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You've invested a lot in your
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Education and people have invested in you and let me tell you the world needs your talents and does it ever?
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The world needs a lot and we need it from you
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We really do we need it from you young people
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I mean, I'm not speaking for the rest of us up here, but I know I'm getting a little grayer
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We needed from you the young people because remember this so you got to get out there
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You got to give it everything you got whether it's your time
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Your your your talent your prayers
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Or your treasures because remember this
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You will never see a u-haul
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behind a hearse
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I'll say it again
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You will never see a u-haul behind a hearse
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You can't take it with you. The Egyptians tried it and all they got was robbed
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So the question is
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What are you going to do with what you have? I'm not talking about how much you have
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Some of you are business majors. Some of you are theologians nurses sociologists
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Some of you have money some of you have patients some of you have kindness some of you have loved
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Some of you have the gift of long-suffering whatever it is, whatever your gift is
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What are you going to do with what you have?
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Fail big
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That's right fail big
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Today is the beginning of the rest of your life and it can be couldn't be very frightening. It's a new world out there
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It's a mean world out there and you only live once so
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Do what you feel passionate about passionate about?
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Take chances
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professionally
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Don't be afraid to fail
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There's an old IQ test was nine dots and you had to draw five lines with a pencil within these nine dots
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Without lifting the pencil the only way to do it was to go outside the box
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So don't be afraid to go outside the box
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Don't be afraid to
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Think outside the box. Don't be afraid to fail big to dream
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big but remember
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dreams without goals
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Are just dreams and they ultimately fuel disappointment
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So have dreams but
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Have goals
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life goals yearly goals
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Monthly goals daily goals. I try to give myself a goal every day
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Sometimes just to not curse somebody out simple goals, but have goals and
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understand
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That to achieve these goals
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You must apply discipline
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and
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consistency
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in order to achieve your goals, you must apply discipline, which you were already done and
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Consistency every day not just want to Z and miss a few days. You have to work at it
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Every day you have to plan
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Every day you've heard the saying we don't plan to fail we fail to plan
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hard work
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works
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Working really hard is what successful people do and in this
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text tweet
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twirl that you've grown up in
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Remember just because you're doing a lot more
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Doesn't mean you're getting a lot more done
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Remember that just because you're doing a lot more
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Doesn't mean you're getting a lot more
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Done don't confuse
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Movement
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with progress
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My mother told me yeah. Yeah cuz you can run in place all the time and never get anywhere. So
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Continue to strive continue to have goals continue to progress
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I
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Found that nothing in life is worthwhile
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Unless you take risks
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nothing
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Nelson Mandela said there is no passion to be found playing small and
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Settling for a life that's less than the one you're capable of living
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You know
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I'm sure in your experiences in school and applying to college and picking your major and deciding what you want to do with life
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I'm sure people that told you to make sure you have something to fall back on
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Make sure you got something to fall back on, honey
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But I never understood that concept
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Having something to fall back on
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If I'm going to fall, I don't want to fall back on anything
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Except my faith. I want to fall forward. I figure at least this way. I'll see what I'm going to hit
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Fall forward this is what I mean
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Reggie Jackson struck out 26 hundred times in his career the most in the history of baseball
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But you don't hear about the strikeouts people remember the homeruns?
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Fall forward
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Thomas edison kentuc did one thousand failed experiments as you know that I didn't know that
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Because the one thousand and first was the light bulb
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Forward
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Every failed experiment is one step closer to success
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you've got to take risks and I'm sure you've probably heard that before, but I want to talk to you about why that's
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important I
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Got three reasons and then you can pick up your iPhone's
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First
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You will fail at some point in your life accept it you will lose you will embarrass yourself
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You will suck at something. There's no doubt about it and
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I know that's probably not a traditional message for a graduation ceremony. But a I'm telling you embrace it because it's inevitable
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And I should know in the acting business you fail all the time early on in my career. I
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auditioned for a part in a Broadway musical
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Perfect role for me. I thought except for the fact that I can't sing. I
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Didn't get the job
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But here's the thing I
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didn't Quint
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I didn't fall back. I
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Walked out of there to prepare for the next audition and the next audition and the next audition. I prayed I
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Prayed and I prayed
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But I continue to fail and fail and fail but it didn't matter because you know what,
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There's an old saying you hang around the barbershop long enough sooner or later. You're going to get a haircut
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So you will catch a break and I did catch a break
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Last year. I did a play called fences on Broadway
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if someone talked about it won the Tony Award and
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I didn't have to sing by the way, but here's the kicker. He was at the Court Theatre
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It was at the same theatre that I failed that first audition 30 years prior
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The point is and I'll pick up the pace
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The point is every graduate here today has the training and the talent to succeed
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But do you have the guts to fail? Here's my second point about failure if you don't fail
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You're not even trying
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I'll say it again
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if you don't fail
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You're not even trying my wife told me this great expression to get something you never had
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You have to do something you never did
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Les Brown's a motivational speaker. He made an analogy about this
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He says imagine you're on your deathbed and standing around your deathbed are the ghosts representing your unfulfilled
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potential the ghosts of the ideas you never acted on the ghosts of the talents you didn't use and they're standing around your
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bed angry
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disappointed and upset
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they say we came to you because you could have brought us to life they say and
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Now we have to go to the grave together. So I ask you today
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How many ghosts are going to be around your bed when your time comes
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Not only take risks
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But to be open to life to accept new views and to be open to new opinions
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To be willing to speak at a commencement at one of the best country vesica the universities in the country
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Even though you're scared stiff. Well, it may be frightening. It will also be rewarding
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Because the chances you take the people, you meet the people you love the faith that you have
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That's what's going to define. You never be discouraged
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Never hold back
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Give everything you got and when you fall throughout life and remember this
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Fall forward
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Say thank you
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but grace
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Thank you for mercy. Thank you for understanding
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Thank you for wisdom. Thank you for parents. Thank you for love. Thank you for kindness
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Thank you for humility. Thank you for peace
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Thank you for Prosperity. Say thank you in advance for what's already yours
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How I live my life. That's why I am one of the reasons why I am today
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Say thank you in advance for what is already yours true desire in the heart
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for anything
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Good is God's proof to you sit before hand to indicate that it's yours
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already
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I'll say it again
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True desire in the heart that itch that you have
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Whatever it is you want to do that thing that you want to do to help others in to grow and to make money
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that desire that itch that's God's proof to you sit beforehand already to indicate that it's your
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and
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Anything you want good?
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you can have
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So claim it
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Work hard to get it
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When you get it reach back pull someone else up
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each one teach one
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Don't just aspire to make a living
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Aspire to make a difference