house -
43:03 - 43:04we are not happy.
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43:09 - 43:11But if you have time
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43:11 - 43:13you have everything.
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43:23 - 43:25And people say time is gold,
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43:27 - 43:30but our teacher says that time is our life.
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43:32 - 43:34We have to enjoy our time
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43:36 - 43:37as we enjoy our life.
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43:54 - 43:56And the second thing that we
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43:56 - 43:58want to cut through is
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43:59 - 44:00anger,
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44:04 - 44:06or hatred.
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44:10 - 44:13Anger is a big thing
that. we have to deal with -
44:16 - 44:21Because of anger we also
create a lot of suffering -
44:21 - 44:23for each other.
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44:29 - 44:31And when we are angry
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44:31 - 44:33we think that we are right
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44:33 - 44:36so it is why we're angry
with other people. -
44:37 - 44:40They did something wrong
they make us suffer. -
44:40 - 44:43Why they do like this?
Why they say like that? -
44:44 - 44:46and because of that we're angry with that.
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44:47 - 44:50But the same method to go back to our home
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44:50 - 44:52to our body and feel it.
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44:52 - 44:56To take care of our body and feelings.
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44:56 - 44:58We take good care of our anger.
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44:59 - 45:01We embrace our anger,
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45:02 - 45:03calm down our anger,
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45:04 - 45:06and to free ourself.
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45:11 - 45:14When I do sitting meditation
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45:14 - 45:16I scan my whole body.
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45:18 - 45:21Aware of my whole body
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45:21 - 45:23from my breathing,
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45:24 - 45:26to my face,
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45:26 - 45:27my shoulders,
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45:27 - 45:29my arms,
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45:29 - 45:31my back, my legs,
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45:32 - 45:33my fingers,
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45:33 - 45:35my toes,
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45:37 - 45:38my intestines,
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45:39 - 45:41my liver, my heart.
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45:41 - 45:43So I scan my whole body.
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45:45 - 45:47And then I scan all
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45:48 - 45:49members
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45:50 - 45:52in the community.
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45:52 - 45:54In my sangha,
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45:54 - 45:56to see if I'm angry with anyone.
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45:59 - 46:02And then I scan all the people
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46:02 - 46:04with other hamlets with other sanghas.
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46:05 - 46:08With my family to see if I'm angry,
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46:08 - 46:10if I'm angry with anyone.
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46:11 - 46:15And the moment that I feel
I'm not angry with anyone I feel so happy. -
46:16 - 46:18I feel so free.
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46:19 - 46:23So just the fact
that we are not angry with anyone, -
46:24 - 46:25we're already happy.
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46:30 - 46:31So you may
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46:32 - 46:34do the same
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46:36 - 46:38when you have free time.
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46:38 - 46:41To think of yourself,
think of other people -
46:42 - 46:44and see if you are angry with anyone.
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46:46 - 46:50And then the moment you feel
that you are not angry with anyone, -
46:50 - 46:52you free yourself.
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46:53 - 46:55You liberate yourself,
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46:57 - 46:58and you become happy,
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46:59 - 47:02like you are the
happiest person in the world. -
47:06 - 47:08And the same with the other mind.
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47:09 - 47:11If you have the jealousy,
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47:12 - 47:15and when you do
sitting meditation you also scan -
47:16 - 47:17everyone
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47:18 - 47:20in your family or in the community.
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47:20 - 47:24And that moment
you don't feel jealous with anyone, -
47:25 - 47:26you feel so happy.
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47:30 - 47:33And you can do like that
with any kind of mind -
47:33 - 47:37that bothers you, that makes you unhappy.
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47:38 - 47:42And then you sustain
the sitting meditation time, -
47:42 - 47:44all of the day.
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47:45 - 47:46Like when you do the work,
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47:47 - 47:49when you cook in the kitchen,
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47:50 - 47:51when you do washing,
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47:52 - 47:54when you take a walk.
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47:55 - 47:57So you sustain it
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47:57 - 47:59and you also feel happy,
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48:00 - 48:02and your happiness becomes huge.
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48:04 - 48:08And all day long you feel happy.
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48:08 - 48:10And if you can do for one day,
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48:10 - 48:14you can do for the second day,
the third day, the fourth day, -
48:14 - 48:15a month, a year
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48:16 - 48:18and maybe forever.
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48:19 - 48:21And you can master yourself.
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48:22 - 48:24So . . .
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48:25 - 48:28anger or hatred
is only ,one kind of mind -
48:28 - 48:32but with every kind of mind
you can do the same. -
48:40 - 48:42And the third is ignorance.
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48:57 - 49:00With the insight of wisdom
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49:00 - 49:03we have to look deeply into things.
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49:04 - 49:06We have to look deeply into the situation
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49:07 - 49:09to understand the situation better.
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49:13 - 49:15And when we understand
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49:16 - 49:17the situation
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49:18 - 49:20we can free ourselves.
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49:24 - 49:27We suffer because
we don't see things clearly. -
49:29 - 49:31We know nothing.
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49:33 - 49:34We're ignorant
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49:35 - 49:36about things,
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49:36 - 49:38about reality.
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49:41 - 49:45So we have to cut through ignorance.
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49:45 - 49:47We have to cut through ignorance
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49:48 - 49:50in order that we can free ourselves.
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50:00 - 50:03Sometimes we need friends to help us
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50:04 - 50:06because we don't see things clearly.
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50:06 - 50:09But we thought that we see things clearly.
-
50:09 - 50:13It is very dangerous
s.ometimes we need help -
50:18 - 50:22We can ask our friend
who has experience in the practice -
50:22 - 50:24to show us the way, to help us.
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50:31 - 50:35In our community we say that
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50:36 - 50:38the individual insight
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50:40 - 50:42is not
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50:43 - 50:46as good as community insight.
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50:53 - 50:55So we need
the collective insight to help us. -
50:59 - 51:03So when we have the difficulty
please ask for help. -
51:09 - 51:12Because the (inaudible) is very dangerous.
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51:12 - 51:14We think that they are wrong,
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51:14 - 51:17and we are right.
It's very dangerous, -
51:20 - 51:22so please ask for help.
-
51:36 - 51:40So we go back to ourself
-
51:40 - 51:42go back to our home
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51:44 - 51:48to see what kind of garbage
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51:48 - 51:51that you want (to) throw them away
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51:51 - 51:53by this kind of method.
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51:54 - 51:57And what kind of flower you want to plant
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52:01 - 52:03in order that we can welcome the new year.
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52:13 - 52:16(Bell rings gently)
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52:20 - 52:28(Bell rings)
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53:12 - 53:15Sometimes we can
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53:16 - 53:18we can let go of the big thing
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53:19 - 53:22but we cannot let go of the small thing.
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53:24 - 53:30And we turn the small thing
into the big thing, the big deal. -
53:34 - 53:37I don't know if you read the magazines
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53:37 - 53:39New . . . .
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53:41 - 53:43New York Times
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53:43 - 53:45There is an article
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53:47 - 53:50with the title
"Is he ever going to put away that shirt?" -
53:53 - 53:55It's very interesting.
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53:57 - 53:59It is written by
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53:59 - 54:02Brenda Chadowitz.
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54:05 - 54:08She tells about the shirt
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54:09 - 54:10of her husband.
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54:13 - 54:15The shirt was left
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54:17 - 54:20on the . . .upstairs in the hallway
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54:20 - 54:22for many days
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54:24 - 54:27and he didn't take it away.
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54:30 - 54:32And when she saw the shirt
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54:32 - 54:35she felt very irritated.
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54:36 - 54:39She says that "Why, my husband
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54:39 - 54:41didn't clean up,
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54:41 - 54:43didn't take it away?"
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54:47 - 54:50And she wanted to clean up
she wanted to take it away. -
54:51 - 54:53And it only took a few steps
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54:54 - 54:57to take it, to put it in the cabinet.
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54:57 - 54:59But she didn't do it
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55:00 - 55:04because she didn't want
to become the person who -
55:04 - 55:05cleans up after him,
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55:07 - 55:09to pick up after him.
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55:09 - 55:11Because she has two children
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55:12 - 55:14to take care of
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55:14 - 55:15and she always
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55:16 - 55:19cleaned up things for her children.
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55:20 - 55:23Pick up after her children.
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55:23 - 55:26So, it is why she doesn't want
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55:26 - 55:28to pick up things after him.
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55:30 - 55:32But everyday
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55:33 - 55:36she became more and more irritated.
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55:38 - 55:39And she told her Mom
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55:40 - 55:43and her Mom said that
because her husband is the doctor -
55:43 - 55:46and he's busy so take it away.
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55:47 - 55:49But she doesn't want to
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55:50 - 55:52and she come to the therapy
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55:53 - 55:54(Laughs)
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55:55 - 55:57but it doesn't help.
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55:58 - 56:00She told her friend
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56:01 - 56:03it also doesn't help.
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56:07 - 56:10And she remembered the moment that
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56:10 - 56:11her husband
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56:12 - 56:13did a lot of things.
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56:14 - 56:15Clean up the house,
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56:15 - 56:17throw the garbage,
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56:19 - 56:20(inaudible).
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56:20 - 56:23And there were some very difficult moments.
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56:24 - 56:25Her husband
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56:25 - 56:27comfort her,
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56:27 - 56:30help her to go out of the fear
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56:32 - 56:33of the suffering,
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56:34 - 56:35of the worries.
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56:36 - 56:38But still
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56:40 - 56:43she still suffered because of that shirt.
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56:48 - 56:52And she paid attention
to that shirt to see if it's moved -
56:53 - 56:55(Laughs)
But it's difficult, huh? -
56:55 - 56:57Day by day,
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56:57 - 56:59for six minutes.
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56:59 - 57:01(Audience laughs)
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57:03 - 57:05And one day she saw it was gone.
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57:08 - 57:14And she asked her husband
"You took the shirt away?" -
57:15 - 57:17And her husband said that
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57:18 - 57:20"What . . . what kind of shirt?"
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57:20 - 57:22(Gentle laughter)
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57:22 - 57:24And he said
"That shirt on the upstairs? -
57:25 - 57:27And he said, "Yes"
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57:30 - 57:33I cleaned up this morning
I took them away. -
57:34 - 57:35And I also
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57:35 - 57:37took off the socks.
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57:41 - 57:42And she asked
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57:43 - 57:44"What kind of socks?"
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57:44 - 57:47(Laughter)
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57:49 - 57:53In fact the socks that she
wants to wear when she do exercise -
57:54 - 57:55She put the . . .
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57:57 - 58:00aside and she didn't use it and she
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58:00 - 58:03leave them there for many days.
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58:03 - 58:05Maybe many months.
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58:07 - 58:10But before that she so surprised why
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58:11 - 58:13her husband didn't pay attention
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58:13 - 58:15to the shirt.
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58:15 - 58:18And she feel that it
seemed that it like nothing -
58:18 - 58:21but it has become a big deal for her.
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58:26 - 58:27But when she realized that
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58:28 - 58:31I think she feel free.
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58:31 - 58:33She may laugh to herself.
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58:39 - 58:41It is very human, huh?
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58:42 - 58:44It's very mundane
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58:45 - 58:47but sometimes it's very . . .
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58:50 - 58:52I think that everyone,
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58:52 - 58:53sometimes we
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58:54 - 58:56share the same situation
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58:56 - 58:58with her.
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58:59 - 59:01Sometimes we can deal with the big thing
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59:03 - 59:06but with the small thing.
We cannot overcome it, -
59:10 - 59:12and it causes us a lot of suffering.
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59:13 - 59:16Why we have to worry until six months
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59:17 - 59:18to liberate ourselves?
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59:19 - 59:22Instead it can take
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59:23 - 59:25few seconds
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59:26 - 59:27to take it away
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59:27 - 59:30and we free ourselves of six months.
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59:36 - 59:38So maybe it is an invitation.
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59:40 - 59:42That I would like to invite you
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59:43 - 59:46to look deeply into yourself.
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59:47 - 59:50To see what bothers you, what ties you up
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59:51 - 59:54that allows you to be happy, to be free.
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59:58 - 59:59And we don't worry
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60:01 - 60:04until six months later to free ourselves.
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60:05 - 60:07We don't worry until
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60:08 - 60:13our husband took away
the shirt for us to be free. -
60:13 - 60:17We can do it
because it's very little thing. -
60:28 - 60:30Sometimes, there is something happen
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60:31 - 60:34that we don't like it.
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60:35 - 60:38Our mind attaches to that.
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60:38 - 60:41Our mind goes right to the object.
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60:42 - 60:46And it carries us away and
it prevent us to be happy. -
60:49 - 60:52So we have to go back to ourself
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60:55 - 60:57and concentrate on our breathing.
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60:57 - 61:00Concentrate on our mind,
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61:02 - 61:03in our body,
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61:05 - 61:08in order that we can stop thinking.
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61:09 - 61:14We can stop directing our mind
to the object that we don't like. -
61:16 - 61:17We cut off
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61:20 - 61:23the thing that prevents us to be happy.
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61:25 - 61:28Direct our mind back to our body.
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61:31 - 61:33And when we go back to our body,
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61:34 - 61:36we also see clearly
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61:37 - 61:39that we also have some mistakes.
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61:45 - 61:46In the . . .
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61:47 - 61:50Dhammapada Sutra
(Vietnamese words) -
61:51 - 61:53the Buddha also said that
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61:54 - 61:58Easy seeing . . . .
easy seeing are others faults. -
62:00 - 62:04Hard indeed to see one's own.
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62:05 - 62:07Like just one
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62:08 - 62:11we know others faults
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62:13 - 62:17but one's own faults, one hides.
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62:19 - 62:20As the crafty
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62:21 - 62:22gambler
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62:23 - 62:26conceals his gambling scars.
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62:31 - 62:45(Speaking vietnamese)
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62:47 - 62:50So easy to see the mistakes
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62:50 - 62:52of other people.
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62:53 - 62:56But for our own
it's really difficult to see it. -
62:59 - 63:02So during the daily life
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63:02 - 63:06if you only see the
mistakes of the other people. -
63:07 - 63:10So maybe our practice is strong,
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63:11 - 63:15you have to go back
to ourselves to see our mistakes. -
63:15 - 63:18And the more mistakes we see,
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63:18 - 63:20the better we are.
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63:20 - 63:22Because we see
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63:22 - 63:24ourselves clearly.
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63:25 - 63:28Not because the more we practice
the more mistakes we create -
63:29 - 63:31but the more practice, the more
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63:31 - 63:34clearly we see ourselves.
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63:37 - 63:39And when we see ourselves clearly
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63:39 - 63:42it's really easy for us to
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63:42 - 63:44forgive other people.
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63:49 - 63:52So mistakes are sometimes very precious.
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63:54 - 63:58If you don't do mistakes
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63:59 - 64:04maybe it's really difficult
for you to forgive other people. -
64:06 - 64:08But when you have the mistake
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64:10 - 64:13it's easy for you to forgive
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64:13 - 64:14other people.
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64:20 - 64:23So it is why the Buddha always
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64:26 - 64:29advises us to go back to ourselves
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64:30 - 64:32to see ourselves clearly.
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64:43 - 64:46And if we see ourselves clearly
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64:47 - 64:51we can help other people
to see themselves clearly too. -
64:53 - 64:55Outside it's very beautiful
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64:56 - 64:59Today we are lucky to have the sunshine
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65:01 - 65:03so maybe . . .
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65:03 - 65:06we stop here to enjoy the sunshine.
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65:06 - 65:09(Laughter).
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65:09 - 65:13But one more time, I would like
to invite you to go back home -
65:14 - 65:16the physical home,
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65:16 - 65:18home here and home
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65:19 - 65:20in your family.
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65:21 - 65:22To clean up
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65:23 - 65:26your home and to plant a flower
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65:26 - 65:29in your garden to
welcome the new year. -
65:30 - 65:32And . . .
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65:34 - 65:36of course we can plan.t
many kinds of flowers -
65:37 - 65:39And every kind of flower
they need different water, -
65:39 - 65:42different ingredients,
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65:43 - 65:44different manure.
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65:44 - 65:48So we can learn
in order that we can plant -
65:49 - 65:50good flowers.
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65:51 - 65:53So we can do the same
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65:53 - 65:56we can plant in the garden of our mind
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65:56 - 65:59many kinds of flowers.
Flowers of compassion, -
65:59 - 66:02of love, of forgiveness.
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66:02 - 66:06Of peace, joy, harmony, (unaudible)
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66:07 - 66:10and then we can plant a garden.
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66:10 - 66:14And sometimes our garden is not so
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66:14 - 66:17clean.
It's not so in order -
66:18 - 66:21because we don't
take good care of our garden. -
66:23 - 66:24And it becomes wiry.
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66:25 - 66:27And sometimes we
go back to our garden -
66:27 - 66:30and our garden becomes
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66:31 - 66:32very dirty.
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66:33 - 66:37And we become bored
when we see our garden. -
66:39 - 66:40And we worry
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66:41 - 66:43we don't know where we can start.
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66:47 - 66:51So if this is your situation,
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66:51 - 66:53to smile to your garden.
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66:55 - 66:57And we can be brave,
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66:58 - 67:00we can be courageous.
to take care of that -
67:01 - 67:04And we look around to see in the garden
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67:05 - 67:07if there are any trees still alive.
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67:08 - 67:10So we can start from that tree.
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67:14 - 67:18And we take good care
of that tree and we enjoy that tree. -
67:18 - 67:20And then from that tree
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67:21 - 67:23so we can sustain
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67:23 - 67:27to take care of
other places in the garden. -
67:28 - 67:31So it is the same with
the garden of our mind. -
67:31 - 67:34Sometimes we feel
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67:34 - 67:37unease with our mind.
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67:38 - 67:41But if we see that we
still have the compassion. -
67:41 - 67:43it's good already.
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67:43 - 67:47If it's still alive we go back
to take care of our compassion. -
67:48 - 67:51And make it bigger,
make it stronger. -
67:53 - 67:57We can love,
share our love to other people. -
67:59 - 68:01Feel compassionate to other people.
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68:02 - 68:03Feel compassionate
to other's suffering, -
68:04 - 68:06other people's suffering.
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68:07 - 68:10And then we sustain to
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68:10 - 68:14other trees, love, forgiveness
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68:14 - 68:18understanding actual, and we make our
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68:18 - 68:22garden become more beautiful.
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68:24 - 68:26Become bright.
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68:26 - 68:29So I wish you a safe trip home
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68:30 - 68:33to take good care of your garden.
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68:34 - 68:36To clean up your
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68:37 - 68:38home,
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68:38 - 68:40with joy and happiness
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68:40 - 68:42to celebrate a new year.
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68:44 - 68:46Wherever you are
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68:46 - 68:49and enjoy the happy new year.
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68:49 - 68:53Thank you so much for your listening.
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68:55 - 68:59(Bell rings)
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69:01 - 69:05(Bell rings)
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69:13 - 69:17(Silence)
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69:49 - 69:53(Bell rings)
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70:04 - 70:08(Silence)
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70:35 - 70:40(Bell rings)
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70:56 - 71:00(Silence)
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71:21 - 71:23(Light bell rings)
- Title:
- Three Powers - by sister Hội Nghiêm - 2019.12.27
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