How to Use an Orgasm to Manifest

Hello there.

The sexual response cycle,

is divided into four distinct phases;

excitement, plateau, orgasm 
and resolution.

There is no distinct beginning or end

to any part of this cycle.

It's more, one continuous 
cycle of sexual response.

but today, I'm going to be 
talking to you about orgasm.

They are many ways which 
we can achieve orgasm.

We can achieve it mentally,

we can achieve it through 
breathing techniques,

we can achieve it through modalities

that have nothing to do

with sex itself or masturbation.

but most of the orgasming that
I'm going to be talking about today,

have to do with sex or masturbation,

because that is where we are,

most of us, in human conciseness, 
at this point in time.

Orgasm also called sexual climax,

is the sudden release of 
accumulated sexual energy.

As far as the body is concerned,
the orgasm is controlled by

the autonomic nervous system.

The same part of the nervous system,
controls your heart rate, breathing,

perspiration and digestion.

When men orgasm,

first the seminal fluid collects 
in the urethral bulb.

This is when a man may
have the sensation

that orgasm and ejaculation is certain.

Next, semen is ejaculated 
from the penis,

contractions occur in the 
penis and the pelvic region.

When women orgasm,

the vaginal walls contract rhythmically 
every eight tenth of a second.

Of course, the number and 
intensity of the contractions,

vary depending on 
the individual orgasm.

The muscles of the 
uterus, also contract.

When both people orgasm,

breathing, pulse rate and blood 
pressure continue to rise.

Muscle tension and blood vessel
engorgement reach a peak.

Sometimes orgasm comes 
with a grasping type

of muscular reflex of 
the hands and feet.

The orgasm activates the 
pleasure center of the brain,

releasing endorphins.

it also causes our minds to 
temporarily lose control.

In fact, one study from a 
university in the Netherlands

found that when men and 
women reach orgasm,

the lateral orbitofrontal cortex

temporarily shuts down.

This is the region of the brain that 
is responsible for behavior control.

We're essentially in a deep state 
of surrender to the experience.

During orgasm, our brains 
are flooded with Oxycontin

which is the powerful 
brain chemical

that inspires feelings of intimacy,

known as "The Hormone",

oxytocin makes you feel 
connected to your partner,

it bonds you to each other.

Orgasms, especially the really good ones,

can sometimes consume the entire body.

Not limiting themselves 
to the pelvic region.

As far as your health is concerned,

orgasms lead to feelings 
of euphoria and pleasure,

which reduces stress, depression

and anxiety levels.

It boosts the immune system.

For those of you who like the effect 
that exercise has in the body,

orgasm burns calories,

it promotes relaxation 
and release of tension,

which helps you sleep better,

it increases circulation in the body

and also the brain,

leading to an increased 
mental sharpness,

it helps alleviate pain,

it helps cells in the body regenerate,

and it inhibits the ageing process.

All this physiological responses 
which I've just mentioned,

are of course, just the 
physical reflection

of something that's taking place

on a more comprehensive 
energetic level.

On energetic level,

when you're engaging in sex,

and you're reaching 
the point of orgasm,

the entire body reaches 
a state of receptivity.

Not only that, the energy within the body

starts flowing faster.

It is as if you were to break 
open the floodgates

and all the channels of energy 
running throughout your body,

the meridians and the chakras,

were fully open to the unrestricted 
flow of source energy

through your body.

alignment is occurring between the
vibration of your physical perspective,

and the vibration of your 
non-physical perspective.

And thus you experience a blending
between the physical aspects of you,

and the non-physical aspects of you.

During orgasm, your awareness
of your own identity,

or own ego as they call it,

is dissolved.

For this very reason, sex and orgasms,

specifically has been used
in spiritual practice,

to attain enlightenment.

It enables you to touch what is infinite.

It enables the physical to 
access the non-physical.

the best example of this that
we have today, of course,

is the practices of Tantra.

Whereby people use sex as a 
doorway to enlightenment.

There are two main types of orgasm.

The first is explosive, 
the second is implosive.

Now you can't get experts

to agree on which is more healthy.

Some people say that 
explosive orgasm is healthy,

because instead of building up 
pressure it releases pressure.

Other people say that implosive,
is restorative and healing

whereas explosive depletes you of energy.

My stance on the subject is,

both explosive and implosive
orgasms can be healthy,

and both can be unhealthy,

depending on how you use them.

In an explosive orgasm, the 
energy moves out of the body

like it does during an explosion.

In an implosive orgasm, 
the energy moves inwards,

so that it is retained 
within the body.

An explosive orgasm is the best kind 
of orgasm to use for manifestation.

It also creates the greatest release,

and therefore decreases 
stress levels the best.

but it can cause you to feel depleted,

and is also a shallower form of orgasm.

The explosive orgasm is the 
one most natural to men.

An implosive orgasm is the best 
is the best kind of orgasm to use

for healing or unity work.

It pulls the partner's energy into you.

It is restorative because it 
nourishes the body and soul

and increases your energy levels.

Instead of exploding 
outwards from you,

it expands you from within.

The implosive orgasm is the 
one most natural to women.

But it can boost energy levels 
to an uncomfortable degree

and allows people 
who are contained

and who fear extending 
themselves towards others

in any way, to stay that way.

Of course the ideal scenario,

is to be able to decide or choose

when you will have one orgasm,

or when you have the other orgasm,

so that you can choose the 
orgasm which most corresponds

to your current desires or needs.

Everybody is like a unique instrument.

The time it takes and the 
stimulation it takes

to achieve orgasm, is going to 
vary from person to person.

And the only way to learn to play 
an instrument with no manual,

is to experiment.

I could do a video, just on the 
subject, of why some people,

most especially women,
cannot achieve orgasm.

But for the sake of this video,

I will tell you that is 
has very little to do

with the orgasm itself,

and more to do with the fact

the people have such a difficult
relationship with their bodies,

And such a difficult relationship 
with intimacy itself.

It is true that for many

of us our craving for orgasm

is the craving for relief.

Relief in the form of release.

This craving for release 
and for relief,

is what is behind the 
addiction to pornography.

But ultimately, on a higher level,

the progression towards orgasm,

and the craving for orgasm,

is the progression towards,
and craving for oneness.

Just like love is the movement 
towards oneness,

to love someone is to 
include them as you.

To orgasm with someone 
as a byproduct of love,

is to become conscious of the
experience of being one.

It is to move beyond 
the physical world,

which separates us 
from one another.

So you see, orgasim, in and of itself,

units us with our infinite 
multidimensional soul.

We find alignment between the 
physical and non physical self.

And orgasm with a partner 
we feel love for,

unites us, not only with 
our own non physical self,

but also with them.

It is therefore an amplified 
experience of oneness.

Love that is added to sex,

is no longer sex.

Instead it is a bridge 
to the great beyond.

When you experience orgaism 
as a result of a divine union

with someone else,

you will experience infinity,

you will experience unity,

you will experience oneness.

Which is why this particular video

has to come with a warning.

Until you learn how to 
give and receive love

on a ongoing basis in 
your day to day life,

something will occur or after sex,

which is highly unwanted.

What will happen is you will
settle back into the experience

of being completely separate.

You will never feel more alone

than you do after the act of sex.

You have experienced 
touching source energy,

and being in a state of oneness,

only to e thrust back

in the state of singularity,

of loneliness, of separation.

And so a great depression,
a great let down,

a great anxiety might occur.

Orgasm involves the total self

(mind, body and soul) all together.

You're no longer in control.

Existence of self has taken
possession of you

and you do not 
know who you are.

This is momentary enlightenment.

It is a mini death, so that you 
can experience being fully alive.

Human life on earth,

is ultimately the bi-product of orgasm.

Orgasm and conception,
go hand in hand.

The question question is: 
"What are you conceiving?"

For those of you who 
practice manifestation,

the act of orgasm

can be one of the most amazing 
tools for manifestation.

Nothing matters more,

than what you are focusing on

and feeling the experience of,

in the moment of orgasm.

What you focus on, especially 
on a feeling based level,

is what you will conceive 
in your reality.

Here's what I mean;

if I'm having sex with my partner,

and focusing at him 
with my eyes,

and am getting close to orgasming,

while simultaneously thinking or feeling

the sensation of being 
insecure about my body,

then I will begin to hyper 
manifest scenarios in my reality,

where I'm caused to feel 
insecurity about my body.

Another example is,

if I'm orgasming and thinking 
about bondage type fantasies

where I'm being dominated,

I will begin to hyper manifest 
scenarios in my reality,

where I'm being dominated.

And whereas I might have 
an emotional attachment

or some kind of a 
psychological attachment

to the sexuality of
being dominated

when I am engaged 
in a sexual action,

in my day to day life,

being dominated, might 
not feel so good.

This is a crucial realisation,

because we live in an era 
where our sexual practices

are becoming increasingly deviant.

When our sexual and 
orgasmic practices

become more deviant so 
does our collective reality.

There's a conny way to visualize 
what's occurring during an orgasm.

Think back to the old kids 
movies you used to watch.

The fairy wizard would 
focus really hard,

repeating an incantation

with the wave of their wand 
and in a huge energetic release.

The thing they were trying to conjure
would manifest before their eyes,

usually in a cloud of sparkling smoke.

In the minute of organism, the
accumulated energy that has built up

is released, and you can aim

and lend that powerful 
burst of energy,

towards what you desire.

Thus manifesting it into reality.

It is best that if you can, 
during the orgasm,

and also during the 
build up to the orgasm,

focus this on emotionally and mentally

experiencing the very thing
which you wish to manifest,

we can use sex to manifest
loving relationships

or deepen the bond 
with our specific partner,

by focusing emotionally and mentally
on the sensation of bonding with them.

And unification and 
harmony with them.

we can also use sex and masturbation

to manifest things that are 
entirely unrelated to sex.

For example, some people 
like to use orgasm

as a tool for a career advancement.

When it comes to sex,
we are habitual creatures.

That means, that when 
you do something

which turns you on enough to climax,

you now forever build a 
neural circuit in your brain,

which tells you that that is 
going to be your motist operadie

for achieving climax.

For this reason, until you develop 
your sexual abilities more,

you might choose to use the
excitement and the plateau phase

of the sexual response cycle,

to focus on what 
already turns you on,

and then, when orgasm feels eminent,

switch your focus to whatever 
it is that you wish to manifest.

For example, a man may 
have a difficult time

with the idea of getting 
sexually aroused

by the idea of promotion.

But job promotion is what he most 
wants to manifest in his life.

But he does know that
what turns him on

is watching a man and 
a woman have sex.

So, in his mind, 
he creates a scenario

where he is observing a man 
and a woman having sex,

and he feels himself 
becoming sexually excited.

He reaches the excitement 
and the plateau phase

of the sexual response cycle.

Then, when he feels as if 
ejaculation or orgasm is eminent,

he switches his focus to the 
experience of the job promotion.

He allows the feeling of the climax,

to amplify the sensations 
of achievement, and glory,

and relief, and pride of promotion.

He allows the feeling of the
climax to enhance and focus

the image of his mind, of
the people that are there,

and the way the room 
looks and smells...

He will use his orgasm to make 
the scenario as real as possible

on all levels,

as if he is living it, 
at that very moment.

And he will hold onto it,

as his mental and emotional focus,

as long as he possibly can.

Completely through the resolution phase.

And if he drifts off to sleep,

he has then added the state of allowing

to the art of manifestation,

and thus, amplified it further.

Another example is,

a woman might be acutely 
aware of her extreme desire

for a long term committed relationship,

with a man who wants her completely.

If she is having sex with somebody,

and she doesn't know 
if that particular man

is going to feel that 
way about her,

she focuses on the feeling of his energy

coming all the way into her body,

reaching into her heart area.

Now instead of focusing on
things like, the ceiling fan,

or weather she left the 
gas on the stove on,

or whether her legs are shaved,

she puts herself completely in a space,

of visualizing, what it would 
feel like on an emotion level,

what it would look like,

for her to be in that committed 
long term relationship,

with someone who 
wanted her completely.

Maybe she's imagining 
herself getting married.

She is doing whatever she 
needs to do, to reach climax.

But most especially, during climax,

she is putting herself 
completely in the experience

of that thing she wants to manifest.

She sinks into the 
feeling of security,

of having his energy fully 
unconditionally invested in her.

Maybe she loses herself

in the feeling of the 
complete connection

with the man she is actually with.

Maybe she imagines scenario 
of getting married, in detail,

or walking hand and hand with 
somebody in the beach, in detail.

The most important thing is 
that in the moment or orgasm

she emotionally experiences the feeling

of emotional security, and 
love and being wanted,

that she wants to manifest.

She maintains that focus throughout 
the duration of the orgasm

and resolution phase.

Either, the man she is 
currently sleeping with

becomes this committed partner,

or the universe draws him away,

to make space for the 
man who's actually

a vibrational match to 
that level of commitment

that she has been asking for.

So go ahead and try this technique.

We are all energy.

We can use this energy 
that is in and of us,

to give shape, form and dimension

to our desires.

because of this, 
all is left to say is:

be conscious of what 
you're wishing for.

Have a good week

Subtitles by: Tanya Duarte
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