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Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.46,0:00:11.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[Hassan Ilyas] I begin in the name \Nof Allah, most gracious, forever merciful.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.39,0:00:12.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Peace be upon you.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.69,0:00:15.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you go to the internet,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.54,0:00:19.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and see the questions of people\Non different religious websites,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.86,0:00:22.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as we ourselves experience\Nthis day in and day out,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.99,0:00:28.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because people approach us for religious \Nguidance in various matters,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.28,0:00:34.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then most of those issues and questions\Nare related to family and marital affairs.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.45,0:00:39.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Issues like a husband who has \Ndivorced his wife in anger,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.18,0:00:44.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a dispute between husband and wife on \Nwhether or not the wife can have a job?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.12,0:00:49.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or a question like, should husband and\Nwife live in a joint family with parents,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.37,0:00:51.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since the wife is demanding \Nfor a separate living?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:51.56,0:00:56.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or disagreements that have arisen \Nover the birth of children.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.23,0:01:00.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or the issue that a husband wants to go \Nabroad to study but the wife doesn't
Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.18,0:01:02.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,want to leave her parents\Nin their home country.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:02.52,0:01:08.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are dozens of such issues of the \Nyoung Muslim married couples
Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.36,0:01:11.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are received day and night.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.21,0:01:15.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And these are the issues and\Ndisputes, because of which
Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.25,0:01:20.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the institution of a family is ultimately\Nled to ruin and destruction.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.67,0:01:25.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I usually interact with young people,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.36,0:01:29.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I directly hear and \Nunderstand these issues,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.29,0:01:34.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so during this time period, \Nan idea developed in my mind.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.48,0:01:40.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I think that if that idea is \Nfurther scrutinized and reformed,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.94,0:01:45.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then perhaps that could lead to\Nsome improvement in the future.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.38,0:01:53.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that idea is that when a Muslim \Nman and woman wants to get married,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:53.27,0:01:55.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then at the time of a marriage, \Nthere happens to be a
Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.86,0:01:57.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,marriage certificate which you sign.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.74,0:02:02.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even though a box happens to be drawn\Non that marriage certificate so that
Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.46,0:02:08.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any conditions, or obligations or any \Ncompulsory duties that you want to set,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.17,0:02:10.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,could be written in that box.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.14,0:02:14.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But in our culture, that box is cut out\Nwith slanting lines because it is thought
Dialogue: 0,0:02:14.68,0:02:19.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that if you demand something on\Nthat occasion, then it is seen as
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.08,0:02:23.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an attempt to create a kind of rift at the\Nvery beginning of a relationship.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.13,0:02:29.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In my opinion, this is a very \Nwrong attitude and tradition.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.20,0:02:31.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This tradition should be revived.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.96,0:02:34.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And even if this revision may not happen\Nin the marriage certificate,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.72,0:02:37.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as that has now become a cultural\Nidentity and a cultural status,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.99,0:02:44.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but every man and woman should\Ntogether sign a mutual agreement.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.53,0:02:48.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is, before marriage, there \Nshould be an agreement,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.29,0:02:52.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which could be a legal document in which\Nyou make some people as witnesses,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.43,0:02:56.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but that agreement should be signed\Nbetween a boy and a girl.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:56.79,0:03:01.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are some basic things in that\Nagreement that need to be agreed upon.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.83,0:03:06.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For example, a husband should write \Nin the agreement that if he ever, having
Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.27,0:03:12.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,been overcome by an emotional state or \Nas a reaction, or if under any depression,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.79,0:03:17.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,says the word "divorce" to his wife, then\Nthat must not be considered as divorce,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.18,0:03:24.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,until he consciously divorces his wife in \Na written format and by making the
Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.83,0:03:27.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,family members from both \Nthe sides as witnesses.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.36,0:03:30.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is, in our culture, you know that the\Nword 'divorce'
Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.97,0:03:32.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a placeholder for using expletives.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.90,0:03:37.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When a man gets angry, he even utters the\Nword "Divorce" along with the verbal abuse
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.67,0:03:41.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then he would regret and say, "No, I \Ndidn't mean to divorce my wife,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:41.41,0:03:44.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just said that in anger, in order \Nto teach her a lesson that
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.74,0:03:46.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can divorce her as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.38,0:03:50.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So for God's sake, nullify my divorce as \NI don't want to divorce my wife."
Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.93,0:03:54.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that's why it is important that \Na man should first clarify this that
Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.93,0:04:01.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if he ever uttered this nonsensical word\Nto his wife, then his saying and statement
Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.70,0:04:05.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that his divorce should not be \Nconsidered until he divorces his wife
Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.23,0:04:07.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in normal circumstances and \Nin a normal state of mind,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.93,0:04:11.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by making his wife's parents and his own \Nparents as witnesses to his divorce.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.95,0:04:14.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So till then every utterance of divorce \Nfrom him should be null and void.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.84,0:04:16.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This kind of an agreement should be\Nthere.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.74,0:04:22.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when someone in anger or as a \Nreactionary response utters this word,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.72,0:04:27.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then he should retreat from this, rather\Nthis should be written in that agreement
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.55,0:04:32.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that if one ever did such a mistake, \Nthen one would pay the fine for it.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.70,0:04:35.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It should also be written in the agreement\Nthat one is making it incumbent upon
Dialogue: 0,0:04:35.100,0:04:39.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,oneself and promising it that one will \Neither fast for these many days
Dialogue: 0,0:04:39.35,0:04:43.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or will pay this much of ransom \Nor will pay the fine to one's wife,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.98,0:04:45.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if one utters such a word.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.37,0:04:52.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see, if this is imposed then the man\Nwill have this in mind that it's of no use
Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.26,0:04:56.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to utter the word "divorce" in place \Nof some verbal abuse in anger and
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.80,0:04:58.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the contrary, it will be harmful.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.57,0:05:02.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And thus, because of it, that immediate \Nreaction which shatter families,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.57,0:05:06.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will come to an end and it will also \Nbecome the means to save such families.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.40,0:05:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Likewise, the issue of where will \Nthe wife live after the marriage
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.00,0:05:13.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,should also be decided.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.75,0:05:17.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This should be decided before the\Nmarriage not after the marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.69,0:05:21.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's because you already \Nknow things like your income,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.21,0:05:25.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the condition of your parents, whether \Nthey are old, alone or helpless.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.78,0:05:27.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or are you the only person \Nto support them?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.62,0:05:30.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If yes, then tell this to your\Nspouse before marriage,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:30.37,0:05:34.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,write it in that agreement that\Nyou will be living in a joint family.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.59,0:05:37.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, as far as this issue is concerned\Nthat conditions don't remain the same,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.95,0:05:39.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then such exceptions are everywhere.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:39.89,0:05:45.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it should be clear what the overall \Norientation before the marriage was.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.60,0:05:49.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is fine if you may have had separate\Nliving quarters before marriage,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.00,0:05:50.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but if the situation arises such that
Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.31,0:05:51.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you have to make your wife \Nto live with her in-laws,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.86,0:05:54.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then at that time, you will talk to her, \Nconvince her by saying,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.71,0:05:57.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Alright, I had made an agreement\Nwith you to live separately,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.02,0:05:59.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so now I am leaving this thing to your\Ndiscretion, if you want to support me,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.31,0:06:00.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then that's a great thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.81,0:06:03.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This should also be written\Nin that agreement.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.02,0:06:06.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It should be decided in advance that \Nwhether the wife will live with you
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.48,0:06:09.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,independently or with her in-laws.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.31,0:06:13.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Similarly, the third thing is that it \Nshould also be decided that
Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.40,0:06:19.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they both will plan for the birth\Nof a child with mutual consent,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.75,0:06:23.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the life orientation of both \Nof them for that should be clear.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:23.10,0:06:26.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does the boy immediately wants a child?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.07,0:06:27.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If yes, then let him clear \Nthis before marriage
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.83,0:06:30.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that he wants a child as soon as possible.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.76,0:06:36.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if the girl wants to say that \N"No, I am not mentally ready for it yet,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.59,0:06:39.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as I want to enjoy life and to \Nexperience the situation for now.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.81,0:06:41.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will plan for it in near future",
Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.54,0:06:43.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then let her express her wish\Nbefore the marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.94,0:06:45.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if you don't do this,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.80,0:06:49.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then this conflict will take place in \Na few days after the marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.55,0:06:53.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your in-laws will start expressing their \Nwish for the birth of their grandchild,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.20,0:06:55.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to fulfill their desire\Nto play with the baby.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.14,0:06:58.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you on the other hand, will have \Nquarrels at the beginning
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.18,0:07:01.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of your marriage and life will become\Ncomplicated and troublesome.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.73,0:07:05.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this must be decided in advance.\NSimilarly, a man and woman should
Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.16,0:07:09.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also decide what their overall educational\Nand social background is?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.89,0:07:13.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have they moved forward since childhood \Nwith this passion to make a name for
Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.59,0:07:16.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,themselves in some field, \Nto move forward and to work?
Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.17,0:07:19.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For example, a woman worked hard right \Nfrom her childhood and then got an
Dialogue: 0,0:07:19.71,0:07:23.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,admission in a medical college on merit\Nand finally became a doctor.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.74,0:07:26.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And now that she is married, her husband\Nis not allowing her to do her job.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.91,0:07:30.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this must be decided in advance because\None is educated before the marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.16,0:07:34.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it must be written in advance that \N"I am a doctor and I want to do my job,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.28,0:07:37.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and there can arise this and this\Ncomplication because of my job,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.37,0:07:41.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I am only marrying on the condition\Nthat you'll adjust or manage this thing."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.94,0:07:45.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So these are few things that \NI have mentioned very briefly.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.07,0:07:49.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So everyone depending on their \Ncircumstances, their background,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.34,0:07:58.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and their economic condition, can mutually\Nshare such conditions with their spouse.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.65,0:08:03.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the thing is that words are left in \Nthe air. Only the written words matter.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.43,0:08:08.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The guidance from Allah in this regard is\Nalso to write down such things in order.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.88,0:08:13.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is because when the conflict arises,\Nat that time, things like understanding,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.27,0:08:16.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mutual respect, etc. become \Nmeaningless. They don't work.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.12,0:08:18.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On such occasions, it is a written \Ndocument that works.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.06,0:08:20.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I will advice this thing \Nparticularly to women,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.55,0:08:23.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because a man still has a privilege\Nto marry to a second wife.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.96,0:08:27.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if the woman has delivered a child,\Nand if a conflict arose after that,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.83,0:08:29.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then where will she go?
Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.58,0:08:33.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hence, she must have the privilege to draw\Nher husband's attention to the agreement
Dialogue: 0,0:08:33.73,0:08:35.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they had agreed upon.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.33,0:08:37.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And as far as the issue of divorce goes,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.29,0:08:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then that should be declared \Nas null and void by men.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.20,0:08:43.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is, the divorce from a man \Nshould not be considered,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.88,0:08:45.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if he keeps uttering \Nthis word everyday.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.48,0:08:47.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if he says it in anger or in a state\Nof intoxication or when overcome,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.79,0:08:50.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or as a reactionary response\Nor in any depression,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.23,0:08:54.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then no divorce will take place,\Nuntil he makes his wife's father,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.73,0:08:59.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and his own father as witnesses to \Nhis saying that he is divorcing her.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.55,0:09:06.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We all know this that a familial life is\Nformed by living with friendship, love,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:06.08,0:09:10.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,affection, trust, loving relationships\Nand by supporting each other.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.88,0:09:15.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is also a given fact that life comes \Nwith situations of ups and downs.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.21,0:09:21.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the marriage is not any business \Ndeal whose pros and cons,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.45,0:09:24.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and nitty-gritty you will decide.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.31,0:09:27.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,However, you should have clarity \Nregarding those basic issues,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.28,0:09:31.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that may arise the next day\Nafter the marriage.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:31.66,0:09:35.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And let me say that if there happened to \Nbe this clarity of issues between couples,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:35.20,0:09:38.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then you will resolve those disputes\Nand conflicts which may arise,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.38,0:09:44.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in this light and this spirit, saying that\Nwe are not for creating conflicts,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.13,0:09:45.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rather we are for resolving conflicts.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:45.94,0:09:49.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I will advocate for having a proforma\Nor a document to be signed by
Dialogue: 0,0:09:49.94,0:09:55.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,every Muslim boy and Muslim girl\Nbefore getting married,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.51,0:09:57.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to make witnesses\Non it and say that,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:57.60,0:10:03.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"We are deciding this thing by consensus\Nin such and such matter,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:03.09,0:10:05.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if there is ever any \Ndisagreement in them,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.38,0:10:09.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then we will revise this document again\Nunder the guidance of these same elders.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.43,0:10:11.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For example, if the situation \Nof the boy worsened,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.85,0:10:13.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if he needed to shift \Nto his parent's home,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.26,0:10:15.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then he should make a request to \Nhis wife, he should talk to her.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.23,0:10:17.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He should not intimidate her, \Nor threaten her of the divorce,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:17.56,0:10:20.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and say that "I had agreed on these terms\Nin those circumstances, so then come on,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.50,0:10:23.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we will be with parents and will revise\Nthe document by your permission,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:23.70,0:10:25.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,otherwise I have no \Nother option left."
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.70,0:10:30.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this is the thing due to which I think\Nbig conflicts can be reduced.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:30.78,0:10:34.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Aqoolu qawli haaza wa astagfirullah li wa\Nlakum walisairil muslimin."