0:00:00.001,0:00:02.831 (Chlopaki nie płaczą) 0:00:07.515,0:00:09.817 Pewnie słyszeliście to stare powiedzenie 0:00:09.817,0:00:11.603 „Chłopaki nie płaczą” 0:00:12.610,0:00:14.747 To przekonanie krąży już 0:00:14.747,0:00:16.970 w naszej kulturze od bardzo dawna. 0:00:18.300,0:00:20.399 Interesujące zdanie, czyż nie? 0:00:21.478,0:00:23.060 Gdy słyszymy kogoś mówiącego 0:00:23.060,0:00:24.398 „Chłopaki nie płaczą” 0:00:24.398,0:00:26.328 wiemy, że nie jest to w dosłownym znaczeniu. 0:00:27.967,0:00:30.069 Bo przecież także wiemy że chłopcy, 0:00:30.069,0:00:34.127 a co za tym idzie mężczyźni, również płaczą. 0:00:34.867,0:00:36.357 Widzimy to cały czas. 0:00:37.095,0:00:38.365 W prawdziwym życiu, 0:00:38.740,0:00:40.740 jak i na filmach. 0:00:40.800,0:00:44.140 Nawet twardziele płaczą, czasami. 0:00:45.734,0:00:48.334 Więc co w zasadzie znaczy to powiedzenie? 0:00:48.931,0:00:51.299 Cóż, „chłopaki nie płaczą” jest zatwierdzeniem 0:00:51.299,0:00:54.188 kulturowego ideału dla męskości. 0:00:54.779,0:00:57.963 Spencer: Nie płacz, nie płacz, nie płacz, nie płacz... 0:00:57.963,0:01:00.246 Więkoszość ludzi ma na myśli: 0:01:00.246,0:01:02.149 „Chłopcy nie powinni płakać." 0:01:02.149,0:01:06.254 Daniel Plainview: „Przestań beczeć, ty zasmarkańcu! Przestań się wygłupiać!" 0:01:06.732,0:01:09.372 Ale nawet to nie jest do końca prawdą. 0:01:10.173,0:01:13.693 Istnieje kilka sytuacji, w których płacz jest dozwolony. 0:01:15.457,0:01:19.647 Ron Swanson:: „Płacz dozwolony na pogrzebach, i nad Wilekim Kanionem." 0:01:20.540,0:01:23.170 Więc bardziej właściwym stwierdzeniem byłoby: 0:01:23.222,0:01:28.747 "Chłopcy nie powinni płakać chyba że, w 0:01:29.545,0:01:31.815 0:01:32.008,0:01:34.108 0:01:36.639,0:01:40.379 0:01:40.379,0:01:41.729 0:01:42.602,0:01:47.278 0:01:47.278,0:01:51.438 0:01:54.710,0:01:59.470 0:01:59.807,0:02:04.087 0:02:04.838,0:02:09.258 0:02:10.494,0:02:12.664 0:02:12.685,0:02:15.745 0:02:16.344,0:02:22.944 0:02:24.345,0:02:28.035 0:02:28.065,0:02:31.725 0:02:31.755,0:02:36.505 0:02:36.554,0:02:37.834 0:02:38.425,0:02:40.175 0:02:40.275,0:02:44.485 0:02:44.755,0:02:48.805 0:02:49.193,0:02:53.383 0:02:53.432,0:02:57.432 0:02:59.107,0:03:01.627 0:03:01.627,0:03:03.252 0:03:03.252,0:03:05.272 0:03:05.745,0:03:09.745 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