[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.46,0:00:12.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you for inviting me. Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.98,0:00:14.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a pleasure to be here. Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.27,0:00:16.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I feel like I'm at home. Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.12,0:00:19.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have 18 minutes to talk,\Nbut my problem will be time Dialogue: 0,0:00:19.65,0:00:21.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I love to talk. Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.30,0:00:25.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I also talk very fast,\Nso this may be an advantage. Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.42,0:00:27.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would like to reflect Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.73,0:00:31.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the importance of one's attitude \Nin personal interactions. Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.24,0:00:36.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to talk about\Nhow people are like light bulbs. Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.02,0:00:39.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're like light bulbs\Nbecause we transmit. Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.93,0:00:43.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Light bulbs with feet\Nsince we move throughout life. Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.37,0:00:46.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are people that go around\Nat 30,000 watts Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.90,0:00:48.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and others that go around burnt out. Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.91,0:00:52.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everyone transmits energy,\Nbut the difference is relevant. Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.60,0:00:56.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At times after meeting someone \Nfor just three seconds, we say, Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.16,0:01:00.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Wow, what an exceptional person!" Dialogue: 0,0:01:00.99,0:01:04.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And other times after meeting someone\Nfor a few seconds, we say, Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.04,0:01:07.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh, no no no ..." Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.53,0:01:11.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Call it "feeling" or "chemistry,"\Nbut these sensations exist. Dialogue: 0,0:01:11.37,0:01:13.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Human beings transmit feelings, Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.55,0:01:16.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and we receive the emotions\Nthat others transmit. Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.10,0:01:19.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In this way, we are like light bulbs. Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.88,0:01:24.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I actually wanted to provide\Nan example of the bulb metaphor. Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.26,0:01:27.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not in the script,\Nbut I'll play with time Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.26,0:01:30.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the best way \Nto explain an idea is with examples. Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.59,0:01:33.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I really enjoy cold weather;\NI'm crazy for the mountains. Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.60,0:01:35.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am happy in Ordino, Dialogue: 0,0:01:35.51,0:01:38.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I don't understand\Npeople who like the beach. Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.26,0:01:40.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I respect it, but I don't understand it. Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.18,0:01:42.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's super hot and crowded. Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.66,0:01:43.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The water is boiling. Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.70,0:01:45.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You burn your feet walking on the sand. Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.56,0:01:47.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The salt from the sea gets everywhere ... Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.76,0:01:50.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The beach is not my thing. Dialogue: 0,0:01:50.42,0:01:54.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I am fortunate to have\Na wife and kids who love the beach. Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.42,0:01:57.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So each year, for one weekend,\NI make an exception. Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.29,0:02:00.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Instead of staying in Ordino, \Nwe go to the beach. Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.42,0:02:03.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Since I'm not familiar with hotels, Dialogue: 0,0:02:03.25,0:02:06.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,each year I choose a hotel \Nby sending out a tweet, Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.41,0:02:09.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Anyone recommend a nice hotel\Nthat's not expensive, Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.55,0:02:12.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where I can stay\Nwith my family at the beach?" Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.28,0:02:15.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there are kind people \Nwho reply to my tweets. Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.10,0:02:18.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the replies, one hotel kept \Ngetting repeated, Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.12,0:02:21.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I figured it must be a great hotel. Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.17,0:02:25.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I went on the hotel's website,\Nbut there weren't any photos. Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.82,0:02:28.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know about you or your partners, Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.29,0:02:31.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but for my wife - without photos, \Nshe is not convinced. Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.88,0:02:36.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My wife wants to see photos of the hotel,\Nthe garden, the pool, the room, Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.14,0:02:38.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the bathroom, especially the bathroom. Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.64,0:02:41.37,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My wife has a fixation with bathrooms. Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.37,0:02:44.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As If we will spend\Nthe entire weekend in the bathroom. Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.11,0:02:45.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anyway, there were no photos. Dialogue: 0,0:02:45.55,0:02:47.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I sent the following note to the hotel. Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.54,0:02:50.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Your hotel was recommended to me. Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.58,0:02:53.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I would like to make a reservation,\Nbut there are no photos. Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.46,0:02:55.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Without pictures, \NI can't convince my wife." Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.91,0:02:57.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Response from hotel - Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.58,0:03:00.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I received this email\Na while ago, but I kept it. Dialogue: 0,0:03:00.100,0:03:04.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Dear Víctor, I'm going to help you\Nconvince your wife." Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.64,0:03:05.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.64,0:03:07.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It starts just like that: Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.56,0:03:10.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"It's true we do not have \Nany pictures of the rooms, Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.12,0:03:12.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because we are renovating our web page. Dialogue: 0,0:03:12.18,0:03:13.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My sincerest apologies. Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.85,0:03:17.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a small hotel, and the manager \Nwanted to remodel the page. Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.39,0:03:19.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What can we do? He gets bored." Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.36,0:03:21.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Between parenthesis there's a smile emoji. Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.54,0:03:23.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I have gone upstairs to a room Dialogue: 0,0:03:23.48,0:03:26.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which I think would be perfect \Nfor you and your kids. Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.02,0:03:28.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have taken pictures\Nwith my personal camera Dialogue: 0,0:03:28.27,0:03:30.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and attached them in this email. Dialogue: 0,0:03:30.18,0:03:32.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you wife doesn't like the rooms, \Nplease let me know. Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.82,0:03:35.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will talk with my boss\Nto ask if we can change them." Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.44,0:03:37.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then in brackets she writes, Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.12,0:03:40.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Since we're reforming the web page,\Nwe've only booked a few rooms. Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.96,0:03:44.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you need more photos, just ask. Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.66,0:03:48.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a quick up and down, \Nask and you will get photos. Dialogue: 0,0:03:48.13,0:03:50.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We eagerly await your arrival. Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.87,0:03:55.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At your service,\NAna, Reception Manager." Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.99,0:04:00.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you receive this email, Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.23,0:04:03.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,assuming you're slightly normal,\Nwhat do you think? Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.77,0:04:06.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Anyone would think, Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.38,0:04:09.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are you kidding me,\Nwhat planet are you from? Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.76,0:04:11.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.98,0:04:16.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How would an appropriate, correct \Nand professional email have sounded? Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.53,0:04:18.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A professional, correct response \Nwould have been: Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.96,0:04:21.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Dear client, \NWe are reforming the website, Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.03,0:04:22.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so there are no photos,\Nbut don't worry. Dialogue: 0,0:04:22.95,0:04:25.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In two weeks, they will be on our website. Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.12,0:04:26.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yours sincerely, Ana" Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.12,0:04:30.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This would have been a serious,\Ncorrect and professional response. Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.41,0:04:33.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The problem is that we are surrounded Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.96,0:04:38.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by people who are serious,\Ncorrect and professional. Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.95,0:04:44.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yet there are others who besides\Nbeing serious, correct and professional, Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.30,0:04:48.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are extraordinary and leave us in awe. Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.17,0:04:50.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.61,0:04:52.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's what we will talk about. Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.22,0:04:53.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But then there are those who say, Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.95,0:04:58.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I am so fed up, really fed up\Nbecause I feel disillusioned." Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.16,0:05:00.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The problem is some people \Nfeel really lifeless. Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.45,0:05:02.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's no surprise: you read\Nabout world crisis, Dialogue: 0,0:05:02.88,0:05:04.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,watch a TV program about cutbacks, Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.77,0:05:07.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,listen to the radio to relax\Nand you hear about the deficit. Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.61,0:05:11.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This continues for four or five years,\Nplus your job may not be going well. Dialogue: 0,0:05:11.14,0:05:13.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Some people also have personal problems: Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.05,0:05:15.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mothers with illnesses,\Ncouples with relationship problems, Dialogue: 0,0:05:15.88,0:05:17.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,teens having children, Dialogue: 0,0:05:17.59,0:05:19.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,those who don't support Barca Soccer. Dialogue: 0,0:05:19.54,0:05:21.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So, you keep adding, adding, adding ... Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.45,0:05:27.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's just no source of joy,\Nand it's difficult to find happiness. Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.79,0:05:31.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The truth is, many unfortunate people\Nare disappointed, overwhelmed, Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.98,0:05:34.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,coming unhinged, \Nreally fed up about everything. Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.06,0:05:37.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's an astronomical crisis \Nin our state of being. Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.62,0:05:41.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A crisis of "uffh"\Nthat I'm not sure how to write. Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.30,0:05:43.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The "uffh" is when we come home\Nfrom work and hear, Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.74,0:05:45.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Daddy, could you tell me a story?" Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.61,0:05:48.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Uffh ... honey, let mommy tell you ..." Dialogue: 0,0:05:48.03,0:05:50.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hey buddy, let's grab\Na drink and catch up." Dialogue: 0,0:05:50.46,0:05:51.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Uffh, you go. I have to ..." Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.93,0:05:54.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the problem - \Nwe go around with "uffh" energy. Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.66,0:05:57.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why is it so important\Nto keep your spirits up? Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.17,0:06:02.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is a formula to calculate\Nyour value as a person. Dialogue: 0,0:06:04.44,0:06:06.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How much are you worth, that's V. Dialogue: 0,0:06:06.38,0:06:07.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,V = (K + S) x A Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.66,0:06:09.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The K is Knowledge. Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.94,0:06:11.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The S is Skill. Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.92,0:06:13.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything in life requires knowledge: Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.79,0:06:15.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to serve a beer requires knowledge; Dialogue: 0,0:06:15.70,0:06:18.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to work in finance, you need knowledge; Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.11,0:06:20.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be president, you need knowledge. Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.85,0:06:21.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then comes S. Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.89,0:06:25.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything in life requires \Nability and therefore skill. Dialogue: 0,0:06:25.24,0:06:27.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then comes Attitude. Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.05,0:06:28.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's the significance of this formula? Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.97,0:06:32.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The importance is\Nthat the K adds, the S adds, Dialogue: 0,0:06:32.39,0:06:34.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the A multiplies. Dialogue: 0,0:06:34.28,0:06:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The difference \Nin the kind of person you are Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.64,0:06:39.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is not in the K or the S but in the A. Dialogue: 0,0:06:40.25,0:06:44.43,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're not amazing, which you are,\Nbecause of your knowledge. Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.43,0:06:47.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You're not amazing \Nbecause you have a lot of experience. Dialogue: 0,0:06:47.54,0:06:50.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are incredible for your way of being. Dialogue: 0,0:06:50.33,0:06:53.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No one appreciates you for what you know,\Nyour degrees and titles. Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.44,0:06:56.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No one respects you for the years\Nyou put into your career. Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.73,0:06:59.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People appreciate you \Nfor your way of being. Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.34,0:07:02.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All charismatic people\Nhave a charismatic way of being. Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.97,0:07:05.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All the shitty people we meet \Nhave a shitty disposition. Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.64,0:07:06.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:07:06.78,0:07:08.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Excuse my language ... Dialogue: 0,0:07:08.27,0:07:10.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but label them as you wish. Dialogue: 0,0:07:10.62,0:07:15.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,All the incredible bosses\Nhave an incredible way of behaving, Dialogue: 0,0:07:15.06,0:07:18.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and all the other ones ...\Nyou get my point. Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.02,0:07:20.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If not, think of\Nall the bosses you've had. Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.18,0:07:21.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Which would you choose? Dialogue: 0,0:07:21.50,0:07:23.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm not saying the K and S\Naren't important. Dialogue: 0,0:07:23.57,0:07:25.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are very important. Dialogue: 0,0:07:25.06,0:07:28.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nothing worse than a useless person \Nwho's super motivated - Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.05,0:07:29.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I have no idea, but I'll do it!" Dialogue: 0,0:07:29.80,0:07:30.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.80,0:07:34.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of course knowledge is important, \Nbut we don't choose people for that. Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.14,0:07:36.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We chose them for their way of being. Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.86,0:07:38.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In the personal realm, it's even simpler. Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.91,0:07:41.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How do we chose our friends,\Nfor K, S or A? Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.21,0:07:43.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No one chooses friends for their resume. Dialogue: 0,0:07:43.99,0:07:45.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We choose them for their way of being. Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.82,0:07:49.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we ask your children,\N"Who do you prefer, mom or dad?" Dialogue: 0,0:07:49.42,0:07:51.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No, my mom is amazing." Dialogue: 0,0:07:51.17,0:07:52.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Come on, tell us, Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.54,0:07:54.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,14 years of experience in your field." Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.35,0:07:56.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.05,0:07:58.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our kids also don't define us by K or S. Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.17,0:07:59.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They define us by our way of being. Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.89,0:08:02.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"My mom and dad are amazing\Nbecause they love me, Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.30,0:08:04.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they help me, play with me, play goalie." Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.62,0:08:08.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In this way, we define people, \Nvalue them for their way of being. Dialogue: 0,0:08:08.20,0:08:11.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the problem is, when people\Nfeel disheartened, without spirit, Dialogue: 0,0:08:11.31,0:08:13.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they lose their best quality,\Ntheir way of being. Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.59,0:08:15.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't lose awareness or experience. Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.40,0:08:17.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We lose our way of being. Dialogue: 0,0:08:17.03,0:08:19.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the big problem - we are clueless. Dialogue: 0,0:08:19.48,0:08:20.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Really clueless. Dialogue: 0,0:08:20.99,0:08:23.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When one is clueless,\Nsurrounded by clueless people, Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.75,0:08:27.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he's not aware that he's clueless,\Nbut we are clueless. Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.88,0:08:31.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We could perform experiments \Nto show this, but I don't have time. Dialogue: 0,0:08:31.88,0:08:35.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We live in an environment \Nwhere speed is prioritized. Dialogue: 0,0:08:36.27,0:08:39.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everything occurs at an insane pace:\Nwe drive fast, we walk fast, Dialogue: 0,0:08:39.44,0:08:41.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we talk fast, we eat fast, \Nwe have fast meetings. Dialogue: 0,0:08:41.95,0:08:45.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We want a book to change our life\Nin 15 minutes, in 14 it's even better. Dialogue: 0,0:08:46.08,0:08:49.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You take a course in time-management,\Nand the first thing you learn is Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.36,0:08:52.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you wake up a half hour earlier,\Nyou will half an advantage. Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.34,0:08:54.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you think, against whom? Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.28,0:08:55.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:08:55.91,0:08:59.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are told you need to move forward \Nor you'll take a step back. Dialogue: 0,0:08:59.05,0:09:01.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you go through life \Nat lightening speed. Dialogue: 0,0:09:01.10,0:09:02.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Life is like riding a bike. Dialogue: 0,0:09:02.93,0:09:04.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you stop, you fall." Dialogue: 0,0:09:04.06,0:09:05.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How often we've heard that. Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.57,0:09:10.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's time to glorify the pause,\Nto give value to the act of stopping Dialogue: 0,0:09:10.06,0:09:11.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because when you stop, you mend. Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.65,0:09:13.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They say you can't stop\Nwhile riding a bike. Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.72,0:09:16.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But you must stop,\Nor you'll falter on your path. Dialogue: 0,0:09:16.23,0:09:18.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And on a bike, sometimes \Nyou adjust things. Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.52,0:09:21.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But instead we go around like \Nchickens without heads. Dialogue: 0,0:09:21.06,0:09:24.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I don't know if you've ever seen\Na chicken with its head cut off. Dialogue: 0,0:09:24.22,0:09:25.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The head falls, Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.89,0:09:29.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the chicken keeps going,\Nanother 20, 30, 40 plus yards. Dialogue: 0,0:09:29.18,0:09:30.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You wonder where it's going. Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.54,0:09:33.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many of us go through life\Nlike chickens with no heads? Dialogue: 0,0:09:33.31,0:09:34.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Hey, where are you off to?" Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.67,0:09:37.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I'm running, I don't know ... a dinner." Dialogue: 0,0:09:37.23,0:09:40.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We go around crazy,\Nwhen life has so many beautiful things. Dialogue: 0,0:09:40.24,0:09:42.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Life has spectacular moments. Dialogue: 0,0:09:42.52,0:09:46.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For those of us rooting for Barca Soccer,\Ntoo many spectacular moments. Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.19,0:09:48.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's hard to take in\Nsuch happiness all at once. Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.76,0:09:50.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,As we grow older, Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.93,0:09:53.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we understand that we focus\Nmuch more on drama than on fun. Dialogue: 0,0:09:53.69,0:09:56.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are many difficult moments\Nwe will experience Dialogue: 0,0:09:56.35,0:09:58.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and those we've already experienced. Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.25,0:10:01.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At times people we love \Nhave accidents, lose their job, Dialogue: 0,0:10:01.59,0:10:06.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get sick or die, often without warning. Dialogue: 0,0:10:06.33,0:10:08.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when life deals us a blow like this, Dialogue: 0,0:10:08.40,0:10:10.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everything stops, Dialogue: 0,0:10:10.58,0:10:13.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you think and you realize\Nwhat is truly important Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.36,0:10:15.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what is less important. Dialogue: 0,0:10:15.40,0:10:18.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At times we need to search\Nfor this pause and reevaluate it Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.93,0:10:20.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and realize that in life, Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.29,0:10:24.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the most important thing\Nhas to be the most important thing. Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.92,0:10:27.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not a play on words - \Nokay, it actually is - Dialogue: 0,0:10:27.25,0:10:29.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but there's a point Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.61,0:10:32.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to not rush through life and miss out. Dialogue: 0,0:10:32.53,0:10:35.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are people\Nwho go around high and euphoric Dialogue: 0,0:10:35.30,0:10:37.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in their environment. Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.76,0:10:39.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What can one do when one notices Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.74,0:10:43.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this sensation of not doing anything, \Nbut at full intensity. Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.14,0:10:45.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Life is full of people like this. Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.82,0:10:49.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's true we all do many things\Nfrom 7 in the morning until 11 at night, Dialogue: 0,0:10:49.58,0:10:52.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's not the same to do things\Nand to do important things. Dialogue: 0,0:10:53.46,0:10:56.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And at times, we miss out on life\Nby running through it. Dialogue: 0,0:10:56.07,0:10:58.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We're born, we grow up,\Nreproduce, struggle and die. Dialogue: 0,0:10:58.55,0:11:01.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We never come to realize\Nhow rapidly life passes. Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.42,0:11:04.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What are you doing\Nto be going at 30,000 watts, Dialogue: 0,0:11:04.11,0:11:05.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be so revved up? Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.82,0:11:08.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those who bolt out of bed\Nand say, "Let's go!" Dialogue: 0,0:11:08.22,0:11:10.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A guy runs by, you ask where he's going? Dialogue: 0,0:11:10.16,0:11:11.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"To work!" Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.28,0:11:13.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What are these people doing? Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.01,0:11:14.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They are doing many things. Dialogue: 0,0:11:14.47,0:11:16.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I am not an expert;\NI copy from the experts. Dialogue: 0,0:11:16.81,0:11:21.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But if one reads about this theme,\Nall the experts agree on the same points. Dialogue: 0,0:11:21.05,0:11:23.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I will only mention two of them. Dialogue: 0,0:11:23.06,0:11:25.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are actually three, Dialogue: 0,0:11:25.58,0:11:28.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I saw the time, \Nso I need to shorten my talk. Dialogue: 0,0:11:28.12,0:11:29.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let's see what they are. Dialogue: 0,0:11:29.28,0:11:30.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are two, Dialogue: 0,0:11:30.52,0:11:31.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:11:31.52,0:11:32.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,otherwise you'll kick me out! Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.95,0:11:37.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,First, and these are basic, simple. Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.06,0:11:38.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Learn to be grateful. Dialogue: 0,0:11:38.51,0:11:39.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's a refrain, Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.81,0:11:42.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You don't know what you have \Nuntil it's gone." Dialogue: 0,0:11:42.23,0:11:44.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is an absolute truth. Dialogue: 0,0:11:44.77,0:11:46.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't realize all that we have. Dialogue: 0,0:11:46.58,0:11:49.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,No one arrives home,\Nturns on the switch on the wall, Dialogue: 0,0:11:49.98,0:11:51.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and when the lights go on, says, Dialogue: 0,0:11:51.90,0:11:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Wow, what brilliant \Nshining illumination!" Dialogue: 0,0:11:54.53,0:11:57.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This doesn't exist. We would seem foolish. Dialogue: 0,0:11:58.18,0:12:01.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You arrive home, turn on the switch,\Nand you already know the light will go on. Dialogue: 0,0:12:01.89,0:12:03.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In life the same thing happens. Dialogue: 0,0:12:03.44,0:12:05.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We take so much for granted. Dialogue: 0,0:12:05.39,0:12:07.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You wake up in the morning, Dialogue: 0,0:12:07.40,0:12:09.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you are used to being\Nin this amazing country, Dialogue: 0,0:12:09.75,0:12:11.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seeing beautiful mountains. Dialogue: 0,0:12:11.18,0:12:14.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are used to waking up \Nwith your love by your side, Dialogue: 0,0:12:14.30,0:12:17.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,having fantastic children,\Ngood health and employment. Dialogue: 0,0:12:17.25,0:12:19.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At times we need to stop \Nand value these things Dialogue: 0,0:12:19.73,0:12:21.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because we would end up much happier. Dialogue: 0,0:12:21.72,0:12:25.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's true, life has dramas, epic dramas: Dialogue: 0,0:12:25.24,0:12:29.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,deaths, terminal or incurable illnesses. Dialogue: 0,0:12:29.21,0:12:32.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When someone over 45 loses a job, Dialogue: 0,0:12:32.38,0:12:35.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has no prospect of returning\Nto the labor force, Dialogue: 0,0:12:35.07,0:12:36.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,has two children at home ... Dialogue: 0,0:12:36.88,0:12:38.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yes, life has dramas. Dialogue: 0,0:12:38.59,0:12:41.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And unfortunately,\Nthe dramas don't have a solution. Dialogue: 0,0:12:42.38,0:12:44.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You just have to live through them. Dialogue: 0,0:12:44.92,0:12:49.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Time eases the pain, \Nbut there's no solution to the dramas. Dialogue: 0,0:12:49.21,0:12:54.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What's unforgivable is complaining \Nwhen you have no dramas. Dialogue: 0,0:12:54.15,0:12:56.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those of us without dramas\Nshould be here to Dialogue: 0,0:12:56.26,0:12:59.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(1) serve those\Nwho are suffering with dramas, Dialogue: 0,0:12:59.13,0:13:00.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(2) be grateful. Dialogue: 0,0:13:00.34,0:13:04.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The least we can do is to be appreciative\Nand value the things that are going well, Dialogue: 0,0:13:04.24,0:13:06.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and not focus only on what's lacking. Dialogue: 0,0:13:06.03,0:13:08.39,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We should be running with joy. Dialogue: 0,0:13:08.39,0:13:09.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Everyone in Andorra Dialogue: 0,0:13:09.42,0:13:11.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,should be running with joy\Nliving in this country, Dialogue: 0,0:13:11.76,0:13:15.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and yet you see people with no joy. Dialogue: 0,0:13:15.36,0:13:18.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see the opposite: people looking\Nso down you have to ask why. Dialogue: 0,0:13:18.83,0:13:22.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are compelled to ask,\N"What happened, what's with that face?" Dialogue: 0,0:13:22.96,0:13:25.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"You must have passed through\Nsomething really horrible!" Dialogue: 0,0:13:25.66,0:13:28.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Yet if we stop to ask, people give\Nthe most bizarre explanations. Dialogue: 0,0:13:28.73,0:13:32.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, everyone traded in their iPhone\Nfor the newest iPhone 5 except me. Dialogue: 0,0:13:32.21,0:13:33.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm stuck with the 4." Dialogue: 0,0:13:33.46,0:13:36.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Oh wow, that's really \Na world-class problem!" Dialogue: 0,0:13:36.32,0:13:37.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"And you, what about you?" Dialogue: 0,0:13:37.78,0:13:40.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Well, I wanted a window seat,\Nand I got an aisle." Dialogue: 0,0:13:40.68,0:13:43.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At times one has to be aware\Nthat in one's bubble, Dialogue: 0,0:13:43.96,0:13:47.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we convert our biggest issue \Ninto a world-class problem. Dialogue: 0,0:13:47.38,0:13:49.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have to see things relatively. Dialogue: 0,0:13:49.23,0:13:50.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Life has dramas. Dialogue: 0,0:13:50.99,0:13:54.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When one doesn't have dramas,\Nthere are no problems. Dialogue: 0,0:13:54.79,0:13:56.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are only circumstances to resolve. Dialogue: 0,0:13:56.79,0:14:00.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when this is the case,\None doesn't have the right to be unhappy. Dialogue: 0,0:14:00.36,0:14:02.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a matter of justice and fairness. Dialogue: 0,0:14:02.93,0:14:06.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The day you feel overwhelmed,\Ntake out a paper and pen, Dialogue: 0,0:14:06.06,0:14:08.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and start writing 20 things \Nthat are fantastic in your life. Dialogue: 0,0:14:08.97,0:14:11.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We all have 20 fantastic\Nthings in our lives. Dialogue: 0,0:14:11.51,0:14:13.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We also have 20 or 30 problems, Dialogue: 0,0:14:13.60,0:14:15.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the mind always thinks of the problems Dialogue: 0,0:14:15.66,0:14:17.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the rational brain \Nis designed for this. Dialogue: 0,0:14:17.95,0:14:20.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have to get the brain to focus\Non the good things in life. Dialogue: 0,0:14:20.92,0:14:22.89,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Make the list. It's very simple. Dialogue: 0,0:14:22.89,0:14:26.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because life is very simple, \Nnot easy but simple. Dialogue: 0,0:14:27.02,0:14:29.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We love to complicate everything. Dialogue: 0,0:14:29.63,0:14:31.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Make the list. Try it! Dialogue: 0,0:14:31.40,0:14:33.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Those supporting Barca Soccer,\Nthe first five are: Dialogue: 0,0:14:33.82,0:14:35.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Messi, Messi, Messi, Messi, Messi! Dialogue: 0,0:14:35.46,0:14:36.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:14:36.40,0:14:37.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have Messi! Dialogue: 0,0:14:37.94,0:14:39.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's so huge we can't even process it. Dialogue: 0,0:14:39.91,0:14:41.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We have Messi! Dialogue: 0,0:14:41.12,0:14:43.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The league is second. We have Messi! Dialogue: 0,0:14:43.99,0:14:45.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Is your mother healthy? Dialogue: 0,0:14:45.22,0:14:46.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't know what you have. Dialogue: 0,0:14:46.60,0:14:48.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Live in this amazing country? Dialogue: 0,0:14:48.01,0:14:49.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't know what you have. Dialogue: 0,0:14:49.42,0:14:51.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have a partner who tolerates you? Dialogue: 0,0:14:51.02,0:14:52.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't know what you have. Dialogue: 0,0:14:52.40,0:14:53.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Have great kids? Dialogue: 0,0:14:53.35,0:14:54.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't know what you have. Dialogue: 0,0:14:54.75,0:14:58.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You need to make the list to realize,\N"Wow, we're actually doing well!" Dialogue: 0,0:14:58.12,0:15:00.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not everything is bad. Dialogue: 0,0:15:00.23,0:15:02.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And second, you need to have illusions. Dialogue: 0,0:15:02.12,0:15:03.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Human beings work with illusion. Dialogue: 0,0:15:03.67,0:15:05.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is nothing like having illusions. Dialogue: 0,0:15:05.54,0:15:09.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Becoming a parent, getting a new car,\Ngoing on a vacation. Dialogue: 0,0:15:09.28,0:15:11.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You become excited to have an experience. Dialogue: 0,0:15:11.44,0:15:14.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The problem is when\Nyou don't have illusions, you're dead. Dialogue: 0,0:15:14.81,0:15:18.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you don't have illusions,\Nyou need to get them, Dialogue: 0,0:15:18.55,0:15:21.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because your environment\Nwon't create them for you. Dialogue: 0,0:15:21.34,0:15:23.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If it's cold, cover yourself up. Dialogue: 0,0:15:23.30,0:15:25.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you're constipated, take medicine. Dialogue: 0,0:15:25.67,0:15:28.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Your environment brings you down? Dialogue: 0,0:15:28.09,0:15:32.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Then you need to create illusions. Dialogue: 0,0:15:32.25,0:15:34.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you broke your watch\Nbecause you rushed around, Dialogue: 0,0:15:34.70,0:15:37.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,only two minutes are left now \Ninstead of five. Dialogue: 0,0:15:37.73,0:15:39.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,People say: "Give me a million dollars. Dialogue: 0,0:15:39.64,0:15:41.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You'll see how many illusions I'll have." Dialogue: 0,0:15:41.66,0:15:44.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the best things in life\Nare almost free. Dialogue: 0,0:15:44.34,0:15:46.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The best things are almost free: Dialogue: 0,0:15:46.30,0:15:50.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a loving squeeze from the person \Nnext to you - this is free - Dialogue: 0,0:15:50.32,0:15:53.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,climbing up Casamanya mountain,\Nduring a full moon, Dialogue: 0,0:15:53.50,0:15:57.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eating the local favorite\Ntuna sandwich - that's free. Dialogue: 0,0:15:57.08,0:15:59.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not about doing extraordinary things. Dialogue: 0,0:15:59.12,0:16:01.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's about enjoying small ordinary things: Dialogue: 0,0:16:01.53,0:16:04.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the sacred 20 minutes \Nwhile you're having breakfast: Dialogue: 0,0:16:04.55,0:16:08.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,coffee with milk and a cheese sandwich,\Nthe sports page - that's happiness. Dialogue: 0,0:16:08.09,0:16:11.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whichever sport page you choose,\Nthat's more or less happiness. Dialogue: 0,0:16:11.05,0:16:13.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And there are people choking \Non that cheese sandwich Dialogue: 0,0:16:13.95,0:16:16.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they are looking \Nat bills and debts, Dialogue: 0,0:16:16.21,0:16:18.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you want to say, "Give me a break!" Dialogue: 0,0:16:18.56,0:16:20.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or for those of us who enjoy a beer, Dialogue: 0,0:16:20.72,0:16:24.22,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's no greater pleasure than\Nhaving a beer when you're in the mood. Dialogue: 0,0:16:24.58,0:16:27.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There are people who enjoy a beer \Nfrom 100 feet away, Dialogue: 0,0:16:27.11,0:16:29.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who call out to the waiter \Ncarrying the tray, Dialogue: 0,0:16:29.25,0:16:32.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ooh that's mine. Sure looks good!" Dialogue: 0,0:16:32.47,0:16:35.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the waiter brings the beer\Nand places it on the table. Dialogue: 0,0:16:35.21,0:16:39.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At first they enjoy the beer \Nwithout touching it, just observing it, Dialogue: 0,0:16:39.69,0:16:42.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the creamy foam, the bubbles floating up, Dialogue: 0,0:16:42.69,0:16:45.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the liquid falling down the sides\Nof the cool glass. Dialogue: 0,0:16:45.15,0:16:48.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Excuse me, but you could shed a tear\Nof emotion just looking at a beer. Dialogue: 0,0:16:48.73,0:16:52.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And when you pick it up, \Nthat cool sensation runs through your arm, Dialogue: 0,0:16:52.49,0:16:55.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the first sip is always the longest, Dialogue: 0,0:16:55.99,0:16:59.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the cool sensation,\Nthe foamy mustache it leaves behind ... Dialogue: 0,0:16:59.87,0:17:03.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is happiness; this is joy. Dialogue: 0,0:17:03.58,0:17:05.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A beer costs two euros. Dialogue: 0,0:17:05.97,0:17:08.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At the next table,\Na guy guzzles down two beers, Dialogue: 0,0:17:08.21,0:17:09.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,faces away from the mountain view, Dialogue: 0,0:17:09.86,0:17:11.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ranting, complaining. Dialogue: 0,0:17:11.53,0:17:12.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You don't have to be naive, Dialogue: 0,0:17:12.87,0:17:15.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you don't have to listen\N24 hours a day Dialogue: 0,0:17:15.56,0:17:19.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to news and radio\Non economic crises and problems. Dialogue: 0,0:17:19.42,0:17:20.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have to try. Dialogue: 0,0:17:20.56,0:17:23.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you don't, there's no way to feel good. Dialogue: 0,0:17:23.18,0:17:24.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The end. Dialogue: 0,0:17:24.33,0:17:27.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now I will tell you something\Nmy wife won't be happy about. Dialogue: 0,0:17:27.11,0:17:28.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She said she would be watching, Dialogue: 0,0:17:28.59,0:17:29.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so I'm sorry. Dialogue: 0,0:17:29.59,0:17:30.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:17:30.96,0:17:35.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I love to play cards with my wife,\Nthe game Brisca. Dialogue: 0,0:17:36.25,0:17:38.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My wife is of Nordic\Nbackground, very Nordic. Dialogue: 0,0:17:38.96,0:17:42.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nordic people have a region of the brain\Nthat functions in a different way, Dialogue: 0,0:17:42.63,0:17:44.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not better or worse - different. Dialogue: 0,0:17:45.13,0:17:47.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,At times we're dealing the cards, Dialogue: 0,0:17:47.16,0:17:50.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my wife picks up her cards and says,\N"Uff, shuffle them again." Dialogue: 0,0:17:50.12,0:17:51.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Come on, sweetie!" Dialogue: 0,0:17:51.40,0:17:53.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"No, I have no trumps,\Nonly low value cards. Dialogue: 0,0:17:53.51,0:17:54.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Reshuffle." Dialogue: 0,0:17:54.96,0:17:56.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"But that's cheating!" Dialogue: 0,0:17:56.13,0:17:57.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Reshuffle, or I won't play!" Dialogue: 0,0:17:57.74,0:17:58.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:17:58.74,0:18:01.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I reshuffle and ask, "And now?" Dialogue: 0,0:18:01.29,0:18:02.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Now it's better." Dialogue: 0,0:18:02.41,0:18:06.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Ok honey, who goes first,\Nyou decide as always, dear." Dialogue: 0,0:18:06.09,0:18:08.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes while we're playing, \Nshe draws a card and says, Dialogue: 0,0:18:08.84,0:18:11.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"I got the gold card,\Nbut I'm returning it to the pile Dialogue: 0,0:18:11.61,0:18:13.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,since it's not a good card for me now." Dialogue: 0,0:18:13.61,0:18:15.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well this is how my wife plays cards. Dialogue: 0,0:18:15.99,0:18:18.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you like it, great. Dialogue: 0,0:18:18.09,0:18:19.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If not, you've been warned. Dialogue: 0,0:18:19.79,0:18:21.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She's always played this way. Dialogue: 0,0:18:21.19,0:18:24.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She doesn't get why, \Nbut logically she always wins, Dialogue: 0,0:18:24.77,0:18:27.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because she is Swedish, she's not stupid. Dialogue: 0,0:18:27.62,0:18:28.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter) Dialogue: 0,0:18:28.62,0:18:32.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many people from Andorra, \NCatalonia or Holland Dialogue: 0,0:18:32.05,0:18:35.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have a Swedish gene in them? Dialogue: 0,0:18:35.19,0:18:38.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One has to understand,\Nin life, like it or not, Dialogue: 0,0:18:39.14,0:18:41.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things are as they are, \Nnot as we wish they were. Dialogue: 0,0:18:41.92,0:18:45.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We don't get to pick our cards;\NGod deals them out. Dialogue: 0,0:18:45.26,0:18:49.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And we fall, but we keep playing. Dialogue: 0,0:18:49.68,0:18:52.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Greatness is achieved through playing. Dialogue: 0,0:18:52.11,0:18:54.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's what separates the exceptional\Nfrom the mediocre. Dialogue: 0,0:18:54.63,0:18:58.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can never, ever, ever, do anything\Nto change our circumstances. Dialogue: 0,0:18:58.42,0:19:01.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We can never ever, ever return \Nthe hand we are dealt. Dialogue: 0,0:19:01.30,0:19:04.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Whoever chose to have\Na crisis or an illness? Dialogue: 0,0:19:04.20,0:19:09.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But we can always, always, always\Nchoose our attitude. Dialogue: 0,0:19:09.40,0:19:11.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is the last freedom\Nthat we have as human beings. Dialogue: 0,0:19:11.94,0:19:16.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Our environment and our particular\Nset of circumstances influence us, Dialogue: 0,0:19:16.26,0:19:19.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but there's always a small space\Nwhere we can choose our attitude Dialogue: 0,0:19:19.76,0:19:21.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and how to confront our situation. Dialogue: 0,0:19:21.49,0:19:24.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's what separates the brilliant ones\Nfrom those who are burnt out. Dialogue: 0,0:19:24.69,0:19:26.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In every moment, we choose our attitude. Dialogue: 0,0:19:26.62,0:19:29.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For this reason, each moment\Nbrings us a little closer to greatness Dialogue: 0,0:19:29.95,0:19:31.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or a little closer to mediocrity. Dialogue: 0,0:19:31.96,0:19:35.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And the only objective in life\Nis to add up these fantastic moments, Dialogue: 0,0:19:35.31,0:19:39.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to fight each day to be the best person\Nyou can become given your circumstances. Dialogue: 0,0:19:39.86,0:19:42.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So in the end of your life\Nwhen you look back on your journey, Dialogue: 0,0:19:42.82,0:19:46.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let it be a work of art\Nso that others receive your masterpiece Dialogue: 0,0:19:46.02,0:19:48.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and say, "Wow, wow, wow." Dialogue: 0,0:19:49.82,0:19:51.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thank you. Dialogue: 0,0:19:51.27,0:19:54.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Applause)