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Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People have been using media to talk about sex for a long time.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love letters, phone sex, racy polaroids.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's even a story of a girl who eloped with a man that she met over the telegraph in 1886.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today we have sexting
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I am a sexting expert.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not an expert sexter--
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Though, I do know what this means
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I think you do too!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have been studying sexting since the media attention to it began in 2008.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote a book on the moral panic about sexting,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and here's what I found:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most people are worrying about the wrong thing.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're trying to just prevent sexting from happening entirely,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but let me ask you this:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as long as it is completely consensual, what's the problem with sexting?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are into all sorts of things that you may not be into,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like blue cheese or cilantro.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexting is certainly risky, like anything that's fun,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but as long as you're not sending any image to someone who doesn't want to receive it,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no harm.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I do think is a serious problem is when people share private images of others without their permission,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and instead of worrying about sexting,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I think we need to do is think a lot more about digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The key is consent.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now people are thinking about sexting without really thinking about consent at all.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you know that we currently criminalize teen sexting?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be a crime because it counts as child pornography
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if there's an image of someone under eighteen,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it doesn't even matter if they took that image of themselves
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and shared it willingly.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we end up with this bizarre legal situation
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where two 17-year-olds can have sex in most U.S. states,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they can't photograph it.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some states have also tried passing sexting misdemeanor laws,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but these laws repeat the same problem
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they still make consensual sexting illegal.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't make sense to try to ban all sexting to try to address privacy violations.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is kind of like saying, "let's solve the problem of date rape by just making dating completely illegal."
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most teens don't get arrested for sexting, but can you guess who does?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's often teens who are disliked by their partners parents,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this can be because of class bias, racism, or homophobia.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most prosecutors are, of course, smart enough not to use child pornography charges against teenagers,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but some do.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to researchers at the University of New Hampshire,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven percent of all child pornography possession arrests are teen sexting consensually with other teens.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Child pornography is a serious crime
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's just not the same thing as teen sexting.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Parents and educators are also responding to sexting
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without really thinking too much about consent.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their message to teens is often just don't do it,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I totally get it.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are serious legal risks and of course that potential for privacy violations.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you were a teen, I'm sure you did exactly as you were told, right?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're probably thinking, "My kid would never sext,"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's true; your little angel may not be sexting
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because only 33 percent of 16 and 17-year-olds are sexting.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, sorry, by the time they're older
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the odds are that they will be sexting.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every study I've seen puts the rate above 50 percent for 18 to 24-year-olds.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And most of the time, nothing goes wrong.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People asking me all the time things like,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"isn't sexting just so dangerous, though?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You wouldn't leave your wallet on a park bench.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You expect it's going to get stolen if you do that, right?"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's how I think about it:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexting is like leaving your wallet at your boyfriend's house.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you come back the next day and all the money is just gone,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you really need to dump that guy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So instead of criminalizing sexting to try to prevent these privacy violations,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead we need to make consent central to how we think about that circulation of our private information.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every new media technology raises privacy concerns;
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in fact, in the U.S. the major first major debates about privacy
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were in response to technologies that were relatively new at the time.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the late 1800s, people were worried about cameras, which were just suddenly more portable than ever before,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and newspaper gossip columns.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were worried that the camera would capture information about them,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take it out of context, and widely disseminate it.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does that sound familiar?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's exactly what we're worrying about now with social media, drone cameras, and of course, sexting.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And these fears about technology, they make sense
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because technologies can amplify and bring out our worst qualities and behaviors.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there are solutions and we've been here before with a dangerous new technology.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 1908, Ford introduced the Model T car.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Traffic fatality rates were rising; it was a serious problem.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It looks so safe, right?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our first response was to try to change drivers' behavior,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we developed speed limits and enforced them through fines.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But over the following decades we started to realize
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the technology of the car itself is not just neutral.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We could design the car to make it safer.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So in the 1920s we got shatter-resistant windshields,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the 1950s, seat belts, and in the 1990s, air bags.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All three of these areas, laws, individuals, and industry, came together over time to help solve the problems that a new technology causes
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we can do the same thing with digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course, it comes back to consent.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's the idea:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before anyone can distribute your private information,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they should have to get your permission.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This idea of affirmative consent comes from anti-rape activists
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who tell us that we need consent for every sexual act.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we have really high levels of consent in other areas.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about having surgery.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your doctor has to make sure that you are meaningfully and knowingly consenting to that medical procedure.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is not the type of consent with like an iTunes terms of service
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you just scroll to the bottom and you're like agree, agree, whatever.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent, we can have better privacy laws.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now we just don't have that many protections.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If your ex-husband or your ex-wife is a terrible person,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can take your nude photos and upload them to a porn site.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be really hard to get those images taken down
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in a lot of states, you're actually better off if you took the images of yourself
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because then you can file a copyright claim.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now if someone violates your privacy, whether that's an individual or a company or the NSA,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can try filing a lawsuit, but you may not be successful
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because many courts assume that digital privacy is just impossible
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so they're not willing to punish anyone for violating it.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I still hear people asking me all the time,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"isn't a digital image somehow blurring the line between public and private because it's digital, right?"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, no!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything digital is not just automatically public.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That doesn't make any sense.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As NYU legal scholar, Helen Nissenbaum, tells us,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have laws and policies and norms that protect all kinds of information that's private,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it doesn't make a difference if it's digital or not.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your health records are digitized
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but your doctor can't just share them with anyone.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your financial information is held in digital databases
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but your credit card company can't just post your purchase history online.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Better laws could help address privacy violations after they happen,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but one of the easiest things we can all do is make personal changes to help protect each others' privacy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're always told that privacy is our own sole, individual responsibility.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told, "Constantly monitor and update your privacy settings."
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told, "Never share anything you wouldn't want the entire world to see."
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This doesn't make sense.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Digital media are social environments
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we share things with people we trust all day, every day.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As Princeton researcher, Janet Vertesi, argues,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our data and our privacy,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're not just personal, they're interpersonal.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So one thing you can do that's really easy is just start asking for permission before you share anyone else's information.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to post a photo of someone online, ask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to forward an email thread, ask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to share someone's nude selfie, obviously, ask for permission!
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These individual changes can really help us protect each others' privacy,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we need technology companies on board as well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These companies have very little incentive to help our privacy
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because their business models depend on us sharing everything with as many people as possible.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now, if I send you an image, you can forward that to anyone that you want.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what if I got to decide if that image was forwardable or not?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This would tell you, "You don't have my permission to send this image out."
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We do this kind of thing all the time to protect copyright.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you buy an ebook, you can't just send it out to as many people as you want,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so why not try this with mobile phones?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What you can do is we can demand that tech companies add these protections to our devices and our platforms as the default.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After all, you can choose the color of your car, but the airbags are always standard.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we don't think more about digital privacy and consent, there can be serious consequences.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a teenager from Ohio.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's call her Jennifer for the sake of her privacy.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She shared nude photos of herself with her high school boyfriend thinking she could trust him.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Unfortunately, he betrayed her and sent her photos around the entire school.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer was embarrassed and humiliated,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but instead of being compassionate, her classmates harassed her.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They called her a slut and a whore and they made her life miserable.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer started missing school, and her grades dropped.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ultimately, Jennifer decided to end her own life.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer did nothing wrong.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All she did was share a nude photo with someone that she thought that she could trust.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet, our laws tell her that she committed a horrible crime equivalent to child pornography.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our gender norms tell her that by producing this nude image of herself, she somehow did the most horrible, shameful thing.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when we assume that privacy is impossible in digital media, we completely write off and excuse her boyfriend's bad, bad behavior.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are still saying all the time to victims of privacy violations,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What were you thinking?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You should've never sent that image."
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're trying to figure out what to say instead, try this:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,imagine you've run into your friend who broke their leg skiing.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They took a risk to do something fun, and it didn't end well.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you're probably not going to be the jerk who says,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, I guess you shouldn't have gone skiing then!"
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent, we can see that victims of privacy violations deserve our compassion,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not criminalization, shaming, harassment, or punishment.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can support victims, and we can prevent some privacy violations
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by making these legal, individual, and technological changes.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the problem is not sexting, the issue is digital privacy
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and one solution is consent.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the next time a victim of a privacy violation comes up to you,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of blaming them, let's do this instead:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's shift our ideas about digital privacy and let's respond with compassion.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)