I'm not your inspiration, thank you very much
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0:00 - 0:02I grew up in a very small country town
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0:02 - 0:04in Victoria.
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0:04 - 0:08I had a very normal, low-key kind of upbringing.
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0:08 - 0:12I went to school, I hung out with my friends,
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0:12 - 0:14I fought with my younger sisters.
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0:14 - 0:16It was all very normal.
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0:16 - 0:20And when I was 15, a member of my local community
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0:20 - 0:21approached my parents
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0:21 - 0:23and wanted to nominate me
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0:23 - 0:26for a community achievement award.
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0:26 - 0:29And my parents said, "Hm, that's really nice,
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0:29 - 0:32but there's kind of one glaring problem with that.
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0:32 - 0:37She hasn't actually achieved anything." (Laughter)
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0:37 - 0:39And they were right, you know.
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0:39 - 0:42I went to school, I got good marks,
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0:42 - 0:44I had a very low-key after school job
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0:44 - 0:46in my mum's hairdressing salon,
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0:46 - 0:48and I spent a lot of time watching
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0:48 - 0:51"Buffy the Vampire Slayer" and "Dawson's Creek."
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0:51 - 0:55Yeah, I know. What a contradiction.
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0:55 - 0:56But they were right, you know.
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0:56 - 0:59I wasn't doing anything that was out of the ordinary
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0:59 - 1:01at all.
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1:01 - 1:04I wasn't doing anything that could
be considered an achievement -
1:04 - 1:07if you took disability out of the equation.
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1:07 - 1:11Years later, I was on my second teaching round
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1:11 - 1:13in a Melbourne high school,
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1:13 - 1:18and I was about 20 minutes into
a year 11 legal studies class -
1:18 - 1:19when this boy put up his hand and said,
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1:19 - 1:24"Hey miss, when are you going
to start doing your speech?" -
1:24 - 1:26And I said, "What speech?"
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1:26 - 1:27You know, I'd been talking them
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1:27 - 1:30about defamation law for a good 20 minutes.
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1:30 - 1:32And he said, "You know, like,
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1:32 - 1:34your motivational speaking.
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1:34 - 1:36You know, when people in
wheelchairs come to school, -
1:36 - 1:41they usually say, like, inspirational stuff?"
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1:41 - 1:42(Laughter)
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1:42 - 1:47"It's usually in the big hall."
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1:47 - 1:49And that's when it dawned on me:
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1:49 - 1:52This kid had only ever experienced disabled people
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1:52 - 1:56as objects of inspiration.
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1:56 - 1:58We are not, to this kid --
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1:58 - 1:59and it's not his fault, I mean,
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1:59 - 2:01that's true for many of us.
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2:01 - 2:04For lots of us, disabled people are not our teachers
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2:04 - 2:07or our doctors or our manicurists.
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2:07 - 2:13We're not real people. We are there to inspire.
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2:13 - 2:16And in fact, I am sitting on this stage
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2:16 - 2:19looking like I do in this wheelchair,
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2:19 - 2:22and you are probably kind of expecting me
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2:22 - 2:27to inspire you. Right? (Laughter)
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2:27 - 2:30Yeah.
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2:30 - 2:32Well, ladies and gentlemen, I'm afraid
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2:32 - 2:35I'm going to disappoint you dramatically.
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2:35 - 2:37I am not here to inspire you.
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2:37 - 2:40I am here to tell you that we have been lied to
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2:40 - 2:42about disability.
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2:42 - 2:44Yeah, we've been sold the lie
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2:44 - 2:49that disability is a Bad Thing, capital B, capital T.
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2:49 - 2:52It's a bad thing, and to live with a disability
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2:52 - 2:54makes you exceptional.
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2:54 - 2:57It's not a bad thing, and it doesn't
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2:57 - 3:00make you exceptional.
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3:00 - 3:01And in the past few years, we've been able
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3:01 - 3:04to propagate this lie even further
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3:04 - 3:06via social media.
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3:06 - 3:08You may have seen images like this one:
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3:08 - 3:12"The only disability in life is a bad attitude."
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3:13 - 3:17Or this one: "Your excuse is invalid." Indeed.
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3:17 - 3:24Or this one: "Before you quit, try!"
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3:24 - 3:25These are just a couple of examples,
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3:25 - 3:27but there are a lot of these images out there.
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3:27 - 3:29You know, you might have seen the one,
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3:29 - 3:31the little girl with no hands
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3:31 - 3:34drawing a picture with a pencil held in her mouth.
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3:34 - 3:36You might have seen a child running
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3:36 - 3:39on carbon fiber prosthetic legs.
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3:39 - 3:40And these images,
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3:40 - 3:42there are lots of them out there,
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3:42 - 3:46they are what we call inspiration porn.
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3:46 - 3:48(Laughter)
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3:48 - 3:50And I use the term porn deliberately,
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3:50 - 3:53because they objectify one group of people
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3:53 - 3:56for the benefit of another group of people.
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3:56 - 3:59So in this case, we're objectifying disabled people
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3:59 - 4:02for the benefit of nondisabled people.
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4:02 - 4:04The purpose of these images
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4:04 - 4:08is to inspire you, to motivate you,
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4:08 - 4:10so that we can look at them
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4:10 - 4:13and think, "Well, however bad my life is,
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4:13 - 4:15it could be worse.
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4:15 - 4:18I could be that person."
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4:18 - 4:22But what if you are that person?
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4:22 - 4:24I've lost count of the number of times that I've
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4:24 - 4:26been approached by strangers
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4:26 - 4:29wanting to tell me that they think I'm brave
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4:29 - 4:31or inspirational,
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4:31 - 4:33and this was long before my work
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4:33 - 4:35had any kind of public profile.
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4:35 - 4:36They were just kind of congratulating me
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4:36 - 4:38for managing to get up in the morning
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4:38 - 4:42and remember my own name. (Laughter)
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4:42 - 4:45And it is objectifying.
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4:45 - 4:47These images, those images
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4:47 - 4:49objectify disabled people
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4:49 - 4:51for the benefit of nondisabled people.
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4:51 - 4:54They are there so that you can look at them
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4:54 - 4:57and think that things aren't so bad for you,
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4:57 - 5:01to put your worries into perspective.
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5:01 - 5:04And life as a disabled person
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5:04 - 5:06is actually somewhat difficult.
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5:06 - 5:08We do overcome some things.
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5:08 - 5:10But the things that we're overcoming
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5:10 - 5:13are not the things that you think they are.
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5:13 - 5:16They are not things to do with our bodies.
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5:16 - 5:18I use the term "disabled people" quite deliberately,
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5:18 - 5:22because I subscribe to what's called
the social model of disability, -
5:22 - 5:24which tells us that we are more disabled
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5:24 - 5:28by the society that we live in
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5:28 - 5:31than by our bodies and our diagnoses.
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5:31 - 5:35So I have lived in this body a long time.
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5:35 - 5:37I'm quite fond of it.
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5:37 - 5:40It does the things that I need it to do,
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5:40 - 5:44and I've learned to use it to the best of its capacity
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5:44 - 5:45just as you have,
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5:45 - 5:48and that's the thing about those
kids in those pictures as well. -
5:48 - 5:51They're not doing anything out of the ordinary.
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5:51 - 5:53They are just using their bodies
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5:53 - 5:56to the best of their capacity.
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5:56 - 5:59So is it really fair to objectify them
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5:59 - 6:01in the way that we do,
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6:01 - 6:03to share those images?
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6:03 - 6:08People, when they say, "You're an inspiration,"
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6:08 - 6:11they mean it as a compliment.
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6:11 - 6:12And I know why it happens.
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6:12 - 6:15It's because of the lie, it's because we've been sold
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6:15 - 6:19this lie that disability makes you exceptional.
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6:19 - 6:21And it honestly doesn't.
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6:21 - 6:22And I know what you're thinking.
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6:22 - 6:25You know, I'm up here bagging out inspiration,
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6:25 - 6:27and you're thinking, "Jeez, Stella,
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6:27 - 6:31aren't you inspired sometimes by some things?"
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6:31 - 6:33And the thing is, I am.
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6:33 - 6:36I learn from other disabled people all the time.
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6:36 - 6:41I'm learning not that I am luckier than them, though.
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6:41 - 6:44I am learning that it's a genius idea
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6:44 - 6:45to use a pair of barbecue tongs
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6:45 - 6:51to pick up things that you dropped. (Laughter)
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6:51 - 6:54I'm learning that nifty trick where you can charge
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6:54 - 6:58your mobile phone battery from your chair battery.
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6:58 - 6:59Genius.
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6:59 - 7:02We are learning from each
others' strength and endurance, -
7:02 - 7:05not against our bodies and our diagnoses,
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7:05 - 7:08but against a world that exceptionalizes
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7:08 - 7:10and objectifies us.
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7:10 - 7:13I really think that this lie that we've been sold
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7:13 - 7:17about disability is the greatest injustice.
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7:17 - 7:21It makes life hard for us.
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7:21 - 7:25And that quote, "The only disability in life
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7:25 - 7:27is a bad attitude,"
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7:27 - 7:30the reason that that's bullshit
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7:30 - 7:32is because it's just not true,
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7:32 - 7:34because of the social model of disability.
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7:34 - 7:38No amount of smiling at a flight of stairs
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7:38 - 7:43has ever made it turn into a ramp.
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7:43 - 7:50Never. (Laughter) (Applause)
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7:50 - 7:52Smiling at a television screen
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7:52 - 7:54isn't going to make closed captions appear
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7:54 - 7:55for people who are deaf.
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7:55 - 7:58No amount of standing
in the middle of a bookshop -
7:58 - 8:00and radiating a positive attitude
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8:00 - 8:02is going to turn all those books into braille.
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8:02 - 8:07It's just not going to happen.
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8:07 - 8:09I really want to live in a world
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8:09 - 8:13where disability is not the exception, but the norm.
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8:13 - 8:15I want to live in a world where a 15-year-old girl
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8:15 - 8:17sitting in her bedroom
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8:17 - 8:19watching "Buffy the Vampire Slayer"
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8:19 - 8:22isn't referred to as achieving anything
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8:22 - 8:24because she's doing it sitting down.
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8:24 - 8:25I want to live in a world
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8:25 - 8:28where we don't have such low expectations
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8:28 - 8:30of disabled people
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8:30 - 8:32that we are congratulated for getting out of bed
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8:32 - 8:35and remembering our own names in the morning.
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8:35 - 8:38I want to live in a world where
we value genuine achievement -
8:38 - 8:40for disabled people,
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8:40 - 8:42and I want to live in a world
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8:42 - 8:45where a kid in year 11 in a Melbourne high school
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8:45 - 8:48is not one bit surprised
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8:48 - 8:51that his new teacher is a wheelchair user.
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8:51 - 8:54Disability doesn't make you exceptional,
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8:54 - 8:57but questioning what you
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8:57 - 8:59Thank you.
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8:59 - 8:59(Applause)
- Title:
- I'm not your inspiration, thank you very much
- Speaker:
- Stella Young
- Description:
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Stella Young is a comedian and journalist who happens to go about her day in a wheelchair — a fact that doesn’t, she’d like to make clear, automatically turn her into a noble inspiration to all humanity. In this very funny talk, Young breaks down society's habit of turning disabled people into “inspiration porn.”
- Video Language:
- English
- Team:
- closed TED
- Project:
- TEDTalks
- Duration:
- 09:16
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