1 00:00:12,170 --> 00:00:13,690 Hi, everyone. 2 00:00:13,735 --> 00:00:17,570 So, when people ask me about my research, 3 00:00:17,590 --> 00:00:20,621 and I tell them I study dreams, they ask questions like: 4 00:00:20,641 --> 00:00:24,021 "Where do dreams come from?" and "Why do we dream?" 5 00:00:24,042 --> 00:00:28,112 and "What does it means if I have a dream where my teeth are falling out?" 6 00:00:28,602 --> 00:00:31,552 Then I have to become an ad hoc dream interpreter right there, 7 00:00:31,572 --> 00:00:33,102 which is okay, 8 00:00:33,122 --> 00:00:37,585 but one of the prevailing scientific perspectives on dreams 9 00:00:37,605 --> 00:00:39,985 is the "continuity hypothesis," 10 00:00:40,005 --> 00:00:44,000 the idea that we dream about things that we experience while we're awake. 11 00:00:44,250 --> 00:00:47,084 So last night, I had a dream about basketball. 12 00:00:47,114 --> 00:00:49,264 Guess what I was doing before I went to sleep? 13 00:00:49,274 --> 00:00:50,794 Watching the NBA playoffs. 14 00:00:50,814 --> 00:00:53,784 Or, as cleverly illustrated in this cartoon, the guy says, 15 00:00:53,814 --> 00:00:56,286 "I think my dream catcher needs some sort of filter. 16 00:00:56,306 --> 00:00:58,957 I'm getting a lot of dreams about hot stock investments, 17 00:00:58,967 --> 00:01:02,656 low-cost air fares, and products promising to enhance my sexual performance." 18 00:01:02,671 --> 00:01:04,111 (Laughter) 19 00:01:04,151 --> 00:01:08,181 But my research actually examines the opposite question: 20 00:01:08,246 --> 00:01:13,608 "How are our dreams associated with behavior after we wake up?" 21 00:01:13,738 --> 00:01:15,622 So let me ask you a question. 22 00:01:15,652 --> 00:01:18,888 How many of you have ever had a dream about someone that you know? 23 00:01:18,918 --> 00:01:20,148 All right. 24 00:01:20,178 --> 00:01:23,108 Keep your hand up if you've ever had a dream, 25 00:01:23,128 --> 00:01:25,504 and then you were upset at the person in your dream 26 00:01:25,514 --> 00:01:27,574 for something they did to you in that dream, 27 00:01:27,594 --> 00:01:29,522 or if someone was upset at you 28 00:01:29,532 --> 00:01:31,732 for something you did to them in their dream. 29 00:01:31,762 --> 00:01:34,551 Keep your hands up. Take a look around. 30 00:01:36,251 --> 00:01:41,391 This was also captured in an episode of Friends 31 00:01:41,412 --> 00:01:43,475 where Phoebe was mad at Ross for something 32 00:01:43,485 --> 00:01:46,902 that she couldn't figure out what it was at first. 33 00:01:46,922 --> 00:01:49,586 She was mad at him the all day and then finally realized 34 00:01:49,606 --> 00:01:53,356 it was because of something mean that he said about her in a dream. 35 00:01:53,977 --> 00:01:56,241 My colleagues and I wanted to investigate this. 36 00:01:56,271 --> 00:01:59,081 This is when I was working on my PhD at Stony Brook. 37 00:01:59,101 --> 00:02:02,061 In our study, we asked 61 participants 38 00:02:02,091 --> 00:02:06,351 to keep track of their dreams each night for a two-week period. 39 00:02:06,644 --> 00:02:08,184 We also asked them to keep track 40 00:02:08,204 --> 00:02:10,799 of their daily activity with their romantic partners, 41 00:02:10,829 --> 00:02:12,304 their significant others. 42 00:02:12,314 --> 00:02:16,644 In this study, we collected almost 850 total dream reports. 43 00:02:16,684 --> 00:02:21,768 Out of that sample, about one-quarter contains their romantic partners. 44 00:02:21,808 --> 00:02:24,328 So people are dreaming about their romantic partners 45 00:02:24,358 --> 00:02:26,417 about 25% of the time. 46 00:02:26,437 --> 00:02:28,647 Of those dreams, a little bit less than half 47 00:02:28,667 --> 00:02:31,617 have some kind of positive interaction in them, 48 00:02:31,637 --> 00:02:35,887 and about one-quarter of those have some kind of conflicts in them. 49 00:02:36,227 --> 00:02:39,667 People are also having dreams about other people, 50 00:02:39,687 --> 00:02:41,832 what I would call "infidelity dreams" 51 00:02:41,852 --> 00:02:44,842 or dreams with romantic cheating behavior in them. 52 00:02:45,122 --> 00:02:47,088 Let's take a look at some of these dreams. 53 00:02:47,108 --> 00:02:50,544 I'll show you two happy ones first, with positive interaction in them. 54 00:02:50,594 --> 00:02:53,777 This dream goes: "I dreamt I was at a carnival with my girlfriend. 55 00:02:53,804 --> 00:02:57,026 She likes them, so we decided to go to one that stopped in our town. 56 00:02:57,046 --> 00:03:00,116 We were having fun running around, kissing, tickling each other. 57 00:03:00,136 --> 00:03:02,346 She kept beating me at the whack-a-mole game 58 00:03:02,376 --> 00:03:04,568 even though I thought I was winning by a lot... 59 00:03:04,588 --> 00:03:06,963 In the end, she won a big teddy bear as a prize 60 00:03:06,983 --> 00:03:09,493 which is apparently what she wanted, so I was happy." 61 00:03:09,523 --> 00:03:11,053 That's cute. 62 00:03:11,062 --> 00:03:12,432 (Laughter) 63 00:03:12,812 --> 00:03:14,282 "This dream was a memory. 64 00:03:14,302 --> 00:03:17,619 It was our first date, and we were watching Saw II around November. 65 00:03:17,644 --> 00:03:21,094 I was so scared of the movie, I kept ducking my head into his shoulder 66 00:03:21,122 --> 00:03:23,152 and squeaking when some gory part appeared. 67 00:03:23,182 --> 00:03:24,920 He laughed and comforted me. 68 00:03:24,940 --> 00:03:27,750 In the middle of the movie I rested my head on his shoulder, 69 00:03:27,780 --> 00:03:29,777 and he put his arm around me and kissed me. 70 00:03:29,797 --> 00:03:33,147 He was very sweet, and I remember feeling tingly. 71 00:03:33,177 --> 00:03:35,306 We continued to kiss and hug each other." 72 00:03:35,326 --> 00:03:36,551 Aw! 73 00:03:36,571 --> 00:03:38,071 (Laughter) 74 00:03:38,191 --> 00:03:42,568 So what we're seeing in these dreams is a lot of the same kinds of behaviors 75 00:03:42,602 --> 00:03:45,122 that people would exhibit with their romantic partners 76 00:03:45,142 --> 00:03:46,682 in their waking lives. 77 00:03:46,722 --> 00:03:50,221 They're going on dates, to the carnival, to the movies. 78 00:03:50,651 --> 00:03:53,704 There's kissing, affectionate behaviour, there's comforting. 79 00:03:53,734 --> 00:03:57,974 If I showed you these dreams in some regular diary reports, 80 00:03:58,004 --> 00:04:00,807 you probably wouldn't be able to tell the difference. 81 00:04:01,117 --> 00:04:04,067 So that shows evidence for the continuity hypothesis. 82 00:04:04,247 --> 00:04:07,372 That being said, not all dreams are sunshine and roses. 83 00:04:07,392 --> 00:04:10,452 I'm going to show you some negative dreams now, so fair warning: 84 00:04:10,483 --> 00:04:13,665 if you're sensitive to conflicts, these get a little rough. 85 00:04:13,895 --> 00:04:16,474 "A girl left a message on my boyfriend's Facebook page, 86 00:04:16,494 --> 00:04:17,784 saying that she loved him. 87 00:04:17,814 --> 00:04:20,074 I find out he called her, they were talking, 88 00:04:20,094 --> 00:04:22,054 even though he knows how I feel about her. 89 00:04:22,084 --> 00:04:24,694 On top of that, he tells her that he loves her. 90 00:04:24,724 --> 00:04:27,024 After badgering him about what they talked about, 91 00:04:27,044 --> 00:04:30,196 he finally says that he told her he loved her without meaning it. 92 00:04:30,216 --> 00:04:33,406 I become even more upset and start smacking him across the face, 93 00:04:33,436 --> 00:04:35,918 yelling and crying how could he do this to me. 94 00:04:35,928 --> 00:04:38,668 He just says 'I don't know' and I keep yelling and crying 95 00:04:38,688 --> 00:04:41,158 until finally waking myself out of the dream." 96 00:04:41,308 --> 00:04:42,868 Ouch! 97 00:04:42,898 --> 00:04:46,918 So, think about if you have this type of dream, 98 00:04:46,948 --> 00:04:49,969 and you wake up and your partner is sleeping right next to you, 99 00:04:49,989 --> 00:04:53,598 what might you say and do in that situation? 100 00:04:53,628 --> 00:04:57,465 Also, this shows how ubiquitous Facebook has become: 101 00:04:57,485 --> 00:05:00,645 now it even infiltrates our dreams. 102 00:05:01,105 --> 00:05:04,795 Let's do another one. This involves a little bit of jealousy. 103 00:05:05,139 --> 00:05:08,629 "In this dream, I was friends with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. 104 00:05:08,649 --> 00:05:12,139 We were hanging out at my house, having fun, singing karaoke. 105 00:05:12,159 --> 00:05:13,549 Every time I looked at her, 106 00:05:13,569 --> 00:05:16,299 I thought very few girls are as beautiful as she is. 107 00:05:16,319 --> 00:05:19,387 Then my boyfriend comes over. He wanted a picture with her. 108 00:05:19,397 --> 00:05:21,403 Then I got all jealous and pulled him aside 109 00:05:21,423 --> 00:05:24,143 to ask him if he thought she was prettier than me. 110 00:05:24,156 --> 00:05:26,423 I was giving him a lot of attitude, I knew it, 111 00:05:26,433 --> 00:05:28,603 but I didn't care because of our situation. 112 00:05:28,613 --> 00:05:30,706 I had every right to be jealous and bitchy. 113 00:05:30,736 --> 00:05:33,269 He ignored both my question and me for the night. 114 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,979 I confronted him again, he told me he was very turned off 115 00:05:35,999 --> 00:05:37,893 by my attitude and behavior. 116 00:05:37,913 --> 00:05:41,553 I questioned my behavior and wondered if maybe I overreacted." 117 00:05:42,083 --> 00:05:45,509 There we're seeing more evidence that a dream like this 118 00:05:45,529 --> 00:05:49,189 might prompt someone when they wake up to reconsider their actions, 119 00:05:49,210 --> 00:05:52,490 to reconsider their interpersonal relationships. 120 00:05:53,232 --> 00:05:56,332 Let's do an example of infidelity in dreams. 121 00:05:56,372 --> 00:05:59,070 "I had met this wonderful, cute affectionate guy. 122 00:05:59,100 --> 00:06:02,110 He gave me attention, gifts, and wanted to meet my parents. 123 00:06:02,130 --> 00:06:04,235 He even said he wanted to marry me some day. 124 00:06:04,245 --> 00:06:06,167 One particular part I remember best. 125 00:06:06,187 --> 00:06:09,277 He took me to this extravagant store, all gold and silver. 126 00:06:09,297 --> 00:06:12,847 He gave me jewelry to try on with this beautiful champagne dress. 127 00:06:12,867 --> 00:06:15,877 I felt so happy the entire dream that I didn't want to wake up." 128 00:06:16,007 --> 00:06:17,690 It's important to keep in mind 129 00:06:17,710 --> 00:06:20,220 this person is in a relationship with somebody else - 130 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,760 a completely different person who she's not having a dream about. 131 00:06:23,970 --> 00:06:26,510 I'll do one more infidelity dream. 132 00:06:26,540 --> 00:06:28,910 "I was at a party with my fraternity brothers 133 00:06:28,930 --> 00:06:31,270 with a bunch of sorority girls I know from school. 134 00:06:31,290 --> 00:06:34,760 I remember being called constantly from my girlfriend checking up on me. 135 00:06:34,780 --> 00:06:36,890 It got to the point where we got into a fight 136 00:06:36,910 --> 00:06:39,160 because I told her she didn't trust me. 137 00:06:39,180 --> 00:06:42,200 I got beyond drunk and hooked up with some random girl. 138 00:06:42,220 --> 00:06:44,380 I brought her to my house and we had sex. 139 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:48,380 I remember feeling guilty before it went down, but satisfied after." 140 00:06:49,071 --> 00:06:50,910 I know some of these dreams look like 141 00:06:50,930 --> 00:06:53,425 they're from deleted episodes of the Jersey Shore, 142 00:06:53,455 --> 00:06:54,585 (Laughter) 143 00:06:54,615 --> 00:06:56,495 but what we're seeing 144 00:06:56,525 --> 00:06:59,145 is that when people have these types of dreams 145 00:06:59,165 --> 00:07:02,375 with arguments or conflict or betrayal or jealousy, 146 00:07:02,395 --> 00:07:05,595 they have more conflict with their partners the next day, 147 00:07:05,625 --> 00:07:09,018 and that's controlling for the previous day's conflict. 148 00:07:09,162 --> 00:07:11,385 So it is not part of some day-to-day mechanism, 149 00:07:11,415 --> 00:07:13,568 there's something unique about the dream. 150 00:07:13,598 --> 00:07:15,588 When people have an infidelity dream, 151 00:07:15,615 --> 00:07:18,252 cheating on their partner, hooking up with someone else, 152 00:07:18,272 --> 00:07:22,282 they feel significantly less love and closeness the next day. 153 00:07:22,950 --> 00:07:24,283 What about sex dreams? 154 00:07:24,313 --> 00:07:28,163 In case you're curious, we do have some. I'll show you two examples. 155 00:07:28,328 --> 00:07:30,342 "I guess to write my dream is embarrassing, 156 00:07:30,362 --> 00:07:31,766 but I'll try to describe it. 157 00:07:31,796 --> 00:07:35,012 It was a sexual dream where me and my loved one had sex. 158 00:07:35,042 --> 00:07:37,897 Oddly, it was in my bathroom on the counter sink top. 159 00:07:37,917 --> 00:07:39,817 I felt happy and excited in my dream, 160 00:07:39,837 --> 00:07:42,519 and with the look on his face, I'd say he felt the same." 161 00:07:42,873 --> 00:07:45,331 So this is a relatively good sex dream. 162 00:07:45,371 --> 00:07:47,721 Here's one that's a little bit, crazy. 163 00:07:47,751 --> 00:07:49,929 "I was having sex with my girlfriend, 164 00:07:49,949 --> 00:07:52,231 and my ex-girlfriend kept calling my phone. 165 00:07:52,261 --> 00:07:55,804 I picked up, told her to leave me alone and to go on with her life. 166 00:07:55,834 --> 00:07:57,251 I went to my girl, 167 00:07:57,271 --> 00:08:00,341 and we started to have an intense Kama Sutra kind of sex. 168 00:08:00,361 --> 00:08:02,507 She kept asking why I'm so mad, 169 00:08:02,537 --> 00:08:04,877 and I told her that my ex-girl kept harassing me. 170 00:08:04,897 --> 00:08:09,055 She took my phone, called her, and they started to curse each other. 171 00:08:09,075 --> 00:08:10,905 We were still naked, she hung up, 172 00:08:10,915 --> 00:08:13,025 and we went back to bed, still making love. 173 00:08:13,045 --> 00:08:14,795 And then I woke up." 174 00:08:15,385 --> 00:08:19,395 Sex dreams are associated with the next day's behavior, 175 00:08:19,415 --> 00:08:23,163 but it depends on whether the relationship is going well. 176 00:08:23,343 --> 00:08:25,913 So if the relationship is good and everyone's happy, 177 00:08:25,933 --> 00:08:27,523 then having a sex dream 178 00:08:27,543 --> 00:08:31,383 is associated with more love and intimacy and closeness the next day. 179 00:08:31,413 --> 00:08:34,463 But if the relationship is not going well and they're unhappy, 180 00:08:34,473 --> 00:08:38,623 then sex dreams are associated with less love and closeness the next day. 181 00:08:39,453 --> 00:08:41,963 So I want to pause here and just reflect 182 00:08:41,983 --> 00:08:44,193 because I'm sure some of you might be thinking, 183 00:08:44,213 --> 00:08:48,083 "Okay, dreams are associated with the behavior the next day, why? 184 00:08:48,133 --> 00:08:52,201 Why do dreams have this association? Why do they have this effect?" 185 00:08:52,361 --> 00:08:54,851 The short answer is we still don't know. 186 00:08:54,871 --> 00:08:59,671 Dreams are one of the big, unsolved mysteries of science. 187 00:08:59,931 --> 00:09:03,921 There are several competing theories that might explain what's going on here. 188 00:09:04,041 --> 00:09:06,251 Patrick McNamara proposed the theory 189 00:09:06,271 --> 00:09:11,660 that dreams evolved in order to facilitate social attachment bonds, 190 00:09:11,680 --> 00:09:15,199 especially between parents and children and romantic partners, 191 00:09:15,209 --> 00:09:18,039 and we do see some limited evidence for that here, 192 00:09:18,069 --> 00:09:21,552 especially with sex dreams associated with more love and intimacy. 193 00:09:21,582 --> 00:09:25,072 What about conflict dreams that would suggest the opposite, 194 00:09:25,092 --> 00:09:27,832 that it is almost hurting the attachment bonds? 195 00:09:27,942 --> 00:09:30,382 And there is another theory that might address this, 196 00:09:30,412 --> 00:09:33,192 which is more along the lines 197 00:09:33,212 --> 00:09:37,352 that dreams evolved in order to help us solve problems, 198 00:09:37,382 --> 00:09:41,493 in order to see difficult issues from a new perspective 199 00:09:41,513 --> 00:09:44,523 and maybe come to conclusions or have solutions 200 00:09:44,543 --> 00:09:46,631 that we wouldn't otherwise be able to see 201 00:09:46,651 --> 00:09:49,191 to adapt to emotionally difficult situations. 202 00:09:49,251 --> 00:09:51,724 I want to show you a few examples from other studies 203 00:09:51,744 --> 00:09:53,722 that might support this theory. 204 00:09:53,752 --> 00:09:56,957 A lot of this research is summarized by Deidre Barrett 205 00:09:56,977 --> 00:09:59,808 in a chapter she wrote for "The New Science of Dreaming." 206 00:09:59,898 --> 00:10:03,383 This is a study from William Dement, published in the early 1970s. 207 00:10:03,433 --> 00:10:08,038 He gave 500 students a brainteaser, 208 00:10:08,057 --> 00:10:11,937 and he told them to think about it for 15 min before they went to sleep. 209 00:10:11,957 --> 00:10:14,312 How many of you have seen this brainteaser before? 210 00:10:14,352 --> 00:10:20,058 " The letters O, T, T, F, F form the beginning of an infinite sequence. 211 00:10:20,188 --> 00:10:24,078 Find a simple rule for determining any or all successive letters. 212 00:10:24,148 --> 00:10:27,558 According to your rule, what would the next two letters be?" 213 00:10:27,828 --> 00:10:29,718 Now out of the 500 students, 214 00:10:29,748 --> 00:10:34,463 there were 87 dreams that were actually about the brainteaser, 215 00:10:34,483 --> 00:10:37,195 and a handful of them solved it. 216 00:10:37,225 --> 00:10:39,813 Here's one example of that dream. 217 00:10:40,253 --> 00:10:42,554 "I was walking down the hall of an art gallery. 218 00:10:42,574 --> 00:10:46,964 I began to count the paintings: one, two, three, four, five, 219 00:10:46,984 --> 00:10:48,940 but as I came to the sixth and seventh, 220 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,256 the paintings had been ripped from their frames. 221 00:10:51,276 --> 00:10:52,754 I stared at the empty frame... 222 00:10:52,774 --> 00:10:55,338 Suddenly I realized the sixth and seventh spaces 223 00:10:55,348 --> 00:10:57,528 were the solution to the problem. 224 00:10:57,538 --> 00:11:02,844 O, T, T, F, F stands for One, Two, Three, Four, and Five. 225 00:11:03,034 --> 00:11:05,984 Six and seven are the next two in the sequence. 226 00:11:06,014 --> 00:11:09,467 So S and S would be the two letters that follow." 227 00:11:10,984 --> 00:11:14,874 Here's another study, from Erin Wamsley and Bob Stickgold 228 00:11:14,904 --> 00:11:18,021 in their lab at the Harvard Med School Division of Sleep Research. 229 00:11:18,041 --> 00:11:21,143 They gave participants in their study this maze, 230 00:11:21,183 --> 00:11:25,558 trained them on it, then tested their ability to navigate it five hours later. 231 00:11:25,578 --> 00:11:30,498 They let some of the participants sleep in between during that five hours. 232 00:11:30,630 --> 00:11:32,912 And the sleep did help performance a little bit, 233 00:11:32,942 --> 00:11:38,062 but not nearly as much as if they reported having a dream about the maze. 234 00:11:38,092 --> 00:11:39,610 Having a dream about the maze 235 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,842 improved their performance on the retest tenfold 236 00:11:42,882 --> 00:11:46,422 compared to the people who did not have a dream. 237 00:11:46,662 --> 00:11:49,377 It's almost as if the dream allows our minds 238 00:11:49,387 --> 00:11:53,187 to examine different kinds of solutions in a creative way, 239 00:11:53,197 --> 00:11:57,987 and then we wake up, and we've something to work with we didn't have before. 240 00:11:58,792 --> 00:12:01,352 Here's some research by Rosalind Cartwright 241 00:12:01,372 --> 00:12:04,342 that shows when you look at women 242 00:12:04,362 --> 00:12:07,652 who are suffering from depression after going through a divorce. 243 00:12:07,782 --> 00:12:09,492 They are actually less depressed, 244 00:12:09,522 --> 00:12:12,312 more mentally healthy in the future at a follow-up 245 00:12:12,332 --> 00:12:17,292 if they dream about their ex-partner, about their former spouse. 246 00:12:17,382 --> 00:12:19,950 This might seem counterintuitive, you might be thinking 247 00:12:19,970 --> 00:12:22,927 "How can you get over someone if you're dreaming about them?" 248 00:12:22,967 --> 00:12:26,078 Rosalind Cartwright calls these "dreams that work:" 249 00:12:26,098 --> 00:12:29,348 those people who incorporated the thing that stressed them out 250 00:12:29,368 --> 00:12:33,448 into their dream were better off, even if the dream content was negative. 251 00:12:33,828 --> 00:12:35,278 Another example of this. 252 00:12:35,308 --> 00:12:40,340 Former smokers who were trying to quit were less likely to relapse, 253 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:44,531 less likely to start smoking again if they dreamt about smoking. 254 00:12:44,855 --> 00:12:46,502 Again, we are seeing this evidence 255 00:12:46,522 --> 00:12:50,682 that dreams help us to navigate emotionally difficult situations 256 00:12:50,702 --> 00:12:55,962 and to adapt and solve problems in a way that we would not otherwise be able to do. 257 00:12:56,032 --> 00:12:59,972 So dreams have this incredible power to help us heal. 258 00:13:00,116 --> 00:13:01,736 As Bob Stickgold said, 259 00:13:01,756 --> 00:13:04,626 "When you sleep, your brain is figuring it out 260 00:13:04,646 --> 00:13:08,949 and holding on to relevant information and throwing out the rest." 261 00:13:09,810 --> 00:13:13,271 Dreams might also allow for a creative spark. 262 00:13:13,301 --> 00:13:17,740 They're responsible for some of the greatest innovations ever known to man. 263 00:13:17,830 --> 00:13:20,330 Remember the periodic table of the elements, 264 00:13:20,350 --> 00:13:23,050 from high school chemistry class perhaps for some of you. 265 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,860 Dmitri Mendeleev dreamt the periodic table. 266 00:13:26,966 --> 00:13:29,545 He had a dream that the elements appeared before him 267 00:13:29,565 --> 00:13:32,185 and organized themselves according to their atomic mass, 268 00:13:32,215 --> 00:13:34,550 and he woke up and drew that, 269 00:13:34,580 --> 00:13:37,440 and that became what we now know as the periodic table. 270 00:13:37,680 --> 00:13:41,553 Paul McCartney famously dreamt the song "Yesterday." 271 00:13:41,583 --> 00:13:43,536 Everybody knows that song? ♫ Yesterday ... 272 00:13:43,556 --> 00:13:45,227 Okay, I won't sing. 273 00:13:45,296 --> 00:13:49,816 But he dreamt the song, woke up, went to his piano, 274 00:13:49,856 --> 00:13:52,494 thought "Great tune! Let me see if I can figure it out," 275 00:13:52,504 --> 00:13:54,524 and he found the chords, and that became 276 00:13:54,534 --> 00:13:57,834 one of the most beautiful songs ever written. 277 00:13:58,655 --> 00:14:00,935 Now, I think it's unfortunate 278 00:14:00,965 --> 00:14:05,194 most of us probably won't have one of these deep, profound dreams 279 00:14:05,214 --> 00:14:06,984 that lead us to these insights. 280 00:14:07,004 --> 00:14:09,884 And I don't think it's because we're not capable. 281 00:14:09,914 --> 00:14:12,234 I think it's because most of the time, 282 00:14:12,254 --> 00:14:15,174 we're not really paying attention to our dreams. 283 00:14:15,194 --> 00:14:16,941 We don't take them seriously. 284 00:14:16,971 --> 00:14:20,157 People think that dreams are just a bunch of nonsense and garbage. 285 00:14:20,177 --> 00:14:21,711 We wake up, we shrug it off, 286 00:14:21,731 --> 00:14:24,431 we go about our day as if it never happens. 287 00:14:24,611 --> 00:14:29,461 There's a great quote from my favorite film, 288 00:14:29,501 --> 00:14:31,670 "Waking Life" by Richard Linklater: 289 00:14:31,690 --> 00:14:34,660 "Most people are either sleep walking through their waking life 290 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:36,785 or wake walking through their sleeping life. 291 00:14:36,805 --> 00:14:39,583 Either way, they're not going to get that much out of it." 292 00:14:39,613 --> 00:14:42,243 If I asked you right now to tell me 293 00:14:42,263 --> 00:14:45,523 whether or not you're dreaming in this very moment, 294 00:14:45,553 --> 00:14:48,838 most of you probably say, "Of course not. I'm obviously awake." 295 00:14:48,858 --> 00:14:51,318 My response would be: "How do you know?" 296 00:14:51,408 --> 00:14:55,228 How do you know this is not a dream right now? 297 00:14:55,321 --> 00:14:57,086 Most of us can't tell the difference. 298 00:14:57,096 --> 00:14:58,796 Can you tell when you're dreaming 299 00:14:58,816 --> 00:15:02,239 or only when you wake up and realize that it was a dream 300 00:15:02,259 --> 00:15:05,339 do you understand what was going on? 301 00:15:06,005 --> 00:15:08,493 So I want to conclude 302 00:15:08,513 --> 00:15:12,168 if you get anything from this talk, I want you to take this home: 303 00:15:12,188 --> 00:15:14,869 dreams are worth your time. 304 00:15:14,899 --> 00:15:18,776 They're an important piece of your life and worth paying attention to. 305 00:15:18,896 --> 00:15:25,503 Dreams represent this great, untapped reservoir of information and insight 306 00:15:25,533 --> 00:15:27,733 that you can gain about yourself, 307 00:15:27,753 --> 00:15:31,663 your relationships, your work, your physical health. 308 00:15:31,935 --> 00:15:34,455 So start tonight, keep a dream journal. 309 00:15:34,515 --> 00:15:36,655 Put a pad of paper and a pen next to your bed, 310 00:15:36,665 --> 00:15:37,981 and when you wake up, 311 00:15:38,001 --> 00:15:41,231 write down whatever was in your head while you were asleep. 312 00:15:41,261 --> 00:15:43,595 You might be surprised at what you find. 313 00:15:43,625 --> 00:15:47,345 And your dreams might be trying to tell you something really important. 314 00:15:47,415 --> 00:15:48,993 All right, thank you. 315 00:15:49,008 --> 00:15:50,418 (Applause)