WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.124 Hi, welcome to watch this episode of Sinology 00:00:03.145 --> 00:00:32.600 Eating is an important way of socializing for Chinese people 00:00:32.600 --> 00:00:36.510 After retirement, there are three kinds of gatherings that cannot be attended 00:00:36.552 --> 00:01:21.301 Meetups with people you don’t often contact. It’s a waste of time, and these people won’t help you 00:01:21.311 --> 00:01:35.878 Someone hopes to find helpers in the party. 00:01:35.878 --> 00:01:42.868 When you ask for help, you will appear to have no dignity, you will not be able to help others, and you will get into trouble 00:01:42.918 --> 00:02:05.498 People in different social circles. You don’t have a common topic, it will be embarrassing to be idle 00:02:05.518 --> 00:02:07.918 What kind of party have you attended?