1 00:00:31,348 --> 00:00:37,149 How to Use an Orgasm to Manifest 2 00:00:38,109 --> 00:00:39,690 Hello there. 3 00:00:39,690 --> 00:00:41,390 The sexual response cycle, 4 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,040 is divided into four distinct phases; 5 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:48,680 excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. 6 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,040 There is no distinct beginning or end 7 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,560 to any part of this cycle. 8 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:56,460 It's more, one continuous cycle of sexual response. 9 00:00:56,460 --> 00:01:00,020 but today, I'm going to be talking to you about orgasm. 10 00:01:00,020 --> 00:01:02,690 They are many ways which we can achieve orgasm. 11 00:01:02,690 --> 00:01:04,910 We can achieve it mentally, 12 00:01:04,910 --> 00:01:07,600 we can achieve it through breathing techniques, 13 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,830 we can achieve it through modalities 14 00:01:09,830 --> 00:01:11,520 that have nothing to do 15 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,450 with sex itself or masturbation. 16 00:01:14,450 --> 00:01:17,880 but most of the orgasming that I'm going to be talking about today, 17 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,150 have to do with sex or masturbation, 18 00:01:20,150 --> 00:01:22,060 because that is where we are, 19 00:01:22,060 --> 00:01:25,690 most of us, in human conciseness, at this point in time. 20 00:01:25,690 --> 00:01:28,060 Orgasm also called sexual climax, 21 00:01:28,060 --> 00:01:31,070 is the sudden release of accumulated sexual energy. 22 00:01:31,070 --> 00:01:34,240 As far as the body is concerned, the orgasm is controlled by 23 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,050 the autonomic nervous system. 24 00:01:36,050 --> 00:01:39,900 The same part of the nervous system, controls your heart rate, breathing, 25 00:01:39,900 --> 00:01:43,010 perspiration and digestion. 26 00:01:43,300 --> 00:01:44,760 When men orgasm, 27 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,790 first the seminal fluid collects in the urethral bulb. 28 00:01:47,790 --> 00:01:50,000 This is when a man may have the sensation 29 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,630 that orgasm and ejaculation is certain. 30 00:01:52,630 --> 00:01:55,130 Next, semen is ejaculated from the penis, 31 00:01:55,130 --> 00:01:59,190 contractions occur in the penis and the pelvic region. 32 00:01:59,190 --> 00:02:01,260 When women orgasm, 33 00:02:01,260 --> 00:02:04,740 the vaginal walls contract rhythmically every eight tenth of a second. 34 00:02:04,740 --> 00:02:07,480 Of course, the number and intensity of the contractions, 35 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,630 vary depending on the individual orgasm. 36 00:02:09,630 --> 00:02:13,150 The muscles of the uterus, also contract. 37 00:02:13,750 --> 00:02:15,960 When both people orgasm, 38 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,675 breathing, pulse rate and blood pressure continue to rise. 39 00:02:19,675 --> 00:02:22,615 Muscle tension and blood vessel engorgement reach a peak. 40 00:02:22,615 --> 00:02:25,640 Sometimes orgasm comes with a grasping type 41 00:02:25,640 --> 00:02:29,080 of muscular reflex of the hands and feet. 42 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,740 The orgasm activates the pleasure center of the brain, 43 00:02:31,740 --> 00:02:33,185 releasing endorphins. 44 00:02:33,185 --> 00:02:37,180 it also causes our minds to temporarily lose control. 45 00:02:37,180 --> 00:02:39,830 In fact, one study from a university in the Netherlands 46 00:02:39,830 --> 00:02:42,290 found that when men and women reach orgasm, 47 00:02:42,290 --> 00:02:44,880 the lateral orbitofrontal cortex 48 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,740 temporarily shuts down. 49 00:02:46,740 --> 00:02:50,370 This is the region of the brain that is responsible for behavior control. 50 00:02:50,370 --> 00:02:54,440 We're essentially in a deep state of surrender to the experience. 51 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:57,470 During orgasm, our brains are flooded with Oxycontin 52 00:02:57,470 --> 00:02:59,400 which is the powerful brain chemical 53 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:01,320 that inspires feelings of intimacy, 54 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:02,990 known as "The Hormone", 55 00:03:02,990 --> 00:03:05,480 oxytocin makes you feel connected to your partner, 56 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,180 it bonds you to each other. 57 00:03:07,180 --> 00:03:10,700 Orgasms, especially the really good ones, 58 00:03:10,700 --> 00:03:13,390 can sometimes consume the entire body. 59 00:03:13,390 --> 00:03:16,180 Not limiting themselves to the pelvic region. 60 00:03:16,180 --> 00:03:17,920 As far as your health is concerned, 61 00:03:17,920 --> 00:03:20,800 orgasms lead to feelings of euphoria and pleasure, 62 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,390 which reduces stress, depression 63 00:03:23,390 --> 00:03:25,090 and anxiety levels. 64 00:03:25,090 --> 00:03:27,170 It boosts the immune system. 65 00:03:27,170 --> 00:03:30,410 For those of you who like the effect that exercise has in the body, 66 00:03:30,410 --> 00:03:32,350 orgasm burns calories, 67 00:03:32,350 --> 00:03:34,690 it promotes relaxation and release of tension, 68 00:03:34,690 --> 00:03:36,300 which helps you sleep better, 69 00:03:36,300 --> 00:03:38,240 it increases circulation in the body 70 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:39,500 and also the brain, 71 00:03:39,500 --> 00:03:41,560 leading to an increased mental sharpness, 72 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,050 it helps alleviate pain, 73 00:03:43,050 --> 00:03:45,200 it helps cells in the body regenerate, 74 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,420 and it inhibits the ageing process. 75 00:03:47,420 --> 00:03:51,800 All this physiological responses which I've just mentioned, 76 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,740 are of course, just the physical reflection 77 00:03:54,740 --> 00:03:56,760 of something that's taking place 78 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:00,250 on a more comprehensive energetic level. 79 00:04:00,250 --> 00:04:01,500 On energetic level, 80 00:04:01,500 --> 00:04:03,420 when you're engaging in sex, 81 00:04:03,420 --> 00:04:06,200 and you're reaching the point of orgasm, 82 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:10,930 the entire body reaches a state of receptivity. 83 00:04:10,930 --> 00:04:13,870 Not only that, the energy within the body 84 00:04:13,870 --> 00:04:16,060 starts flowing faster. 85 00:04:16,060 --> 00:04:19,239 It is as if you were to break open the floodgates 86 00:04:19,239 --> 00:04:22,319 and all the channels of energy running throughout your body, 87 00:04:22,319 --> 00:04:24,529 the meridians and the chakras, 88 00:04:24,529 --> 00:04:28,070 were fully open to the unrestricted flow of source energy 89 00:04:28,070 --> 00:04:29,835 through your body. 90 00:04:29,835 --> 00:04:33,610 alignment is occurring between the vibration of your physical perspective, 91 00:04:33,610 --> 00:04:36,860 and the vibration of your non-physical perspective. 92 00:04:36,860 --> 00:04:40,720 And thus you experience a blending between the physical aspects of you, 93 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,820 and the non-physical aspects of you. 94 00:04:43,820 --> 00:04:47,520 During orgasm, your awareness of your own identity, 95 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,490 or own ego as they call it, 96 00:04:49,490 --> 00:04:50,820 is dissolved. 97 00:04:50,820 --> 00:04:53,610 For this very reason, sex and orgasms, 98 00:04:53,630 --> 00:04:57,260 specifically has been used in spiritual practice, 99 00:04:57,260 --> 00:04:59,300 to attain enlightenment. 100 00:04:59,300 --> 00:05:03,120 It enables you to touch what is infinite. 101 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:06,780 It enables the physical to access the non-physical. 102 00:05:06,780 --> 00:05:09,440 the best example of this that we have today, of course, 103 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,330 is the practices of Tantra. 104 00:05:11,330 --> 00:05:15,550 Whereby people use sex as a doorway to enlightenment. 105 00:05:15,550 --> 00:05:17,920 There are two main types of orgasm. 106 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:21,090 The first is explosive, the second is implosive. 107 00:05:21,090 --> 00:05:22,880 Now you can't get experts 108 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,700 to agree on which is more healthy. 109 00:05:25,700 --> 00:05:28,810 Some people say that explosive orgasm is healthy, 110 00:05:28,810 --> 00:05:33,170 because instead of building up pressure it releases pressure. 111 00:05:33,170 --> 00:05:36,450 Other people say that implosive, is restorative and healing 112 00:05:36,450 --> 00:05:39,990 whereas explosive depletes you of energy. 113 00:05:39,990 --> 00:05:42,180 My stance on the subject is, 114 00:05:42,180 --> 00:05:45,970 both explosive and implosive orgasms can be healthy, 115 00:05:45,970 --> 00:05:47,640 and both can be unhealthy, 116 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,230 depending on how you use them. 117 00:05:50,230 --> 00:05:53,040 In an explosive orgasm, the energy moves out of the body 118 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,140 like it does during an explosion. 119 00:05:55,140 --> 00:05:57,760 In an implosive orgasm, the energy moves inwards, 120 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:00,760 so that it is retained within the body. 121 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:04,390 An explosive orgasm is the best kind of orgasm to use for manifestation. 122 00:06:04,390 --> 00:06:06,450 It also creates the greatest release, 123 00:06:06,450 --> 00:06:09,530 and therefore decreases stress levels the best. 124 00:06:09,530 --> 00:06:11,780 but it can cause you to feel depleted, 125 00:06:11,780 --> 00:06:14,770 and is also a shallower form of orgasm. 126 00:06:14,770 --> 00:06:18,470 The explosive orgasm is the one most natural to men. 127 00:06:18,470 --> 00:06:21,650 An implosive orgasm is the best is the best kind of orgasm to use 128 00:06:21,650 --> 00:06:23,460 for healing or unity work. 129 00:06:23,460 --> 00:06:25,930 It pulls the partner's energy into you. 130 00:06:25,930 --> 00:06:28,760 It is restorative because it nourishes the body and soul 131 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:30,710 and increases your energy levels. 132 00:06:30,710 --> 00:06:32,680 Instead of exploding outwards from you, 133 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:34,400 it expands you from within. 134 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:38,580 The implosive orgasm is the one most natural to women. 135 00:06:38,580 --> 00:06:41,360 But it can boost energy levels to an uncomfortable degree 136 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:43,260 and allows people who are contained 137 00:06:43,260 --> 00:06:45,630 and who fear extending themselves towards others 138 00:06:45,630 --> 00:06:47,700 in any way, to stay that way. 139 00:06:47,700 --> 00:06:49,480 Of course the ideal scenario, 140 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,920 is to be able to decide or choose 141 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:53,680 when you will have one orgasm, 142 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:55,690 or when you have the other orgasm, 143 00:06:55,690 --> 00:06:58,450 so that you can choose the orgasm which most corresponds 144 00:06:58,450 --> 00:07:00,660 to your current desires or needs. 145 00:07:00,660 --> 00:07:03,050 Everybody is like a unique instrument. 146 00:07:03,050 --> 00:07:05,570 The time it takes and the stimulation it takes 147 00:07:05,570 --> 00:07:09,120 to achieve orgasm, is going to vary from person to person. 148 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:12,780 And the only way to learn to play an instrument with no manual, 149 00:07:12,780 --> 00:07:14,880 is to experiment. 150 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:18,880 I could do a video, just on the subject, of why some people, 151 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,830 most especially women, cannot achieve orgasm. 152 00:07:21,830 --> 00:07:23,630 But for the sake of this video, 153 00:07:23,630 --> 00:07:25,870 I will tell you that is has very little to do 154 00:07:25,870 --> 00:07:27,460 with the orgasm itself, 155 00:07:27,460 --> 00:07:29,400 and more to do with the fact 156 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:33,500 the people have such a difficult relationship with their bodies, 157 00:07:33,500 --> 00:07:38,000 And such a difficult relationship with intimacy itself. 158 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,040 It is true that for many 159 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,500 of us our craving for orgasm 160 00:07:42,500 --> 00:07:44,810 is the craving for relief. 161 00:07:44,810 --> 00:07:47,530 Relief in the form of release. 162 00:07:47,530 --> 00:07:50,400 This craving for release and for relief, 163 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,810 is what is behind the addiction to pornography. 164 00:07:53,810 --> 00:07:56,320 But ultimately, on a higher level, 165 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:57,980 the progression towards orgasm, 166 00:07:57,980 --> 00:07:59,750 and the craving for orgasm, 167 00:07:59,750 --> 00:08:02,940 is the progression towards, and craving for oneness. 168 00:08:02,940 --> 00:08:05,520 Just like love is the movement towards oneness, 169 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:08,660 to love someone is to include them as you. 170 00:08:08,660 --> 00:08:11,300 To orgasm with someone as a byproduct of love, 171 00:08:11,300 --> 00:08:14,700 is to become conscious of the experience of being one. 172 00:08:14,700 --> 00:08:16,780 It is to move beyond the physical world, 173 00:08:16,780 --> 00:08:19,010 which separates us from one another. 174 00:08:19,010 --> 00:08:21,420 So you see, orgasim, in and of itself, 175 00:08:21,420 --> 00:08:25,300 units us with our infinite multidimensional soul. 176 00:08:25,300 --> 00:08:28,700 We find alignment between the physical and non physical self. 177 00:08:28,700 --> 00:08:31,730 And orgasm with a partner we feel love for, 178 00:08:31,730 --> 00:08:35,519 unites us, not only with our own non physical self, 179 00:08:35,519 --> 00:08:38,000 but also with them. 180 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:41,049 It is therefore an amplified experience of oneness. 181 00:08:41,239 --> 00:08:43,959 Love that is added to sex, 182 00:08:43,959 --> 00:08:46,240 is no longer sex. 183 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:50,030 Instead it is a bridge to the great beyond. 184 00:08:50,030 --> 00:08:54,090 When you experience orgaism as a result of a divine union 185 00:08:54,090 --> 00:08:56,130 with someone else, 186 00:08:56,130 --> 00:08:58,080 you will experience infinity, 187 00:08:58,080 --> 00:08:59,930 you will experience unity, 188 00:08:59,930 --> 00:09:02,650 you will experience oneness. 189 00:09:02,650 --> 00:09:04,690 Which is why this particular video 190 00:09:04,690 --> 00:09:06,400 has to come with a warning. 191 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:10,490 Until you learn how to give and receive love 192 00:09:10,490 --> 00:09:13,240 on a ongoing basis in your day to day life, 193 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,740 something will occur or after sex, 194 00:09:15,740 --> 00:09:18,660 which is highly unwanted. 195 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:22,020 What will happen is you will settle back into the experience 196 00:09:22,020 --> 00:09:24,040 of being completely separate. 197 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:26,100 You will never feel more alone 198 00:09:26,100 --> 00:09:28,860 than you do after the act of sex. 199 00:09:28,860 --> 00:09:31,520 You have experienced touching source energy, 200 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,520 and being in a state of oneness, 201 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,220 only to e thrust back 202 00:09:35,220 --> 00:09:37,900 in the state of singularity, 203 00:09:37,900 --> 00:09:41,500 of loneliness, of separation. 204 00:09:41,870 --> 00:09:45,930 And so a great depression, a great let down, 205 00:09:45,930 --> 00:09:48,430 a great anxiety might occur. 206 00:09:48,430 --> 00:09:51,560 Orgasm involves the total self 207 00:09:51,560 --> 00:09:54,690 (mind, body and soul) all together. 208 00:09:54,690 --> 00:09:57,060 You're no longer in control. 209 00:09:57,060 --> 00:09:59,390 Existence of self has taken possession of you 210 00:09:59,390 --> 00:10:01,470 and you do not know who you are. 211 00:10:01,470 --> 00:10:03,480 This is momentary enlightenment. 212 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:07,500 It is a mini death, so that you can experience being fully alive. 213 00:10:07,500 --> 00:10:09,480 Human life on earth, 214 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,640 is ultimately the bi-product of orgasm. 215 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,600 Orgasm and conception, go hand in hand. 216 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,920 The question question is: "What are you conceiving?" 217 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:22,620 For those of you who practice manifestation, 218 00:10:22,620 --> 00:10:24,085 the act of orgasm 219 00:10:24,085 --> 00:10:29,010 can be one of the most amazing tools for manifestation. 220 00:10:29,010 --> 00:10:30,900 Nothing matters more, 221 00:10:30,900 --> 00:10:32,930 than what you are focusing on 222 00:10:32,930 --> 00:10:34,740 and feeling the experience of, 223 00:10:34,740 --> 00:10:36,850 in the moment of orgasm. 224 00:10:36,850 --> 00:10:39,750 What you focus on, especially on a feeling based level, 225 00:10:39,750 --> 00:10:43,450 is what you will conceive in your reality. 226 00:10:43,610 --> 00:10:45,240 Here's what I mean; 227 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:47,250 if I'm having sex with my partner, 228 00:10:47,250 --> 00:10:49,340 and focusing at him with my eyes, 229 00:10:49,340 --> 00:10:51,570 and am getting close to orgasming, 230 00:10:51,570 --> 00:10:54,230 while simultaneously thinking or feeling 231 00:10:54,230 --> 00:10:56,990 the sensation of being insecure about my body, 232 00:10:56,990 --> 00:11:01,720 then I will begin to hyper manifest scenarios in my reality, 233 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:05,740 where I'm caused to feel insecurity about my body. 234 00:11:05,740 --> 00:11:08,560 Another example is, 235 00:11:08,560 --> 00:11:11,450 if I'm orgasming and thinking about bondage type fantasies 236 00:11:11,450 --> 00:11:13,190 where I'm being dominated, 237 00:11:13,190 --> 00:11:17,360 I will begin to hyper manifest scenarios in my reality, 238 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,310 where I'm being dominated. 239 00:11:19,310 --> 00:11:22,480 And whereas I might have an emotional attachment 240 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:24,590 or some kind of a psychological attachment 241 00:11:24,590 --> 00:11:26,650 to the sexuality of being dominated 242 00:11:26,650 --> 00:11:29,720 when I am engaged in a sexual action, 243 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:31,270 in my day to day life, 244 00:11:31,270 --> 00:11:34,440 being dominated, might not feel so good. 245 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:36,450 This is a crucial realisation, 246 00:11:36,450 --> 00:11:39,150 because we live in an era where our sexual practices 247 00:11:39,150 --> 00:11:41,270 are becoming increasingly deviant. 248 00:11:41,270 --> 00:11:43,500 When our sexual and orgasmic practices 249 00:11:43,500 --> 00:11:46,650 become more deviant so does our collective reality. 250 00:11:46,650 --> 00:11:50,130 There's a conny way to visualize what's occurring during an orgasm. 251 00:11:50,130 --> 00:11:52,790 Think back to the old kids movies you used to watch. 252 00:11:52,790 --> 00:11:54,920 The fairy wizard would focus really hard, 253 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:56,440 repeating an incantation 254 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:59,420 with the wave of their wand and in a huge energetic release. 255 00:11:59,420 --> 00:12:02,800 The thing they were trying to conjure would manifest before their eyes, 256 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:04,720 usually in a cloud of sparkling smoke. 257 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:08,180 In the minute of organism, the accumulated energy that has built up 258 00:12:08,180 --> 00:12:10,290 is released, and you can aim 259 00:12:10,290 --> 00:12:12,240 and lend that powerful burst of energy, 260 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:13,910 towards what you desire. 261 00:12:13,910 --> 00:12:17,040 Thus manifesting it into reality. 262 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,270 It is best that if you can, during the orgasm, 263 00:12:20,270 --> 00:12:23,040 and also during the build up to the orgasm, 264 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,940 focus this on emotionally and mentally 265 00:12:26,940 --> 00:12:30,820 experiencing the very thing which you wish to manifest, 266 00:12:30,820 --> 00:12:33,610 we can use sex to manifest loving relationships 267 00:12:33,610 --> 00:12:35,980 or deepen the bond with our specific partner, 268 00:12:35,980 --> 00:12:39,520 by focusing emotionally and mentally on the sensation of bonding with them. 269 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:41,770 And unification and harmony with them. 270 00:12:41,770 --> 00:12:44,070 we can also use sex and masturbation 271 00:12:44,070 --> 00:12:47,390 to manifest things that are entirely unrelated to sex. 272 00:12:47,390 --> 00:12:49,930 For example, some people like to use orgasm 273 00:12:49,930 --> 00:12:52,880 as a tool for a career advancement. 274 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:56,410 When it comes to sex, we are habitual creatures. 275 00:12:56,410 --> 00:12:59,150 That means, that when you do something 276 00:12:59,150 --> 00:13:01,810 which turns you on enough to climax, 277 00:13:01,810 --> 00:13:05,800 you now forever build a neural circuit in your brain, 278 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:09,830 which tells you that that is going to be your motist operadie 279 00:13:09,830 --> 00:13:12,000 for achieving climax. 280 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:15,730 For this reason, until you develop your sexual abilities more, 281 00:13:15,730 --> 00:13:19,620 you might choose to use the excitement and the plateau phase 282 00:13:19,620 --> 00:13:21,470 of the sexual response cycle, 283 00:13:21,470 --> 00:13:25,020 to focus on what already turns you on, 284 00:13:25,020 --> 00:13:28,400 and then, when orgasm feels eminent, 285 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:32,110 switch your focus to whatever it is that you wish to manifest. 286 00:13:32,110 --> 00:13:35,490 For example, a man may have a difficult time 287 00:13:35,490 --> 00:13:37,730 with the idea of getting sexually aroused 288 00:13:37,730 --> 00:13:39,510 by the idea of promotion. 289 00:13:39,510 --> 00:13:43,000 But job promotion is what he most wants to manifest in his life. 290 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:45,390 But he does know that what turns him on 291 00:13:45,390 --> 00:13:47,980 is watching a man and a woman have sex. 292 00:13:47,980 --> 00:13:50,440 So, in his mind, he creates a scenario 293 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:52,980 where he is observing a man and a woman having sex, 294 00:13:52,980 --> 00:13:56,920 and he feels himself becoming sexually excited. 295 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:59,950 He reaches the excitement and the plateau phase 296 00:13:59,950 --> 00:14:02,230 of the sexual response cycle. 297 00:14:02,230 --> 00:14:07,650 Then, when he feels as if ejaculation or orgasm is eminent, 298 00:14:07,650 --> 00:14:13,080 he switches his focus to the experience of the job promotion. 299 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,770 He allows the feeling of the climax, 300 00:14:15,770 --> 00:14:19,470 to amplify the sensations of achievement, and glory, 301 00:14:19,470 --> 00:14:23,050 and relief, and pride of promotion. 302 00:14:23,050 --> 00:14:26,360 He allows the feeling of the climax to enhance and focus 303 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:29,230 the image of his mind, of the people that are there, 304 00:14:29,230 --> 00:14:31,690 and the way the room looks and smells... 305 00:14:31,690 --> 00:14:35,600 He will use his orgasm to make the scenario as real as possible 306 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:36,840 on all levels, 307 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:40,740 as if he is living it, at that very moment. 308 00:14:40,740 --> 00:14:42,845 And he will hold onto it, 309 00:14:42,845 --> 00:14:44,940 as his mental and emotional focus, 310 00:14:44,940 --> 00:14:46,700 as long as he possibly can. 311 00:14:46,700 --> 00:14:49,760 Completely through the resolution phase. 312 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:51,570 And if he drifts off to sleep, 313 00:14:51,570 --> 00:14:54,220 he has then added the state of allowing 314 00:14:54,220 --> 00:14:56,160 to the art of manifestation, 315 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:58,510 and thus, amplified it further. 316 00:14:58,510 --> 00:15:00,020 Another example is, 317 00:15:00,020 --> 00:15:03,420 a woman might be acutely aware of her extreme desire 318 00:15:03,420 --> 00:15:05,790 for a long term committed relationship, 319 00:15:05,790 --> 00:15:08,590 with a man who wants her completely. 320 00:15:08,590 --> 00:15:10,820 If she is having sex with somebody, 321 00:15:10,820 --> 00:15:12,910 and she doesn't know if that particular man 322 00:15:12,910 --> 00:15:14,960 is going to feel that way about her, 323 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:17,430 she focuses on the feeling of his energy 324 00:15:17,430 --> 00:15:19,550 coming all the way into her body, 325 00:15:19,550 --> 00:15:22,340 reaching into her heart area. 326 00:15:22,340 --> 00:15:25,900 Now instead of focusing on things like, the ceiling fan, 327 00:15:25,900 --> 00:15:29,130 or weather she left the gas on the stove on, 328 00:15:29,130 --> 00:15:31,750 or whether her legs are shaved, 329 00:15:31,750 --> 00:15:35,470 she puts herself completely in a space, 330 00:15:35,470 --> 00:15:39,320 of visualizing, what it would feel like on an emotion level, 331 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:40,950 what it would look like, 332 00:15:40,950 --> 00:15:43,750 for her to be in that committed long term relationship, 333 00:15:43,750 --> 00:15:46,180 with someone who wanted her completely. 334 00:15:46,180 --> 00:15:49,330 Maybe she's imagining herself getting married. 335 00:15:49,330 --> 00:15:53,530 She is doing whatever she needs to do, to reach climax. 336 00:15:53,530 --> 00:15:55,760 But most especially, during climax, 337 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:58,710 she is putting herself completely in the experience 338 00:15:58,710 --> 00:16:01,610 of that thing she wants to manifest. 339 00:16:01,610 --> 00:16:04,050 She sinks into the feeling of security, 340 00:16:04,050 --> 00:16:08,150 of having his energy fully unconditionally invested in her. 341 00:16:08,150 --> 00:16:10,680 Maybe she loses herself 342 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,080 in the feeling of the complete connection 343 00:16:13,080 --> 00:16:15,070 with the man she is actually with. 344 00:16:15,070 --> 00:16:18,190 Maybe she imagines scenario of getting married, in detail, 345 00:16:18,190 --> 00:16:22,020 or walking hand and hand with somebody in the beach, in detail. 346 00:16:22,020 --> 00:16:24,760 The most important thing is that in the moment or orgasm 347 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:27,010 she emotionally experiences the feeling 348 00:16:27,010 --> 00:16:30,220 of emotional security, and love and being wanted, 349 00:16:30,220 --> 00:16:32,070 that she wants to manifest. 350 00:16:32,070 --> 00:16:35,150 She maintains that focus throughout the duration of the orgasm 351 00:16:35,150 --> 00:16:37,210 and resolution phase. 352 00:16:37,210 --> 00:16:39,730 Either, the man she is currently sleeping with 353 00:16:39,730 --> 00:16:41,710 becomes this committed partner, 354 00:16:41,710 --> 00:16:43,710 or the universe draws him away, 355 00:16:43,710 --> 00:16:46,080 to make space for the man who's actually 356 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,890 a vibrational match to that level of commitment 357 00:16:49,890 --> 00:16:51,830 that she has been asking for. 358 00:16:51,830 --> 00:16:54,550 So go ahead and try this technique. 359 00:16:54,550 --> 00:16:56,580 We are all energy. 360 00:16:56,580 --> 00:16:59,810 We can use this energy that is in and of us, 361 00:16:59,810 --> 00:17:03,860 to give shape, form and dimension 362 00:17:03,860 --> 00:17:05,510 to our desires. 363 00:17:05,510 --> 00:17:08,910 because of this, all is left to say is: 364 00:17:08,910 --> 00:17:11,939 be conscious of what you're wishing for. 365 00:17:12,079 --> 00:17:13,780 Have a good week 366 00:17:58,738 --> 00:18:02,738 Subtitles by: Tanya Duarte www.tanyaduarte.com