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Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sangat ji, when I think about a woman \Nwho has become a change,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or has brought change to womanhood \Nin the Sikh Panth
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think about Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji is the Mehl of \NGuru Angad Dev Ji Maharaj
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mehl here means wife.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In her life Sangat ji Mata Khivi Ji has shown\Nso much of strength.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When I say strength I don't just mean \Nphysical strength, but mental strength.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her ability to go against the stigma\Nset by society.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what was that which we face even now?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is 'what will people say?'
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's true Sangat ji, it was then back in her time\Nand it is also happening now in out time as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are so concerned about what people would say.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We are so concerned about making people happy,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about doing what people, all society, thinks is acceptable.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But Mata Khivi Ji was not like that.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For her, it was not important to make people happy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It was not important to make or do what people \Nwant her to do - what was accepted
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the eyes of society.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it was important to her to do what was good,\Nwhat made Guru Sahib happy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What was accepted in the eyes of the Guru.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When Guru Angad Ji Maharaj, then their name was\NBhai Lehna Ji
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,told their wife that they wanted to go to \NKartarpur Sahib to stay with Guru Nanak Dev Ji,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to serve them, to learn from them on how one \Ncan do Bhagti while being a Grihst,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mata Khivi Ji never said no.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Normally, now at this point of time if a husband or a \Nwife, or any family member decides to
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,perhaps leave the household and go to search \Nfor his life purpose,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,many parents or many family members would say no,\Nwhy are you leaving? Who is going to earn money?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How are you going to survive?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, at that time Sangat ji, Mata Khivi Ji said\Ndo as you wish, do what makes you happy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If this makes you happy to go and serve the Guru\Nand to learn the ways of doing Bhagti
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whilst being a Grihst, do so.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, oh dear husband, this is my Benti \Nthat when you come back
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would like you to teach me the ways as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Teach me on how I too can do Bhagti \Nas a wife
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how both of us, as husband \Nand wife could do Bhagti together in this house.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See how positive the reponse of \NMata Khivi Ji was.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Another quality of hers was acceptance.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She accepted Hukam, which we call Bhana Manna/Hukam Manna
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gurbani Says,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,To be able to obtain or get - Khasam here means Maharaj, Guru Sahib, Parmatma -
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When you Mann, when you accept the Hukam, then you are accepted as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are accepted in the palace of Parmatma, \Nyou are accepted in the house of the Guru.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Just like I mentioned earlier, Khasmai Bhaavai - \Nwhat is accepted in the eyes of Parmatma,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So Kare - do so. Do that which is accepted in the \Nhouse of the Guru.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then one, a soul bride, who does that, then all her\Nwishes are fulfilled.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that is what Mata Khivi Ji practised in her life.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now Sangat Ji, Guru Angad Dev Ji, Bha Lehna Ji has left to Kartarpur,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is going to take care of the house?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who is going to feed the 4 children?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Who is going to make sure that\Nthere is food on the table?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All that responsibility went on the \Nshoulders of Mata Khivi Ji.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not even once Mata Khivi Ji said\Noh no or what has happened? Why has this happened?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not even once.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Her whole life she learned to accept the \NBhana, that whatever is happening is
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,happening in the Hukam of Parmatma.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But Sangat Ji, remember I mentioned about society?