0:00:12.170,0:00:13.690 Hi, everyone. 0:00:13.735,0:00:17.570 So, when people ask me about my research, 0:00:17.590,0:00:20.621 and I tell them I study dreams,[br]they ask questions like: 0:00:20.641,0:00:24.021 "Where do dreams come from?"[br]and "Why do we dream?" 0:00:24.042,0:00:28.112 and "What does it means if I have a dream[br]where my teeth are falling out?" 0:00:28.602,0:00:31.552 Then I have to become an ad hoc[br]dream interpreter right there, 0:00:31.572,0:00:33.102 which is okay, 0:00:33.122,0:00:37.585 but one of the prevailing[br]scientific perspectives on dreams 0:00:37.605,0:00:39.985 is the "continuity hypothesis," 0:00:40.005,0:00:44.000 the idea that we dream about things[br]that we experience while we're awake. 0:00:44.250,0:00:47.084 So last night, I had a dream[br]about basketball. 0:00:47.114,0:00:49.264 Guess what I was doing[br]before I went to sleep? 0:00:49.274,0:00:50.794 Watching the NBA playoffs. 0:00:50.814,0:00:53.784 Or, as cleverly illustrated[br]in this cartoon, the guy says, 0:00:53.814,0:00:56.286 "I think my dream catcher[br]needs some sort of filter. 0:00:56.306,0:00:58.957 I'm getting a lot of dreams[br]about hot stock investments, 0:00:58.967,0:01:02.656 low-cost air fares, and products promising[br]to enhance my sexual performance." 0:01:02.671,0:01:04.111 (Laughter) 0:01:04.151,0:01:08.181 But my research actually examines[br]the opposite question: 0:01:08.246,0:01:13.608 "How are our dreams associated[br]with behavior after we wake up?" 0:01:13.738,0:01:15.622 So let me ask you a question. 0:01:15.652,0:01:18.888 How many of you have ever had a dream[br]about someone that you know? 0:01:18.918,0:01:20.148 All right. 0:01:20.178,0:01:23.108 Keep your hand up [br]if you've ever had a dream, 0:01:23.128,0:01:25.504 and then you were upset[br]at the person in your dream 0:01:25.514,0:01:27.574 for something they did[br]to you in that dream, 0:01:27.594,0:01:29.522 or if someone was upset at you 0:01:29.532,0:01:31.732 for something you did[br]to them in their dream. 0:01:31.762,0:01:34.551 Keep your hands up. [br]Take a look around. 0:01:36.251,0:01:41.391 This was also captured[br]in an episode of Friends 0:01:41.412,0:01:43.475 where Phoebe was mad[br]at Ross for something 0:01:43.485,0:01:46.902 that she couldn't figure out[br]what it was at first. 0:01:46.922,0:01:49.586 She was mad at him the all day[br]and then finally realized 0:01:49.606,0:01:53.356 it was because of something mean[br]that he said about her in a dream. 0:01:53.977,0:01:56.241 My colleagues and I[br]wanted to investigate this. 0:01:56.271,0:01:59.081 This is when I was working[br]on my PhD at Stony Brook. 0:01:59.101,0:02:02.061 In our study,[br]we asked 61 participants 0:02:02.091,0:02:06.351 to keep track of their dreams[br]each night for a two-week period. 0:02:06.644,0:02:08.184 We also asked them to keep track 0:02:08.204,0:02:10.799 of their daily activity[br]with their romantic partners, 0:02:10.829,0:02:12.304 their significant others. 0:02:12.314,0:02:16.644 In this study, we collected[br]almost 850 total dream reports. 0:02:16.684,0:02:21.768 Out of that sample, about one-quarter[br]contains their romantic partners. 0:02:21.808,0:02:24.328 So people are dreaming[br]about their romantic partners 0:02:24.358,0:02:26.417 about 25% of the time. 0:02:26.437,0:02:28.647 Of those dreams,[br]a little bit less than half 0:02:28.667,0:02:31.617 have some kind[br]of positive interaction in them, 0:02:31.637,0:02:35.887 and about one-quarter of those[br]have some kind of conflicts in them. 0:02:36.227,0:02:39.667 People are also having dreams[br]about other people, 0:02:39.687,0:02:41.832 what I would call "infidelity dreams" 0:02:41.852,0:02:44.842 or dreams with romantic[br]cheating behavior in them. 0:02:45.122,0:02:47.088 Let's take a look[br]at some of these dreams. 0:02:47.108,0:02:50.544 I'll show you two happy ones first,[br]with positive interaction in them. 0:02:50.594,0:02:53.777 This dream goes: "I dreamt I was[br]at a carnival with my girlfriend. 0:02:53.804,0:02:57.026 She likes them, so we decided to go[br]to one that stopped in our town. 0:02:57.046,0:03:00.116 We were having fun running around,[br]kissing, tickling each other. 0:03:00.136,0:03:02.346 She kept beating me[br]at the whack-a-mole game 0:03:02.376,0:03:04.568 even though I thought[br]I was winning by a lot... 0:03:04.588,0:03:06.963 In the end, she won[br]a big teddy bear as a prize 0:03:06.983,0:03:09.493 which is apparently what[br]she wanted, so I was happy." 0:03:09.523,0:03:11.053 That's cute. 0:03:11.062,0:03:12.432 (Laughter) 0:03:12.812,0:03:14.282 "This dream was a memory. 0:03:14.302,0:03:17.619 It was our first date, and we were[br]watching Saw II around November. 0:03:17.644,0:03:21.094 I was so scared of the movie,[br]I kept ducking my head into his shoulder 0:03:21.122,0:03:23.152 and squeaking when some[br]gory part appeared. 0:03:23.182,0:03:24.920 He laughed and comforted me. 0:03:24.940,0:03:27.750 In the middle of the movie[br]I rested my head on his shoulder, 0:03:27.780,0:03:29.777 and he put his arm[br]around me and kissed me. 0:03:29.797,0:03:33.147 He was very sweet,[br]and I remember feeling tingly. 0:03:33.177,0:03:35.306 We continued to kiss and hug each other." 0:03:35.326,0:03:36.551 Aw! 0:03:36.571,0:03:38.071 (Laughter) 0:03:38.191,0:03:42.568 So what we're seeing in these dreams[br]is a lot of the same kinds of behaviors 0:03:42.602,0:03:45.122 that people would exhibit[br]with their romantic partners 0:03:45.142,0:03:46.682 in their waking lives. 0:03:46.722,0:03:50.221 They're going on dates,[br]to the carnival, to the movies. 0:03:50.651,0:03:53.704 There's kissing, affectionate behaviour,[br]there's comforting. 0:03:53.734,0:03:57.974 If I showed you these dreams[br]in some regular diary reports, 0:03:58.004,0:04:00.807 you probably wouldn't be able[br]to tell the difference. 0:04:01.117,0:04:04.067 So that shows evidence[br]for the continuity hypothesis. 0:04:04.247,0:04:07.372 That being said, not all dreams[br]are sunshine and roses. 0:04:07.392,0:04:10.452 I'm going to show you some negative[br]dreams now, so fair warning: 0:04:10.483,0:04:13.665 if you're sensitive to conflicts,[br]these get a little rough. 0:04:13.895,0:04:16.474 "A girl left a message[br]on my boyfriend's Facebook page, 0:04:16.494,0:04:17.784 saying that she loved him. 0:04:17.814,0:04:20.074 I find out he called her,[br]they were talking, 0:04:20.094,0:04:22.054 even though he knows[br]how I feel about her. 0:04:22.084,0:04:24.694 On top of that,[br]he tells her that he loves her. 0:04:24.724,0:04:27.024 After badgering him[br]about what they talked about, 0:04:27.044,0:04:30.196 he finally says that he told her[br]he loved her without meaning it. 0:04:30.216,0:04:33.406 I become even more upset[br]and start smacking him across the face, 0:04:33.436,0:04:35.918 yelling and crying[br]how could he do this to me. 0:04:35.928,0:04:38.668 He just says 'I don't know'[br]and I keep yelling and crying 0:04:38.688,0:04:41.158 until finally waking myself[br]out of the dream." 0:04:41.308,0:04:42.868 Ouch! 0:04:42.898,0:04:46.918 So, think about if you[br]have this type of dream, 0:04:46.948,0:04:49.969 and you wake up and your partner[br]is sleeping right next to you, 0:04:49.989,0:04:53.598 what might you say[br]and do in that situation? 0:04:53.628,0:04:57.465 Also, this shows how ubiquitous[br]Facebook has become: 0:04:57.485,0:05:00.645 now it even infiltrates our dreams. 0:05:01.105,0:05:04.795 Let's do another one.[br]This involves a little bit of jealousy. 0:05:05.139,0:05:08.629 "In this dream, I was friends[br]with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. 0:05:08.649,0:05:12.139 We were hanging out at my house,[br]having fun, singing karaoke. 0:05:12.159,0:05:13.549 Every time I looked at her, 0:05:13.569,0:05:16.299 I thought very few girls[br]are as beautiful as she is. 0:05:16.319,0:05:19.387 Then my boyfriend comes over.[br]He wanted a picture with her. 0:05:19.397,0:05:21.403 Then I got all jealous[br]and pulled him aside 0:05:21.423,0:05:24.143 to ask him if he thought[br]she was prettier than me. 0:05:24.156,0:05:26.423 I was giving him[br]a lot of attitude, I knew it, 0:05:26.433,0:05:28.603 but I didn't care[br]because of our situation. 0:05:28.613,0:05:30.706 I had every right[br]to be jealous and bitchy. 0:05:30.736,0:05:33.269 He ignored both my question[br]and me for the night. 0:05:33.279,0:05:35.979 I confronted him again,[br]he told me he was very turned off 0:05:35.999,0:05:37.893 by my attitude and behavior. 0:05:37.913,0:05:41.553 I questioned my behavior[br]and wondered if maybe I overreacted." 0:05:42.083,0:05:45.509 There we're seeing more evidence[br]that a dream like this 0:05:45.529,0:05:49.189 might prompt someone when they[br]wake up to reconsider their actions, 0:05:49.210,0:05:52.490 to reconsider their[br]interpersonal relationships. 0:05:53.232,0:05:56.332 Let's do an example[br]of infidelity in dreams. 0:05:56.372,0:05:59.070 "I had met this wonderful,[br]cute affectionate guy. 0:05:59.100,0:06:02.110 He gave me attention, gifts,[br]and wanted to meet my parents. 0:06:02.130,0:06:04.235 He even said he wanted[br]to marry me some day. 0:06:04.245,0:06:06.167 One particular part I remember best. 0:06:06.187,0:06:09.277 He took me to this extravagant[br]store, all gold and silver. 0:06:09.297,0:06:12.847 He gave me jewelry to try on[br]with this beautiful champagne dress. 0:06:12.867,0:06:15.877 I felt so happy the entire dream[br]that I didn't want to wake up." 0:06:16.007,0:06:17.690 It's important to keep in mind 0:06:17.710,0:06:20.220 this person is in a relationship[br]with somebody else - 0:06:20.240,0:06:23.760 a completely different person[br]who she's not having a dream about. 0:06:23.970,0:06:26.510 I'll do one more infidelity dream. 0:06:26.540,0:06:28.910 "I was at a party[br]with my fraternity brothers 0:06:28.930,0:06:31.270 with a bunch of sorority girls[br]I know from school. 0:06:31.290,0:06:34.760 I remember being called constantly[br]from my girlfriend checking up on me. 0:06:34.780,0:06:36.890 It got to the point[br]where we got into a fight 0:06:36.910,0:06:39.160 because I told her she didn't trust me. 0:06:39.180,0:06:42.200 I got beyond drunk and hooked up [br]with some random girl. 0:06:42.220,0:06:44.380 I brought her to my house[br]and we had sex. 0:06:44.400,0:06:48.380 I remember feeling guilty[br]before it went down, but satisfied after." 0:06:49.071,0:06:50.910 I know some of these dreams look like 0:06:50.930,0:06:53.425 they're from deleted episodes[br]of the Jersey Shore, 0:06:53.455,0:06:54.585 (Laughter) 0:06:54.615,0:06:56.495 but what we're seeing 0:06:56.525,0:06:59.145 is that when people[br]have these types of dreams 0:06:59.165,0:07:02.375 with arguments or conflict[br]or betrayal or jealousy, 0:07:02.395,0:07:05.595 they have more conflict[br]with their partners the next day, 0:07:05.625,0:07:09.018 and that's controlling[br]for the previous day's conflict. 0:07:09.162,0:07:11.385 So it is not part of some[br]day-to-day mechanism, 0:07:11.415,0:07:13.568 there's something unique about the dream. 0:07:13.598,0:07:15.588 When people have an infidelity dream, 0:07:15.615,0:07:18.252 cheating on their partner,[br]hooking up with someone else, 0:07:18.272,0:07:22.282 they feel significantly less love[br]and closeness the next day. 0:07:22.950,0:07:24.283 What about sex dreams? 0:07:24.313,0:07:28.163 In case you're curious, we do have some.[br]I'll show you two examples. 0:07:28.328,0:07:30.342 "I guess to write my dream[br]is embarrassing, 0:07:30.362,0:07:31.766 but I'll try to describe it. 0:07:31.796,0:07:35.012 It was a sexual dream where me[br]and my loved one had sex. 0:07:35.042,0:07:37.897 Oddly, it was in my bathroom[br]on the counter sink top. 0:07:37.917,0:07:39.817 I felt happy and excited in my dream, 0:07:39.837,0:07:42.519 and with the look on his face,[br]I'd say he felt the same." 0:07:42.873,0:07:45.331 So this is a relatively good sex dream. 0:07:45.371,0:07:47.721 Here's one that's a little bit, crazy. 0:07:47.751,0:07:49.929 "I was having sex with my girlfriend, 0:07:49.949,0:07:52.231 and my ex-girlfriend[br]kept calling my phone. 0:07:52.261,0:07:55.804 I picked up, told her to leave[br]me alone and to go on with her life. 0:07:55.834,0:07:57.251 I went to my girl, 0:07:57.271,0:08:00.341 and we started to have [br]an intense Kama Sutra kind of sex. 0:08:00.361,0:08:02.507 She kept asking why I'm so mad, 0:08:02.537,0:08:04.877 and I told her that my ex-girl[br]kept harassing me. 0:08:04.897,0:08:09.055 She took my phone, called her,[br]and they started to curse each other. 0:08:09.075,0:08:10.905 We were still naked, she hung up, 0:08:10.915,0:08:13.025 and we went back to bed,[br]still making love. 0:08:13.045,0:08:14.795 And then I woke up." 0:08:15.385,0:08:19.395 Sex dreams are associated[br]with the next day's behavior, 0:08:19.415,0:08:23.163 but it depends on whether[br]the relationship is going well. 0:08:23.343,0:08:25.913 So if the relationship is good[br]and everyone's happy, 0:08:25.933,0:08:27.523 then having a sex dream 0:08:27.543,0:08:31.383 is associated with more love[br]and intimacy and closeness the next day. 0:08:31.413,0:08:34.463 But if the relationship is[br]not going well and they're unhappy, 0:08:34.473,0:08:38.623 then sex dreams are associated[br]with less love and closeness the next day. 0:08:39.453,0:08:41.963 So I want to pause here[br]and just reflect 0:08:41.983,0:08:44.193 because I'm sure some of you[br]might be thinking, 0:08:44.213,0:08:48.083 "Okay, dreams are associated[br]with the behavior the next day, why? 0:08:48.133,0:08:52.201 Why do dreams have this association?[br]Why do they have this effect?" 0:08:52.361,0:08:54.851 The short answer is we still don't know. 0:08:54.871,0:08:59.671 Dreams are one of the big,[br]unsolved mysteries of science. 0:08:59.931,0:09:03.921 There are several competing theories[br]that might explain what's going on here. 0:09:04.041,0:09:06.251 Patrick McNamara proposed the theory 0:09:06.271,0:09:11.660 that dreams evolved in order[br]to facilitate social attachment bonds, 0:09:11.680,0:09:15.199 especially between parents[br]and children and romantic partners, 0:09:15.209,0:09:18.039 and we do see some[br]limited evidence for that here, 0:09:18.069,0:09:21.552 especially with sex dreams[br]associated with more love and intimacy. 0:09:21.582,0:09:25.072 What about conflict dreams[br]that would suggest the opposite, 0:09:25.092,0:09:27.832 that it is almost hurting[br]the attachment bonds? 0:09:27.942,0:09:30.382 And there is another theory[br]that might address this, 0:09:30.412,0:09:33.192 which is more along the lines 0:09:33.212,0:09:37.352 that dreams evolved[br]in order to help us solve problems, 0:09:37.382,0:09:41.493 in order to see difficult issues[br]from a new perspective 0:09:41.513,0:09:44.523 and maybe come to conclusions[br]or have solutions 0:09:44.543,0:09:46.631 that we wouldn't otherwise be able to see 0:09:46.651,0:09:49.191 to adapt to emotionally[br]difficult situations. 0:09:49.251,0:09:51.724 I want to show you a few[br]examples from other studies 0:09:51.744,0:09:53.722 that might support this theory. 0:09:53.752,0:09:56.957 A lot of this research[br]is summarized by Deidre Barrett 0:09:56.977,0:09:59.808 in a chapter she wrote[br]for "The New Science of Dreaming." 0:09:59.898,0:10:03.383 This is a study from William Dement,[br]published in the early 1970s. 0:10:03.433,0:10:08.038 He gave 500 students a brainteaser, 0:10:08.057,0:10:11.937 and he told them to think about it[br]for 15 min before they went to sleep. 0:10:11.957,0:10:14.312 How many of you have seen[br]this brainteaser before? 0:10:14.352,0:10:20.058 " The letters O, T, T, F, F form[br]the beginning of an infinite sequence. 0:10:20.188,0:10:24.078 Find a simple rule for determining[br]any or all successive letters. 0:10:24.148,0:10:27.558 According to your rule,[br]what would the next two letters be?" 0:10:27.828,0:10:29.718 Now out of the 500 students, 0:10:29.748,0:10:34.463 there were 87 dreams that were actually[br]about the brainteaser, 0:10:34.483,0:10:37.195 and a handful of them solved it. 0:10:37.225,0:10:39.813 Here's one example of that dream. 0:10:40.253,0:10:42.554 "I was walking down[br]the hall of an art gallery. 0:10:42.574,0:10:46.964 I began to count the paintings:[br]one, two, three, four, five, 0:10:46.984,0:10:48.940 but as I came to the sixth and seventh, 0:10:48.960,0:10:51.256 the paintings had been[br]ripped from their frames. 0:10:51.276,0:10:52.754 I stared at the empty frame... 0:10:52.774,0:10:55.338 Suddenly I realized[br]the sixth and seventh spaces 0:10:55.348,0:10:57.528 were the solution to the problem. 0:10:57.538,0:11:02.844 O, T, T, F, F stands for[br]One, Two, Three, Four, and Five. 0:11:03.034,0:11:05.984 Six and seven are the next two[br]in the sequence. 0:11:06.014,0:11:09.467 So S and S would be[br]the two letters that follow." 0:11:10.984,0:11:14.874 Here's another study, from[br]Erin Wamsley and Bob Stickgold 0:11:14.904,0:11:18.021 in their lab at the Harvard Med School[br]Division of Sleep Research. 0:11:18.041,0:11:21.143 They gave participants[br]in their study this maze, 0:11:21.183,0:11:25.558 trained them on it, then tested their[br]ability to navigate it five hours later. 0:11:25.578,0:11:30.498 They let some of the participants sleep[br]in between during that five hours. 0:11:30.630,0:11:32.912 And the sleep did help[br]performance a little bit, 0:11:32.942,0:11:38.062 but not nearly as much as if they reported[br]having a dream about the maze. 0:11:38.092,0:11:39.610 Having a dream about the maze 0:11:39.640,0:11:42.842 improved their performance[br]on the retest tenfold 0:11:42.882,0:11:46.422 compared to the people[br]who did not have a dream. 0:11:46.662,0:11:49.377 It's almost as if the dream[br]allows our minds 0:11:49.387,0:11:53.187 to examine different kinds[br]of solutions in a creative way, 0:11:53.197,0:11:57.987 and then we wake up, and we've something[br]to work with we didn't have before. 0:11:58.792,0:12:01.352 Here's some research[br]by Rosalind Cartwright 0:12:01.372,0:12:04.342 that shows when you look at women 0:12:04.362,0:12:07.652 who are suffering from depression[br]after going through a divorce. 0:12:07.782,0:12:09.492 They are actually less depressed, 0:12:09.522,0:12:12.312 more mentally healthy[br]in the future at a follow-up 0:12:12.332,0:12:17.292 if they dream about their ex-partner, [br]about their former spouse. 0:12:17.382,0:12:19.950 This might seem counterintuitive,[br]you might be thinking 0:12:19.970,0:12:22.927 "How can you get over someone[br]if you're dreaming about them?" 0:12:22.967,0:12:26.078 Rosalind Cartwright[br]calls these "dreams that work:" 0:12:26.098,0:12:29.348 those people who incorporated[br]the thing that stressed them out 0:12:29.368,0:12:33.448 into their dream were better off,[br]even if the dream content was negative. 0:12:33.828,0:12:35.278 Another example of this. 0:12:35.308,0:12:40.340 Former smokers who were trying[br]to quit were less likely to relapse, 0:12:40.360,0:12:44.531 less likely to start smoking again[br]if they dreamt about smoking. 0:12:44.855,0:12:46.502 Again, we are seeing this evidence 0:12:46.522,0:12:50.682 that dreams help us to navigate[br]emotionally difficult situations 0:12:50.702,0:12:55.962 and to adapt and solve problems in a way[br]that we would not otherwise be able to do. 0:12:56.032,0:12:59.972 So dreams have this incredible[br]power to help us heal. 0:13:00.116,0:13:01.736 As Bob Stickgold said, 0:13:01.756,0:13:04.626 "When you sleep,[br]your brain is figuring it out 0:13:04.646,0:13:08.949 and holding on to relevant information[br]and throwing out the rest." 0:13:09.810,0:13:13.271 Dreams might also allow[br]for a creative spark. 0:13:13.301,0:13:17.740 They're responsible for some of the[br]greatest innovations ever known to man. 0:13:17.830,0:13:20.330 Remember the periodic table[br]of the elements, 0:13:20.350,0:13:23.050 from high school chemistry class[br]perhaps for some of you. 0:13:23.080,0:13:26.860 Dmitri Mendeleev[br]dreamt the periodic table. 0:13:26.966,0:13:29.545 He had a dream that the elements[br]appeared before him 0:13:29.565,0:13:32.185 and organized themselves[br]according to their atomic mass, 0:13:32.215,0:13:34.550 and he woke up and drew that, 0:13:34.580,0:13:37.440 and that became what we now know[br]as the periodic table. 0:13:37.680,0:13:41.553 Paul McCartney famously[br]dreamt the song "Yesterday." 0:13:41.583,0:13:43.536 Everybody knows that song?[br]♫ Yesterday ... 0:13:43.556,0:13:45.227 Okay, I won't sing. 0:13:45.296,0:13:49.816 But he dreamt the song,[br]woke up, went to his piano, 0:13:49.856,0:13:52.494 thought "Great tune![br]Let me see if I can figure it out," 0:13:52.504,0:13:54.524 and he found the chords,[br]and that became 0:13:54.534,0:13:57.834 one of the most beautiful[br]songs ever written. 0:13:58.655,0:14:00.935 Now, I think it's unfortunate 0:14:00.965,0:14:05.194 most of us probably won't have[br]one of these deep, profound dreams 0:14:05.214,0:14:06.984 that lead us to these insights. 0:14:07.004,0:14:09.884 And I don't think[br]it's because we're not capable. 0:14:09.914,0:14:12.234 I think it's because most of the time, 0:14:12.254,0:14:15.174 we're not really[br]paying attention to our dreams. 0:14:15.194,0:14:16.941 We don't take them seriously. 0:14:16.971,0:14:20.157 People think that dreams are just[br]a bunch of nonsense and garbage. 0:14:20.177,0:14:21.711 We wake up, we shrug it off, 0:14:21.731,0:14:24.431 we go about our day[br]as if it never happens. 0:14:24.611,0:14:29.461 There's a great quote[br]from my favorite film, 0:14:29.501,0:14:31.670 "Waking Life" by Richard Linklater: 0:14:31.690,0:14:34.660 "Most people are either[br]sleep walking through their waking life 0:14:34.680,0:14:36.785 or wake walking[br]through their sleeping life. 0:14:36.805,0:14:39.583 Either way, they're not[br]going to get that much out of it." 0:14:39.613,0:14:42.243 If I asked you right now to tell me 0:14:42.263,0:14:45.523 whether or not you're dreaming[br]in this very moment, 0:14:45.553,0:14:48.838 most of you probably say,[br]"Of course not. I'm obviously awake." 0:14:48.858,0:14:51.318 My response would be:[br]"How do you know?" 0:14:51.408,0:14:55.228 How do you know[br]this is not a dream right now? 0:14:55.321,0:14:57.086 Most of us can't tell the difference. 0:14:57.096,0:14:58.796 Can you tell when you're dreaming 0:14:58.816,0:15:02.239 or only when you wake up[br]and realize that it was a dream 0:15:02.259,0:15:05.339 do you understand what was going on? 0:15:06.005,0:15:08.493 So I want to conclude 0:15:08.513,0:15:12.168 if you get anything from this talk,[br]I want you to take this home: 0:15:12.188,0:15:14.869 dreams are worth your time. 0:15:14.899,0:15:18.776 They're an important piece of your life[br]and worth paying attention to. 0:15:18.896,0:15:25.503 Dreams represent this great, untapped[br]reservoir of information and insight 0:15:25.533,0:15:27.733 that you can gain about yourself, 0:15:27.753,0:15:31.663 your relationships, your work,[br]your physical health. 0:15:31.935,0:15:34.455 So start tonight,[br]keep a dream journal. 0:15:34.515,0:15:36.655 Put a pad of paper and a pen[br]next to your bed, 0:15:36.665,0:15:37.981 and when you wake up, 0:15:38.001,0:15:41.231 write down whatever was[br]in your head while you were asleep. 0:15:41.261,0:15:43.595 You might be surprised at what you find. 0:15:43.625,0:15:47.345 And your dreams might be trying[br]to tell you something really important. 0:15:47.415,0:15:48.993 All right, thank you. 0:15:49.008,0:15:50.418 (Applause)