RSA Shorts - The Power of Empathy
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0:03 - 0:06(bright orchestral music)
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0:10 - 0:11- [Brene] So what is empathy
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0:11 - 0:15and why is it very
different than sympathy? -
0:15 - 0:18Empathy fuels connection,
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0:18 - 0:21sympathy drives disconnection.
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0:21 - 0:22Empathy, it's very interesting.
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0:22 - 0:24Theresa Wiseman is a nursing scholar
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0:24 - 0:28who studied professions,
very diverse professions -
0:28 - 0:30where empathy is relevant,
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0:30 - 0:32and came up with four
qualities of empathy. -
0:32 - 0:33Perspective taking,
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0:33 - 0:36the ability to take the
perspective of another person -
0:36 - 0:39or recognize their
perspective is their truth. -
0:39 - 0:40Staying out of judgment,
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0:40 - 0:44not easy when you enjoy it
as much as most of us do. -
0:44 - 0:46Recognizing emotion in other people,
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0:46 - 0:48and then communicating that.
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0:48 - 0:51Empathy is feeling with people.
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0:52 - 0:54And to me, I always think of empathy
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0:54 - 0:56as this kind of sacred space,
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0:56 - 0:58when someone's kind of in a deep hole
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0:58 - 1:01and they shout out from
the bottom and they say, -
1:01 - 1:04"I'm stuck, it's dark, I'm overwhelmed."
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1:04 - 1:07And then we look and we say, "Hey."
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1:07 - 1:09We climb down.
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1:09 - 1:11"I know what it's like down here,
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1:11 - 1:12"and you're not alone."
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1:12 - 1:16Sympathy is, "Ooh, it's bad, uh-huh."
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1:17 - 1:20(audience laughing)
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1:20 - 1:22"Uh no, you want a sandwich?"
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1:25 - 1:27Empathy is a choice and
it's a vulnerable choice, -
1:27 - 1:30because in order to connect with you
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1:30 - 1:32I have to connect with something in myself
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1:32 - 1:35that knows that feeling.
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1:35 - 1:37Rarely, if ever, does an empathic response
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1:37 - 1:39begin with at least.
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1:41 - 1:44Yeah, and we do it all the time.
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1:44 - 1:45Because you know what?
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1:45 - 1:47Someone just shared something with us
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1:47 - 1:49that's incredibly painful,
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1:49 - 1:51and we're trying to silver lining it.
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1:51 - 1:55I don't think that's a verb,
but I'm using it as one. -
1:55 - 1:57We're trying to put the
silver lining around it. -
1:57 - 1:59"So I had a miscarriage."
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1:59 - 2:01"Oh, at least you know
you can get pregnant." -
2:01 - 2:03"I think my marriage is falling apart."
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2:03 - 2:06"At least you have a marriage."
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2:06 - 2:09(audience chuckling)
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2:09 - 2:11"John's getting kicked out of school."
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2:11 - 2:14"At least Sarah is an A student."
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2:14 - 2:16But one of the things we do sometimes
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2:16 - 2:20in the face of very
difficult conversations -
2:20 - 2:22is we try to make things better.
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2:22 - 2:25If I share something with
you that's very difficult, -
2:25 - 2:26I'd rather you say,
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2:26 - 2:29"I don't even know what to say right now.
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2:29 - 2:31"I'm just so glad you told me."
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2:31 - 2:34Because the truth is rarely can a response
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2:34 - 2:36make something better.
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2:36 - 2:40What makes something better is connection.
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2:46 - 2:49(bright orchestral music)
- Title:
- RSA Shorts - The Power of Empathy
- Description:
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(Subtitle Note: The audio seems to be taken from an event that Dr Brené Brown has spoken at, which is why there is crowd laughter.)
What is the best way to ease someone's pain and suffering? In this beautifully animated RSA Short, Dr Brené Brown reminds us that we can only create a genuine empathic connection if we are brave enough to really get in touch with our own fragilities.
Voice: Dr Brené Brown
Animation: Katy Davis (AKA Gobblynne) www.gobblynne.comWatch Dr Brené Brown's full talk 'The Power of Vulnerability' here:
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- Duration:
- 02:54
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