1 00:00:02,315 --> 00:00:05,295 No! I'm not dating Mavericks! 2 00:00:05,799 --> 00:00:07,509 And that just scared me. 3 00:00:08,509 --> 00:00:09,799 Hey guys! What's up? 4 00:00:09,810 --> 00:00:10,740 It's Rebecca. 5 00:00:10,753 --> 00:00:14,753 And this week, I've got a bit of a different video for you guys. 6 00:00:14,831 --> 00:00:17,081 If you've been watching this channel for the past few weeks 7 00:00:17,093 --> 00:00:19,393 you've known that I've been loving to do 8 00:00:19,974 --> 00:00:23,614 really sarcastic, comedic kinds of videos 9 00:00:23,646 --> 00:00:26,836 to the point where I know some of you guys have been like, 10 00:00:26,865 --> 00:00:29,755 "Come on, Rebecca! Are you ever going to take anything seriously?" 11 00:00:29,825 --> 00:00:30,415 Well! 12 00:00:30,736 --> 00:00:35,866 Here I am, with a more serious kind of video this week 13 00:00:35,885 --> 00:00:39,885 So, now, I think this video is pretty long overdue 14 00:00:39,945 --> 00:00:41,615 if I may say so myself 15 00:00:41,916 --> 00:00:45,085 I've been wanting to do something like this since... 16 00:00:45,710 --> 00:00:46,697 Okay 17 00:00:48,157 --> 00:00:50,785 I've been wanting to do something like this honestly 18 00:00:50,785 --> 00:00:53,395 ever since the whole 'Friday' thing happened. 19 00:00:53,417 --> 00:00:56,097 But I didn't really know how to put it or how to go about it. 20 00:00:56,146 --> 00:01:00,146 So I think the best way to go about it would be to sit in front of the camera 21 00:01:01,886 --> 00:01:04,316 and just, kind of, go with it. 22 00:01:04,340 --> 00:01:06,590 I don't really have anything written down at all 23 00:01:06,626 --> 00:01:09,946 but I'll be raw, I guess. 24 00:01:10,114 --> 00:01:12,554 So, we'll see how this goes. I don't know. 25 00:01:12,825 --> 00:01:14,475 Now, if you don't know who I am, 26 00:01:14,502 --> 00:01:16,512 My name is Rebecca. Rebecca Renee Black. 27 00:01:16,571 --> 00:01:20,951 And a video of mine that was uploaded in February of 2011 28 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:26,090 went decently viral in March of that year. 29 00:01:26,179 --> 00:01:29,829 And my life, kind of, 30 00:01:30,147 --> 00:01:33,027 twisted upside down and sideways 31 00:01:33,048 --> 00:01:35,488 and then, did another flip 32 00:01:35,488 --> 00:01:36,878 and back around again. 33 00:01:36,916 --> 00:01:40,006 So, it's been quite the whirlwind ever since. 34 00:01:40,039 --> 00:01:42,569 That's not what this video is about though, honestly. 35 00:01:43,273 --> 00:01:45,993 But, anyways, my point. 36 00:01:46,197 --> 00:01:48,547 As a lot of you probably know 37 00:01:49,157 --> 00:01:53,837 That video had a bit of a backlash 38 00:01:53,911 --> 00:01:55,551 if I may say so myself. 39 00:01:55,585 --> 00:01:59,325 And ever since then, especially, in more recent times 40 00:01:59,856 --> 00:02:02,506 I've gotten a lot of questions from people my age 41 00:02:02,534 --> 00:02:04,234 or even younger or older 42 00:02:04,274 --> 00:02:08,164 asking for advice on how I dealt with all of it 43 00:02:08,186 --> 00:02:11,706 being that I was only thirteen at the time. 44 00:02:11,753 --> 00:02:18,113 If you want a much more detailed story of what happened back then 45 00:02:18,142 --> 00:02:22,142 and, not only that, but what happened in my whole life before that 46 00:02:22,169 --> 00:02:24,839 in my whopping sixteen years of existence, 47 00:02:24,888 --> 00:02:27,088 you can click right around here. 48 00:02:27,669 --> 00:02:30,229 And you'll see the draw of my life that I put out 49 00:02:30,255 --> 00:02:36,555 in June of this year where I hit pretty deep into my life. 50 00:02:36,595 --> 00:02:37,475 So, yeah. 51 00:02:38,136 --> 00:02:39,216 As I was saying, 52 00:02:39,273 --> 00:02:42,483 A lot of people have asked how I stay positive 53 00:02:42,489 --> 00:02:44,469 How I stay myself 54 00:02:44,509 --> 00:02:47,529 How I've learnt to not let, what people say, bother me 55 00:02:47,529 --> 00:02:50,199 or make me stop from doing what I love. 56 00:02:50,234 --> 00:02:53,324 So I'm here to give you a little bit of advice 57 00:02:53,363 --> 00:02:55,803 and just kind of talk to you one on one 58 00:02:55,846 --> 00:02:57,456 because I haven't done that yet. 59 00:02:57,500 --> 00:03:02,540 Where I've just sat in front of a camera and talked and shared personal experiences 60 00:03:02,540 --> 00:03:03,620 and help you guys too. 61 00:03:03,632 --> 00:03:05,352 So I'm really going to start with the basics here 62 00:03:05,370 --> 00:03:07,480 on how to stay positive. 63 00:03:07,550 --> 00:03:12,980 Because I think that's the main way to accomplish 64 00:03:13,266 --> 00:03:16,056 not only to accomplish, a lot of other things that 65 00:03:16,089 --> 00:03:17,539 I'm going to be addressing. 66 00:03:17,545 --> 00:03:19,955 To be honest, the way I look at it is, 67 00:03:20,004 --> 00:03:26,034 I don't want to look back in a year or five years or ten, fifteen 68 00:03:26,111 --> 00:03:27,211 how ever many 69 00:03:27,241 --> 00:03:29,971 and see myself being miserable 70 00:03:29,998 --> 00:03:32,538 in a time where I'm supposed to be finding myself 71 00:03:32,571 --> 00:03:34,111 and figuring out who I am 72 00:03:34,178 --> 00:03:35,688 and why I'm here 73 00:03:35,693 --> 00:03:37,523 and what I'm going to do in the future. 74 00:03:37,557 --> 00:03:41,557 So I learned to not let things or people 75 00:03:41,611 --> 00:03:43,741 that are going to try to bring me down 76 00:03:43,770 --> 00:03:45,240 when they don't even know me 77 00:03:45,243 --> 00:03:46,403 affect me. 78 00:03:46,435 --> 00:03:47,265 Whatever 79 00:03:47,305 --> 00:03:49,375 Whatever you could think of, I've heard. 80 00:03:49,444 --> 00:03:51,384 And I just don't care. 81 00:03:51,430 --> 00:03:55,430 There's a decently thick line in between 82 00:03:55,434 --> 00:03:59,434 constructive criticism and hating on someone. 83 00:03:59,486 --> 00:04:01,336 I love constructive criticism and 84 00:04:01,374 --> 00:04:04,364 even on videos that I make weekly or anything I do, 85 00:04:04,364 --> 00:04:06,004 what I wear, how I act. 86 00:04:06,054 --> 00:04:07,904 I take it. Happily. 87 00:04:07,939 --> 00:04:12,569 But, if you're just going to tell me that I'm fat and annoying 88 00:04:12,605 --> 00:04:16,205 just because I have a different opinion than you do 89 00:04:16,274 --> 00:04:19,934 then that's where I learn to just ignore it. 90 00:04:20,008 --> 00:04:22,978 That's just, kind of, how I've learnt to go through life, 91 00:04:22,988 --> 00:04:24,178 especially since then. 92 00:04:24,208 --> 00:04:26,328 There's a reason why there's an 'exit app' button 93 00:04:26,351 --> 00:04:28,381 and this is my channel 94 00:04:28,428 --> 00:04:31,688 and there are just times when I'm going to do with it what I please. 95 00:04:31,728 --> 00:04:35,068 And I love being able to entertain you guys 96 00:04:35,106 --> 00:04:36,586 and everyone, honestly, 97 00:04:36,627 --> 00:04:39,167 I love being able to not only make myself happy with 98 00:04:39,206 --> 00:04:41,036 the content I've put out 99 00:04:41,063 --> 00:04:42,523 but also make you guys happy. 100 00:04:42,523 --> 00:04:45,483 So, I try to have a balance. 101 00:04:45,483 --> 00:04:47,743 It doesn't always work but 102 00:04:47,743 --> 00:04:48,903 you don't have to watch 103 00:04:48,903 --> 00:04:51,483 just like you don't have to watch any of my other videos. 104 00:04:51,527 --> 00:04:53,197 That's just how it is. 105 00:04:53,220 --> 00:04:54,920 Now as far as being yourself, 106 00:04:54,946 --> 00:04:56,736 that's a major part of it 107 00:04:56,746 --> 00:05:00,006 I think you just kind of have to learn to 108 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:04,510 love yourself and to love everyone around you. 109 00:05:04,582 --> 00:05:05,882 You learn to love yourself 110 00:05:05,882 --> 00:05:07,502 and you learn to love other people 111 00:05:07,522 --> 00:05:09,940 when you realize their flaws 112 00:05:09,965 --> 00:05:11,895 and you learn to accept them for who they are 113 00:05:11,930 --> 00:05:13,420 because no one is perfect. 114 00:05:13,465 --> 00:05:18,675 Because trying to force or trying to make anyone perfect 115 00:05:18,704 --> 00:05:20,214 especially yourself, 116 00:05:20,221 --> 00:05:22,211 is only going to make you miserable in life. 117 00:05:22,583 --> 00:05:25,063 To be honest, people love 118 00:05:25,090 --> 00:05:27,030 those little flaws that you have 119 00:05:27,030 --> 00:05:28,430 because it makes you, you. 120 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:32,430 So maybe you have a little thicker eyebrows than normal. 121 00:05:32,450 --> 00:05:33,660 That's your thing. 122 00:05:33,710 --> 00:05:37,440 Or you've got a widow's peak like me, you know. 123 00:05:37,482 --> 00:05:38,482 I hated it. 124 00:05:38,566 --> 00:05:43,636 There was one point I tried pulling all of my hair out of this. 125 00:05:43,636 --> 00:05:46,056 And when I did that, which was in middle school, by the way, 126 00:05:46,126 --> 00:05:47,418 in case you're wondering, 127 00:05:47,418 --> 00:05:48,988 People came up to me and asked, 128 00:05:48,988 --> 00:05:51,888 "Oh, what happened to your widow's peak? I loved that!" 129 00:05:51,888 --> 00:05:52,888 when I hated it. 130 00:05:52,918 --> 00:05:54,388 And I thought everyone else hated it too. 131 00:05:54,399 --> 00:05:56,779 Then I would just think that just because something is 132 00:05:56,820 --> 00:05:58,910 the way society perceives is beautiful 133 00:05:58,937 --> 00:06:00,667 means that that's what beautiful is. 134 00:06:00,703 --> 00:06:04,443 I know that's really, really corny, really cheesy, but, 135 00:06:05,301 --> 00:06:07,461 it's true! It's so true! 136 00:06:07,509 --> 00:06:10,099 And that's my way of just being happy. 137 00:06:10,125 --> 00:06:12,875 And of course, I've gone through so many times where 138 00:06:12,906 --> 00:06:15,036 I can't even listen to my own advice 139 00:06:15,045 --> 00:06:17,235 and I feel horrible about myself. 140 00:06:17,254 --> 00:06:19,774 And everyone has those days where they don't feel their best 141 00:06:19,818 --> 00:06:20,808 and that's okay. 142 00:06:20,812 --> 00:06:22,652 It's okay to not be perfect. 143 00:06:22,691 --> 00:06:25,971 And, yeah. I hope I didn't get too corny in this video. 144 00:06:25,971 --> 00:06:29,511 I honestly have been wanting to do something like this 145 00:06:29,533 --> 00:06:31,193 and I just thought it was the right time. 146 00:06:31,248 --> 00:06:33,688 And I just want to thank everyone so much 147 00:06:33,740 --> 00:06:36,420 who's helped shape me into who I am today, 148 00:06:37,205 --> 00:06:38,895 which is, a lot of you guys, 149 00:06:39,098 --> 00:06:42,818 and I couldn't have dealt with a lot of things that I did 150 00:06:42,820 --> 00:06:48,500 without the support of everyone, on here, Youtube, or on Tumblr 151 00:06:48,528 --> 00:06:50,068 or on Twitter or Facebook 152 00:06:50,112 --> 00:06:52,072 or friends that I've known for forever. 153 00:06:52,096 --> 00:06:54,126 And all I can do is thank you guys. 154 00:06:54,217 --> 00:06:55,827 Yeah. I guess that's it. 155 00:06:56,009 --> 00:06:57,199 I love you guys. 156 00:06:57,267 --> 00:07:01,037 There'll be a new cover out next week, hopefully. 157 00:07:02,027 --> 00:07:04,167 Maybe the week after, I don't know. 158 00:07:04,348 --> 00:07:08,858 And, this is where that loud outro music 159 00:07:09,110 --> 00:07:10,770 starts to get really loud and 160 00:07:10,846 --> 00:07:13,426 your booty starts to pop! You know. 161 00:07:13,947 --> 00:07:16,657 Alright, I'm going to go. 162 00:07:16,777 --> 00:07:17,867 I love you guys. 163 00:07:19,105 --> 00:07:20,065 Bye!