WEBVTT 00:00:01.780 --> 00:00:05.399 last August I was told 00:00:05.399 --> 00:00:08.790 that in all likelihood I had three to six months left to live 00:00:11.860 --> 00:00:16.110 No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven 00:00:16.110 --> 00:00:18.789 don’t want to die to get there. 00:00:18.789 --> 00:00:21.949 And yet death is the destination we all share. 00:00:22.920 --> 00:00:25.220 No one has ever escaped it. 00:00:25.540 --> 00:00:30.100 We don't get this again. We don't get this again the clock runs to fast 00:00:32.880 --> 00:00:35.940 we are going to die and that makes us 00:00:35.940 --> 00:00:43.100 the lucky ones most people are never going to die because they're never going 00:00:43.100 --> 00:00:43.970 to be born 00:00:43.970 --> 00:00:47.760 the potential people who could have been here in my place 00:00:47.760 --> 00:00:52.070 but who will in fact never see the light of day outnumbered the sand grains of 00:00:52.070 --> 00:00:55.440 Sahara 00:00:55.440 --> 00:00:59.780 somebody said to me in light of those numbers wow so you're really 00:00:59.780 --> 00:01:02.960 beating the Grim Reaper we don't beat the Reaper 00:01:02.960 --> 00:01:07.280 by living longer we beat the Reaper 00:01:07.280 --> 00:01:10.509 by living well and living Fully 00:01:10.509 --> 00:01:13.720 for the Reaper will come for all us 00:01:13.720 --> 00:01:17.399 the question is what do we do between the time were born 00:01:17.399 --> 00:01:20.189 and the time he shows up 00:01:20.189 --> 00:01:23.850 when he shows up it's too late to do all the things 00:01:23.850 --> 00:01:26.979 that you always wanna kinda get around to 00:01:26.979 --> 00:01:32.130 and you will need to find your passion 00:01:32.130 --> 00:01:36.039 many of you have already done it many of you will later 00:01:36.039 --> 00:01:41.140 many you may take to your thirties or forties but don't give up on finding it 00:01:41.140 --> 00:01:45.649 so your passion must come from the things that fuel you from the inside 00:01:45.649 --> 00:01:48.380 find your passion 00:01:48.380 --> 00:01:52.009 and follow it if there is anything I have learned in my life 00:01:52.009 --> 00:01:55.549 you will not find that passion in things 00:01:55.549 --> 00:01:58.630 and you will not find that passion 00:01:58.630 --> 00:02:00.090 in money 00:02:00.940 --> 00:02:05.280 I don't chase money because I can burn it 00:02:14.590 --> 00:02:18.250 it is not the things we do in life that we regret 00:02:18.250 --> 00:02:23.750 on our deathbed it is the things we do not because I assure you I've done a lot 00:02:23.750 --> 00:02:25.850 of really stupid things 00:02:25.850 --> 00:02:28.980 none of them bother all the mistakes 00:02:28.980 --> 00:02:33.170 All the dopey things and all the times I was embarrassed 00:02:33.170 --> 00:02:35.230 they don't matter 00:02:35.280 --> 00:02:37.250 Anything that man make 00:02:38.000 --> 00:02:41.680 I don't put too much into it because I can take it with me 00:02:48.530 --> 00:02:50.490 find your passion 00:02:50.490 --> 00:02:52.830 and in my experience 00:02:52.830 --> 00:02:57.100 no matter what you do at work what you do in official settings 00:02:57.100 --> 00:03:01.240 that passion will be grounded in people 00:03:01.240 --> 00:03:05.410 grounded in the relationships you have with people 00:03:05.410 --> 00:03:08.150 what they think of you 00:03:08.150 --> 00:03:12.310 when your time comes 00:03:14.240 --> 00:03:17.740 in the teeth of these stupefying odds it is you and I 00:03:17.820 --> 00:03:21.400 In our ordinariness that are here 00:03:26.450 --> 00:03:30.410 one thing that I can tell you that I do every single day of my life is I try 00:03:30.410 --> 00:03:44.280 to find someone else to change their life 00:03:44.280 --> 00:03:48.610 I waited till 39 to get married because I had to wait that long 00:03:48.610 --> 00:03:49.620 to find someone else 00:03:49.620 --> 00:03:51.140 where her happiness 00:03:51.140 --> 00:03:53.300 Is more important than mine 00:03:53.300 --> 00:03:58.190 and if nothing else I hope that all of you can find that kinda passion 00:03:58.190 --> 00:04:00.700 And that kind of love in your life 00:04:00.740 --> 00:04:02.460 thank you 00:04:15.660 --> 00:04:18.740 We are granted the opportunity to understand 00:04:18.750 --> 00:04:22.650 why our eyes are open why they see what they do 00:04:22.650 --> 00:04:26.169 in the short time before they close 00:04:26.169 --> 00:04:27.880 for ever 00:04:31.680 --> 00:04:34.600 Please Support the channel at: https://www.patreon.com/mulliganbrothers