1 00:00:09,003 --> 00:00:11,065 Hi everyone. 2 00:00:11,825 --> 00:00:16,625 Two year ago, my life changed forever. 3 00:00:16,625 --> 00:00:19,261 My wife Kelsey and I 4 00:00:19,261 --> 00:00:23,033 welcomed our daughter Lela into the world. 5 00:00:23,033 --> 00:00:27,456 Now, becoming a parent is an amazing experience. 6 00:00:27,456 --> 00:00:30,704 Your whole world changes over night. 7 00:00:30,704 --> 00:00:33,285 And all of your priorities change immediately. 8 00:00:33,285 --> 00:00:39,294 So fast that it makes it really difficult to process sometimes. 9 00:00:39,294 --> 00:00:43,547 Now, you also have to learn a tremendous amount about being a parent 10 00:00:43,547 --> 00:00:46,820 like, for example, how to dress your child. 11 00:00:46,820 --> 00:00:47,954 (Laughter) 12 00:00:47,954 --> 00:00:50,091 This was new to me. 13 00:00:50,091 --> 00:00:53,844 This is an actual outfit, I thought this was a good idea. 14 00:00:53,844 --> 00:00:59,558 And even Lela knows that it's not a good idea. (Laughter) 15 00:00:59,558 --> 00:01:04,409 So there is so much to learn and so much craziness all at once. 16 00:01:04,409 --> 00:01:08,533 And to add to the craziness, Kelsey and I both work from home, 17 00:01:08,533 --> 00:01:11,223 we're entrepreneurs, we run our own businesses. 18 00:01:11,223 --> 00:01:16,992 So, Kelsey develops courses online for yoga teachers. 19 00:01:16,992 --> 00:01:18,333 I'm an author. 20 00:01:18,333 --> 00:01:20,782 And so, I'm working from home, Kelsey's working from home. 21 00:01:20,782 --> 00:01:23,901 We have an infant and we're trying to make sure 22 00:01:23,901 --> 00:01:26,725 that everything gets done that needs done. 23 00:01:26,725 --> 00:01:31,107 And life is really, really busy. 24 00:01:32,357 --> 00:01:36,718 And a couple of weeks into this amazing experience, 25 00:01:36,718 --> 00:01:40,247 when the sleep deprivation really kicked in, 26 00:01:40,247 --> 00:01:42,299 like around week eight, 27 00:01:42,299 --> 00:01:45,732 I had this thought, and it was the same thought 28 00:01:45,732 --> 00:01:49,773 that parents across the ages, internationally, 29 00:01:49,773 --> 00:01:52,467 everybody has had this thought, which is: 30 00:01:52,467 --> 00:01:58,054 I am never going to have free time ever again. 31 00:01:58,054 --> 00:01:59,183 (Laughter) 32 00:01:59,183 --> 00:02:02,403 Somebody said it's true. 33 00:02:02,403 --> 00:02:05,214 It's not exactly true, 34 00:02:05,214 --> 00:02:09,866 but it feels really, really true in that moment. 35 00:02:09,866 --> 00:02:12,075 And this was really disconcerning to me, 36 00:02:12,075 --> 00:02:15,484 because one of the things that I enjoy 37 00:02:15,484 --> 00:02:19,428 more than anything else is learning new things. 38 00:02:19,428 --> 00:02:22,261 Getting curious about something and diving in 39 00:02:22,261 --> 00:02:25,164 and fiddling around and learning through trial and error. 40 00:02:25,164 --> 00:02:28,440 And eventually becoming pretty good at something. 41 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:32,336 And without this free time, 42 00:02:32,336 --> 00:02:36,405 I didn't know how I was ever going to do that ever again. 43 00:02:36,405 --> 00:02:38,877 And so, I'm a big geek, 44 00:02:38,877 --> 00:02:42,070 I want to keep learning things, I want to keep growing. 45 00:02:42,070 --> 00:02:45,087 And so what I've decided to do was, 46 00:02:45,087 --> 00:02:47,784 go to the library, and go to the bookstore, 47 00:02:47,784 --> 00:02:49,922 and look at what research says about 48 00:02:49,922 --> 00:02:53,523 how we learn and how we learn quickly. 49 00:02:53,523 --> 00:02:56,834 And I read a bunch of books, I read a bunch of websites. 50 00:02:56,834 --> 00:02:59,091 And tried to answer this question, 51 00:02:59,091 --> 00:03:03,040 how long does it take to acquire a new skill? 52 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,117 You know what I found? 53 00:03:05,117 --> 00:03:09,438 10,000 hours! 54 00:03:09,438 --> 00:03:11,200 Anybody ever heard this? 55 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,134 It takes 10,000 hours. If you want to learn something new, 56 00:03:14,134 --> 00:03:15,574 if you want to be good at it, 57 00:03:15,584 --> 00:03:17,934 it's going to take 10,000 hours to get there. 58 00:03:17,934 --> 00:03:21,455 And I read this in book after book, in website after website. 59 00:03:21,455 --> 00:03:28,421 And my mental experience of reading all of this stuff was like: 60 00:03:28,421 --> 00:03:30,799 No!! 61 00:03:30,799 --> 00:03:34,539 I don't have time! I don't have 10,000 hours. 62 00:03:34,539 --> 00:03:39,088 I am never going to be able to learn anything new. 63 00:03:39,088 --> 00:03:42,421 Ever again. (Laughter) 64 00:03:42,421 --> 00:03:43,479 But that's not true. 65 00:03:43,479 --> 00:03:46,559 So, 10,000 hours, just to give you a rough order of magnitude, 66 00:03:46,559 --> 00:03:52,422 10,000 hours is a full-time job for five years. 67 00:03:52,422 --> 00:03:54,008 That's a long time. 68 00:03:54,008 --> 00:03:56,364 And we've all had the experience of learning something new, 69 00:03:56,364 --> 00:04:00,439 and it didn't take us anywhere close to that amount of time, right? 70 00:04:00,439 --> 00:04:03,505 So, what's up? There's something kinda funky going on here. 71 00:04:03,505 --> 00:04:07,078 What the research says and what we expect, and have experiences, 72 00:04:07,078 --> 00:04:09,416 they don't match up. 73 00:04:09,416 --> 00:04:12,993 And what I found, here's the wrinkle: 74 00:04:12,993 --> 00:04:19,722 The 10,000 hour rule came out of studies of expert-level performance. 75 00:04:19,722 --> 00:04:22,228 There's a professor at Florida State University, 76 00:04:22,228 --> 00:04:24,226 his name is K. Anders Ericsson. 77 00:04:24,226 --> 00:04:26,725 He is the originator of the 10,00 hour rule. 78 00:04:26,725 --> 00:04:31,261 And where that came from is, he studied professional athletes, 79 00:04:31,261 --> 00:04:35,763 world class musicians, chess grand masters. 80 00:04:35,763 --> 00:04:40,775 All of this ultra competitive folks in ultra-high performing fields. 81 00:04:40,775 --> 00:04:43,751 And he tried to figure out how long does it take 82 00:04:43,751 --> 00:04:46,811 to get to the top of those kinds of fields. 83 00:04:46,811 --> 00:04:49,668 And what he found is, the more deliberate practice, 84 00:04:49,668 --> 00:04:52,194 the more time that those individuals spend 85 00:04:52,194 --> 00:04:55,304 practicing the elements of whatever it is that they do, 86 00:04:55,304 --> 00:04:57,246 the more time you spend, the better you get. 87 00:04:57,246 --> 00:05:00,165 And the folks at the tippy top of their fields 88 00:05:00,165 --> 00:05:05,101 put in around 10,000 hours of practice. 89 00:05:05,101 --> 00:05:09,442 Now, we were talking about the game of telephone a little bit earlier. 90 00:05:09,442 --> 00:05:11,236 Here's what happened: 91 00:05:11,236 --> 00:05:13,458 an author by the name of Malcolm Gladwell 92 00:05:13,458 --> 00:05:17,901 wrote a book in 2007 called "Outliers: The Story of Success", 93 00:05:17,901 --> 00:05:21,592 and the central piece of that book was the 10,000 hour rule. 94 00:05:21,592 --> 00:05:25,642 Practice a lot, practice well, and you will do extremely well, 95 00:05:25,642 --> 00:05:27,367 you will reach the top of your field. 96 00:05:27,367 --> 00:05:29,472 So, the message, 97 00:05:29,472 --> 00:05:32,455 what Dr. Ericsson was actually saying is, 98 00:05:32,455 --> 00:05:37,425 it takes 10,000 hours to get at the top of an ultra competitive field 99 00:05:37,425 --> 00:05:41,857 in a very narrow subject, that's what that means. 100 00:05:41,857 --> 00:05:45,294 But here's what happened: ever since Outliers came out, 101 00:05:45,294 --> 00:05:47,449 immediately came out, reached the top of best seller lists, 102 00:05:47,449 --> 00:05:50,056 stayed there for three solid months. 103 00:05:50,056 --> 00:05:54,171 All of a sudden the 10,000 hour rule was everywhere. 104 00:05:54,171 --> 00:06:00,022 And a society-wide game of telephone started to be played. 105 00:06:00,022 --> 00:06:04,955 So this message, it takes 10,000 hours to reach the top of an ultra competitive field, 106 00:06:04,955 --> 00:06:09,927 became, it takes 10,000 hours to become an expert at something, 107 00:06:09,927 --> 00:06:11,366 which became, 108 00:06:11,366 --> 00:06:15,667 it takes 10,000 hours to become good at something, 109 00:06:15,667 --> 00:06:17,192 which became, 110 00:06:17,192 --> 00:06:21,455 it takes 10,000 hours to learn something. 111 00:06:21,455 --> 00:06:25,337 But that last statement, it takes 10,000 hours to learn something, 112 00:06:25,337 --> 00:06:28,600 is not true. It's not true. 113 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:33,346 So, what the research actually says -- 114 00:06:33,346 --> 00:06:36,217 I spent a lot of time here at the CSU library 115 00:06:36,217 --> 00:06:39,523 in the cognitive psychology stacks 'cause I'm a geek. 116 00:06:39,523 --> 00:06:44,216 And when you actually look at the studies of skill acquisition, 117 00:06:44,216 --> 00:06:48,039 you see over and over a graph like this. 118 00:06:48,039 --> 00:06:51,694 Now, researchers, whether they're studying a motor skill, 119 00:06:51,694 --> 00:06:54,328 something you do physically or a mental skill, 120 00:06:54,328 --> 00:06:57,174 they like to study things that they can time. 121 00:06:57,174 --> 00:06:59,185 'Cause you can quantify that, right? 122 00:06:59,185 --> 00:07:02,452 So, they'll give research participants a little task, 123 00:07:02,452 --> 00:07:04,156 something that requires physical arrangement, 124 00:07:04,156 --> 00:07:08,925 or something that requires learning a little mental trick, 125 00:07:08,925 --> 00:07:13,357 and they'll time how long a participant takes to complete the skill. 126 00:07:13,357 --> 00:07:16,095 And here's what this graph says, when you start -- 127 00:07:16,095 --> 00:07:20,398 so when researchers gave participants a task, it took them a really long time, 128 00:07:20,398 --> 00:07:23,053 'cause it was new and they were horrible. 129 00:07:23,053 --> 00:07:26,651 With a little bit of practice, they get better and better and better. 130 00:07:26,651 --> 00:07:30,632 And that early part of practice is really, really efficient. 131 00:07:30,632 --> 00:07:36,021 People get good at things with just a little bit of practice. 132 00:07:36,021 --> 00:07:39,663 Now, what's interesting to note is that, 133 00:07:39,663 --> 00:07:42,869 for skills that we want to learn for ourselves, 134 00:07:42,869 --> 00:07:45,736 we don't care so much about time, right? 135 00:07:45,736 --> 00:07:49,283 We just care about how good we are, whatever good happens to mean. 136 00:07:49,283 --> 00:07:54,943 So if we relabel performance time to how good you are, 137 00:07:54,943 --> 00:07:59,346 the graph flips, and you get his famous and widely known, 138 00:07:59,346 --> 00:08:01,274 this is the learning curve. 139 00:08:01,274 --> 00:08:03,852 And the story of the learning curve is when you start, 140 00:08:03,852 --> 00:08:06,567 you're grossly incompetent and you know it, right? 141 00:08:06,567 --> 00:08:08,635 (Laughter) 142 00:08:08,635 --> 00:08:11,997 With a little bit of practice, you get really good, really quick. 143 00:08:11,997 --> 00:08:15,715 So that early level of improvement is really fast. 144 00:08:15,715 --> 00:08:18,630 And then at a certain point you reach a plateau, 145 00:08:18,630 --> 00:08:21,960 and the subsequent games become much harder to get, 146 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,659 they take more time to get. 147 00:08:24,659 --> 00:08:28,620 Now, my question is, I want that, right? 148 00:08:28,620 --> 00:08:31,605 How long does it take from starting something 149 00:08:31,605 --> 00:08:35,265 and being grossly incompetent and knowing it 150 00:08:35,265 --> 00:08:37,575 to being reasonably good? 151 00:08:37,575 --> 00:08:42,329 In hopefully, as short a period of time as possible. 152 00:08:42,329 --> 00:08:44,539 So, how long does that take? 153 00:08:44,539 --> 00:08:49,518 Here's what my research says: 20 hours. 154 00:08:49,518 --> 00:08:53,163 That's it. You can go from knowing nothing 155 00:08:53,163 --> 00:08:55,739 about any skill that you can think of. 156 00:08:55,739 --> 00:08:59,175 Want to learn a language? Want to learn how to draw? 157 00:08:59,175 --> 00:09:02,294 Want to learn how to juggle flaming chainsaws? 158 00:09:02,294 --> 00:09:03,320 (Laughter) 159 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:08,532 If you put 20 hours of focused deliberate practice into that thing, 160 00:09:08,532 --> 00:09:10,964 you will be astounded. 161 00:09:10,964 --> 00:09:14,135 Astounded at how good you are. 162 00:09:14,135 --> 00:09:15,645 20 hours is doable, 163 00:09:15,645 --> 00:09:19,956 that's about 45 minutes a day for about a month. 164 00:09:19,956 --> 00:09:22,066 Even skipping a couple days, here and there. 165 00:09:22,066 --> 00:09:25,221 20 hours isn't that hard to accumulate. 166 00:09:25,221 --> 00:09:28,100 Now, there's a method to doing this. 167 00:09:28,100 --> 00:09:31,097 Because it's not like you can just start fiddling around for about 20 hours 168 00:09:31,097 --> 00:09:33,044 and expect these massive improvements. 169 00:09:33,044 --> 00:09:35,713 There's a way to practice intelligently. 170 00:09:35,713 --> 00:09:37,997 There's a way to practice efficiently, 171 00:09:37,997 --> 00:09:41,051 that will make sure that you invest those 20 hours 172 00:09:41,051 --> 00:09:43,592 in the most effective way that you possibly can. 173 00:09:43,592 --> 00:09:47,518 And here's the method, it applies to anything: 174 00:09:47,518 --> 00:09:51,363 The first is to deconstruct the skill. 175 00:09:51,363 --> 00:09:56,262 Decide exactly what you want to be able to do when you're done, 176 00:09:56,262 --> 00:10:02,072 and then look into the skill and break it down into smaller pieces. 177 00:10:02,072 --> 00:10:06,042 Most of the things that we think of as skills 178 00:10:06,042 --> 00:10:10,639 are actually big bundles of skills that require all sorts of different things. 179 00:10:10,639 --> 00:10:14,211 The more you can break apart the skill, 180 00:10:14,211 --> 00:10:16,583 the more you're able to decide, 181 00:10:16,583 --> 00:10:18,974 what are the parts of this skill that would actually help me 182 00:10:18,974 --> 00:10:21,365 get to what I want? 183 00:10:21,365 --> 00:10:23,758 And then you can practice those first. 184 00:10:23,758 --> 00:10:25,960 And if you practice the most important things first, 185 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,731 you'll be able to improve your performance 186 00:10:28,731 --> 00:10:31,502 in the least amount of time possible. 187 00:10:31,502 --> 00:10:34,273 The second is, learn enough to self correct. 188 00:10:34,273 --> 00:10:38,467 So, get three to five resources about what it is you're trying to learn. 189 00:10:38,467 --> 00:10:43,719 Could be book, could be DVDs, could be courses, could be anything. 190 00:10:43,719 --> 00:10:48,950 But don't use those as a way to procrastinate on practice. 191 00:10:48,950 --> 00:10:50,585 I know I do this, right? 192 00:10:50,585 --> 00:10:52,661 Get like 20 books about the topic, like, 193 00:10:52,661 --> 00:10:55,138 "I'm going to start learning how to program a computer 194 00:10:55,138 --> 00:10:57,615 when I complete these 20 books". 195 00:10:57,615 --> 00:11:00,094 No. That's procrastination. 196 00:11:00,094 --> 00:11:04,141 What you want to do is learn just enough 197 00:11:04,141 --> 00:11:05,850 that you can actually practice 198 00:11:05,850 --> 00:11:10,914 and self correct or self edit as you practice. 199 00:11:10,914 --> 00:11:13,819 So the learning becomes a way of getting better 200 00:11:13,819 --> 00:11:16,724 at noticing when you're making a mistake 201 00:11:16,724 --> 00:11:19,630 and then doing something a little different. 202 00:11:19,630 --> 00:11:24,106 The third is to remove barriers to practice. 203 00:11:24,106 --> 00:11:26,550 Distractions, television, internet. 204 00:11:26,550 --> 00:11:29,929 All of these things that get in the way 205 00:11:29,929 --> 00:11:33,308 of you actually sitting down and doing the work. 206 00:11:33,308 --> 00:11:36,689 And the more you're able to use just a little bit of willpower 207 00:11:36,689 --> 00:11:39,887 to remove the distractions that are keeping you from practicing, 208 00:11:39,887 --> 00:11:46,270 the more likely you are to actually sit down and practice, right? 209 00:11:46,270 --> 00:11:51,473 And the fourth is to practice for at least 20 hours. 210 00:11:51,473 --> 00:11:54,770 Now, most skills have what I call a frustration barrier. 211 00:11:54,770 --> 00:11:58,078 You know, the grossly-incompetent- and-knowing-it part? 212 00:11:58,078 --> 00:12:02,374 That's really, really frustrating. We don't like to feel stupid. 213 00:12:02,374 --> 00:12:07,314 And feeling stupid is a barrier to us actually sitting down and doing the work. 214 00:12:07,314 --> 00:12:11,762 So, by pre-committing to practicing whatever it is that you want to do 215 00:12:11,762 --> 00:12:14,378 for at least 20 hours, 216 00:12:14,378 --> 00:12:18,918 you will be able to overcome that initial frustration barrier 217 00:12:18,918 --> 00:12:23,029 and stick with the practice long enough to actually reap the rewards. 218 00:12:23,029 --> 00:12:25,368 That's it! It's not rocket science. 219 00:12:25,368 --> 00:12:30,479 Four very simple steps that you can use to learn anything. 220 00:12:31,466 --> 00:12:35,302 Now, this is easy to talk about in theory, 221 00:12:35,302 --> 00:12:37,703 but it's more fun to talk about in practice. 222 00:12:37,703 --> 00:12:41,964 So one of the things that I've wanted to learn how to do for a long time 223 00:12:41,964 --> 00:12:44,163 is play the ukulele. 224 00:12:44,163 --> 00:12:47,787 Has anybody seen Jake Shimabukuro's TEDTalk 225 00:12:47,787 --> 00:12:50,901 where he plays the ukulele and makes it sound like -- 226 00:12:50,901 --> 00:12:52,260 he's like a ukulele god. 227 00:12:52,260 --> 00:12:54,026 It's amazing. 228 00:12:54,026 --> 00:12:57,206 I saw it, I was like, "That is so cool!" 229 00:12:57,206 --> 00:13:01,373 It's such a neat instrument. I would really like to learn how to play. 230 00:13:01,373 --> 00:13:03,960 And so I decided that to test this theory 231 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:07,636 I wanted to put 20 hours into practicing ukulele 232 00:13:07,636 --> 00:13:09,819 and see where it got. 233 00:13:09,819 --> 00:13:13,635 And so the first thing about playing the ukulele is, 234 00:13:13,635 --> 00:13:17,701 in order to practice, you have to have one, right? 235 00:13:17,701 --> 00:13:21,791 So, I got an ukulele and -- My lovely assistant? 236 00:13:21,791 --> 00:13:24,526 (Laughter) 237 00:13:24,526 --> 00:13:29,973 Thank you sir. I think I need the chord here. 238 00:13:31,580 --> 00:13:35,569 It's not just an ukulele, it's an electric ukulele. (Laughter) 239 00:13:35,569 --> 00:13:37,204 Yeah. 240 00:13:40,635 --> 00:13:45,195 So, the first couple hours are just like the first couple hours of anything. 241 00:13:45,195 --> 00:13:48,554 You have to get the tools that you are using to practice. 242 00:13:48,554 --> 00:13:50,616 You have to make sure they're available. 243 00:13:50,616 --> 00:13:52,582 My ukulele didn't come with strings attached. 244 00:13:52,582 --> 00:13:54,548 I had to figure out how to put those on. 245 00:13:54,548 --> 00:13:56,515 Like, that's kind of important, right? 246 00:13:56,515 --> 00:13:58,468 And learning how to tune, learning how to make sure 247 00:13:58,468 --> 00:14:00,321 that all of the things that need to be done 248 00:14:00,321 --> 00:14:04,515 in order to start practicing get done, right? 249 00:14:04,515 --> 00:14:11,187 Now, one of the things when I was ready to actually start practicing 250 00:14:11,187 --> 00:14:15,996 was I looked in online databases and songbooks for how to play songs. 251 00:14:15,996 --> 00:14:19,088 And they say, okay, ukuleles, you can play more than one string at a time, 252 00:14:19,088 --> 00:14:20,969 so you can play chords, that's cool, 253 00:14:20,969 --> 00:14:24,242 you are accompanying yourself, yay you. (Laughter) 254 00:14:24,242 --> 00:14:28,356 And when I started looking at songs, 255 00:14:28,356 --> 00:14:32,471 I had an ukulele chord book that had like hundreds of chords. 256 00:14:32,471 --> 00:14:35,534 Looking at this and "Wow, that's intimidating". 257 00:14:35,534 --> 00:14:37,859 But when you look at the actual songs, 258 00:14:37,859 --> 00:14:42,710 you see the same chords over and over, right? 259 00:14:42,710 --> 00:14:46,299 As it turns out, playing the ukulele is kind of like doing anything, 260 00:14:46,299 --> 00:14:49,552 There's a very small set of things that are really important 261 00:14:49,552 --> 00:14:52,422 and techniques that you'll use all the time. 262 00:14:52,422 --> 00:14:58,420 And in most songs you'll use four, maybe five chords, 263 00:14:58,420 --> 00:15:00,229 and that's it, that's the song. 264 00:15:00,229 --> 00:15:04,993 You don't have to know hundreds, as long as you know the four or the five. 265 00:15:04,993 --> 00:15:06,813 So, while I was doing my research, 266 00:15:06,813 --> 00:15:11,264 I found a wonderful little medley of pop songs 267 00:15:11,264 --> 00:15:16,178 by a band called Axis of Awesome. (Whistles) 268 00:15:16,178 --> 00:15:19,199 -- Somebody knows it. -- 269 00:15:19,199 --> 00:15:23,418 And what Axis of Awesome says is that you can learn, 270 00:15:23,418 --> 00:15:27,017 or you can play pretty much any pop song of the past five decades, 271 00:15:27,017 --> 00:15:28,685 if you know four chords, 272 00:15:28,685 --> 00:15:33,062 and those chords are G, D, Em and C. 273 00:15:33,062 --> 00:15:37,931 Four chords pump out every pop song ever, right? 274 00:15:37,931 --> 00:15:39,401 So I thought, this is cool! 275 00:15:39,401 --> 00:15:42,584 I would like to play every pop song ever. (Laughter) 276 00:15:42,584 --> 00:15:45,627 So, that was the first song I decided to learn, 277 00:15:45,627 --> 00:15:49,445 and I would like to actually share it with you. Ready? 278 00:15:49,445 --> 00:15:51,423 (Applause) Alright. 279 00:15:51,423 --> 00:15:54,733 (Music) 280 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:06,104 (Singing) Just a small town girl, 281 00:16:06,104 --> 00:16:08,878 living in a lonely world, 282 00:16:08,878 --> 00:16:14,652 she took the midnight train going anywhere. 283 00:16:14,652 --> 00:16:18,209 I heard that you settled down, (Laughter) 284 00:16:18,209 --> 00:16:21,672 that you found a girl, 285 00:16:21,672 --> 00:16:25,013 that you're married now. 286 00:16:25,013 --> 00:16:27,323 Every night in my dreams (Laughter) 287 00:16:27,323 --> 00:16:30,496 I see you, I feel you, 288 00:16:30,496 --> 00:16:36,253 that is how I know you go on. (Laughter) 289 00:16:36,253 --> 00:16:42,227 I won't hesitate no more, no more. It cannot wait, I'm yours. 290 00:16:42,227 --> 00:16:47,600 'Cause you were amazing, we did amazing things. 291 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:52,682 If I could, then I would, I'd go wherever you will -- 292 00:16:52,682 --> 00:16:58,244 Can you feel the love tonight. (Laughter) 293 00:16:58,244 --> 00:17:03,400 I can't live with or without you. 294 00:17:03,400 --> 00:17:05,190 When I find myself -- 295 00:17:05,190 --> 00:17:07,489 When I find myself in times of trouble, mother Mary comes to me, 296 00:17:07,489 --> 00:17:11,865 Sometimes I feel like I don't have partner. No woman, no cry. 297 00:17:11,865 --> 00:17:13,504 Yeah mama, this surely is a dream. 298 00:17:13,504 --> 00:17:15,836 I come from a land down under. (Laughter) 299 00:17:15,836 --> 00:17:18,863 Once a jolly swagman camped by a billabong. 300 00:17:18,863 --> 00:17:22,253 Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy, (Laughter) 301 00:17:22,253 --> 00:17:26,413 but here's my number, so call me 302 00:17:26,413 --> 00:17:30,190 Hey sexy lady, op, op, op, op, oppan gangnam style. (Laughter) 303 00:17:30,190 --> 00:17:35,932 It's time to say goodbye. 304 00:17:35,932 --> 00:17:45,790 Closing time, every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end. 305 00:17:45,790 --> 00:17:49,861 (Singing and music ends) (Applause) 306 00:17:56,911 --> 00:18:01,199 Thank you, thank you. 307 00:18:03,013 --> 00:18:06,856 I love that song. (Laughter) 308 00:18:07,395 --> 00:18:10,499 And I have a secret to share with you. 309 00:18:10,499 --> 00:18:14,471 So, by playing that song for you, 310 00:18:14,471 --> 00:18:19,221 I just hit my twentieth hour of practicing the ukulele. 311 00:18:19,221 --> 00:18:23,209 (Applause) Thank you. 312 00:18:24,933 --> 00:18:28,974 And so it's amazing, pretty much anything that you can think of, 313 00:18:28,974 --> 00:18:30,752 what do you want to do. 314 00:18:30,752 --> 00:18:35,317 The major barrier to learn something new is not intellectual, 315 00:18:35,317 --> 00:18:40,998 it's not the process of you learning a bunch of little tips or tricks or things. 316 00:18:40,998 --> 00:18:44,753 The major barrier's emotional. We're scared. 317 00:18:44,753 --> 00:18:47,140 Feeling stupid doesn't feel good, 318 00:18:47,014 --> 00:18:49,275 in the beginning of learning anything new 319 00:18:49,275 --> 00:18:51,537 you feel really stupid. 320 00:18:51,537 --> 00:18:55,633 So the major barrier's not intellectual, it's emotional. 321 00:18:55,633 --> 00:18:58,971 But put 20 hours into anything. 322 00:18:58,971 --> 00:19:01,377 It doesn't matter. What do you want to learn? 323 00:19:01,377 --> 00:19:04,848 Do you want to learn a language? Want to learn how to cook? 324 00:19:04,848 --> 00:19:07,114 Want to learn how to draw? 325 00:19:07,114 --> 00:19:10,860 What turns you on? What lights you up? 326 00:19:10,860 --> 00:19:14,747 Go out and do that thing. It only takes 20 hours. 327 00:19:14,747 --> 00:19:16,093 Have fun. 328 00:19:16,093 --> 00:19:19,060 (Applause)