[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.48,0:00:07.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.14,0:00:17.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.50,0:00:37.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.84,0:01:00.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.78,0:01:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dear respected Thay, Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.08,0:01:17.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dear brothers and sisters, dear community, Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.71,0:01:24.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,today is Sunday the 7th of October\Nin the year 2018 Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.57,0:01:29.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we are in the Assembly of Stars\Nmeditation hall at the Lower Hamlet. Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.18,0:01:36.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I think it is our fourth week\Nof the Rain Retreat. Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.77,0:01:46.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are continuing on the theme of\Nthe Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.65,0:01:49.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for this Rain Retreat. Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.70,0:02:01.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We've learned the moment\Nwe step into Plum Village Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.38,0:02:06.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we want to cultivate here Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.17,0:02:13.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our energies of mindfulness,\Nconcentration and insight. Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.92,0:02:21.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These are energies that are innate in us. Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.63,0:02:27.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the practices that we do here\Nhelp us to tap into these energies inside. Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.88,0:02:32.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because once the energies of mindfulness,\Nconcentration and insight Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.09,0:02:36.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are growing in us, Dialogue: 0,0:02:37.61,0:02:42.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they help us to be truly alive, Dialogue: 0,0:02:43.84,0:02:48.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to savor every moment of our life, Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.56,0:02:57.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to experience deeply, to appreciate deeply\Nthe simplicity of life, Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.75,0:03:03.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the beauties around us\Nthat a lot of times we take for granted. Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.64,0:03:09.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they are these energies that help us Dialogue: 0,0:03:11.47,0:03:20.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to understand deeply who we are,\Nthe way we are, Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.22,0:03:24.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,why we suffer the way we do Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.75,0:03:28.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to transform this suffering\Nthat we have. Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.52,0:03:32.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So these are powerful energies. Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.16,0:03:35.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Buddha had taught Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.58,0:03:42.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these what we call learnings, trainings\Nbut they are learnings, Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.39,0:03:49.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,extensively in his teachings\Nduring his lifetime. Dialogue: 0,0:03:53.35,0:04:00.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But he also mentioned the three learnings\Nor the three trainings as Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.55,0:04:03.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,precepts, concentration and insight, Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.85,0:04:07.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not just mindfulness, concentration\Nand insight but it is precepts. Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.72,0:04:10.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Precepts, concentration and insight. Dialogue: 0,0:04:10.78,0:04:15.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In our first Dharma talk we heard about\Nthat a little bit from Sister Doan Nghiem. Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.40,0:04:26.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it was Thay who showed us the link\Nbetween mindfulness and precepts. Dialogue: 0,0:04:29.49,0:04:36.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that the practice of the precepts\Nis really the practice of mindfulness, Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.52,0:04:42.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the precepts really heighten\Nour awareness of our actions Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.44,0:04:48.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of body, speech and mind that could bring\Nsuffering to ourselves and to other people. Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.47,0:04:59.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The precepts, I call them the Dharma doors,\Nthey are different Dharma doors, Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.30,0:05:02.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,each one of the precepts is a Dharma door Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.93,0:05:08.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that help us to experience Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.60,0:05:14.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what is happening in the present moment\Nin ourselves. Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.93,0:05:21.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are like an MRI\Nthat help us to see our mind. Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.79,0:05:27.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the lifetime of the Buddha, Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.08,0:05:34.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he devised the precepts\Nfor us to practice. Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.90,0:05:39.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And usually he devised these precepts Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.74,0:05:47.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in response to incidents that happened, Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.33,0:05:55.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,incidents that the monks\Nand the nuns encountered Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.76,0:05:57.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that could... Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.52,0:06:04.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So incidents that happened\Nthat creat suffering Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.48,0:06:11.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for oneself and for other people\Neither now or later. Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.94,0:06:22.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The precepts are really guidelines for us Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.21,0:06:33.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to see ourselves, to go into ourselves, Dialogue: 0,0:06:33.49,0:06:38.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be aware of the working of our mind. Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.15,0:06:57.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Thay instead of calling them precepts, Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.30,0:07:02.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thay called them\Nthe Mindfulness Trainings. Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.27,0:07:06.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is what they are\Nto train us to be more mindful. Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.24,0:07:12.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we have five trainings\Nfor lay practitioners, Dialogue: 0,0:07:13.89,0:07:23.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have 250 for fully ordained monks\Nand we have 348 for fully ordained nuns. Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.65,0:07:32.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I remember when I was a novice,\NI was a bit resistant to the trainings, Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.40,0:07:37.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially to the idea that the nuns\Nhave more trainings than the monks, Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.01,0:07:43.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it was one of the venerables\Nfrom Vietnam Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.56,0:07:46.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who was teaching us\Nthe mindfulness trainings who said, Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.94,0:07:50.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he was quite serious\Nwhen he said this, he said, Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.87,0:07:57.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The Buddha loves the nuns so much more, Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.14,0:08:05.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because he devised\N348 mindfulness trainings for the nuns Dialogue: 0,0:08:05.84,0:08:10.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which means that the nuns have\Nmore protections than the monks." Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.27,0:08:15.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that really shifted\Nmy perspective on this, Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.20,0:08:19.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we are loved, we are loved\Nby the Buddha Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.96,0:08:23.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that we have\Nmore trainings for us to practice, Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.60,0:08:26.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more trainings for us to... Dialogue: 0,0:08:28.15,0:08:30.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,More Dharma doors for us Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.81,0:08:38.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to experience the present moment,\Nto experience and to see ourselves deeply. Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.66,0:08:43.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,More protection for us. Dialogue: 0,0:08:44.25,0:08:47.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it was just a matter of perspective Dialogue: 0,0:08:48.04,0:08:52.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that changed completely my idea\Nabout the mindfulness trainings. Dialogue: 0,0:08:53.86,0:08:59.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So during the war we have learned that,\Nduring the war in Vietnam, Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.06,0:09:03.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the midst of all the atrocities Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.93,0:09:07.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the suffering and the violence\Nthat was happening Dialogue: 0,0:09:08.92,0:09:14.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thay devised the 14 mindfulness trainings\Nfor us to practice. Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.10,0:09:21.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were also in response to the\Nsituation that was happening in Vietnam Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.27,0:09:24.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but also in the world. Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.93,0:09:40.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The war, those of you\Nwho have been in it know Dialogue: 0,0:09:44.89,0:09:48.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the horrendous suffering, the fear, Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.65,0:10:01.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that everyone is feeling, experiencing. Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.91,0:10:10.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For many of us, the Vietnamese siblings, Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.96,0:10:15.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even though we may be born after the war, Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.36,0:10:19.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I know the war\Nis very much a part of us. Dialogue: 0,0:10:21.79,0:10:25.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know that is my case too. Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.36,0:10:37.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I was born at the end of the war\Nand I didn't think it had an impact on me. Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.77,0:10:45.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But one time there was a documentary\Nof Sister Chan Khong and her work. Dialogue: 0,0:10:48.46,0:10:55.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it was shown like a preview for her\Nand some of the monastics. Dialogue: 0,0:10:55.64,0:11:00.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I went in, and right in the middle\Nof the documentary Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.12,0:11:08.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there was a scene where there was fighting\N Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.63,0:11:11.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Sister Chan Khong's voice\Nin the background Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.78,0:11:14.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the scene was killing and fighting. Dialogue: 0,0:11:14.72,0:11:18.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And at that moment I felt a lot of tension\Nand I couldn't even breathe. Dialogue: 0,0:11:19.07,0:11:21.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I thought, "What's going on?". Dialogue: 0,0:11:21.72,0:11:24.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I had to leave the room\Nafter five minutes. Dialogue: 0,0:11:24.45,0:11:26.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I couldn't bear it anymore. Dialogue: 0,0:11:26.97,0:11:29.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I went out and\NI was really perplexed about it, Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.93,0:11:31.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I thought, Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.48,0:11:35.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What is happening in me?" Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.62,0:11:40.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I breathed and\NI practiced walking meditation Dialogue: 0,0:11:40.95,0:11:47.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I realized that even though\NI didn't experience the war, Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.54,0:11:53.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it had affected me very much. Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.34,0:12:00.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And just seeing a scene of the killing\Nand the fighting in the movie Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.14,0:12:03.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was enough to trigger Dialogue: 0,0:12:04.64,0:12:08.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this fear and anxiety that I have. Dialogue: 0,0:12:08.70,0:12:15.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I know a lot of my siblings\Nhave PTSD, not just veterans in Vietnam Dialogue: 0,0:12:15.71,0:12:19.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but a lot of us have it. Dialogue: 0,0:12:19.92,0:12:26.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We just have to sit\Nand look deeply into ourselves Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.44,0:12:31.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we can see the presence\Nof the war there in us. Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.58,0:12:38.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the Fourteen Mindfulness\NTrainings came about. Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.58,0:12:45.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are guidelines Dialogue: 0,0:12:46.00,0:12:50.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to practice in the midst\Nof all the suffering. Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.82,0:12:57.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In Vietnamese we call the Fourteen\NMindfulness Trainings "Tiếp Hiện". Dialogue: 0,0:12:58.31,0:13:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Tiếp" as in the word (Vietnamese), Dialogue: 0,0:13:03.75,0:13:06.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which means to be in touch. Dialogue: 0,0:13:07.04,0:13:12.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To be in touch with\Nthe reality of the world, Dialogue: 0,0:13:13.32,0:13:17.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be in touch with the reality\Nof our body and mind. Dialogue: 0,0:13:17.82,0:13:21.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In other words, to be present\Nto whatever is there, Dialogue: 0,0:13:21.71,0:13:24.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are not running away\Nfrom whatever is there. Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.03,0:13:28.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thay and the monastics during the war Dialogue: 0,0:13:28.79,0:13:35.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they were not satisfied by sitting in the\Ntemple meditating in the meditation hall. Dialogue: 0,0:13:35.97,0:13:38.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They found they needed\Nto really go out there Dialogue: 0,0:13:39.14,0:13:42.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and really do something\Nto help alleviate the suffering. Dialogue: 0,0:13:48.46,0:13:52.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Tiếp" also means to continue, Dialogue: 0,0:13:52.40,0:13:55.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as in the word (Vietnamese). Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.15,0:13:59.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To continue, to extend, Dialogue: 0,0:13:59.93,0:14:04.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to continue the work of\Nthe Buddha and the Bodhisattvas Dialogue: 0,0:14:04.30,0:14:07.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all our ancestral teachers, Dialogue: 0,0:14:07.99,0:14:15.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to sow seeds of awakening,\Nto sow seeds of love and peace. Dialogue: 0,0:14:23.99,0:14:28.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it's really being in touch\Nwith the suffering Dialogue: 0,0:14:28.27,0:14:30.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in us and around us. Dialogue: 0,0:14:36.02,0:14:40.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have a chance to cultivate compassion,\Nto cultivate awakening Dialogue: 0,0:14:41.09,0:14:43.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just like the mud and the lotus. Dialogue: 0,0:14:44.07,0:14:47.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We've heard about mud and lotus. Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.32,0:14:52.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is for us to grow lotuses\Nwe need the mud. Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.71,0:14:54.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The suffering is the mud. Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.88,0:14:59.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We really need to face the mud,\Nto face the suffering Dialogue: 0,0:15:01.32,0:15:04.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order for lotuses to grow, Dialogue: 0,0:15:04.47,0:15:10.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order for happiness, and peace,\Nand compassion to be possible. Dialogue: 0,0:15:13.49,0:15:18.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And "hiện", as in the word "Tiếp Hiện", Dialogue: 0,0:15:20.11,0:15:26.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it means present,\Nlike (Vietnamese) for example. Dialogue: 0,0:15:31.13,0:15:33.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It means here and now. Dialogue: 0,0:15:35.25,0:15:39.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That only the present moment is real, Dialogue: 0,0:15:40.33,0:15:43.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that only in the present moment Dialogue: 0,0:15:45.10,0:15:55.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can tap into the seed of peace\Nand awakening inside us. Dialogue: 0,0:16:02.45,0:16:08.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hiện" also means to realize,\Nas in the word (Vietnamese), to realize. Dialogue: 0,0:16:09.44,0:16:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Realization means to be able\Nto understand ourselves Dialogue: 0,0:16:15.13,0:16:18.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to transform ourselves,\Nto transform our suffering. Dialogue: 0,0:16:25.36,0:16:28.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because when we are transformed, Dialogue: 0,0:16:29.60,0:16:34.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we have a lot of space\Ninside ourselves, Dialogue: 0,0:16:34.60,0:16:38.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we have clarity inside ourselves, Dialogue: 0,0:16:40.37,0:16:46.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have a lot of energy to do something\Nto alleviate the suffering Dialogue: 0,0:16:46.72,0:16:48.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for other people. Dialogue: 0,0:16:49.55,0:16:53.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We know what to do and what not to do\Nto alleviate the suffering. Dialogue: 0,0:16:55.53,0:17:02.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I'd like to read the first three\Nof the 14 Mindfulness Trainings, Dialogue: 0,0:17:02.45,0:17:06.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because today I will talk about\Nthe first, and the second, and the third Dialogue: 0,0:17:06.95,0:17:09.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the 14 Mindfulness Trainings. Dialogue: 0,0:17:10.04,0:17:14.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The First Mindfulness Training, Openness: Dialogue: 0,0:17:16.54,0:17:20.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Aware of the suffering created\Nby fanaticism and intolerance, Dialogue: 0,0:17:20.52,0:17:23.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are determined\Nnot to be idolatrous about Dialogue: 0,0:17:23.45,0:17:27.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or bound to any doctrine, theory\Nor ideology, even Buddhist ones. Dialogue: 0,0:17:28.10,0:17:32.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are committed to seeing the Buddhist\Nteachings as guiding means Dialogue: 0,0:17:32.27,0:17:36.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that help us develop\Nour understanding and compassion. Dialogue: 0,0:17:36.76,0:17:40.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are not doctrines to fight,\Nkill or die for. Dialogue: 0,0:17:40.59,0:17:45.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We understand that fanaticism in its many\Nforms is the result of perceiving things Dialogue: 0,0:17:46.12,0:17:52.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a dualistic and discriminative manner.\NWe will train ourselves to look deeply Dialogue: 0,0:17:53.01,0:17:55.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at everything with openness\Nand the insight of Interbeing Dialogue: 0,0:17:56.12,0:18:01.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to transform dogmatism and\Nviolence in ourselves and in the world." Dialogue: 0,0:18:04.19,0:18:09.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the Second Mindfulness Training:\NNon-attachment to Views. Dialogue: 0,0:18:09.98,0:18:14.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Aware of the suffering created by\Nattachment to views and wrong perceptions, Dialogue: 0,0:18:14.20,0:18:19.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are determined to avoid being\Nnarrow-minded and bound to present views. Dialogue: 0,0:18:20.09,0:18:24.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are committed to learning and\Npracticing non-attachment to views Dialogue: 0,0:18:24.66,0:18:29.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and being open to others experiences\Nand insights in order to benefit Dialogue: 0,0:18:29.20,0:18:34.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from the collective wisdom. We are aware\Nthat the knowledge we presently posses Dialogue: 0,0:18:34.13,0:18:36.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is not changeless, absolute truth. Dialogue: 0,0:18:37.04,0:18:42.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Insight is revealed through the practice\Nof compassionate listening, deep looking Dialogue: 0,0:18:43.02,0:18:45.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and letting go of notions, Dialogue: 0,0:18:45.31,0:18:49.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rather than through accumulation\Nof intellectual knowledge. Dialogue: 0,0:18:50.15,0:18:56.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Truth is found in life, and we will observe\Nlife within and around us in every moment, Dialogue: 0,0:18:56.98,0:19:00.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ready to learn throughout our lives." Dialogue: 0,0:19:02.04,0:19:06.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Third Mindfulness Training,\NFreedom of Thought: Dialogue: 0,0:19:06.61,0:19:10.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Aware of the suffering brought about\Nwhen we impose our views on others, Dialogue: 0,0:19:10.90,0:19:16.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are determined not to force others,\Neven our children, by any means whatsoever Dialogue: 0,0:19:16.61,0:19:21.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,such as authority, threat, money,\Npropaganda or indoctrination, Dialogue: 0,0:19:21.42,0:19:23.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to adopt our views. Dialogue: 0,0:19:24.03,0:19:27.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are committed to respecting the right\Nof others to be different, Dialogue: 0,0:19:28.04,0:19:31.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to choose what to believe\Nand how to decide. Dialogue: 0,0:19:31.49,0:19:37.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We will, however, learn to help others\Nlet go of and transform fanaticism Dialogue: 0,0:19:38.06,0:19:43.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and narrowness through loving speech\Nand compassionate dialogue." Dialogue: 0,0:19:46.92,0:19:50.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we can see that the first... Dialogue: 0,0:19:53.38,0:19:56.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first three of the Fourteen\NMindfulness Trainings... Dialogue: 0,0:19:56.51,0:19:59.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have to mention about. Dialogue: 0,0:19:59.22,0:20:06.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In English, the 14 Mindfulness Trainings\Nare called the Order of Interbeing. Dialogue: 0,0:20:08.71,0:20:15.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I thought one said that\Nit is not a direct translation Dialogue: 0,0:20:17.98,0:20:23.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of "Tiếp Hiện", "Interbeing", because\N"Tiếp Hiện" is not really interbeing. Dialogue: 0,0:20:23.35,0:20:29.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why are there two different names? Dialogue: 0,0:20:30.91,0:20:35.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I reflected on it, Dialogue: 0,0:20:40.06,0:20:43.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what I found is that Dialogue: 0,0:20:43.54,0:20:48.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we truly experience\Ninterconnectedness, interbeing, Dialogue: 0,0:20:52.04,0:20:57.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what it helps us is that our heart\Nand our mind are completely open. Dialogue: 0,0:20:59.16,0:21:03.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are completely open to be\Nin the skin of other people. Dialogue: 0,0:21:03.95,0:21:08.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can see what's happening to me\Nis happening to other people, Dialogue: 0,0:21:08.55,0:21:13.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what is happening to other people\Nis actually affecting me a lot. Dialogue: 0,0:21:14.47,0:21:20.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So naturally, the insight of interbeing\Nwhen I'm able to experience it deeply, Dialogue: 0,0:21:20.97,0:21:29.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,helps me to protect, it helps me\Nto do something to help other people. Dialogue: 0,0:21:30.49,0:21:36.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So it's in the same spirit of "Tiếp Hiện",\Ncoming in touch with the suffering Dialogue: 0,0:21:38.33,0:21:42.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and seeing the connectedness\Nbetween myself and other people. Dialogue: 0,0:21:46.01,0:21:51.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is only through this insight\Nof interconnectedness, of interbeing, Dialogue: 0,0:21:54.27,0:22:00.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we can be motivated to do something. Dialogue: 0,0:22:01.90,0:22:05.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Otherwise, we are just looking\Nafter our own interest Dialogue: 0,0:22:05.83,0:22:08.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and our own safety. Dialogue: 0,0:22:09.62,0:22:16.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first three fo these Mindfulness\NTrainings talk about the mind. Dialogue: 0,0:22:18.12,0:22:25.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Buddha taught us that the mind\Nis really the king of all the dharmas. Dialogue: 0,0:22:27.25,0:22:30.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Vietnamese) in Vietnamese. Dialogue: 0,0:22:31.05,0:22:34.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the mind paints the world, Dialogue: 0,0:22:34.59,0:22:38.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the mind is like a painter\Nthat paints a reality. Dialogue: 0,0:22:41.72,0:22:46.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The mind creates our own reality, Dialogue: 0,0:22:46.94,0:22:53.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether it's a physical reality,\Nwhether it is social or the environment. Dialogue: 0,0:22:57.26,0:23:01.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it's also called\Nthe first three trainings Dialogue: 0,0:23:01.31,0:23:05.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"The cream of the Buddha's teaching". Dialogue: 0,0:23:05.28,0:23:09.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because in Buddhism, Dialogue: 0,0:23:10.96,0:23:14.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our ultimate goal is to be free. Dialogue: 0,0:23:16.92,0:23:21.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To free from ideas and views and notions. Dialogue: 0,0:23:21.72,0:23:25.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So these trainings really \Nadjust that issues, Dialogue: 0,0:23:25.68,0:23:30.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the issues of attachment,\Nthe issue of dogmatism, Dialogue: 0,0:23:30.67,0:23:34.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the issues of fanaticism, Dialogue: 0,0:23:38.10,0:23:42.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that we can free ourselves. Dialogue: 0,0:23:45.02,0:23:51.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that we can be free from\Nideas and notions and perceptions. Dialogue: 0,0:23:53.03,0:23:57.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we are free, we can experience\Nnirvana right here, right now. Dialogue: 0,0:23:58.44,0:24:02.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't need to die\Nto experience nirvana. Dialogue: 0,0:24:03.33,0:24:07.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nirvana is a place, is a state of mind Dialogue: 0,0:24:08.82,0:24:13.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we are free. Brother Phap Dung\Nmentioned this. Dialogue: 0,0:24:13.99,0:24:17.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we are free of ideas and notions, Dialogue: 0,0:24:18.28,0:24:21.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not holding on to, not clinging. Dialogue: 0,0:24:21.78,0:24:24.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can let go. Dialogue: 0,0:24:26.60,0:24:30.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is the cream\Nof the Buddhist teachings. Dialogue: 0,0:24:30.99,0:24:34.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other things that\Nwe are doing in Plum Village, Dialogue: 0,0:24:34.71,0:24:37.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the other practices that we do, Dialogue: 0,0:24:37.60,0:24:40.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether it's breathing or walking, Dialogue: 0,0:24:41.14,0:24:46.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they help us to have peace now. Dialogue: 0,0:24:47.35,0:24:55.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They help us to calm our body,\Nto calm our mind, but ultimately, Dialogue: 0,0:24:57.04,0:25:00.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is to help us to let go of\Nour ideas and notions. Dialogue: 0,0:25:00.91,0:25:04.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To help us to see\Nwhere we get stuck and blocked Dialogue: 0,0:25:04.36,0:25:09.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that we can let go and be free. Dialogue: 0,0:25:17.53,0:25:23.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So when we hold on to an idea, when\Nwe are attached to views and notions, Dialogue: 0,0:25:24.71,0:25:28.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we are dogmatic about something, Dialogue: 0,0:25:28.92,0:25:32.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we feel rigid and close-minded. Dialogue: 0,0:25:34.57,0:25:40.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For me, ideas and notions\Nis all about my perceptions, Dialogue: 0,0:25:40.66,0:25:44.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is all about the constructions\Nof the mind, right? Dialogue: 0,0:25:44.50,0:25:47.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's my own construction Dialogue: 0,0:25:47.38,0:25:51.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of reality, of other people. Dialogue: 0,0:25:51.82,0:25:56.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it feels so real,\Nit's like our own reality. Dialogue: 0,0:25:59.15,0:26:04.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The Buddha taught about knowledge\Nlike my own experience of reality, Dialogue: 0,0:26:04.78,0:26:07.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my knowledge of reality, Dialogue: 0,0:26:08.13,0:26:15.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the knowledge I have about reality,\Nabout myself and about other people, Dialogue: 0,0:26:17.13,0:26:22.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maybe an obstacle to my own growth\Nand to my own transformation, Dialogue: 0,0:26:24.11,0:26:27.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my own growth. Dialogue: 0,0:26:29.40,0:26:33.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's an obstacle to true understanding. Dialogue: 0,0:26:36.42,0:26:39.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So clinging on to views, Dialogue: 0,0:26:40.30,0:26:44.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,clinging on to notions\Ncan prevent us from arriving Dialogue: 0,0:26:45.65,0:26:51.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at a deeper and profound\Nunderstanding of reality. Dialogue: 0,0:27:02.61,0:27:06.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is a sutra that\NThay always talked about Dialogue: 0,0:27:06.14,0:27:09.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when he talked about\Nthese first three trainings. Dialogue: 0,0:27:09.50,0:27:16.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a story in the sutra called\NThe Sutra of the One Hundred Parables, Dialogue: 0,0:27:17.42,0:27:20.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the story of a father and a son. Dialogue: 0,0:27:20.73,0:27:27.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The father is a merchant,\Nand he was living with his son. Dialogue: 0,0:27:28.99,0:27:32.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One time, he went on a business trip. Dialogue: 0,0:27:37.99,0:27:43.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,During that time,\Nthe robbers came to the village Dialogue: 0,0:27:43.47,0:27:47.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and stole everything and\Nthey burned down the village Dialogue: 0,0:27:47.26,0:27:49.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they killed people. Dialogue: 0,0:27:49.67,0:27:52.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when he came home, Dialogue: 0,0:27:52.42,0:27:57.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he found a dead body next to his house. Dialogue: 0,0:27:58.52,0:28:02.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he thought that was\Nhis son that was killed. Dialogue: 0,0:28:02.75,0:28:09.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So he suffered a lot and\Nhe cremated the body of his son Dialogue: 0,0:28:10.46,0:28:13.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and put the ashes in a bag. Dialogue: 0,0:28:13.60,0:28:18.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he took it with him wherever he went. Dialogue: 0,0:28:18.65,0:28:24.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he lamented over the death of his son,\Nhe suffered a lot. Dialogue: 0,0:28:26.78,0:28:28.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One time- Dialogue: 0,0:28:29.80,0:28:32.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,His son, Dialogue: 0,0:28:32.31,0:28:37.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he was not actually killed,\Nhe was kidnapped by these robbers. Dialogue: 0,0:28:38.99,0:28:42.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he managed to escape. Dialogue: 0,0:28:44.88,0:28:48.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he went back home,\Nhe found his way back. Dialogue: 0,0:28:48.24,0:28:54.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the mid of the night, he knocked at\Nthe house that his dad had rebuild. Dialogue: 0,0:28:55.95,0:28:58.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He knocked, he knocked, Dialogue: 0,0:28:58.69,0:29:03.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but his dad, who was inside crying and\Nsuffering from the dead of his son, Dialogue: 0,0:29:03.13,0:29:05.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,refused to open the door. Dialogue: 0,0:29:05.47,0:29:09.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He thought it was someone\Nplaying a prank on him. Dialogue: 0,0:29:11.75,0:29:16.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So out of desperation he left his dad, Dialogue: 0,0:29:16.60,0:29:21.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and his dad lost him forever. Dialogue: 0,0:29:21.24,0:29:27.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the Buddha said that sometimes\Nthe truth comes knocking at our door, Dialogue: 0,0:29:28.19,0:29:30.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we refuse to let it in Dialogue: 0,0:29:30.81,0:29:33.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because we have all these ideas, Dialogue: 0,0:29:35.68,0:29:40.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have all these beliefs\Nthat we consider the truth, reality, Dialogue: 0,0:29:41.03,0:29:44.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and nothing else is the truth. Dialogue: 0,0:29:46.02,0:29:52.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So knowledge is an obstacle to the path. Dialogue: 0,0:29:59.69,0:30:02.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Vietnamese) Dialogue: 0,0:30:03.05,0:30:04.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,0:30:07.97,0:30:14.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,0:30:42.41,0:30:47.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My question, every time\NI heard this teaching was, Dialogue: 0,0:30:49.06,0:30:53.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do I know I'm stuck\Nin my ideas and perceptions? Dialogue: 0,0:30:55.43,0:31:01.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do I know I'm caught in, I'm attached\Nto notions, and ideas, and perceptions? Dialogue: 0,0:31:02.25,0:31:05.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I realize that if\NI know this is a perception, Dialogue: 0,0:31:06.01,0:31:08.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's no longer a perception. Dialogue: 0,0:31:10.75,0:31:15.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if I know I'm caught in a perception,\Nor an idea or a notion, Dialogue: 0,0:31:15.39,0:31:18.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can let go so easily. Dialogue: 0,0:31:18.12,0:31:25.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just that I don't know that I'm\Ncaught in an idea or notion or perception. Dialogue: 0,0:31:26.23,0:31:31.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I see that in people around me.\NSometimes they are so stuck, Dialogue: 0,0:31:31.50,0:31:34.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and yet they don't see they are stuck. Dialogue: 0,0:31:34.32,0:31:39.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes their ideas and views\Nare so narrow like this Dialogue: 0,0:31:39.46,0:31:41.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they don't see that. Dialogue: 0,0:31:41.66,0:31:46.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that's the difficult thing\Nabout perception Dialogue: 0,0:31:47.54,0:31:50.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and belief systems that we have. Dialogue: 0,0:31:53.75,0:31:56.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So how do I practice, Dialogue: 0,0:31:57.92,0:32:06.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how do you practice to recognize that\Nyou are attached to views, and notions, Dialogue: 0,0:32:06.90,0:32:09.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ideas and perceptions? Dialogue: 0,0:32:13.44,0:32:24.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's been something that I've...\Nalways have to sort of warn myself, Dialogue: 0,0:32:24.64,0:32:29.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,caution myself about it, about whether\NI am stuck in ideas, and views Dialogue: 0,0:32:29.98,0:32:32.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and perceptions, Dialogue: 0,0:32:32.27,0:32:36.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I know the suffering\Nthat I would experience if I'm stuck, Dialogue: 0,0:32:36.56,0:32:42.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm attached to a perception,\Nto an idea, to a notion. Dialogue: 0,0:32:51.61,0:32:54.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I have some practices. Dialogue: 0,0:32:57.82,0:33:02.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sister Annabel, Sister Chan Duc\Ntalked about the love meditation, Dialogue: 0,0:33:02.96,0:33:08.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the metta meditation.\NI have my own metta meditation. Dialogue: 0,0:33:13.01,0:33:16.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I made it really simple\Nso that I can practice them. Dialogue: 0,0:33:17.04,0:33:19.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I usually do it Dialogue: 0,0:33:20.96,0:33:26.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when I go to bed,\NI say this loving meditation for myself. Dialogue: 0,0:33:26.40,0:33:32.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, when I wake up in the morning,\NI say this loving meditation to everyone, Dialogue: 0,0:33:32.31,0:33:34.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to other people. Dialogue: 0,0:33:34.77,0:33:40.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first one is,\NMay I be safe and protected. Dialogue: 0,0:33:42.19,0:33:45.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second one,\NMay I be happy and peaceful. Dialogue: 0,0:33:47.10,0:33:52.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the third one is,\NMay I be healthy in my body and my mind. Dialogue: 0,0:33:52.90,0:33:55.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the fourth one is, Dialogue: 0,0:33:56.91,0:34:02.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,May I be free from wrong views,\Nwrong perceptions, and wrong desires. Dialogue: 0,0:34:04.08,0:34:07.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a reminder for me Dialogue: 0,0:34:07.75,0:34:13.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be really mindful,\Nto be able to see Dialogue: 0,0:34:15.79,0:34:18.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the wrong views, \Nthe wrong perceptions I have. Dialogue: 0,0:34:18.56,0:34:21.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's coming from a deep desire in me Dialogue: 0,0:34:23.49,0:34:28.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to understand and to see whether\NI'm caught in a wrong view, Dialogue: 0,0:34:28.88,0:34:32.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wrong perception, wrong desire, Dialogue: 0,0:34:32.38,0:34:35.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I realize that\NI may be stuck in a wrong perception, Dialogue: 0,0:34:35.78,0:34:38.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a wrong desire, Dialogue: 0,0:34:38.34,0:34:41.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a wrong view and I may not even know it. Dialogue: 0,0:34:42.87,0:34:48.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This love meditation that\NI do for myself is to help me Dialogue: 0,0:34:51.01,0:35:00.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,enhance my awareness of notions and ideas\Nand belief systems that I may have, Dialogue: 0,0:35:01.34,0:35:05.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are narrow and limited. Dialogue: 0,0:35:10.65,0:35:15.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it also comes from\Nthis deep desire to understand. Dialogue: 0,0:35:15.42,0:35:18.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I know where I am right now Dialogue: 0,0:35:23.83,0:35:26.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can be changed, Dialogue: 0,0:35:26.50,0:35:29.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that my understanding grows Dialogue: 0,0:35:29.66,0:35:35.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that there is a higher reality,\Na higher understanding, a higher wisdom Dialogue: 0,0:35:36.41,0:35:40.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that my practice\Nis to be able to stay open Dialogue: 0,0:35:40.93,0:35:44.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that I can experience\Nthis deeper understanding, Dialogue: 0,0:35:44.49,0:35:47.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,deeper wisdom. Dialogue: 0,0:35:50.96,0:35:56.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that I'm not caught in my own\Nunderstanding and knowledge. Dialogue: 0,0:35:57.20,0:36:05.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,May I be free from wrong views,\Nwrong perceptions and wrong desires. Dialogue: 0,0:36:06.42,0:36:15.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The fifth one that I practice is,\NMay I have clarity into my own suffering, Dialogue: 0,0:36:17.49,0:36:22.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into habit energies, into my shortcomings. Dialogue: 0,0:36:31.64,0:36:36.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That also from that desire to understand, Dialogue: 0,0:36:37.36,0:36:40.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that desire to, Dialogue: 0,0:36:42.97,0:36:48.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to not get caught in my narrow views,\Nin my belief system. Dialogue: 0,0:36:49.79,0:36:53.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To be free from my conditioning. Dialogue: 0,0:36:57.25,0:37:03.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But one of the sutras\Nthat was eye-opening for me Dialogue: 0,0:37:04.30,0:37:08.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was the Discourse on the Absolute Truth. Dialogue: 0,0:37:08.80,0:37:15.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is a sutra in the Sutta Nipata 4.5, Dialogue: 0,0:37:15.34,0:37:18.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I really like this discourse. Dialogue: 0,0:37:18.17,0:37:21.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's something that\NI read often to myself Dialogue: 0,0:37:21.86,0:37:25.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they are... Dialogue: 0,0:37:30.35,0:37:34.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they are like MRI for me\Nto look at myself, Dialogue: 0,0:37:34.81,0:37:42.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a sort of guidelines for me to go in\Nand to see whether I'm attached to views, Dialogue: 0,0:37:43.43,0:37:46.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether I'm being dogmatic or not. Dialogue: 0,0:37:49.74,0:37:54.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He who still abides by a dogmatic view, Dialogue: 0,0:37:54.57,0:37:58.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,considering it as\Nthe highest in the world, Dialogue: 0,0:37:58.33,0:38:01.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thinking, “This is the most excellent,” Dialogue: 0,0:38:01.32,0:38:04.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and disparaging other views as inferior, Dialogue: 0,0:38:04.72,0:38:08.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is still considered\Nnot to be free from disputes." Dialogue: 0,0:38:10.88,0:38:16.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if I had a think that I am the best,\Nif I think that my idea is the best, Dialogue: 0,0:38:16.23,0:38:22.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then this is I'm caught.\NThis maybe a dogmatic view. Dialogue: 0,0:38:23.36,0:38:26.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is a bell of mindfulness for me, Dialogue: 0,0:38:26.27,0:38:29.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I know\Nthat is the tendency I have, Dialogue: 0,0:38:29.19,0:38:33.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to think that the idea I have is right. Dialogue: 0,0:38:33.35,0:38:37.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This helps me, it is\Nlike a light that brings... Dialogue: 0,0:38:39.15,0:38:42.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, bringing a light\Ninto my mind to see, Dialogue: 0,0:38:42.85,0:38:47.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, I'm being caught in a dogmatic view. Dialogue: 0,0:38:48.57,0:38:51.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"When seeing, hearing,\Nor sensing something Dialogue: 0,0:38:51.92,0:38:57.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and considering it as the only thing that\Ncan bring comfort and advantage to self, Dialogue: 0,0:38:57.70,0:39:05.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one is always inclined to get caught in it\Nand rule out everything else as inferior." Dialogue: 0,0:39:07.46,0:39:10.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That sounds familiar, isn't it? Dialogue: 0,0:39:11.16,0:39:14.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What we see, what we hear, what we sense Dialogue: 0,0:39:16.04,0:39:22.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we consider that they are the only things\Nthat can bring us comfort. Dialogue: 0,0:39:25.56,0:39:31.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it is a bell of mindfulness for me,\Nbecause I see that sometimes Dialogue: 0,0:39:32.30,0:39:36.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our thinking, our belief system,\Nour notions and ideas Dialogue: 0,0:39:36.37,0:39:39.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,could be a comfort zone for us. Dialogue: 0,0:39:42.38,0:39:49.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We all have a need for\Nmaterial comfort and emotional comfort. Dialogue: 0,0:39:50.17,0:39:53.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And sometimes this comfort can be... Dialogue: 0,0:40:00.38,0:40:04.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They may be causes of our suffering. Dialogue: 0,0:40:06.23,0:40:11.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And finding comfort in our ideas,\Nand notions, and knowledge Dialogue: 0,0:40:14.44,0:40:17.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is another thing Dialogue: 0,0:40:18.12,0:40:23.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we sometimes get stuck in\Nand we dont' even know. Dialogue: 0,0:40:23.89,0:40:26.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because these comforts, Dialogue: 0,0:40:27.27,0:40:31.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these belief systems we have, these ideas\Nwe have, these perceptions we have Dialogue: 0,0:40:31.82,0:40:36.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,give us a sense of self-worth,\Ngive us a sense of identity. Dialogue: 0,0:40:37.27,0:40:44.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if we let go of this identity,\Nif we let go of this sense of self-worth, Dialogue: 0,0:40:44.18,0:40:46.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then, who are we? Dialogue: 0,0:40:47.69,0:40:51.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is the tendency to cling. Dialogue: 0,0:40:57.20,0:41:03.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Caught in one’s view and considering\Nall other views as inferior, Dialogue: 0,0:41:03.100,0:41:10.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this attitude is considered by the wise as\Nbondage, as the absence of freedom. Dialogue: 0,0:41:11.20,0:41:17.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A good practitioner is never too quick to\Nbelieve what is seen, heard, and sensed, Dialogue: 0,0:41:17.39,0:41:20.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,including rules and rites." Dialogue: 0,0:41:22.24,0:41:24.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, Dialogue: 0,0:41:25.16,0:41:28.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the question that\Nwe have to ask ourselves, Dialogue: 0,0:41:29.10,0:41:33.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as Thay always reminded us is:\NAre you sure? Am I sure? Dialogue: 0,0:41:33.36,0:41:36.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Am I sure of my perception? Dialogue: 0,0:41:37.39,0:41:40.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Am I sure of what I heard? Dialogue: 0,0:41:41.56,0:41:43.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I've seen? Dialogue: 0,0:41:45.39,0:41:48.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I sensed? Dialogue: 0,0:41:48.23,0:41:52.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now that is the season \Nor us to do Shining Light. Dialogue: 0,0:41:52.88,0:41:56.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are beginning Shining Light sessions \Nin the New Hamlet. Dialogue: 0,0:41:57.38,0:42:04.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think this is really relevant to us.\NAm I sure about my perception? Dialogue: 0,0:42:04.19,0:42:08.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Am I sure about what I have seen?\NWhat I have heard? Dialogue: 0,0:42:10.90,0:42:13.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that we can come to - Dialogue: 0,0:42:14.70,0:42:20.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that we can let go of our ideas\Nand our perceptions, Dialogue: 0,0:42:20.48,0:42:24.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that we won't shine\Ntoo strongly on our sisters. Dialogue: 0,0:42:24.42,0:42:28.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because what we see,\Nwhat we hear could be just Dialogue: 0,0:42:29.53,0:42:32.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our perception. Dialogue: 0,0:42:34.75,0:42:42.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"A good practitioner abandons the notion\Nof self and the tendency to cling to views. Dialogue: 0,0:42:42.99,0:42:47.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He is free and does not depend on\Nanything, even on knowledge. Dialogue: 0,0:42:47.89,0:42:54.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He does not take sides in controversies\Nand does not hold on to any view or dogma." Dialogue: 0,0:43:00.93,0:43:03.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think I skipped one. Dialogue: 0,0:43:03.45,0:43:07.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"A good practitioner has no need to set up\Na new theory for the world, Dialogue: 0,0:43:07.75,0:43:13.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,using the knowledge he has picked up\Nor the rules and rites he is practicing. Dialogue: 0,0:43:13.15,0:43:19.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He does not consider himself as “superior”\N“inferior”, or ‘equal” to anyone." Dialogue: 0,0:43:20.87,0:43:25.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what I notice in myself Dialogue: 0,0:43:27.52,0:43:30.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which means that\Nwe are very much the same, Dialogue: 0,0:43:30.82,0:43:33.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that it's something we all do, Dialogue: 0,0:43:33.65,0:43:39.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that there is this tendency to form ideas\Nand opinions about everything, Dialogue: 0,0:43:40.23,0:43:44.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about circumstances, about people, Dialogue: 0,0:43:44.75,0:43:48.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that tendency goes unnoticed, Dialogue: 0,0:43:48.91,0:43:52.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,forming ideas, forming opinions Dialogue: 0,0:43:53.61,0:43:57.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they are truly\Nwe are just forming perceptions Dialogue: 0,0:43:58.06,0:44:02.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about circumstances, about people,\Nabout ourselves. Dialogue: 0,0:44:03.44,0:44:05.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, Dialogue: 0,0:44:05.96,0:44:12.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this discourse is a bell of mindfulness\Nto help us to see if we can really let go Dialogue: 0,0:44:13.24,0:44:19.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of forming ideas and perceptions.\NIf we can just see things as they are, Dialogue: 0,0:44:19.30,0:44:26.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without the need to\Nforming an opinion about it. Dialogue: 0,0:44:26.23,0:44:29.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this is a challenge. Dialogue: 0,0:44:32.03,0:44:35.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a challenge to see and to hear Dialogue: 0,0:44:36.69,0:44:40.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to stay quiet about it in our head. Dialogue: 0,0:44:42.06,0:44:46.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think that is when we really need to\Npractice mindful breathing, Dialogue: 0,0:44:46.77,0:44:50.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,taking refuge in our breathe in a 100% Dialogue: 0,0:44:50.55,0:44:57.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that we can watch ourselves\Nand we can let go of this tendency Dialogue: 0,0:44:58.11,0:45:01.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to form ideas and perceptions. Dialogue: 0,0:45:01.91,0:45:07.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most of the times, we form ideas\Nand perceptions and then we judge. Dialogue: 0,0:45:08.49,0:45:11.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We judge others, good, bad. Dialogue: 0,0:45:11.81,0:45:18.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a really good way\Nto also let go of judgments. Dialogue: 0,0:45:18.92,0:45:23.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Judgments towards ourselves\Nand judgments towards other people. Dialogue: 0,0:45:27.88,0:45:31.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"He does not seek for anything\Nor cling to anything, Dialogue: 0,0:45:31.86,0:45:35.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,either this extreme or the other extreme, Dialogue: 0,0:45:35.30,0:45:39.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,either in this world\Nor in the other world. Dialogue: 0,0:45:39.29,0:45:41.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He has abandoned all views and Dialogue: 0,0:45:41.92,0:45:49.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,no longer has the need to seek for comfort\Nor refuge in any theory and ideology. Dialogue: 0,0:45:52.56,0:45:54.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To the wise person, Dialogue: 0,0:45:55.15,0:46:00.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are no longer any views concerning\Nwhat is seen, heard, and sensed. Dialogue: 0,0:46:00.52,0:46:05.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How could one judge or have an opinion\Nconcerning such a pure being Dialogue: 0,0:46:05.55,0:46:08.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who has let go of all views?" Dialogue: 0,0:46:08.50,0:46:15.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So when we are able to let go\Nof our views, when we let go of clinging, Dialogue: 0,0:46:15.55,0:46:19.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and forming these ideas and perceptions, Dialogue: 0,0:46:19.15,0:46:24.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then we are not caught in this extreme\Nor the other extreme. Dialogue: 0,0:46:25.39,0:46:28.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are practicing the middle way, Dialogue: 0,0:46:29.67,0:46:37.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which is being truly present\Nand not-attached to any ideas or notions. Dialogue: 0,0:46:40.29,0:46:45.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this is when we can experience nirvana\Nhere and now. Dialogue: 0,0:46:52.24,0:46:56.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A pure being who has let go of all views. Dialogue: 0,0:46:57.60,0:47:04.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a being who is dwelling in nirvana\Nright here and right now. Dialogue: 0,0:47:05.33,0:47:08.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it could be us Dialogue: 0,0:47:08.91,0:47:11.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if we are able to let go of these views. Dialogue: 0,0:47:12.09,0:47:16.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not forming new views,\Nand opinions, and perceptions Dialogue: 0,0:47:17.79,0:47:22.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can experience nirvana here and now,\Nwe could be that pure being. Dialogue: 0,0:47:25.31,0:47:32.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,," A wise person no longer feels the need\Nto set up dogmas or choosing an ideology. Dialogue: 0,0:47:32.97,0:47:37.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All dogmas and ideologies have been\Nabandoned by such a person. Dialogue: 0,0:47:38.00,0:47:42.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A real noble one is never caught\Nin rules or rites. Dialogue: 0,0:47:43.11,0:47:47.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He or she is advancing steadfastly\Nto the shore of liberation Dialogue: 0,0:47:47.99,0:47:52.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and will never return\Nto the realm of bondage." Dialogue: 0,0:47:53.94,0:47:58.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is a very short discourse, Dialogue: 0,0:47:59.56,0:48:03.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they are like guidelines for us Dialogue: 0,0:48:05.15,0:48:11.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to look at ourselves and to see\Nwhere we are caught, where we are stuck Dialogue: 0,0:48:14.28,0:48:16.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how to let go of it, Dialogue: 0,0:48:16.76,0:48:20.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how to throw it out,\Nlike brother Phap Dung said. Dialogue: 0,0:48:20.58,0:48:22.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I loved this image of Dialogue: 0,0:48:23.04,0:48:26.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,throwing out those views and ideas. Dialogue: 0,0:48:26.89,0:48:30.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Although it is not as simple as that. Dialogue: 0,0:48:35.76,0:48:39.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what I also found Dialogue: 0,0:48:41.04,0:48:46.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for me to see where I am stuck Dialogue: 0,0:48:48.96,0:48:55.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the practice of deep listening\Nand loving speech. Dialogue: 0,0:48:55.50,0:48:58.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And especially deep listening, Dialogue: 0,0:48:58.44,0:49:02.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I notice that sometimes\Nwhen I'm listening to other people Dialogue: 0,0:49:02.32,0:49:05.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not really listening deeply,\NI'm not really there, Dialogue: 0,0:49:05.86,0:49:15.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm in my head forming new ideas and ways\Nto respond to what is said. Dialogue: 0,0:49:16.88,0:49:22.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm pretending I'm listening\Nbut I'm not really listening. Dialogue: 0,0:49:22.33,0:49:26.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And even though I'm not intentionally\Npretending not to listen, Dialogue: 0,0:49:27.03,0:49:29.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's just - Dialogue: 0,0:49:29.81,0:49:33.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I guess that is how our mind works, right? Dialogue: 0,0:49:33.36,0:49:36.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not that we are intent to pretend Dialogue: 0,0:49:39.34,0:49:41.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we are listening, Dialogue: 0,0:49:41.84,0:49:46.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is just that is\Nhow our minds works automatically. Dialogue: 0,0:49:46.27,0:49:48.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is habitual. Dialogue: 0,0:49:48.97,0:49:51.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mindfulness helps us to be a Buddha, Dialogue: 0,0:49:52.97,0:49:55.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to really stay present Dialogue: 0,0:49:55.69,0:50:00.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and to hear deeply without\Nforming ideas and opinions in our head, Dialogue: 0,0:50:00.67,0:50:03.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that we can really\Nhear between the lines. Dialogue: 0,0:50:04.11,0:50:09.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we can hear so much more,\Nwhen we can hear without forming ideas Dialogue: 0,0:50:09.49,0:50:13.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and not preparing how to respond. Dialogue: 0,0:50:15.11,0:50:20.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then we can truly hear what is not said. Dialogue: 0,0:50:23.83,0:50:32.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Living in a community, living in a sangha\Nis a really precious opportunity. Dialogue: 0,0:50:33.13,0:50:36.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we talk about\Ntaking refuge in the sangha, Dialogue: 0,0:50:36.74,0:50:41.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's something that\NI have reflected on all my life, Dialogue: 0,0:50:41.34,0:50:46.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what does really taking\Nrefuge in the sangha mean? Dialogue: 0,0:50:46.88,0:50:52.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Surely I want to take refuge in her?\NOr in her? Or in her? Dialogue: 0,0:50:53.55,0:50:55.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know? Dialogue: 0,0:50:57.81,0:51:00.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because sometimes I, I - Dialogue: 0,0:51:05.91,0:51:10.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes, especially when I was younger, Dialogue: 0,0:51:10.97,0:51:15.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I sort of doubted these people around me. Dialogue: 0,0:51:15.98,0:51:19.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I doubted their love and I doubted their - Dialogue: 0,0:51:25.51,0:51:28.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their goodness. Dialogue: 0,0:51:28.59,0:51:30.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is like, you know, like Dialogue: 0,0:51:30.97,0:51:34.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how do I really - \NWhat does it really mean by taking refuge, Dialogue: 0,0:51:34.23,0:51:39.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I do not want to take refuge in\Nthese people around me like these. Dialogue: 0,0:51:39.66,0:51:42.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I realized was that Dialogue: 0,0:51:42.84,0:51:45.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sangha, even though\Nthey are not perfect Dialogue: 0,0:51:45.64,0:51:48.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like these people, like my sisters,\Nthey are not perfect. Dialogue: 0,0:51:49.08,0:51:53.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They have a lot of flaws,\NI do have a lot of flaws. Dialogue: 0,0:51:54.13,0:51:58.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But they are there, and they have\Nthis deep desire to practice. Dialogue: 0,0:51:59.15,0:52:02.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is what I have to take refuge in. Dialogue: 0,0:52:02.80,0:52:06.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's just their presence there,\Npracticing, Dialogue: 0,0:52:06.64,0:52:10.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,creates an environment\Nfor me to practice. Dialogue: 0,0:52:11.92,0:52:17.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is what I'm taking refuge in.\NI'm not taking refuge in her, or in her, Dialogue: 0,0:52:17.93,0:52:22.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm taking refuge\Nin the collective energy of practice Dialogue: 0,0:52:23.12,0:52:27.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that everyone here\Nis creating and generating. Dialogue: 0,0:52:28.58,0:52:33.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that this is a really\Ngood environment for me to be in, Dialogue: 0,0:52:35.57,0:52:37.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be motivated, Dialogue: 0,0:52:38.50,0:52:41.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to practice. Dialogue: 0,0:52:41.43,0:52:43.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And everyone Dialogue: 0,0:52:45.38,0:52:49.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is really a reminder for me\Nto come back to my practice. Dialogue: 0,0:52:49.22,0:52:52.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Each one of them is like\Na bell of mindfulness for me Dialogue: 0,0:52:53.50,0:52:57.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help me come back to myself,\Ncome back to the practice. Dialogue: 0,0:52:57.88,0:53:01.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I'm not always very disciplined. Dialogue: 0,0:53:01.35,0:53:05.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I cannot always do it myself Dialogue: 0,0:53:05.19,0:53:09.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I need the presence of everyone else Dialogue: 0,0:53:09.33,0:53:13.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to help me, to remind me\Nto come back to myself. Dialogue: 0,0:53:13.94,0:53:17.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what I also realized Dialogue: 0,0:53:19.23,0:53:24.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that the presence of the sangha\Nhelps me to see where I'm stuck, Dialogue: 0,0:53:24.78,0:53:27.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I am blocked, Dialogue: 0,0:53:27.74,0:53:31.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I tend to cling and attach. Dialogue: 0,0:53:36.80,0:53:42.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it happens in sharing, Dialogue: 0,0:53:43.93,0:53:47.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it happens a lot in meetings. Dialogue: 0,0:53:47.79,0:53:55.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is when I have a lot of opportunities\Nto see whether I'm stuck or not. Dialogue: 0,0:53:55.31,0:53:59.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whether I'm clinging on\Nto my views or not. Dialogue: 0,0:54:03.46,0:54:06.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here is my rule. Dialogue: 0,0:54:08.95,0:54:11.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I look inside myself, Dialogue: 0,0:54:11.81,0:54:16.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and if I see in my interaction\Nwith my sister or in meetings or whatever, Dialogue: 0,0:54:19.00,0:54:27.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if my heart is constricted, and tight,\Nthen I know I'm attached to an idea. Dialogue: 0,0:54:28.36,0:54:35.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm attached. I'm stuck in a perception.\NI'm stuck in my belief system. Dialogue: 0,0:54:38.53,0:54:42.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So if I feel constricted,\Nif I feel blocked in here, Dialogue: 0,0:54:43.11,0:54:45.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if I feel discomfort inside, Dialogue: 0,0:54:45.89,0:54:48.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then I know that is where I need to face, Dialogue: 0,0:54:48.64,0:54:51.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,know what I need to look into. Dialogue: 0,0:54:51.95,0:54:59.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I'm probably stuck and clinging\Nto my views, and my perceptions Dialogue: 0,0:54:59.10,0:55:01.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my ideas. Dialogue: 0,0:55:01.74,0:55:04.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the presence of the sangha\Nhelps enormously, Dialogue: 0,0:55:04.97,0:55:09.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they are there constantly\Nand they are challenging my ideas Dialogue: 0,0:55:09.41,0:55:12.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and my perception all the time. Dialogue: 0,0:55:13.93,0:55:17.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And every time it happens, Dialogue: 0,0:55:17.23,0:55:20.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is an opportunity for me\Nto see where I am right now. Dialogue: 0,0:55:21.12,0:55:23.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whether I am rigid, Dialogue: 0,0:55:23.88,0:55:28.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am holding, or whether I am just opening Dialogue: 0,0:55:29.85,0:55:32.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and let it in. Dialogue: 0,0:55:33.37,0:55:36.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Letting it happen, let it in, accepting Dialogue: 0,0:55:37.99,0:55:45.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whatever ideas that\Nare coming from other people. Dialogue: 0,0:55:52.48,0:55:55.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So for me, Dialogue: 0,0:55:56.91,0:56:02.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the practice is to come back to myself\Nand to feel that block inside. Dialogue: 0,0:56:06.80,0:56:08.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I, I - Dialogue: 0,0:56:13.29,0:56:16.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I do it when I am in sitting meditation, Dialogue: 0,0:56:16.79,0:56:19.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just follow my breathing, I just go in Dialogue: 0,0:56:19.74,0:56:22.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I localize if I'm stuck\Nand blocked anywhere. Dialogue: 0,0:56:23.10,0:56:26.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I just breathe with that blockage. Dialogue: 0,0:56:26.50,0:56:29.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But also, I can't sleep at night. Dialogue: 0,0:56:29.67,0:56:32.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I can wake up in the middle of the night Dialogue: 0,0:56:32.46,0:56:35.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and sometimes for two or three hours\Nand I couldn't go back to sleep. Dialogue: 0,0:56:36.08,0:56:40.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it is usually in the wee hours\Nof the night. Dialogue: 0,0:56:42.70,0:56:48.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I make use of that time\Nto do see if I'm stuck and blocked. Dialogue: 0,0:56:48.91,0:56:54.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So instead of forcing myself\Nto go back to sleep, Dialogue: 0,0:56:54.92,0:56:59.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or beating myself down\Nfor not being able to sleep, Dialogue: 0,0:56:59.40,0:57:02.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I just go back to my body, Dialogue: 0,0:57:02.52,0:57:08.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I go through my body and I feel if\Nthere is anything that feels uncomfortable Dialogue: 0,0:57:08.98,0:57:13.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stuck and blocked, and I just\Nbreathe with it. Dialogue: 0,0:57:13.77,0:57:18.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I found that sometimes\Nit takes an hour or even two Dialogue: 0,0:57:18.49,0:57:21.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just to get this opening in that blockage, Dialogue: 0,0:57:21.80,0:57:25.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because you can see that when your mind\Nfrom your present Dialogue: 0,0:57:25.56,0:57:28.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,breathes with that blockage, Dialogue: 0,0:57:28.81,0:57:31.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then it sort of dissipates, it melts away. Dialogue: 0,0:57:31.52,0:57:34.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you hear this gurgling,\Nsoftening in the body, Dialogue: 0,0:57:34.71,0:57:37.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like the circulation in the body. Dialogue: 0,0:57:37.42,0:57:41.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then there is openness in the body. Dialogue: 0,0:57:41.18,0:57:43.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when that happens, Dialogue: 0,0:57:43.90,0:57:47.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's not just melting away\Nthis blockage in my body, Dialogue: 0,0:57:47.31,0:57:52.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I realize that it is also melting away\Nthe blockage that I have in my mind, Dialogue: 0,0:57:52.77,0:57:57.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because whatever I experience in my mind, Dialogue: 0,0:57:58.86,0:58:02.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is manifesting in the body. Dialogue: 0,0:58:02.59,0:58:09.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And helping that part in my body to melt\Nis also helping to melt the way, Dialogue: 0,0:58:10.15,0:58:13.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the blockage that is in my mind. Dialogue: 0,0:58:13.30,0:58:17.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So taking care of the body\Nis really taking care of the mind. Dialogue: 0,0:58:17.83,0:58:22.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Transformation in the body\Nis also transformation in the mind. Dialogue: 0,0:58:23.23,0:58:29.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's easier for me to work on my body,\Nbecause I can feel it, sense it. Dialogue: 0,0:58:36.14,0:58:40.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One phenomena that I realized\Nthat is happening inside Dialogue: 0,0:58:40.77,0:58:46.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I see happening around me\Nis what I call spiritual bypassing. Dialogue: 0,0:58:50.34,0:58:53.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is the way we think, Dialogue: 0,0:58:53.30,0:58:56.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is the way we look at things Dialogue: 0,0:58:56.40,0:59:00.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we sort of not going\Nthrough our difficulties and suffering, Dialogue: 0,0:59:00.67,0:59:03.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we sort of go around it. Dialogue: 0,0:59:06.78,0:59:09.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We think we have transformed Dialogue: 0,0:59:09.49,0:59:12.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but actually we are just\Navoiding the issues. Dialogue: 0,0:59:17.72,0:59:21.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I realized one of the practices,\Nit's a very precious practice, Dialogue: 0,0:59:22.00,0:59:25.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we can get stuck in it. Dialogue: 0,0:59:26.16,0:59:30.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can make use of it to bypass\Nthe difficulties and suffering we have. Dialogue: 0,0:59:30.85,0:59:34.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is called "changing CDs".\NYou've heard of it? Dialogue: 0,0:59:34.20,0:59:36.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Changing pegs? Dialogue: 0,0:59:36.98,0:59:40.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That means that when we have\Nthis enormous suffering Dialogue: 0,0:59:40.52,0:59:43.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is manifesting, Dialogue: 0,0:59:43.17,0:59:46.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we don't have the clarity and\Nthe mindfulness energy, the strength Dialogue: 0,0:59:47.04,0:59:51.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to embrace it because\Nit would be too overwhelming for us, Dialogue: 0,0:59:52.98,0:59:58.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it could be devastating to face\Nthat suffering that is unfolding inside, Dialogue: 0,0:59:58.66,1:00:04.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so the Buddha taught this practice\Nso that we can go, Dialogue: 0,1:00:04.63,1:00:09.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of looking at this\Nenormous suffering that is manifesting Dialogue: 0,1:00:09.26,1:00:12.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or that is threatening to come up, Dialogue: 0,1:00:12.33,1:00:16.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can go, we can practice walking, coming\Nin touch with the beauties around us, Dialogue: 0,1:00:16.49,1:00:21.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the trees, the good qualities,\Nthe positive things, Dialogue: 0,1:00:21.46,1:00:25.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that we can have enough strength, Dialogue: 0,1:00:26.10,1:00:32.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,enough clarity in order to go back\Nand face this block, this suffering. Dialogue: 0,1:00:33.38,1:00:37.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But some of us have used it\Nto bypass his suffering. Dialogue: 0,1:00:37.32,1:00:40.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We just do this all the time. Dialogue: 0,1:00:40.70,1:00:43.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the suffering stays the same Dialogue: 0,1:00:43.85,1:00:46.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because we never really face it. Dialogue: 0,1:00:46.46,1:00:49.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We never really go into it. Dialogue: 0,1:00:53.31,1:00:55.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, Dialogue: 0,1:00:56.99,1:00:59.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The practice is- Dialogue: 0,1:00:59.44,1:01:02.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe at the beginning we need\Nthis practice of changing CD, Dialogue: 0,1:01:02.42,1:01:06.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but eventually\Nwe need really to go inside, Dialogue: 0,1:01:06.16,1:01:12.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we need really feel the rawness\Nof that suffering, the discomfort feeling Dialogue: 0,1:01:12.85,1:01:18.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and energy, and the pain\Nof that suffering. Dialogue: 0,1:01:20.01,1:01:23.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We need to really face it head on. Dialogue: 0,1:01:23.84,1:01:26.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the tools that we can use, Dialogue: 0,1:01:26.91,1:01:33.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,truly mindfulness, the breathing,\Naccepting it, Dialogue: 0,1:01:34.02,1:01:37.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there is no need to struggle anymore,\Nthere is no need no run away. Dialogue: 0,1:01:37.90,1:01:41.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Spiritual bypassing is a skillful way Dialogue: 0,1:01:41.95,1:01:44.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to run away. Dialogue: 0,1:01:45.16,1:01:47.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For my self. Dialogue: 0,1:01:47.100,1:01:51.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We need to go in. Dialogue: 0,1:01:56.31,1:01:58.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,1:02:01.58,1:02:07.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,1:02:22.49,1:02:25.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the way in Dialogue: 0,1:02:25.93,1:02:30.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is the only way in order to transform, Dialogue: 0,1:02:30.66,1:02:33.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to understand, Dialogue: 0,1:02:33.26,1:02:35.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to heal ourselves. Dialogue: 0,1:02:52.36,1:02:56.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The practice of Interbeing, Dialogue: 0,1:02:59.23,1:03:02.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the practice of non-self, Dialogue: 0,1:03:04.64,1:03:12.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,interdependent arising, these are really\Nprofound Buddhist insights, teachings. Dialogue: 0,1:03:17.20,1:03:25.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But they are something we can experience,\Nwe can practice in our daily life. Dialogue: 0,1:03:26.39,1:03:30.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are not something beyond our reach. Dialogue: 0,1:03:33.79,1:03:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we are able to have this insight\Nof interconnectedness, of interbeing, Dialogue: 0,1:03:45.23,1:03:48.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then we can be really free. Dialogue: 0,1:03:48.69,1:03:53.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Free from views and ideas.\NWe can be in the skin of other people, Dialogue: 0,1:03:53.98,1:03:57.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can be truly open. Dialogue: 0,1:04:01.93,1:04:05.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is when we can really transform Dialogue: 0,1:04:05.24,1:04:08.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the discrimination we have\Ninside our head. Dialogue: 0,1:04:14.31,1:04:17.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These teachings can be practiced, Dialogue: 0,1:04:17.92,1:04:21.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can be experienced Dialogue: 0,1:04:21.18,1:04:23.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we are eating. Dialogue: 0,1:04:23.52,1:04:27.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is in something mundane as eating Dialogue: 0,1:04:29.04,1:04:33.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we can experience\Nthese really profound teachings. Dialogue: 0,1:04:33.67,1:04:37.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or when we are urinating or defecating, Dialogue: 0,1:04:37.59,1:04:41.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or when we breathe. Dialogue: 0,1:04:41.76,1:04:44.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we touch the Earth, Dialogue: 0,1:04:44.34,1:04:46.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these are practices Dialogue: 0,1:04:48.36,1:04:50.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that can help us Dialogue: 0,1:04:50.99,1:04:55.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cultivate the insight of Interbeing,\Nof no-self. Dialogue: 0,1:04:57.58,1:05:02.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And this is, when we have this experience,\Nthis insight, Dialogue: 0,1:05:04.25,1:05:09.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we can really transform ideas,\Nand notions of separateness, Dialogue: 0,1:05:12.24,1:05:15.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can really transform Dialogue: 0,1:05:16.85,1:05:20.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,clinging and attachment. Dialogue: 0,1:05:27.58,1:05:31.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that really can be truly free. Dialogue: 0,1:05:36.51,1:05:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So may you be free,\Nmay you be free from wrong views, Dialogue: 0,1:05:45.33,1:05:48.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wrong perceptions and wrong desires, Dialogue: 0,1:05:49.11,1:05:51.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and may you have clarity Dialogue: 0,1:05:51.67,1:05:54.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into your suffering, into yourself, Dialogue: 0,1:05:54.96,1:05:58.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,into your shortcomings,\Nand your weaknesses, Dialogue: 0,1:05:58.20,1:06:00.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that you can be an instrument, Dialogue: 0,1:06:02.96,1:06:09.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,an instrument to alleviate the suffering\Nin the world, in yourself, Dialogue: 0,1:06:10.74,1:06:13.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in your families, and your society. Dialogue: 0,1:06:17.94,1:06:21.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When we have this insight, Dialogue: 0,1:06:22.27,1:06:24.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we know that the suffering Dialogue: 0,1:06:25.76,1:06:28.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is happening\Non the other side of the globe Dialogue: 0,1:06:30.22,1:06:32.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through war, Dialogue: 0,1:06:33.40,1:06:36.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through human cruelty, Dialogue: 0,1:06:36.52,1:06:42.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are not just of these people over\Nthere but they are ours too. Dialogue: 0,1:06:43.35,1:06:46.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are our suffering as well. Dialogue: 0,1:06:47.08,1:06:53.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even if this suffering had happened\N20 years ago, 30 years ago, 40 years ago, Dialogue: 0,1:06:58.04,1:07:00.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we can do something right now Dialogue: 0,1:07:01.26,1:07:04.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in this breath, in this step, Dialogue: 0,1:07:06.41,1:07:12.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in order to change, in order\Nto bring peace to the people Dialogue: 0,1:07:13.10,1:07:16.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that have died. Dialogue: 0,1:07:19.23,1:07:21.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is Dialogue: 0,1:07:21.80,1:07:25.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we are not just practicing\Nthis for ourselves. Dialogue: 0,1:07:25.37,1:07:31.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So with the insight of interbeing we know\Nthat our practice today Dialogue: 0,1:07:33.97,1:07:36.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is not just for ourselves. Dialogue: 0,1:07:36.79,1:07:40.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That we are doing it for those people\Nwho had suffered Dialogue: 0,1:07:40.71,1:07:43.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and who are suffering right now. Dialogue: 0,1:07:47.69,1:07:51.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that we need more people to wake up, Dialogue: 0,1:07:53.77,1:07:56.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,wake up to the fact that they are, Dialogue: 0,1:07:58.94,1:08:01.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are clinging, Dialogue: 0,1:08:02.27,1:08:04.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that they can let go. Dialogue: 0,1:08:05.07,1:08:08.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's only when they can let go\Nthat they can be happy, can be free. Dialogue: 0,1:08:08.84,1:08:12.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So when we are able to let go,\Nwe can be happy and free. Dialogue: 0,1:08:12.54,1:08:16.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And with our own transformation,\Nwe can help other people to see Dialogue: 0,1:08:16.34,1:08:19.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they are clinging,\Nso that they can let go, Dialogue: 0,1:08:19.84,1:08:22.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can be happy and they can be free. Dialogue: 0,1:08:22.96,1:08:28.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So our own awakening is helping\Nothers to wake up as well. Dialogue: 0,1:08:30.04,1:08:38.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you for listening,\Nthank you for practicing to wake up Dialogue: 0,1:08:40.30,1:08:43.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for yourselves and for humanity. Dialogue: 0,1:08:45.29,1:08:51.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,1:09:09.62,1:09:15.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell) Dialogue: 0,1:09:34.61,1:09:40.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell)