WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:01.068 When husband-wife 00:00:01.068 --> 00:00:02.338 fight then parents 00:00:02.338 --> 00:00:03.368 say that have a 00:00:03.368 --> 00:00:04.153 child, 00:00:04.153 --> 00:00:05.088 it will be okay. 00:00:05.328 --> 00:00:06.548 Yes, so is 00:00:06.548 --> 00:00:08.112 this okay or if 00:00:08.112 --> 00:00:09.047 their relations are 00:00:09.047 --> 00:00:09.957 not good, then 00:00:09.957 --> 00:00:10.767 will it change 00:00:10.767 --> 00:00:11.877 after a child comes 00:00:11.877 --> 00:00:12.719 or they should 00:00:12.719 --> 00:00:13.649 not have a child? 00:00:13.649 --> 00:00:14.737 I think, this 00:00:14.737 --> 00:00:15.707 is my opinion, I 00:00:15.707 --> 00:00:16.223 think everyone else 00:00:16.223 --> 00:00:16.753 will have a 00:00:16.753 --> 00:00:17.293 different opinion. 00:00:17.293 --> 00:00:18.265 But first it's very 00:00:18.265 --> 00:00:19.285 important to sort 00:00:19.285 --> 00:00:20.375 out your issues 00:00:20.945 --> 00:00:21.973 and then that's 00:00:21.973 --> 00:00:23.083 up to you that 00:00:23.083 --> 00:00:23.887 you want to 00:00:23.887 --> 00:00:24.827 start a family 00:00:24.827 --> 00:00:26.103 but if you 00:00:26.103 --> 00:00:27.151 sort your relationship 00:00:27.151 --> 00:00:28.131 issues before that, 00:00:28.131 --> 00:00:29.231 then it will be better 00:00:29.231 --> 00:00:29.933 because there's no 00:00:29.933 --> 00:00:30.665 guarantee 00:00:30.665 --> 00:00:31.455 that when a child 00:00:31.455 --> 00:00:32.245 comes, you'll get 00:00:32.245 --> 00:00:33.205 distracted, yes 00:00:33.205 --> 00:00:34.153 definitely 00:00:34.153 --> 00:00:35.132 but that will be 00:00:35.132 --> 00:00:36.262 only for a few years. 00:00:36.262 --> 00:00:37.067 When the child 00:00:37.067 --> 00:00:37.927 grows up and 00:00:37.927 --> 00:00:38.659 becomes more 00:00:38.659 --> 00:00:39.389 independent, 00:00:39.389 --> 00:00:40.580 then it's just you 00:00:40.580 --> 00:00:41.786 and your spouse. 00:00:42.424 --> 00:00:43.454 Then what?