[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:12.07,0:00:17.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is from an anonymous sister in the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.05,0:00:18.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,She says, "Pastor Tim, Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.80,0:00:21.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've been raised in a Christian home, Dialogue: 0,0:00:21.04,0:00:22.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and recently over the past five years, Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.93,0:00:24.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've experienced tremendous growth Dialogue: 0,0:00:24.86,0:00:27.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in my walk with God. Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.06,0:00:28.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'm a true believer Dialogue: 0,0:00:28.15,0:00:31.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and strive for my life to glorify God. Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.06,0:00:32.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,On the other side of things, Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.48,0:00:34.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my husband was also raised Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.68,0:00:36.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a Christian home, Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.78,0:00:38.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but he's decided in the past year Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.40,0:00:41.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to look into Wicca, the Golden Dawn, Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.67,0:00:44.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Satanism, etc. Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.38,0:00:46.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,He's leaning towards Free Masons Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.50,0:00:48.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the Golden Dawn. Dialogue: 0,0:00:48.99,0:00:54.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I've been counseled to leave him by many. Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.20,0:00:57.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I do not feel this is what the Holy Spirit Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.01,0:00:58.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is leading me to do, Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.81,0:01:01.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but I would appreciate some biblical direction. Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.41,0:01:03.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I have three young children, Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.06,0:01:04.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,four and under, Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.48,0:01:05.85,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I'm doing my best daily Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.85,0:01:08.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to teach them to live for Jesus. Dialogue: 0,0:01:08.09,0:01:09.87,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I do struggle with this whole thing Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.87,0:01:12.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very much some days, Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.06,0:01:13.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and I just lean on the Lord Dialogue: 0,0:01:13.48,0:01:17.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and pray for wisdom in all circumstances. Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.08,0:01:24.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thanks for any help and guidance." Dialogue: 0,0:01:24.35,0:01:27.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, this is a Christian sister. Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.42,0:01:30.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I would say the same thing that I said last week, Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.06,0:01:34.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we had some sensitive issues last week. Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.31,0:01:37.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,My first counsel to this sister is: Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.29,0:01:39.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you've got to be in a good church. Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.04,0:01:42.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you've got to find some good and godly men Dialogue: 0,0:01:42.76,0:01:44.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to walk with you through these things Dialogue: 0,0:01:44.72,0:01:47.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and pray with you through these things. Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.30,0:01:49.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's absolutely essential that people Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.88,0:01:52.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are in good churches. Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.36,0:01:55.63,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But, beyond that, I would say this. Dialogue: 0,0:01:55.63,0:01:57.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do you know what the Scripture teaches? Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.75,0:02:01.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How many Christians do you have to have Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.44,0:02:05.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in a household for it to be a Christian household? Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.74,0:02:08.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,One. Dialogue: 0,0:02:08.50,0:02:10.42,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, it's very interesting that the text Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.42,0:02:13.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that we would go to Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.27,0:02:17.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to support that truth Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.64,0:02:21.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,immediately follows a text Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.10,0:02:24.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that actually gives this sister counsel Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.18,0:02:25.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in her area as well. Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.29,0:02:29.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Listen to this: 1 Corinthians 7:13 Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.81,0:02:31.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"If any woman has a husband Dialogue: 0,0:02:31.80,0:02:33.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is an unbeliever..." Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.03,0:02:38.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, that identifies this sister. Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.49,0:02:41.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"...and he consents to live with her." Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.70,0:02:44.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And that sounds like it's the case. Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.84,0:02:49.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"She should not divorce him." Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.91,0:02:51.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now listen to this. Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.95,0:02:55.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"For the unbelieving husband Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.10,0:03:02.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is made holy because of his wife." Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.07,0:03:03.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You see what's said? Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.56,0:03:05.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The unbelieving husband, Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.06,0:03:06.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if he's a Free Mason, Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.72,0:03:09.94,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if he's involved in the Golden Dawn, Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.94,0:03:17.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is made holy by his marriage to a Christian. Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.10,0:03:19.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What does that mean? Dialogue: 0,0:03:19.19,0:03:24.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Does holy mean righteous there? Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.36,0:03:27.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The idea of holy means separate. Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.16,0:03:32.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It means that that husband Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.06,0:03:35.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is sanctified by his marriage to Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.62,0:03:37.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that Christian woman. Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.88,0:03:40.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And then it goes on to say this: Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.86,0:03:43.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Otherwise your children would be unclean, Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.25,0:03:45.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but as it is they are holy." Dialogue: 0,0:03:45.23,0:03:47.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,See, a Christian wife makes Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.72,0:03:51.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the whole house sanctified. Dialogue: 0,0:03:51.12,0:03:55.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A Christian wife makes the unbelieving husband sanctified. Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.24,0:03:57.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Makes the children sanctified. Dialogue: 0,0:03:57.62,0:03:59.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The household is declared holy, Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.88,0:04:01.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the husband is declared holy, Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.56,0:04:03.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the children are declared holy. Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.26,0:04:06.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now what does that mean practically speaking? Dialogue: 0,0:04:06.59,0:04:08.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Well, in some way, Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.88,0:04:11.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that whole family is sanctified. Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.80,0:04:14.01,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And I believe it probably means this: Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.01,0:04:16.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's a special protection there. Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.73,0:04:19.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I believe that the angels are ministering spirits. Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.31,0:04:21.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,They're given to minister to God's people. Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.66,0:04:23.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If you've got God's people in that house, Dialogue: 0,0:04:23.79,0:04:27.30,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that house is protected by the angels of God. Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.30,0:04:31.15,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It definitely has the light of God's Word in it. Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.15,0:04:32.100,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It definitely has an individual that Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.100,0:04:36.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is receiving the blessings of the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.05,0:04:38.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know, when you have a Christian in a household, Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.70,0:04:40.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's a blessing of God that falls on that household Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.81,0:04:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that wouldn't otherwise be there. Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.00,0:04:45.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And in that sense, that whole household is sanctified. Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.97,0:04:47.69,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And what does it say? Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.69,0:04:49.33,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The instruction to this sister is Dialogue: 0,0:04:49.33,0:04:51.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you've got an unbelieving husband, Dialogue: 0,0:04:51.16,0:04:53.03,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he's willing to stay with you, Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.03,0:04:54.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't leave him. Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.10,0:04:56.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it doesn't give any qualifications. Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.17,0:04:58.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It doesn't say, well, if he's in Satanism, Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.20,0:04:59.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's an exception. Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.27,0:05:00.61,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There's no exceptions. Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.61,0:05:03.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If he's willing to dwell with you, dwell there. Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.41,0:05:06.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now obviously, if situations arise Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.32,0:05:08.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where there's physical danger to the family, Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.78,0:05:10.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,physical danger to the children, Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.73,0:05:12.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that would be another thing. Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.35,0:05:14.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And obviously this sister would need to be Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.58,0:05:16.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in close contact with some pastors Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.73,0:05:18.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that could guide her through the situation. Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.90,0:05:23.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The other thing I would say is this: Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.18,0:05:26.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a text that comes out of 1 Peter. Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.26,0:05:29.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Wives, be subject to your own husbands." Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.75,0:05:31.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So to this sister, I would say, Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.52,0:05:33.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you know what, Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.78,0:05:35.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the Lord calls you, Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.34,0:05:38.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even though he's unbelieving, Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.34,0:05:40.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be subject to your husband. Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.32,0:05:43.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Obviously in all the areas that aren't sin. Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.06,0:05:45.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If he asks you do to sinful things, Dialogue: 0,0:05:45.05,0:05:46.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attend any kind of meetings Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.84,0:05:49.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or get involved in any kind of occultic practices, Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.32,0:05:51.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,obviously, you don't go there. Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.60,0:05:54.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But in as much as she can honor her husband, Dialogue: 0,0:05:54.04,0:05:55.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,reverence her husband, Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.54,0:05:57.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be subject to her husband, Dialogue: 0,0:05:57.23,0:05:58.27,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she needs to be. Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.27,0:05:59.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why? Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.10,0:06:01.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So that even if some do not obey the Word, Dialogue: 0,0:06:01.71,0:06:05.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and he's not obeying the Word, Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.28,0:06:07.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they may be won without a word Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.53,0:06:09.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by the conduct of their wives. Dialogue: 0,0:06:09.50,0:06:11.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So she needs to live in front of her husband Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.57,0:06:13.97,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in such a way as to win him. Dialogue: 0,0:06:13.97,0:06:19.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,When he sees her respectful and pure conduct. Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.67,0:06:22.35,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Do not let your adorning be external, Dialogue: 0,0:06:22.35,0:06:24.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the braiding of hair, the wearing of gold, Dialogue: 0,0:06:24.44,0:06:26.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or putting on of clothing, Dialogue: 0,0:06:26.08,0:06:28.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but let your adorning be the hidden Dialogue: 0,0:06:28.06,0:06:30.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,person of the heart, Dialogue: 0,0:06:30.41,0:06:31.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the imperishable beauty Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.75,0:06:33.21,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of a gentle and quiet spirit Dialogue: 0,0:06:33.21,0:06:36.66,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,which in God's sight is very precious. Dialogue: 0,0:06:36.66,0:06:38.71,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,For this is how the holy women Dialogue: 0,0:06:38.71,0:06:41.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who hoped in God used to adorn themselves Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.25,0:06:43.45,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,by submitting to their husbands Dialogue: 0,0:06:43.45,0:06:45.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as Sarah obeyed Abraham Dialogue: 0,0:06:45.18,0:06:46.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,calling him lord. Dialogue: 0,0:06:46.91,0:06:49.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now listen to this: Dialogue: 0,0:06:49.18,0:06:52.74,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you are her children Dialogue: 0,0:06:52.74,0:06:54.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you do good, Dialogue: 0,0:06:54.62,0:06:56.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and listen to this, Dialogue: 0,0:06:56.78,0:06:59.14,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and do not fear anything Dialogue: 0,0:06:59.14,0:07:01.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is frightening. Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.18,0:07:02.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Isn't that an amazing thing Dialogue: 0,0:07:02.76,0:07:04.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that he would say that. Dialogue: 0,0:07:04.23,0:07:07.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't fear anything that is frightening. Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.58,0:07:09.79,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know what I would say to this sister? Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.79,0:07:14.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Peter is calling her to live virtuously, Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.29,0:07:17.13,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to live in such a way Dialogue: 0,0:07:17.13,0:07:20.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that she is respectful, Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.24,0:07:22.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,she is pure, Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.59,0:07:27.10,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but also not afraid. Dialogue: 0,0:07:27.10,0:07:28.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Why? Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.90,0:07:30.86,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's a call to faith. Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.86,0:07:32.38,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Trust the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.38,0:07:33.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't be frightened by Dialogue: 0,0:07:33.72,0:07:36.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,any of your husband's occultic practices. Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.11,0:07:38.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because He that's with you is stronger Dialogue: 0,0:07:38.36,0:07:40.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than he that's with your husband. Dialogue: 0,0:07:40.67,0:07:42.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And your husband's sanctified. Dialogue: 0,0:07:42.36,0:07:44.06,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And your home is sanctified. Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.06,0:07:45.47,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Trust the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:07:45.47,0:07:50.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't be frightened by anything that's frightening. Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.29,0:07:52.95,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't fear anything frightening. Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.95,0:07:54.53,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Live trusting the Lord. Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.53,0:07:58.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Live godly before your husband. Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.36,0:07:59.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't involve yourself. Dialogue: 0,0:07:59.91,0:08:03.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Don't participate in his occultic practices. Dialogue: 0,0:08:03.09,0:08:06.90,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the Scripture would say stay with him. Dialogue: 0,0:08:06.90,0:08:09.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Live righteously before him. Dialogue: 0,0:08:09.07,0:08:10.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it might even be that God Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.49,0:08:12.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,will allow you to win your husband. Dialogue: 0,0:08:12.81,0:08:17.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That seems to be the biblical counsel in the matter.