[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People have been using media\Nto talk about sex for a long time. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love letters, phone sex, racy polaroids. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's even a story of a girl\Nwho eloped with a man Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that she met over the telegraph in 1886. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today we have sexting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I am a sexting expert. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not an expert sexter-- Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Though, I do know what this means Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I think you do too! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have been studying sexting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since the media attention to it \Nbegan in 2008. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote a book\Non the moral panic about sexting, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and here's what I found: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most people are worrying\Nabout the wrong thing. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're trying to just prevent sexting\Nfrom happening entirely, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but let me ask you this: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as long as it is completely consensual,\Nwhat's the problem with sexting? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are into all sorts of things\Nthat you may not be into, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like blue cheese or cilantro. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexting is certainly risky,\Nlike anything that's fun, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but as long as you're not\Nsending any image Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to someone who doesn't\Nwant to receive it, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no harm. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I do think is a serious problem Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is when people share private images\Nof others without their permission, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and instead of worrying about sexting, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I think we need to do\Nis think a lot more about digital privacy. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The key is consent. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now people\Nare thinking about sexting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without really thinking\Nabout consent at all. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you know that we currently\Ncriminalize teen sexting? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be a crime\Nbecause it counts as child pornography Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if there's an image\Nof someone under eighteen, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it doesn't even matter\Nif they took that image of themselves Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and shared it willingly. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we end up\Nwith this bizarre legal situation Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where two 17-year-olds\Ncan have sex in most U.S. states, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they can't photograph it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some states have also tried passing\Nsexting misdemeanor laws, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but these laws repeat the same problem Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they still make\Nconsensual sexting illegal. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't make sense\Nto try to ban all sexting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to try to address privacy violations. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is kind of like saying, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Let's solve the problem of date rape\Nby just making dating completely illegal." Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most teens don't get arrested for sexting,\Nbut can you guess who does? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's often teens who are disliked\Nby their partners parents, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this can be because of class bias,\Nracism, or homophobia. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most prosecutors are,\Nof course, smart enough Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not to use child pornography\Ncharges against teenagers, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but some do. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to researchers\Nat the University of New Hampshire, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven percent of all child pornography\Npossession arrests Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are teen sexting consensually\Nwith other teens. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Child pornography is a serious crime Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's just not the same thing\Nas teen sexting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Parents and educators\Nare also responding to sexting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without really thinking\Ntoo much about consent. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their message to teens\Nis often just don't do it, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I totally get it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are serious legal risks Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and, of course,\Nthat potential for privacy violations. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you were a teen, I'm sure you did\Nexactly as you were told, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're probably thinking,\N"My kid would never sext," Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's true; your little angel\Nmay not be sexting Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because only 33 percent\Nof 16 and 17-year-olds are sexting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, sorry, by the time they're older Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the odds are that they will be sexting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every study I've seen puts the rate\Nabove 50 percent for 18 to 24-year-olds. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And most of the time, nothing goes wrong. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People asking me all the time things like, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"isn't sexting just so dangerous, though? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You wouldn't leave your wallet\Non a park bench. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You expect it's going to get stolen\Nif you do that, right?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's how I think about it: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexting is like leaving your wallet\Nat your boyfriend's house. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you come back the next day\Nand all the money is just gone, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you really need to dump that guy. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So instead of criminalizing sexting to try\Nto prevent these privacy violations, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead we need to make consent central Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to how we think about the circulation\Nof our private information. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every new media technology\Nraises privacy concerns; Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in fact, in the U.S.,\Nthe first major debates about privacy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were in response to technologies\Nthat were relatively new at the time. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the late 1800s,\Npeople were worried about cameras, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which were just suddenly\Nmore portable than ever before, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and newspaper gossip columns. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were worried that the camera\Nwould capture information about them, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take it out of context,\Nand widely disseminate it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does that sound familiar? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's exactly what we're worrying about now\Nwith social media, drone cameras, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of course, sexting. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And these fears about technology,\Nthey make sense Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because technologies can amplify Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and bring out our worst qualities\Nand behaviors. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there are solutions\N Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we've been here before\Nwith a dangerous new technology. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 1908, Ford introduced the Model T car. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Traffic fatality rates were rising;\Nit was a serious problem. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It looks so safe, right? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our first response\Nwas to try to change drivers' behavior, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we developed speed limits\Nand enforced them through fines. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But over the following decades\Nwe started to realize Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the technology of the car itself\Nis not just neutral. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We could design the car to make it safer. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So in the 1920s,\Nwe got shatter-resistant windshields, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the 1950s, seat belts,\Nand in the 1990s, air bags. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All three of these areas, laws,\Nindividuals, and industry, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,came together over time to help solve\Nthe problems that a new technology causes Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we can do the same thing\Nwith digital privacy. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course, it comes back to consent. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's the idea: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before anyone can distribute\Nyour private information, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they should have to get your permission. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This idea of affirmative consent\Ncomes from anti-rape activists Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who tell us that we need consent\Nfor every sexual act. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we have really high levels\Nof consent in other areas. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about having surgery. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your doctor has to make sure\Nthat you are meaningfully Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and knowingly consenting\Nto that medical procedure. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is not the type of consent\Nwith like an iTunes terms of service Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you just scroll to the bottom\Nand you're like, "Agree, agree, whatever." Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent,\Nwe can have better privacy laws. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now we just don't have\Nthat many protections. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If your ex-husband\Nor your ex-wife is a terrible person, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can take your nude photos\Nand upload them to a porn site. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be really hard\Nto get those images taken down Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in a lot of states, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're actually better off\Nif you took the images of yourself Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because then you can file\Na copyright claim. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now\Nif someone violates your privacy, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether that's an individual\Nor a company or the NSA, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can try filing a lawsuit,\Nbut you may not be successful Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because many courts assume\Nthat digital privacy is just impossible Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so they're not willing to punish anyone\Nfor violating it. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I still hear people\Nasking me all the time, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"isn't a digital image somehow blurring\Nthe line between public and private Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it's digital, right?" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, no! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything digital\Nis not just automatically public. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That doesn't make any sense. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As NYU legal scholar,\NHelen Nissenbaum, tells us, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have laws and policies and norms Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that protect all kinds\Nof information that's private, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it doesn't make a difference\Nif it's digital or not. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your health records are digitized Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but your doctor can't just\Nshare them with anyone. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your financial information\Nis held in digital databases Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but your credit card company can't just\Npost your purchase history online. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Better laws could help address\Nprivacy violations after they happen, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but one of the easiest things\Nwe can all do Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is make personal changes\Nto help protect each others' privacy. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're always told that privacy\Nis our sole individual responsibility. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told, "Constantly monitor\Nand update your privacy settings." Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told, "Never share anything you\Nwouldn't want the entire world to see." Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This doesn't make sense. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Digital media are social environments Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we share things with people\Nwe trust all day, every day. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As Princeton researcher,\NJanet Vertesi, argues, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our data and our privacy, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're not just personal,\Nthey're interpersonal. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So one thing you can do that's really easy\Nis just start asking for permission Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before you share\Nanyone else's information. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to post a photo\Nof someone online, ask for permission. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to forward an email thread,\Nask for permission. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to share\Nsomeone's nude selfie, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,obviously, ask for permission! Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These individual changes can help us\Nprotect each others' privacy, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we need technology companies\Non board as well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These companies have very little incentive\Nto help our privacy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because their business models depend on us Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sharing everything\Nwith as many people as possible. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now, if I send you an image, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can forward that\Nto anyone that you want. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what if I got to decide\Nif that image was forwardable or not? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This would tell you, "You don't have\Nmy permission to send this image out." Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We do this kind of thing all the time\Nto protect copyright. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you buy an ebook, you can't just\Nsend it out to as many people as you want, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so why not try this with mobile phones? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What you can do is we can demand\Nthat tech companies Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,add these protections to our devices\Nand our platforms as the default. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After all, you can choose\Nthe color of your car, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the airbags are always standard. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we don't think more\Nabout digital privacy and consent, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there can be serious consequences. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a teenager from Ohio. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's call her Jennifer\Nfor the sake of her privacy. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She shared nude photos of herself\Nwith her high school boyfriend Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thinking she could trust him. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Unfortunately, he betrayed her and sent\Nher photos around the entire school. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer was embarrassed and humiliated, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but instead of being compassionate,\Nher classmates harassed her. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They called her a slut and a whore\Nand they made her life miserable. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer started missing school,\Nand her grades dropped. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ultimately,\NJennifer decided to end her own life. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer did nothing wrong. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All she did was share a nude photo Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with someone that she thought\Nthat she could trust. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet, our laws tell herv Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that she committed a horrible crime\Nequivalent to child pornography. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our gender norms tell her that\Nby producing this nude image of herself, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she somehow did\Nthe most horrible, shameful thing. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when we assume that privacy\Nis impossible in digital media, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we completely write off and excuse\Nher boyfriend's bad, bad behavior. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are still saying all the time\Nto victims of privacy violations, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What were you thinking? Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You should've never sent that image." Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're trying to figure out\Nwhat to say instead, try this: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,imagine you've run into your friend\Nwho broke their leg skiing. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They took a risk to do something fun,\Nand it didn't end well. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you're probably\Nnot going to be the jerk who says, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, I guess you shouldn't\Nhave gone skiing then!" Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can see that victims of privacy\Nviolations deserve our compassion, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not criminalization, shaming,\Nharassment, or punishment. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can support victims,\Nand we can prevent some privacy violations Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by making these legal, individual,\Nand technological changes. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the problem is not sexting,\Nthe issue is digital privacy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and one solution is consent. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the next time a victim\Nof a privacy violation comes up to you, Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of blaming them,\Nlet's do this instead: Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's shift our ideas\Nabout digital privacy Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and let's respond with compassion. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you. Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)