[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:00.00,0:00:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur une isha shtate vjece dhe motra ime ishte vetem pese vjece, Dialogue: 0,0:00:03.00,0:00:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne ishim duke lujatur mbi krevat. Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.00,0:00:08.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne ate kohe une isha dy vite me i madhe se motra ime-- Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.00,0:00:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Domethene, une jam dy vite me i madh se ajo edhe tani-- Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.00,0:00:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por në atë kohë do te thoshte se ajo kishte për të bërë gjithçka që kam kërkuar për të bërë, Dialogue: 0,0:00:14.00,0:00:16.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe une deshiroja te luanim me lufte. Dialogue: 0,0:00:16.00,0:00:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pra ne u ngritem lart ne krevatet tane. Dialogue: 0,0:00:18.00,0:00:20.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ne njeren pjese te krevatit, Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.00,0:00:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,U desh te nxirrja te gjithe ushtaret e mi G.I. Joe dhe armet. Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.00,0:00:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ne anen tjeter ishin gjithe motrat e mia My Little Ponies Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.00,0:00:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gati per nje pagese kaloresi. Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.00,0:00:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ka shpjegime te ndryshme se cfare me te vertete ndodhi ate pasdite, Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.00,0:00:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por perderisa motra ime nuk eshte me ne ketu sot, Dialogue: 0,0:00:32.00,0:00:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me lejoni te ju tregoj historine e vertete -- Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.00,0:00:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Buzeqeshje) -- Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.00,0:00:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,e cila eshte nje histori qe tregon anen e ngathte te saj. Dialogue: 0,0:00:38.00,0:00:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Disi, pa asnjë ndihmë ose shtytje nga vëllai i saj me i madh, Dialogue: 0,0:00:41.00,0:00:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,papritmas Amy zhduket nga maja e shtratit Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.00,0:00:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe zbriti me kete perplasje ne dysheme. Dialogue: 0,0:00:45.00,0:00:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tani une me nervozizem dal mbi anen tjeter te shtratit Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.00,0:00:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,per te pare cka kishte ndodhur me motren time te rene Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.00,0:00:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe e pash qe ajo kishte rene ne toke ne duar dhe gjunje Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.00,0:00:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me te kater gjymtyret ne toke. Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.00,0:00:56.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une isha nervoz sepse prinderit e mi me kishin angazhuar mua Dialogue: 0,0:00:56.00,0:00:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te sigurohesha qe motra ime dhe une Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.00,0:01:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te luanin sa me te sigurt e te qete qe te ishte e mundur. Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.00,0:01:04.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe duke pare se si une aksidentalisht e theva krahun e Amy-t Dialogue: 0,0:01:04.00,0:01:06.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,vetem nje jave para.. Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.00,0:01:10.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Buzeqeshje) Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.00,0:01:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,....heroikisht duke e shtyre ate nga rruga Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.00,0:01:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nga një plumb që vjen përballë snajperit imagjinar, Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.00,0:01:17.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Buzeqeshje) Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.00,0:01:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,per te cilen une ende kam per ta falenderuar, Dialogue: 0,0:01:19.00,0:01:21.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une ishte duke tentuar aq shume sa une mundesha -- Dialogue: 0,0:01:21.00,0:01:23.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ajo as qe e e pa ate duke ardhur -- Dialogue: 0,0:01:23.00,0:01:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une isha duke tentuar aq shume te sillesha me se miri. Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.00,0:01:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe une pash fytyren e motres time, Dialogue: 0,0:01:27.00,0:01:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ky renkim i dhimbjes dhe vuajtjes dhe surpizes Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.00,0:01:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duke me kercenuar se do te tregoj dhe duke me kercenuar te zgjoj Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.00,0:01:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,prinderit e mi nga gjumi i dimrit. Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.00,0:01:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keshtu qe une bera vetem nje gje Dialogue: 0,0:01:36.00,0:01:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,truri im prej shtate vjecari po mendonte sesi ta anashkalonte kete tragjedi. Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.00,0:01:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe nese ju keni femije, ju e keni pare kete me mijera here me pare. Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.00,0:01:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une thashe, "Amy, Amy, prit. Mos qaj. Mos qaj. Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.00,0:01:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,A e pe sesi re? Dialogue: 0,0:01:45.00,0:01:48.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne asnje toke njerezore nuk pelqehet ajo. Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.00,0:01:51.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Amy, une mendoj se kjo do te thote ju jeni nje njebrireshe." Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.00,0:01:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.00,0:01:57.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tani ky ishte mashtrim, sepse nuk kishte asgje ne bote qe motra ime do ta deshironte me shume Dialogue: 0,0:01:57.00,0:01:59.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sesa te mos ishte Amy motra e vogel pese vjecare e lenduar, Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.00,0:02:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por Amy njebrireshja speciale. Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.00,0:02:04.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sigurisht, ky ishte nje opsion qe ishte i hapur ne trurin e saj ne asnje pike ne te kaluaren. Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.00,0:02:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ju mund ta shihni si motra ime e gjore dhe e manipular u ballafaqua me konfliktin, Dialogue: 0,0:02:07.00,0:02:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pasi truri i saj i vogel tentoi ti perkushtohet burimeve Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.00,0:02:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,per te ndjere dhimbjen dhe vuajtjen dhe surprizen Dialogue: 0,0:02:11.00,0:02:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe ajo posa ekspeimentoi, Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.00,0:02:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ose duke menduar identitetin e saj te ri si nje njebrireshe. Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.00,0:02:17.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe kjo e fundit fitoi. Dialogue: 0,0:02:17.00,0:02:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne vend te qarjes, ne vend te nderprerjes se lojes sone, Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.00,0:02:21.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne vend te zgjimit te prinderve, Dialogue: 0,0:02:21.00,0:02:23.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me te te gjitha pasojat negative qe do te rezultonin per mua, Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.00,0:02:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne vend te kesaj buzeqeshjeje qe u shpernda ne fytyren e saj Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.00,0:02:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe ajo hipi prape ne shtrat me gjithe hijeshin e nje femije njebriresh.. Dialogue: 0,0:02:28.00,0:02:30.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.00,0:02:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,....me nje kembe te thyer. Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.00,0:02:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ajo cka na pengonte Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.00,0:02:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne kete moshe te brishte te vetem pese dhe shtate vjecareve -- Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.00,0:02:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne nuk kishim asnje ide ne ate kohe -- Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.00,0:02:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ishte dicka qe do te ishte ne revulucionin shkencor Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.00,0:02:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe ndodhi dy dekada me vone ne menyre se si ne shikojme trurin njerezor. Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.00,0:02:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ate qe kishin ngecur te gjithe ne eshte dicka qe quhet psikologji pozitive, Dialogue: 0,0:02:47.00,0:02:49.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe eshte arsyeja qe une jam sot ketu Dialogue: 0,0:02:49.00,0:02:51.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe arsyeja qe une zgjohem cdo mengjes. Dialogue: 0,0:02:51.00,0:02:53.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur se pari fillova te flas per kete hulumtim Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.00,0:02:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jashte akademise, neper kompani dhe shkolla, Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.00,0:02:57.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gjeja e pare qe ata thane qe mos ta beje kurre Dialogue: 0,0:02:57.00,0:02:59.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte te filloj fjalimin me nje grafike. Dialogue: 0,0:02:59.00,0:03:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Gjeja e pare qe une dua te beje eshte te filloj fjalimin tim me nje grafike. Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.00,0:03:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ky grafik duket i merzitshem, Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.00,0:03:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por ky grafike eshte arsyeja qe une merakosem dhe zgjohem cdo mengjes. Dialogue: 0,0:03:05.00,0:03:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ky grafik nuk nenkupton asgje; jane te dhena te rreme. Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.00,0:03:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cka ne gjejme eshte -- Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.00,0:03:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.00,0:03:16.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nese do ti merrja ato te dhena ketu per t'i studiuar, une do te tronditesha, Dialogue: 0,0:03:16.00,0:03:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse aty eshte shume qarte nje trend qe po ndodh atje, Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.00,0:03:20.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe kjo nenkupton se une mundem te publikoj. Dialogue: 0,0:03:20.00,0:03:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gje qe ka shume rendesi. Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.00,0:03:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Fakti qe eshte nje pike te pazakonte e kuqe qe eshte larte mbi kurbe, Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.00,0:03:26.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte nje e cuditshme ne kete dhome -- Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.00,0:03:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une e di kush je, te pash me heret-- Dialogue: 0,0:03:29.00,0:03:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nuk ka problem. Dialogue: 0,0:03:31.00,0:03:33.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nuk ka problem, si shumica prej jush, Dialogue: 0,0:03:33.00,0:03:35.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse une nuk mundem ta fshije ate pike. Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.00,0:03:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une mund ta fshije ate pike sepse qarte shihet qe eshte nje gabim ne matje. Dialogue: 0,0:03:37.00,0:03:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ne e dime qe eshte nje gabim ne matje Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.00,0:03:42.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse po i ngaterron te dhenat. Dialogue: 0,0:03:42.00,0:03:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pra nje nder gjerat e para qe ne i mesojme njerezve Dialogue: 0,0:03:44.00,0:03:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne ekonomi dhe statistike dhe biznes dhe kurse te psikologjise Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.00,0:03:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte si ne nje menyre statistike valide, ne i elimonojme te cuditshmet. Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.00,0:03:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Si i eliminojme personat e vecuar Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.00,0:03:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pra ne mund te gjejme vijen se si te pershtatemi me se miri? Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.00,0:03:56.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,E cila eshte fantastike nese une tentoj ta gjej Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.00,0:03:59.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sa eshte sasid e Advilit qe nje person mesatar duhet te marr -- dy. Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.00,0:04:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por nese une jam e interesuar ne potencial, nese une jam e interesuar ne potencialin tuaj, Dialogue: 0,0:04:01.00,0:04:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ose per lumturine ose produktivitetin Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.00,0:04:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ose energjine ose kreativitetin, Dialogue: 0,0:04:05.00,0:04:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cka ne jemi duke bere eshte qe ne jemi duke krijuar kultin e mesatares me shkence. Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.00,0:04:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nese une do te beja nje pyetje sikur, Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.00,0:04:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,," Sa shpejte mundet nje femije te mesoj si te lexoj ne nje klase?" Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.00,0:04:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,shkenctaret ndryshojne pergjigjen ne" Sa shpejte nje femije mesatar Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.00,0:04:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,meson si te lexoj ne ate klase?" Dialogue: 0,0:04:15.00,0:04:17.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe pastaj e rregullojme klasen drejt mesatares. Dialogue: 0,0:04:17.00,0:04:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Tani nese bini poshte mesatares se kesaj kurbe, Dialogue: 0,0:04:19.00,0:04:21.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,atehere psikologu do te merakoset, Dialogue: 0,0:04:21.00,0:04:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse ajo do te thote se ju ose jeni te deshpruar ose ju keni nje crregullim, Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.00,0:04:26.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ose ndoshta te dyja. Dialogue: 0,0:04:26.00,0:04:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne jemi duke shpresuar per te dyja sepse modeli yne i biznesit eshte, Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.00,0:04:30.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nese ju vini ne nje sesion terapie me nje problem, Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.00,0:04:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne duam te sigruohemi qe ju shkoni duke i ditur qe i keni 10, Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.00,0:04:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pra ju vazhdoni te vini perseri e perseri. Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.00,0:04:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne do te shkojme ne femijerine tuaj nese eshte e nevojshme, Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.00,0:04:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por perfundimisht cka ne deshirojme te bejme eshte t'ju bejme perseri normal. Dialogue: 0,0:04:38.00,0:04:40.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por normal eshte vetem mesatarja. Dialogue: 0,0:04:40.00,0:04:42.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe cka parashtroj dhe cka parashtron psikologjia pozitive Dialogue: 0,0:04:42.00,0:04:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte se nese ne studjojme cka eshte vetem mesatare, Dialogue: 0,0:04:44.00,0:04:46.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne do te mbesim vetem mesatar. Dialogue: 0,0:04:46.00,0:04:48.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pastaj ne vend qe te fshijme ata persona te vecuar, Dialogue: 0,0:04:48.00,0:04:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ajo cka une qellimisht bej eshte te vije ne nje popullesi si kjo Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.00,0:04:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe te them, pse? Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.00,0:04:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Pse ekziston qe disa prej jush jeni shume lart mbi kurbe Dialogue: 0,0:04:54.00,0:04:56.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne periudha te aftesise tuaj intelektuale, aftesise atletike, aftesise muzikore, Dialogue: 0,0:04:56.00,0:04:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kreativitetit, niveleve te energjise, Dialogue: 0,0:04:58.00,0:05:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,elasticitetit tuaj përballë sfidës, ndjenjes tuaj te humorit? Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.00,0:05:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cfaredo qe te jete, ne vend te fshirjes tuaj, cka une dua te beje eshte te ju studjoj. Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.00,0:05:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sepse ndoshta ne mund te mbledhim informacione -- Dialogue: 0,0:05:05.00,0:05:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,jo vetem si t'i levizim njerezit tek mesatarja, Dialogue: 0,0:05:07.00,0:05:10.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por si mund te levizim tere mesataren Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.00,0:05:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne kompanite tona dhe shkollat ne mbare boten. Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.00,0:05:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Arsyeja pse ky grafik eshte i rendesishme per mua Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.00,0:05:16.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte, kur une ndez lajmet, duket sikur pjesa me e madhe e informacionit Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.00,0:05:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nuk eshte pozitive, ne fakt eshte negative. Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.00,0:05:21.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Shumica e tyre është në lidhje me vrasjen, korrupsionin, sëmundjet, fatkeqësitë natyrore. Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.00,0:05:23.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe shume shpejte, truri ime filon te mendoj Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.00,0:05:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ky eshte raporti i sakte i negatives tek pozitvja ne bote. Dialogue: 0,0:05:25.00,0:05:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cka po bene ajo eshte krijimi i dickaje Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.00,0:05:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i quajtur sindromi mjekesor shkollor -- Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.00,0:05:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ku, nese ju njihni njerez qe kane qene ne shkollen e mjeksise, Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.00,0:05:33.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gjate vitit te pare te trajnimit mjekesor, Dialogue: 0,0:05:33.00,0:05:35.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,perderisa ju lexoni neper listen te te gjitha simptomave dhe semundjeve qe mund te ju ndodhin, Dialogue: 0,0:05:35.00,0:05:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,papritmas ju e kuptoni qe ju i keni te gjitha prej tyre. Dialogue: 0,0:05:37.00,0:05:40.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une kam nje dhender i quajtur Bobo -- i cili eshte nje histori tjeter. Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.00,0:05:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bobo u martua me Amy njebrireshen. Dialogue: 0,0:05:43.00,0:05:46.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Bobo me telefoni mua Dialogue: 0,0:05:46.00,0:05:49.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nga Yale Shkolla e Mjekesise, Dialogue: 0,0:05:49.00,0:05:51.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe Bobo tha, "Shawn, une kam lebroz." Dialogue: 0,0:05:51.00,0:05:53.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:05:53.00,0:05:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,E cila, edhe ne Yale, eshte jashtezakonisht e rralle. Dialogue: 0,0:05:55.00,0:05:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por une nuk kisha ide si ta ngushelloja te shkretin Bobo Dialogue: 0,0:05:58.00,0:06:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sepse ai kishte marrë vetëm mbi një javë të tërë të menopauzës. Dialogue: 0,0:06:00.00,0:06:02.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:06:02.00,0:06:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ajo cfare ne gjejme ekziston e nuk eshte domosdosshmeri realiteti qe i jep forme asaj Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.00,0:06:08.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por lentet nëpërmjet të cilit truri juaj sheh botën që formon realitetin tuaj. Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.00,0:06:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe nese ne mund te ndryshojme lentet, jo vetem qe ne mund te ndryshojme lumturine tuaj, Dialogue: 0,0:06:11.00,0:06:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne mund te ndryshojme cdo rezultat te vetem arsimor dhe biznesor ne te njejten kohe. Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.00,0:06:16.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur une aplikova ne Harvard, une aplikova me nje sfide. Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.00,0:06:19.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nuk e prisja te futesha, dhe familja ime nuk kishte para per kolegj. Dialogue: 0,0:06:19.00,0:06:21.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur mora nje burse ushtarake dy jave me vone, ata me lejuan te shkoj. Dialogue: 0,0:06:21.00,0:06:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Papritmas, dicka qe nuk ishte mundesi u be realitet. Dialogue: 0,0:06:24.00,0:06:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur une shkova atje, une supuzova se cdo njeri do ta shihte ate si privilegj, Dialogue: 0,0:06:27.00,0:06:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe ata do te ishin te gezuar qe jane atje. Dialogue: 0,0:06:29.00,0:06:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Edhe nese je ne nje klase te mbushur me njerez me te mencur se ti Dialogue: 0,0:06:31.00,0:06:33.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ju do te ishit te lumtur te jeni ne ate klase, kjo eshte ajo cka une ndjeva. Dialogue: 0,0:06:33.00,0:06:35.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por cka une gjeta atje Dialogue: 0,0:06:35.00,0:06:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte, qe derisa disa njerez e provojne ate, Dialogue: 0,0:06:37.00,0:06:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kur une u diplomva pas kater viteve Dialogue: 0,0:06:39.00,0:06:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe pastaj kalova tete vitet e ardhshme duke jetuar ne konvikte me studentet -- Dialogue: 0,0:06:41.00,0:06:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Hravard me pyeti mua; Une nuk isha ai djali. Dialogue: 0,0:06:44.00,0:06:48.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:06:48.00,0:06:51.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une isha nje oficer i Harvardit per te keshilluar studentet gjate kater viteve te veshtira. Dialogue: 0,0:06:51.00,0:06:53.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe cka une zbulova ne hulumtimin dhe mesimdhenien time Dialogue: 0,0:06:53.00,0:06:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte se keta student, pa marre parasysh sa te lumtur ishin ata Dialogue: 0,0:06:55.00,0:06:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me suksesin e tyre origjinal te hyrjes ne shkolle, Dialogue: 0,0:06:58.00,0:07:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dy jave me vone truri i tyre ishte i fokusara, jo ne privilegjin e te qenurit aty, Dialogue: 0,0:07:01.00,0:07:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as ne filozofine e tyre ose ne fizikun e tyre. Dialogue: 0,0:07:03.00,0:07:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Truri i tyre ishte fokusuar ne konkursin, ne ngarkesen e punes, Dialogue: 0,0:07:05.00,0:07:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,streset, ankesat. Dialogue: 0,0:07:07.00,0:07:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur une se pari shkova atje, une shkova ne sallen e ngrenies se freshmenve, Dialogue: 0,0:07:09.00,0:07:12.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne te cilen jane shoket e mi mga Waco, Texas, vendi ku une u rrita -- Dialogue: 0,0:07:12.00,0:07:14.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,E di qe disa prej jush keni degjuar per te. Dialogue: 0,0:07:14.00,0:07:16.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kur ata erdhen per te me vizituar, ata shikuan rreth e rrotull, Dialogue: 0,0:07:16.00,0:07:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ata thane, " Kjo salle e ngrenies duket si dicka Dialogue: 0,0:07:18.00,0:07:20.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nga Hogwart nga filmi "Harry Potter", të cilën e bën. Dialogue: 0,0:07:20.00,0:07:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ky eshte Hogwart nga filmi "Harry Poter" dhe ky Harvard. Dialogue: 0,0:07:22.00,0:07:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe kur ju e shihni kete, Dialogue: 0,0:07:24.00,0:07:26.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ata thone, " Shawn, pse e humbni kohen tuaj duke studiuar lumturine ne Harvard? Dialogue: 0,0:07:26.00,0:07:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Serizisht, cka kane studentet e Harvardit Dialogue: 0,0:07:28.00,0:07:30.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe te jene te pa lumtur?" Dialogue: 0,0:07:30.00,0:07:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ngulititja brenda kesaj pytjeje Dialogue: 0,0:07:32.00,0:07:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte celesi per te kuptuar shkencen e lumturise. Dialogue: 0,0:07:34.00,0:07:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sepse cka supozon kjo pyetje Dialogue: 0,0:07:36.00,0:07:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,është se bota jonë e jashtme është parashikuese e niveleve tona lumturise, Dialogue: 0,0:07:39.00,0:07:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ku ne realitet, nese une di cdo gje rreth botes tuaj te jashtme, Dialogue: 0,0:07:41.00,0:07:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,une mund te parashikoj vetem 10 perqind te jete-gjatesise se lumturise tuaj. Dialogue: 0,0:07:44.00,0:07:46.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,90 perqind te jete-gjatesise se lumturise tuaj Dialogue: 0,0:07:46.00,0:07:48.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte e parashikuar nga bota e jashtme Dialogue: 0,0:07:48.00,0:07:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por meqe ra fjala truri juaj proceson boten. Dialogue: 0,0:07:50.00,0:07:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe nese ne e ndryshojme ate, Dialogue: 0,0:07:52.00,0:07:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nese ne e ndryshojme formulen tone per lumturi dhe sukses, Dialogue: 0,0:07:54.00,0:07:56.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cka ne mund te bejme eshte te ndryshojme menyren Dialogue: 0,0:07:56.00,0:07:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe pastaj te mund te ndikojme ne realitet. Dialogue: 0,0:07:58.00,0:08:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cka ne gjetem eshte se vetem 25 perqind e sukseseve te punes Dialogue: 0,0:08:00.00,0:08:02.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,parashikohen nga I.Q. Dialogue: 0,0:08:02.00,0:08:04.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,75 perqind e sukseseve te punes Dialogue: 0,0:08:04.00,0:08:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,parashikohen nga niveli juaj optimistik, nga perkrahja sociale Dialogue: 0,0:08:07.00,0:08:10.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe aftesia te shihni stresin si nje sfide ne vend te nje kercenimi. Dialogue: 0,0:08:10.00,0:08:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une fola me nje shkolle konviktu ne Angli, ndoshta shkolla me prestigjioze, Dialogue: 0,0:08:13.00,0:08:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe ata thane, " Ne tani e dime ate. Dialogue: 0,0:08:15.00,0:08:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Keshtu qe cdo vit, ne vend qe vetem t'i mesojme studentet tane, ne gjithashtu kemi javen e miresise. Dialogue: 0,0:08:18.00,0:08:21.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ne jemi shume te ngazellyer. Te henen mbrema ne kemi ekspertin e udheheqjes se botes Dialogue: 0,0:08:21.00,0:08:23.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe do te vije te flas rreth depresionit ne adoleshence. Dialogue: 0,0:08:23.00,0:08:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Te marten mbrema eshte dhuna ne shkolla dhe fyerjet. Dialogue: 0,0:08:25.00,0:08:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Te merkuren mbrema jane crregullimet e ushqimit. Dialogue: 0,0:08:27.00,0:08:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Te ejten mbrema perdorimi i droges. Dialogue: 0,0:08:29.00,0:08:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe te premten mbrema ne jemi duke provuar te vendosim ndermjet marredhenieve te rrezikshme seksuale dhe lumturise." Dialogue: 0,0:08:32.00,0:08:35.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:08:35.00,0:08:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Une thashe, " Kjo eshte e Premtja e shumices prej njerezve." Dialogue: 0,0:08:37.00,0:08:40.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Te qeshura) Dialogue: 0,0:08:40.00,0:08:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Duartroktije) Dialogue: 0,0:08:43.00,0:08:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Te cilen jam i kenqaur qe e pelqyet, por ata nuk e perlqyen ate aspak. Dialogue: 0,0:08:45.00,0:08:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Qetesi ne telefon. Dialogue: 0,0:08:47.00,0:08:49.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ne qetesi, Une thashe, " Une do te isha i lumtur te flas ne shkollen tuaj, Dialogue: 0,0:08:49.00,0:08:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por vetem qe ta dini, kjo nuk eshte java e miresise, kjo eshte java e semundjes. Dialogue: 0,0:08:52.00,0:08:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Çfarë keni bërë është që ju keni paraqitur të gjitha gjërat negative që mund të ndodhin, Dialogue: 0,0:08:54.00,0:08:56.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por nuk keni folur per pozitivet." Dialogue: 0,0:08:56.00,0:08:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Mungesa e semundjes nuk eshte shendet. Dialogue: 0,0:08:58.00,0:09:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ketu eshte si te fitojme shendet: Dialogue: 0,0:09:00.00,0:09:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne duhet te ndryshojme formulen per lumturi dhe sukses. Dialogue: 0,0:09:03.00,0:09:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne tri vitet e fundit, une kam udhetuar ne 45 vende te ndryshme, Dialogue: 0,0:09:05.00,0:09:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duke punuar me shkolla dhe kompani Dialogue: 0,0:09:07.00,0:09:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne mes te renies ekonomike. Dialogue: 0,0:09:09.00,0:09:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe cka une gjeta eshte se shumica e kompanive dhe shkollave Dialogue: 0,0:09:11.00,0:09:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ndjekin nje formule per sukses, e cila eshte kjo: Dialogue: 0,0:09:13.00,0:09:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nese une punoj me shume, une do te jem me i sukseshem. Dialogue: 0,0:09:15.00,0:09:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe nese une jam me i sukseshem, pastaj une do te jem me i lumtur. Dialogue: 0,0:09:18.00,0:09:20.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Kjo mbeshtet shumicen prej prinderve tane, stilet tona menaxhuese, Dialogue: 0,0:09:20.00,0:09:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,menyra si ne motivojme sjelljen tone. Dialogue: 0,0:09:22.00,0:09:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe problemi është se eshte thyer shkencërisht dhe prapa për dy arsye. Dialogue: 0,0:09:25.00,0:09:28.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Se pari, cdo here truri juaj ka nje sukses, Dialogue: 0,0:09:28.00,0:09:30.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ju vetem e ndryshuat qellimin se si u duk suksesi. Dialogue: 0,0:09:30.00,0:09:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ju keni nota te mira, tani ju duhet te merrni nota me te mira, Dialogue: 0,0:09:32.00,0:09:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ju keni hyre ne nje shkolle te mire dhe pasi te hyni ne nje shkolle me te mire Dialogue: 0,0:09:34.00,0:09:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ju fitoni nje pune te mire, tani ju duhet te fitoni nje pune me te mire, Dialogue: 0,0:09:36.00,0:09:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ju goditni objektivin e shitjes tuaj, ne jemi duke shkuar për të ndryshuar objektivin e shitjes tuaj. Dialogue: 0,0:09:38.00,0:09:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe nese lumturia eshte ne anen e kundert te suksesit, truri juaj kurre nuk shkon atje. Dialogue: 0,0:09:41.00,0:09:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cka ne kemi bere eshte qe ne kemi shtyre lumturine Dialogue: 0,0:09:43.00,0:09:46.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mbi horizontin e njohes si shoqeri. Dialogue: 0,0:09:46.00,0:09:48.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe kjo eshte sepse ne mendojme se ne duhet te jemi te sukseshem, Dialogue: 0,0:09:48.00,0:09:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pastaj ne do te jemi te lumtur. Dialogue: 0,0:09:50.00,0:09:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Por problemi i vertete eshte se truri jone punon ne rendin e kundert. Dialogue: 0,0:09:52.00,0:09:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nese ju mund te ngrini nivelin e positivitetit te dikujt ne te tashmen, Dialogue: 0,0:09:55.00,0:09:58.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pastaj pervojat e trurit te tyre cka ne quajme perparesi e lumturise, Dialogue: 0,0:09:58.00,0:10:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe eshte truri juaj ne pozitivitet Dialogue: 0,0:10:00.00,0:10:02.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,performon me mire Dialogue: 0,0:10:02.00,0:10:04.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sese tek negatvi, neutrali ose i stresuari. Dialogue: 0,0:10:04.00,0:10:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Inteligjenca juaj rritet, kreativiteti juaj rritet, niveli i energjise tuaj rritet. Dialogue: 0,0:10:07.00,0:10:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne fakt, cka ne gjejme Dialogue: 0,0:10:09.00,0:10:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,eshte se cdo dalje e biznesit permiresohet. Dialogue: 0,0:10:11.00,0:10:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Truri juaj tek pozitivi eshte 31 perqind me produktiv Dialogue: 0,0:10:13.00,0:10:16.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sesa truri juaj tek negativi, neutrali ose i stresuari. Dialogue: 0,0:10:16.00,0:10:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ju jeni 37 perqind me i mire tek shitjet Dialogue: 0,0:10:18.00,0:10:20.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Doktoret jane 19 perqind me te shpejte, me te sakte Dialogue: 0,0:10:20.00,0:10:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te sjellin diagnoza korrekte Dialogue: 0,0:10:22.00,0:10:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kur pozitivi ne vend te negativit, neutralit ose stresit. Dialogue: 0,0:10:24.00,0:10:26.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Qe do te thote se ne mund te ndryshojme formulen. Dialogue: 0,0:10:26.00,0:10:29.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Nese ne mund te gjejme nje rrugedalje qe te behemi pozitiv ne te tashmen, Dialogue: 0,0:10:29.00,0:10:31.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pastaj truri jone punon me me shume sukses Dialogue: 0,0:10:31.00,0:10:34.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pasi ne jemi ne gjendje te punojme me shume, me shpejte dhe më me inteligjence. Dialogue: 0,0:10:34.00,0:10:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Cka na duhet te jemi ne gjendje te bejme eshte te ndryshojme kete formule Dialogue: 0,0:10:37.00,0:10:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pra ne mund te fillojme te shohim se cka eshte ne gjendje te beje truri jone. Dialogue: 0,0:10:39.00,0:10:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sepse dopamine, e cila permbytet ne sistemin tuaj ku ju jeni pozitiv, Dialogue: 0,0:10:41.00,0:10:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ka dy funksione. Dialogue: 0,0:10:43.00,0:10:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Jo vetem qe ju bene me te lumtur, Dialogue: 0,0:10:45.00,0:10:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,kjo rezulton në të gjitha qendrat e mësimit në trurin tuaj Dialogue: 0,0:10:47.00,0:10:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duke i'u lejuar juve te adaptoheni me boten ne menyre tjeter. Dialogue: 0,0:10:50.00,0:10:52.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne zbuluam se ka menyra qe mund te trajtoni turin tuaj Dialogue: 0,0:10:52.00,0:10:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,qe te jeni ne gjendje te jeni me pozitiv. Dialogue: 0,0:10:54.00,0:10:57.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne nje hapsire dy minuteshe te kohes se bere per 21 dite me rradhe, Dialogue: 0,0:10:57.00,0:10:59.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne faktikisht mund t'ua ri-instalojme trurit tuaj Dialogue: 0,0:10:59.00,0:11:01.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duke lejuar trurin tuaj te punoj Dialogue: 0,0:11:01.00,0:11:03.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,me me optimizem dhe me me shume sukses. Dialogue: 0,0:11:03.00,0:11:05.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne kemi bere gjera ne hulumtim tani Dialogue: 0,0:11:05.00,0:11:07.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ne secilen kompani qe kam punuar, Dialogue: 0,0:11:07.00,0:11:09.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duke i bindur ata te shkruajne tri gjera te reja per te cilat ata jane mirenjohes Dialogue: 0,0:11:09.00,0:11:11.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,per 21 dite me rradhe, tri gjera te reja cdo dite. Dialogue: 0,0:11:11.00,0:11:13.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe ne fund te saj Dialogue: 0,0:11:13.00,0:11:15.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,truri i tyre fillon te ruaj nje model Dialogue: 0,0:11:15.00,0:11:18.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te skanimit te botes, jo per negativin, por per pozitivin. Dialogue: 0,0:11:18.00,0:11:20.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Protokolimi rreth nje eksperinece pozitive qe ju keni pasuar pas 24 oreve te shkuara Dialogue: 0,0:11:20.00,0:11:22.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i lejon trurit tuaj ta zvogeloj ate Dialogue: 0,0:11:22.00,0:11:25.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ushtrimi meson trurin tuaj se sjellja juaj ka rendesi. Dialogue: 0,0:11:25.00,0:11:27.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne zbuluam se meditimi lejon trurin tuaj Dialogue: 0,0:11:27.00,0:11:30.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,te mberrij mbi ADHD kulturore qe ne kemi qene duke krijuar Dialogue: 0,0:11:30.00,0:11:32.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duke provuar te bejme detyra te shumfishta njeheresh Dialogue: 0,0:11:32.00,0:11:35.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe lejon trurin tone te fokusohet ne detyre. Dialogue: 0,0:11:35.00,0:11:37.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe se fundi, veprime te rastesishme te miresise jane veprime te vetedijshme te miresise. Dialogue: 0,0:11:37.00,0:11:39.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Ne i marrim njerezit, kur ata e hapin inbox-in e tyre, Dialogue: 0,0:11:39.00,0:11:41.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,per te shkruar nje email pozitiv Dialogue: 0,0:11:41.00,0:11:43.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,duke lavderuar ose falenderuar dike ne rrjetin e tyre social. Dialogue: 0,0:11:43.00,0:11:45.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dhe duke bere keto aktivitete Dialogue: 0,0:11:45.00,0:11:47.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe duke trajnuar turin tuaj ashtu sikur trajnojme trupin tone, Dialogue: 0,0:11:47.00,0:11:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,cka ne kemi gjetur eshte ne mund te ndryshojme formulen e lumturise dhe suksesit, Dialogue: 0,0:11:50.00,0:11:53.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dhe duke bere keshtu, jo vetem krijojme plluquritje te pozitivitetit, Dialogue: 0,0:11:53.00,0:11:55.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,por krijojme nje revulucion te vertete. Dialogue: 0,0:11:55.00,0:11:57.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Faleminderit shume. Dialogue: 0,0:11:57.00,0:12:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Duartokitje)