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Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sangat ji, when I think about a woman \Nwho has become a change,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or has brought change to womanhood \Nin the Sikh Panth
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think about Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji is the Mehl of \NGuru Angad Dev Ji Maharaj
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mehl here means wife.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In her life Sangat ji Mata Khivi Ji has shown\Nso much of strength.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I say strength I don't just mean \Nphysical strength, but mental strength.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her ability to go against the stigma\Nset by society.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what was that which we face even now?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is 'what will people say?'
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's true Sangat ji, it was then back in her time\Nand it is also happening now in out time as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are so concerned about what people would say.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are so concerned about making people happy,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about doing what people, all society, thinks is acceptable.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But Mata Khivi Ji was not like that.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For her, it was not important to make people happy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was not important to make or do what people \Nwant her to do - what was accepted
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the eyes of society.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it was important to her to do what was good,\Nwhat made Guru Sahib happy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What was accepted in the eyes of the Guru.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Guru Angad Ji Maharaj, then their name was\NBhai Lehna Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,told their wife that they wanted to go to \NKartarpur Sahib to stay with Guru Nanak Dev Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to serve them, to learn from them on how one \Ncan do Bhagti while being a Grihst,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji never said no.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Normally, now at this point of time if a husband or a \Nwife, or any family member decides to
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,perhaps leave the household and go to search \Nfor his life purpose,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,many parents or many family members would say no,\Nwhy are you leaving? Who is going to earn money?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How are you going to survive?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, at that time Sangat ji, Mata Khivi Ji said\Ndo as you wish, do what makes you happy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If this makes you happy to go and serve the Guru\Nand to learn the ways of doing Bhagti
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whilst being a Grihst, do so.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, oh dear husband, this is my Benti \Nthat when you come back
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would like you to teach me the ways as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Teach me on how I too can do Bhagti \Nas a wife
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how both of us, as husband \Nand wife could do Bhagti together in this house.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See how positive the reponse of \NMata Khivi Ji was.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another quality of hers was acceptance.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She accepted Hukam, which we call Bhana Manna/Hukam Manna
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gurbani Says,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To be able to obtain or get - Khasam here means Maharaj, Guru Sahib, Parmatma -
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you Mann, when you accept the Hukam, then you are accepted as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are accepted in the palace of Parmatma, \Nyou are accepted in the house of the Guru.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just like I mentioned earlier, Khasmai Bhaavai - \Nwhat is accepted in the eyes of Parmatma,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So Kare - do so. Do that which is accepted in the \Nhouse of the Guru.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then one, a soul bride, who does that, then all her\Nwishes are fulfilled.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is what Mata Khivi Ji practised in her life.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now Sangat Ji, Guru Angad Dev Ji, Bha Lehna Ji has left to Kartarpur,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is going to take care of the house?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who is going to feed the 4 children?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who is going to make sure that\Nthere is food on the table?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All that responsibility went on the \Nshoulders of Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not even once Mata Khivi Ji said\Noh no or what has happened? Why has this happened?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not even once.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her whole life she learned to accept the \NBhana, that whatever is happening is
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,happening in the Hukam of Parmatma.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But Sangat Ji, remember I mentioned about society?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The place that she was staying in and the village,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there was some woman who, I would say, \Ntried to give fake sympathy,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who would come and say 'what's happened here?',
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,your husband has left you, all the responsibilities\Nare on your shoulders.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even now people do so as well - fake sympathy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Mata Khivi Ji would not pay any heed to \Nwhat this woman would say,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because she knows that they are trying \Nto break her spirit.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She would just smile and
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She would do that.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which Sangat Ji, is something that we should practise\Nas well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can't stop people from talking, but one thing\Nwe can do is whatever is being put in one ear
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just take it out from the other.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that we do not dwell upon it,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because then we start thinking about it,\Nwe start stressing about it.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji's condition was
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That even if Parmatma gives me Sukh,\NI will still remember Parmatma.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even in Dukh and times like this where I have\Nto take care of my whole family,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am alone with my children and all this society,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the people are tying to provoke me,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but even in Dukh I will still do Your Simran, \NI will still remember You.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Angad Dev Ji Maharaj, they say about woman \Nin their Bani, they say
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whenever there is Sukh there is happiness, joy, there is peace, enjoy your husband,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but even in Dukh always remember your husband Lord,\Nalways remember Parmatma.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,O' wise woman, this is the way you can be \None with Vaheguru,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The way you can unite with Parmatma.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So Mata Khivi Ji kept on taking care of the family
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and time to time Bhai Lehna Ji would come back
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they would share what Guru Nanak Dev Ji had taught them
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they would share those teachings with Mata Khivi Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Mata Khivi Ji would practise Simran, Seva, \NHukam Mann'na and all of the things
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bhai Lehna Ji would come and tell her about \NGuru Nanak Dev Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Both of them had so much love for Guru Nanak Dev Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The time came Sangat Ji when Bhai Lehna Ji has been \Ngive the Guru Gaddi.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They have become Guru Angad Dev Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and Guru Nanak Dev Ji tells them to move to \NKhadoor Sahib
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to shift there and to start a Dharamsala there.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And now Guru Angad Dev Ji comes to Khadoor Sahib
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now imagine Sangat Ji, where it used to only be you, \Nyour husband and your 4 children,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now your house has been transformed into \Na Dharamsala where Sangat come daily
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have Darshan of Guru Angad Dev Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you can't leave this Sangat on their own.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can't make this Sangat go back empty-handed,\Nempty stomach. You have to feed them.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji took the responsibility of cooking Langar\Nfor these Sangat.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Sangat Ji, what was the quantity at that time?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,10, 20, 30 and on some days even up to 100s.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe a group of Sadhus would come.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she was always on her toes. She accepted the Hukam that now my husband has become the Guru,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the second Guru of the Sikhs.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her daily routine changed. Now she serves her husband, she takes care of the children,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but she also takes care of the Sangat.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She feeds the Sangat, she starts cooking langar for \Nthe Sangat.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At that time Sangat Ji again the society, at that point the time of Guru Nanak Dev Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the time of Guru Angad Dev Ji, the woman they used to cover their faces.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They used to cover their faces with their Dupatta, whenever they go out,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or even in their house.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But Mata Khivi Ji, now that her house has become a Dharamsala, she has to use both her hands to work
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and she has to be on her toes at all times, \Nwhenever Sangat comes, she has to serve them.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So there is no time to cover her face.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was all about practicality. She took off the scarf and now she is doing seva alongside men.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And cooking Langar.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She takes these men as her brothers, as her sons\Nand she's working together hand in hand to cook Langar
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in bulk amount for Sangat.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The women in the village, at first they started talking about it, 'What has Khivi Ji done here?'
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now she's removed her veil as well, \Nnow she's working with men,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but Mata Khivi Ji again she did not pay any heed to what these people were saying,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because for her what was more important was doing\NSeva of the Sangat,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just as Guru Nanak Dev Ji has told.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And making sure that these Sangat were comfortable\Nand that Guru Angad Dev Ji could focus on the Sangat,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whilst she could focus on the food, on the Langar part.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She served her husband in the morning, \Nbecause Guru Angad Dev Ji would not eat
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,form the Langar served for the Sangat.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their food was very simple and Mata Khivi Ji \Nwould serve her husband in the morning
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then go to to cook Langar for the whole day.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in the afternoon when Guru Angad Dev Ji \Nwould be teaching Gurmukhi to the children
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji would also do the same with \NBaba Buddha Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they would also teach Gurmukhi to the children.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was the life of Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Slowly, slowly, because she kept on doing - this is where Sangat Ji actions speak louder than words
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these women, they other people, the other ladies in the Village they started seeing that there is so much
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Seva going on, there's so many Sangat coming to have Darshan of Guru Angad Dev Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji, with so much dedication, is doing Seva\Nfor the Sangat.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why don't we too join her?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This was the first legacy of Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The preacher of woman liberation.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To remove the khund. Where other women started\Ncoming, being inspired by Mata Khivi Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also started doing Seva in the Langar.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now they could serve more people.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second legacy of Mata Khivi Ji, which is now\Nin Guru Granth Sahib Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,her mention in Guru Granth Sahib Ji, \Nby Sataa and Bhai Balwand.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What did they say?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That Mata Khivi Ji is a pious woman, she is a wise\Nwoman, she is a good lady.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And her nature, she is so cool she is so calm. \NJust like a tree that gives shade to people.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji is like that, her nature is cool and so calm.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She has no anger, she is no ego towards anybody.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her nature, what she would do daily, is to \Nserve Langar, to help people in need.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And her legacy was the Kheer - the rice pudding - that Mata Khivi Ji would make daily
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it tasted like Amrit.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So Guru Angad Dev Ji, would be giving the Bhojan of Naam to the Sangat
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and on the other hand Mata Khivi Ji would be giving the Bhojan of Kheer, of Amrit, to the Sangat.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Sangat would come from far to meet Guru Angad Dev Ji, but also to eat in the langar by Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even after 30 years of the passing of Guru Angad Dev Ji, Mata Khivi Ji still continued to serve Langar.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She still continued to Seva and acceptance in Hukam\Nwas shown when Guru Amar Das Ji was
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,given the Guru Gaddi.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She never cared for once that the Guru Gaddi should be give to my children.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That Bhai Datu Ji and Bhai Dasu Ji deserve to be the Guru.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She accepted that Guru Amar Das Ji is the next Guru.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She Matha Tek to Guru Amar Das Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she told her children you too must accept \NGuru Amar Das Ji as the Guru.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Bhai Datu Ji went against Guru Amar Das Ji \Nand kicked them and they fell from the Takht,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Mata Khivi Ji learnt about this Sangat Ji, she was\Nso upset with her son
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that she brought her son to Guru Amar Das Ji \Nto ask for forgiveness.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And she herself fell in the feet of the Guru and said \Nforgive me, as a mother I could not educate my son.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I could not give them these virtues, these qualities,\Nthat they could see the Guruship in You.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That they could see the Pamatma in You.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Please forgive me.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That was how Mata Khivi Ji was, acceptance and Hukam.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sangat Ji, what I am going to tell you now is so important,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,especially to my sisters out there who have \Nbecome wives,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or are going to become a wife one day.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji as a mother she gave valuable teachings \Nto Bibi Amro Ji, her daughter.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Bibi Amro Ji was going to get married in \Nthe house of Guru Amar Das Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because Bibi Amro is married to the nephew of \NGuru Amar Das Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Mata Khivi Ji was going to send her daughter off,\Nshe gave 3 advice to Bibi Amro Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I call out to all my sisters out there,\Nthat these advice, you can call it marriage advice,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it is so important.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But maybe perhaps now we have lost these values,\Nwe have lost the meaning of even these advice
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that I am going to share with you.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The first advice that Mata Khivi Ji gave to her daughter \Nwas, take the support of Gurbani.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Make sure you read Gurbani daily, \Nbefore starting any work.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the morning, when you wake up read Gurbani.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you are doing your work, when you are cooking,\Nwhen you are cleaning the house
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you are serving you in-laws, read Gurbani.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The second advice that Mata Khivi Ji gave, was that\Ntreat your in-laws as your own family.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If, you want love you have to be able to give love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But to be able to give love Sangat Ji, we have to \Nbe full of love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Gurbani speaks a lot about love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have spoken about this in this series, in the sakhi of\NBebe Nanaki Ji in the last video, about love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bibi Amro Ji accepted, she said it is true, if I want love \Nfrom my in-laws I have to treat them as my own family.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have to treat my mother-in-law as my own mother,\Nmy father-in-law as my own father.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the third advice that Mata Khivi Ji gave and \NGuru Angad Dev Ji gave as well to Bibi Amro Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that not to return back home unless \Nyou are called for.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is very difficult advice for us to follow, \Nbut back then that was what the parents of Bibi Amro Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,asked of her, not to return unless you are called for.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because now you are duty is for your in-laws. \NServe them as you would have served your own family.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Sangat Ji, look at the effect of these advice given by Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which is why it is so important for a woman, \Nit is in our hands that we could build a family
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,based of the the virtues, the values of Sikhi, \Nor we can even break a family as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It is in the hands of a woman, it is in the hands mother or of a wife,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be able to give their family Gursikhi Jeevan.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And how did that happen? Bibi Amro Ji, daily she would \Nrecite Gurbani,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when she wakes up, when she will be cooking and \Nit was that one day where Guru Amar Das Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before they became a Guru, \Nwhen they were called a Nigura
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that was the day when they came home\Nand they heard their daughter-in-law reciting Gurbani.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that one day Guru Amar Das Ji asked,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,O' daughter, whose Bani is this you are reading?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And Bibi Amro Ji then says this is the Bani of\NGuru Nanak Dev Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and now my father, Guru Angad Dev Ji is sitting \Non the Gaddi.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And imagine Sangat Ji, it was from that day, \Nbecause of the advice given by Mata Khivi Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to Bibi Amro Ji, and her practising it daily.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One day it came where Guru Amar Das Ji found the Guru, through Bibi Amro Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How amazing is that Sangat Ji?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then, what happens next?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Amar Das Ji themself, \Nseeing the life of Mata Khivi Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how she became a change and brought change\Nto the women in her village
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the community.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Amar Das Ji then goes on to work on \Nupliftment of woman.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How? By removing the Parda completely, \Nby removing the practice of Sati completely.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,By making women Prachriks.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Giving them Manjia
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and one of those woman Prachariks was\NBibi Bhani Ji, their own daughter.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How amazing is that?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Guru Amar Das Ji, they uplifted women so much in \NSikh society.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I would say that this credit goes to Mata Khivi Ji \Nas well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For giving those advice to Bibi Amro Ji and \Nwe can see how this becomes a chain reaction.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this is for us to contemplate as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That why was families back then so strong?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was because of the woman, their Sikhi was strong.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their mental and physical strength was strong.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But now I ask this question,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Are we becoming weaker?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which is why it is in the hands of the woman Sangat Ji\Nto build a family based on Sikhi.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Give those values, those teachings, those advice \Nto our sons and daughters,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on how they can become Gursikhs themselves.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just like Mata Khivi Ji did to Bibi Amro Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if we want to bring change to society, \Nwe first have to become that change.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just like how Mata Khivi Ji became that change.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then just as the Pangti I mentioned earlier.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And until now Mata Khivi Ji is remembered \Nevery time we read Guru Granth Sahib Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,every time we read the Bani of Bhai Sataa and Bhai Balwand Ji, we are reminded of Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are reminded about her nature.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just like a tree, if you look at the qualities of a tree.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about it.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A tree is upright, the roots are so strong.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No wind can just bring a tree down, \Nthe roots are so strong.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The leaves they give out oxygen, \Nthey give shade to people.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even when a person comes and cut \Ndown that tree,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the tree does not complain, does not cry, \Ndoes not curse the person.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Still after being chopped down, \Nthe tree still serves its purpose.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gives us paper, gives us fruit, gives us flower.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the nature of a tree,\Nthis is also the nature of Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which is why she has been referred to as such \Nin Gurbani.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So Sangat Ji, I hope that we have been inspired \Nby the life of Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That to bring a change into our society, \Nthat we first become the change,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,then action will speak louder than words.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And as a wife, as a mother, as a daughter, pass \Non these virtues to our own sisters
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our own daughters, so that they too one day\Nwhen they become a wife,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when they go to another family,\Nthey can then continue giving those advice,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the future generation as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The next woman, the next Mata Ji, the next personality \Nthat we are going to explore is Bibi Bhani Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how Bibi Bhani Ji has done such a big \NParupkaar to Khalsa Panth.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I will share this in the next video.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I hope you enjoyed this video on Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Please forgive me for any mistakes I have made.