0:00:00.000,0:00:01.068 When husband-wife 0:00:01.068,0:00:02.338 fight then parents 0:00:02.338,0:00:03.368 say that have a 0:00:03.368,0:00:04.153 child, 0:00:04.153,0:00:05.088 it will be okay. 0:00:05.328,0:00:06.548 Yes, so is 0:00:06.548,0:00:08.112 this okay or if 0:00:08.112,0:00:09.047 their relations are 0:00:09.047,0:00:09.957 not good, then 0:00:09.957,0:00:10.767 will it change 0:00:10.767,0:00:11.877 after a child comes 0:00:11.877,0:00:12.719 or they should 0:00:12.719,0:00:13.649 not have a child? 0:00:13.649,0:00:14.737 I think, this 0:00:14.737,0:00:15.707 is my opinion, I 0:00:15.707,0:00:16.223 think everyone else 0:00:16.223,0:00:16.753 will have a 0:00:16.753,0:00:17.293 different opinion. 0:00:17.293,0:00:18.265 But first it's very 0:00:18.265,0:00:19.285 important to sort 0:00:19.285,0:00:20.375 out your issues 0:00:20.945,0:00:21.973 and then that's 0:00:21.973,0:00:23.083 up to you that 0:00:23.083,0:00:23.887 you want to 0:00:23.887,0:00:24.827 start a family 0:00:24.827,0:00:26.103 but if you 0:00:26.103,0:00:27.151 sort your relationship 0:00:27.151,0:00:28.131 issues before that, 0:00:28.131,0:00:29.231 then it will be better 0:00:29.231,0:00:29.933 because there's no 0:00:29.933,0:00:30.665 guarantee 0:00:30.665,0:00:31.455 that when a child 0:00:31.455,0:00:32.245 comes, you'll get 0:00:32.245,0:00:33.205 distracted, yes 0:00:33.205,0:00:34.153 definitely 0:00:34.153,0:00:35.132 but that will be 0:00:35.132,0:00:36.262 only for a few years. 0:00:36.262,0:00:37.067 When the child 0:00:37.067,0:00:37.927 grows up and 0:00:37.927,0:00:38.659 becomes more 0:00:38.659,0:00:39.389 independent, 0:00:39.389,0:00:40.580 then it's just you 0:00:40.580,0:00:41.786 and your spouse. 0:00:42.424,0:00:43.454 Then what?