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Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.52,0:00:23.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People have been using media\Nto talk about sex for a long time.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.56,0:00:27.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Love letters, phone sex, racy Polaroids.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.34,0:00:30.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's even a story of a girl who eloped
Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.60,0:00:35.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with a man that she met\Nover the telegraph in 1886.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:35.26,0:00:36.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.56,0:00:39.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today we have sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.20,0:00:41.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I am a sexting expert.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.62,0:00:43.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not an expert sexter -
Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.84,0:00:44.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.85,0:00:47.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Though, I do know what this means
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.81,0:00:48.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I think you do too!
Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.92,0:00:50.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[it's a penis]
Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.14,0:00:52.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.31,0:00:54.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have been studying sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.38,0:00:58.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since the media attention\Nto it began in 2008.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.58,0:01:01.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I wrote a book on the moral\Npanic about sexting,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.66,0:01:03.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and here's what I found:
Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.36,0:01:06.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most people are worrying\Nabout the wrong thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.46,0:01:10.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're trying to just prevent sexting\Nfrom happening entirely,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.78,0:01:12.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but let me ask you this:
Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.21,0:01:17.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as long as it's completely consensual,\Nwhat's the problem with sexting?
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.18,0:01:21.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are into all sorts of things\Nthat you may not be into,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.22,0:01:23.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like blue cheese or cilantro.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.76,0:01:26.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.56,0:01:30.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexting is certainly risky,\Nlike anything that's fun,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.76,0:01:31.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.77,0:01:32.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:32.78,0:01:37.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as long as you are not sending an image\Nto someone who doesn't want to receive it,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.35,0:01:39.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no harm.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.13,0:01:41.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What I do think is a serious problem
Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.89,0:01:46.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is when people share private images\Nof others without their permission,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.28,0:01:49.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and instead of worrying about sexting,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.70,0:01:54.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what I think we need to do\Nis think a lot more about digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.80,0:01:57.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The key is consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.54,0:02:00.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now, most people\Nare thinking about sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.87,0:02:04.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without really thinking\Nabout consent at all.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.32,0:02:08.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Did you know that we currently\Ncriminalize teen sexting?
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.30,0:02:12.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be a crime because\Nit counts as child pornography
Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.72,0:02:15.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if there's an image\Nof someone under 18,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.72,0:02:19.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it doesn't even matter\Nif they took that image of themselves
Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.38,0:02:21.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and shared it willingly.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.72,0:02:24.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we end up with\Nthis bizarre legal situation
Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.72,0:02:29.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where two 17-year-olds\Ncan legally have sex in most U.S. states,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.23,0:02:31.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but they can't photograph it.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.59,0:02:36.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some states have also tried passing\Nsexting misdemeanor laws,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.68,0:02:39.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but these laws repeat the same problem
Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.78,0:02:43.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they still make\Nconsensual sexting illegal.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.42,0:02:47.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't make sense\Nto try to ban all sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.72,0:02:50.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to try to address privacy violations.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.38,0:02:51.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is kind of like saying,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.98,0:02:57.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Let's solve the problem of date rape\Nby just making dating completely illegal."
Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.01,0:03:04.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most teens don't get arrested for sexting,\Nbut can you guess who does?
Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.45,0:03:09.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's often teens who are disliked\Nby their partner's parents,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.36,0:03:14.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and this can be because of class bias,\Nracism, or homophobia.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.92,0:03:17.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Most prosecutors are,\Nof course, smart enough
Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.69,0:03:21.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not to use child pornography\Ncharges against teenagers,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.86,0:03:23.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but some do.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.60,0:03:27.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,According to researchers\Nat the University of New Hampshire,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.16,0:03:31.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seven percent of all child\Npornography possession arrests
Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.78,0:03:36.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are teens sexting consensually\Nwith other teens.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.42,0:03:39.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Child pornography is a serious crime,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.96,0:03:44.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's just not the same thing\Nas teen sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.98,0:03:48.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Parents and educators\Nare also responding to sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.31,0:03:51.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,without really thinking\Ntoo much about consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.42,0:03:56.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Their message to teens\Nis often 'just don't do it,'
Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.07,0:03:57.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I totally get it.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.64,0:03:59.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are serious legal risks,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.62,0:04:03.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of course, that potential\Nfor privacy violations.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.30,0:04:08.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you were a teen, I'm sure you did\Nexactly as you were told, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.37,0:04:12.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're probably thinking,\N"My kid would never sext,"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:12.84,0:04:16.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that's true; your little angel\Nmay not be sexting
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.31,0:04:22.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because only 33 percent\Nof 16- and 17-year-olds are sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.06,0:04:25.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, sorry, by the time they're older,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.44,0:04:27.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,odds are, they will be sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.65,0:04:34.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every study I've seen puts the rate\Nabove 50 percent for 18- to 24-year-olds.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.60,0:04:37.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And most of the time, nothing goes wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.27,0:04:40.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People ask me all the time things like,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.93,0:04:43.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Isn't sexting just so dangerous, though?
Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.70,0:04:47.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You wouldn't leave your wallet\Non a park bench.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.32,0:04:51.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You expect it's going to get stolen\Nif you do that, right?"
Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.39,0:04:52.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's how I think about it:
Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.78,0:04:56.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sexting is like leaving your wallet\Nat your boyfriend's house.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.68,0:05:01.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you come back the next day\Nand all the money is just gone,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:01.48,0:05:04.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you really need to dump that guy.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.28,0:05:07.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.84,0:05:12.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So instead of criminalizing sexting to try\Nto prevent these privacy violations,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.75,0:05:16.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead, we need to make consent central
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.06,0:05:20.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to how we think about that circulation\Nof our private information.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.87,0:05:25.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Every new media technology\Nraises privacy concerns;
Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.19,0:05:29.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in fact, in the U.S.,\Nthe first major debates about privacy
Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.76,0:05:34.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,were in response to technologies\Nthat were relatively new at the time.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.25,0:05:38.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the late 1800s,\Npeople were worried about cameras,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.23,0:05:41.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which were just suddenly\Nmore portable than ever before,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.73,0:05:44.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and newspaper gossip columns.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:44.13,0:05:48.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They were worried that the camera\Nwould capture information about them,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.03,0:05:51.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,take it out of context,\Nand widely disseminate it.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.64,0:05:53.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does this sound familiar?
Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.24,0:05:58.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's exactly what we're worrying about now\Nwith social media, and drone cameras,
Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.20,0:06:00.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and of course, sexting.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.32,0:06:03.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And these fears about technology,\Nthey make sense,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.65,0:06:06.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because technologies can amplify
Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.37,0:06:10.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and bring out our worst\Nqualities and behaviors.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.56,0:06:12.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But there are solutions,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.89,0:06:17.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we've been here before\Nwith a dangerous new technology.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:17.19,0:06:21.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In 1908, Ford introduced the Model T car.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.02,0:06:24.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Traffic fatality rates were rising;\Nit was a serious problem.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:24.91,0:06:27.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It looks so safe, right?
Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.11,0:06:28.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.23,0:06:33.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our first response was\Nto try to change drivers' behavior,
Dialogue: 0,0:06:33.24,0:06:37.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so we developed speed limits\Nand enforced them through fines.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.28,0:06:40.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But over the following decades\Nwe started to realize
Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.76,0:06:44.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the technology of the car itself\Nis not just neutral.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.72,0:06:47.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We could design the car to make it safer.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.97,0:06:51.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So in the 1920s, we got\Nshatter-resistant windshields;
Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.47,0:06:57.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the 1950s, seat belts;\Nand in the 1990s, air bags.
Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.26,0:07:03.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All three of these areas - laws,\Nindividuals, and industry,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.31,0:07:09.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,came together over time to help solve\Nthe problems that a new technology causes
Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.35,0:07:12.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we can do the same thing\Nwith digital privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.92,0:07:16.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course, it comes back to consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.22,0:07:17.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Here's the idea:
Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.56,0:07:21.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before anyone can distribute\Nyour private information,
Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.24,0:07:24.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they should have to get your permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.07,0:07:29.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This idea of affirmative consent\Ncomes from anti-rape activists
Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.02,0:07:32.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who tell us that we need consent\Nfor every sexual act.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.76,0:07:37.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we have really high standards\Nfor consent in a lot of other areas.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:37.33,0:07:39.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Think about having surgery.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.13,0:07:42.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your doctor has to make sure\Nthat you are meaningfully
Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.19,0:07:45.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and knowingly consenting\Nto that medical procedure.
Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.36,0:07:49.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is not the type of consent\Nwith like an iTunes Terms of Service
Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.10,0:07:53.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where you just scroll to the bottom\Nand you're like, "Agree, agree, whatever."
Dialogue: 0,0:07:53.01,0:07:54.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:07:55.08,0:08:00.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent,\Nwe can have better privacy laws.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.26,0:08:03.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now we just don't have\Nthat many protections.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.68,0:08:07.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If your ex-husband\Nor your ex-wife is a terrible person,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.38,0:08:11.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they can take your nude photos\Nand upload them to a porn site.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.78,0:08:14.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It can be really hard\Nto get those images taken down
Dialogue: 0,0:08:14.75,0:08:16.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in a lot of states,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:16.20,0:08:20.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're actually better off\Nif you took the images of yourself
Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.02,0:08:23.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because then you can file\Na copyright claim.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.12,0:08:24.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.61,0:08:28.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now\Nif someone violates your privacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:28.43,0:08:32.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether that's an individual\Nor a company or the NSA,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.54,0:08:38.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can try filing a lawsuit,\Nbut you may not be successful
Dialogue: 0,0:08:38.22,0:08:42.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because many courts assume\Nthat digital privacy is just impossible
Dialogue: 0,0:08:42.99,0:08:46.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so they're not willing to punish anyone\Nfor violating it.
Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.95,0:08:50.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I still hear people\Nasking me all the time,
Dialogue: 0,0:08:50.06,0:08:55.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"isn't a digital image somehow blurring\Nthe line between public and private
Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.37,0:08:57.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because it's digital, right?"
Dialogue: 0,0:08:57.63,0:08:59.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No, no!
Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.07,0:09:02.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything digital\Nis not just automatically public.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:02.24,0:09:04.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That doesn't make any sense.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.26,0:09:07.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As NYU legal scholar,\NHelen Nissenbaum, tells us,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.91,0:09:10.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we have laws and policies and norms
Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.67,0:09:13.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that protect all kinds\Nof information that's private,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.88,0:09:16.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and it doesn't make a difference\Nif it's digital or not.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.100,0:09:19.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your health records are digitized
Dialogue: 0,0:09:19.75,0:09:22.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but your doctor can't just\Nshare them with anyone.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.78,0:09:27.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All of your financial information\Nis held in digital databases
Dialogue: 0,0:09:27.10,0:09:33.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but your credit card company can't just\Npost your purchase history online.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.03,0:09:38.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Better laws could help address\Nprivacy violations after they happen,
Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.06,0:09:41.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but one of the easiest things\Nwe can all do
Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.14,0:09:46.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is make personal changes\Nto help protect each others' privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.40,0:09:51.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're always told that privacy\Nis our sole individual responsibility.
Dialogue: 0,0:09:51.44,0:09:55.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told, "Constantly monitor\Nand update your privacy settings."
Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.61,0:10:01.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're told, "Never share anything you\Nwouldn't want the entire world to see."
Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.07,0:10:02.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This doesn't make sense.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.79,0:10:05.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Digital media are social environments
Dialogue: 0,0:10:05.58,0:10:10.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we share things with people\Nwe trust all day, every day.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.83,0:10:13.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As Princeton researcher,\NJanet Vertesi, argues,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.74,0:10:15.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our data and our privacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.92,0:10:20.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they're not just personal,\Nthey're interpersonal.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.49,0:10:25.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So one thing you can do that's really easy\Nis just start asking for permission
Dialogue: 0,0:10:25.95,0:10:28.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,before you share\Nanyone else's information.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:28.79,0:10:33.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to post a photo\Nof someone online, ask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:33.34,0:10:37.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to forward an email thread,\Nask for permission.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.08,0:10:39.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you want to share\Nsomeone's nude selfie,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.78,0:10:43.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,obviously, ask for permission!
Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.61,0:10:47.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These individual changes can help us\Nprotect each others' privacy,
Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.75,0:10:52.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but we need technology companies\Non board as well.
Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.39,0:10:56.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,These companies have very little incentive\Nto help our privacy
Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.87,0:10:59.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because their business models depend on us
Dialogue: 0,0:10:59.14,0:11:02.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sharing everything\Nwith as many people as possible.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:02.98,0:11:05.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Right now, if I send you an image,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.11,0:11:08.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can forward that\Nto anyone that you want.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.22,0:11:12.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But what if I got to decide\Nif that image was forwardable or not?
Dialogue: 0,0:11:12.56,0:11:16.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This would tell you, "You don't have\Nmy permission to send this image out."
Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.51,0:11:20.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We do this kind of thing all the time\Nto protect copyright.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.60,0:11:25.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you buy an ebook, you can't just\Nsend it out to as many people as you want,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:25.42,0:11:29.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so why not try this with mobile phones?
Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.31,0:11:32.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What you can do is we can demand\Nthat tech companies
Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.29,0:11:37.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,add these protections to our devices\Nand our platforms as the default.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.85,0:11:41.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After all, you can choose\Nthe color of your car,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:41.06,0:11:45.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the airbags are always standard.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.60,0:11:49.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we don't think more\Nabout digital privacy and consent,
Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.33,0:11:52.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there can be serious consequences.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:52.57,0:11:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There was a teenager from Ohio.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.00,0:11:58.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's call her Jennifer\Nfor the sake of her privacy.
Dialogue: 0,0:11:58.51,0:12:01.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She shared nude photos of herself\Nwith her high school boyfriend
Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.82,0:12:04.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thinking she could trust him.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:04.74,0:12:10.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Unfortunately, he betrayed her and sent\Nher photos around the entire school.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:10.34,0:12:14.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer was embarrassed and humiliated,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.29,0:12:18.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but instead of being compassionate,\Nher classmates harassed her.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:18.38,0:12:22.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They called her a slut and a whore\Nand they made her life miserable.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:22.81,0:12:26.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer started missing school,\Nand her grades dropped.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:26.98,0:12:32.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ultimately,\NJennifer decided to end her own life.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.07,0:12:34.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jennifer did nothing wrong.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:34.70,0:12:37.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All she did was share a nude photo
Dialogue: 0,0:12:37.33,0:12:39.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with someone that she thought\Nthat she could trust.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:39.82,0:12:42.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And yet, our laws tell herv
Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.75,0:12:47.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that she committed a horrible crime\Nequivalent to child pornography.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:47.32,0:12:52.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our gender norms tell her that\Nby producing this nude image of herself,
Dialogue: 0,0:12:52.07,0:12:55.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she somehow did\Nthe most horrible, shameful thing.
Dialogue: 0,0:12:55.78,0:13:00.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when we assume that privacy\Nis impossible in digital media,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.04,0:13:06.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we completely write off and excuse\Nher boyfriend's bad, bad behavior.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:06.42,0:13:12.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People are still saying all the time\Nto victims of privacy violations,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:12.25,0:13:13.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"What were you thinking?
Dialogue: 0,0:13:13.74,0:13:17.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You should've never sent that image."
Dialogue: 0,0:13:17.05,0:13:21.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're trying to figure out\Nwhat to say instead, try this:
Dialogue: 0,0:13:21.63,0:13:25.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,imagine you've run into your friend\Nwho broke their leg skiing.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.83,0:13:30.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They took a risk to do something fun,\Nand it didn't end well.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:30.34,0:13:32.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you're probably\Nnot going to be the jerk who says,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.95,0:13:37.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, I guess you shouldn't\Nhave gone skiing then!"
Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.49,0:13:39.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we think more about consent,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:39.83,0:13:44.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we can see that victims of privacy\Nviolations deserve our compassion,
Dialogue: 0,0:13:44.41,0:13:49.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not criminalization, shaming,\Nharassment, or punishment.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.78,0:13:54.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can support victims,\Nand we can prevent some privacy violations
Dialogue: 0,0:13:54.34,0:13:59.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by making these legal, individual,\Nand technological changes.
Dialogue: 0,0:13:59.28,0:14:04.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because the problem is not sexting,\Nthe issue is digital privacy
Dialogue: 0,0:14:04.86,0:14:08.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and one solution is consent.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.13,0:14:12.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So the next time a victim\Nof a privacy violation comes up to you,
Dialogue: 0,0:14:12.64,0:14:15.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of blaming them,\Nlet's do this instead:
Dialogue: 0,0:14:15.60,0:14:18.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's shift our ideas\Nabout digital privacy
Dialogue: 0,0:14:18.81,0:14:21.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and let's respond with compassion.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:21.91,0:14:23.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you.
Dialogue: 0,0:14:23.44,0:14:25.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)