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The greatest gift that parents can...
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make to their children is their own happiness.
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Parents don't have to...
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to...
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to leave behind a huge sum of money
in order for their children to be happy.
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The children they have their own capacity of making...
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earning their life.
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The greatest gift you can make to them
is to be happy yourself as parents.
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And if the husband knows how to take care of the wife,
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knows how to talk to her,
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knows how to to make her happy,
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the children will know, will learn...
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naturally from the art of their parents.
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The parents don't have
to teach their children.
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They just live their life happily, taking care of each other.
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And then children will naturally learn the art of happiness making.
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And if parents create hell in a family,
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then children will have no...
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no faith in the family.
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They will be afraid of building a family.
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"I don't want to build hell
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because my family,
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the family of my father and mother is hell.
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There's no reason why I have to build hell for myself."
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So she has no faith in family.
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You become a wounded child.
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You don't believe in family.
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You don't believe in ancestors.
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You don't believe in father and mother.
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And that is a big loss for the child.
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And the suffering will be transmitted
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to the later generation,
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and that is a well of samsara.
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Children will continue to suffer.
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Just because one generation of ancestors have suffered and
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was not able to stop...
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the...
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the suffering and to transform.
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And that is a big lost.
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Because family is a very solid unit of society.
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And if the structure of the family is disintegrating,
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then, society will disintegrate.
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And that is what happens in our time.
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The parents have to be responsible for their children.
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And the best thing they can do
is to inspire their children with confidence
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by living with each other in harmony,
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knowing how to make each other happy.
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And that is the greatest gift they can make to their children.
