1 00:00:01,638 --> 00:00:03,982 Billie Jean King: Hi, everyone! 2 00:00:04,006 --> 00:00:06,348 (Applause) 3 00:00:06,372 --> 00:00:07,550 Thanks, Pat. 4 00:00:07,574 --> 00:00:09,132 Thank you! 5 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:13,516 Getting me all wound up, now! 6 00:00:13,540 --> 00:00:14,764 (Laughter) 7 00:00:14,788 --> 00:00:15,975 Pat Mitchell: Good! 8 00:00:16,641 --> 00:00:20,538 You know, when I was watching the video again of the match, 9 00:00:20,562 --> 00:00:22,610 you must have felt like 10 00:00:22,634 --> 00:00:25,018 the fate of the world's women 11 00:00:25,372 --> 00:00:27,880 was on every stroke you took on that. 12 00:00:28,446 --> 00:00:29,963 Were you feeling that? 13 00:00:30,907 --> 00:00:32,485 BJK: First of all, Bobby Riggs -- 14 00:00:32,509 --> 00:00:36,180 he was the former number one player, he wasn't just some hacker, by the way -- 15 00:00:36,204 --> 00:00:39,086 he was one of my heroes and I admired him. 16 00:00:39,848 --> 00:00:43,283 And that's the reason I beat him, actually, it's because I respected him. 17 00:00:43,307 --> 00:00:44,459 (Laughter) 18 00:00:44,483 --> 00:00:47,460 It's true, my mom and dad, always said: "Respect your opponent, 19 00:00:47,817 --> 00:00:49,981 and never underestimate them, ever." 20 00:00:50,005 --> 00:00:52,293 And he was correct -- he was absolutely correct. 21 00:00:53,245 --> 00:00:55,282 But I knew it was about social change, 22 00:00:56,962 --> 00:01:00,324 and I was really nervous about whenever we announced it, 23 00:01:00,348 --> 00:01:03,217 and I felt like the whole world was on my shoulders. 24 00:01:03,241 --> 00:01:08,902 And I thought, "If I lose, it's going to put women back 50 years, at least." 25 00:01:08,926 --> 00:01:12,829 Title IX had just been passed the year before -- June 23, 1972, 26 00:01:13,892 --> 00:01:15,793 and women's professional tennis -- 27 00:01:16,490 --> 00:01:19,763 there were nine of us who signed a one-dollar contract in 1970 -- 28 00:01:19,787 --> 00:01:21,886 now remember the match is in '73. 29 00:01:22,454 --> 00:01:25,614 So we were only in our third year of having a tour 30 00:01:25,638 --> 00:01:29,898 where we could actually play, have a place to compete and make a living. 31 00:01:29,922 --> 00:01:32,918 So there were nine of us that signed that one-dollar contract. 32 00:01:32,942 --> 00:01:37,449 And our dream was for any girl, born any place in the world -- 33 00:01:37,935 --> 00:01:39,493 if she was good enough -- 34 00:01:39,517 --> 00:01:43,628 there would be a place for her to compete and for us to make a living. 35 00:01:43,652 --> 00:01:47,412 Because before 1968, we made 14 dollars a day, 36 00:01:47,436 --> 00:01:49,888 and we were under the control of organizations. 37 00:01:49,912 --> 00:01:52,105 So we really wanted to break away from that. 38 00:01:52,129 --> 00:01:54,845 But we knew it wasn't really about our generation so much, 39 00:01:54,869 --> 00:01:56,919 we knew it was about the future generations. 40 00:01:56,943 --> 00:02:00,948 We do stand on the shoulders of the people that came before us, there is no question. 41 00:02:00,972 --> 00:02:03,505 But every generation has the chance to make it better. 42 00:02:04,265 --> 00:02:06,682 That was really on my mind. 43 00:02:06,706 --> 00:02:10,326 I really wanted to start matching the hearts and minds to Title IX. 44 00:02:10,350 --> 00:02:12,307 Title IX, in case anybody doesn't know -- 45 00:02:12,331 --> 00:02:14,380 which a lot of people don't probably know -- 46 00:02:14,404 --> 00:02:18,438 any federal funds given to a high school, college or university, 47 00:02:18,462 --> 00:02:20,536 either public or private, 48 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:25,462 had to finally give equal monies to boys and girls. 49 00:02:25,909 --> 00:02:27,400 And that changed everything. 50 00:02:27,424 --> 00:02:30,250 (Applause) 51 00:02:30,274 --> 00:02:32,032 So you can have a law, 52 00:02:32,056 --> 00:02:34,971 but it's changing the hearts and minds to match up with it. 53 00:02:34,995 --> 00:02:37,542 That's when it really rocks, totally. 54 00:02:37,566 --> 00:02:38,717 So that was on my mind. 55 00:02:38,741 --> 00:02:42,330 I wanted to start that change in the hearts and minds. 56 00:02:42,354 --> 00:02:45,146 But two things came out of that match. 57 00:02:45,170 --> 00:02:48,326 For women: self-confidence, empowerment. 58 00:02:48,350 --> 00:02:50,892 They actually had enough nerve to ask for a raise. 59 00:02:51,675 --> 00:02:55,516 Some women have waited 10, 15 years to ask, 60 00:02:55,838 --> 00:02:57,839 I said, "More importantly, did you get it?" 61 00:02:57,863 --> 00:02:59,014 (Laughter) 62 00:02:59,038 --> 00:03:00,539 And they did! 63 00:03:00,563 --> 00:03:01,947 And for the men: 64 00:03:01,971 --> 00:03:04,802 a lot of the men today don't realize it, 65 00:03:04,826 --> 00:03:09,886 but if you're in your 50s, 60s or whatever, late 40s, 66 00:03:10,255 --> 00:03:13,303 you're the first generation of men of the Women's Movement -- 67 00:03:13,855 --> 00:03:15,147 whether you like it or not! 68 00:03:15,171 --> 00:03:18,193 (Laughter) 69 00:03:18,217 --> 00:03:19,500 (Applause) 70 00:03:19,524 --> 00:03:20,675 And for the men, 71 00:03:20,699 --> 00:03:23,314 what happened for the men, they'd come up to me -- 72 00:03:23,338 --> 00:03:26,439 and most times, the men are the ones who have tears in their eyes, 73 00:03:26,463 --> 00:03:27,614 it's very interesting. 74 00:03:27,638 --> 00:03:30,453 They go, "Billie, I was very young when I saw that match, 75 00:03:31,675 --> 00:03:33,029 and now I have a daughter, 76 00:03:35,193 --> 00:03:37,990 and I'm so happy I saw that as a young man." 77 00:03:38,588 --> 00:03:42,137 And one of those young men, at 12 years old, was President Obama, 78 00:03:43,001 --> 00:03:45,654 and he actually told me that when I met him, he said: 79 00:03:45,678 --> 00:03:48,636 "You don't realize it, but I saw that match at 12, 80 00:03:48,660 --> 00:03:52,963 and now I have two daughters and it has made a difference in how I raise them." 81 00:03:52,987 --> 00:03:57,704 So both men and women got a lot out of it but, different things. 82 00:03:58,276 --> 00:04:01,431 PM: And now there are generations -- at least one or two -- 83 00:04:01,455 --> 00:04:04,155 who have experienced the equality 84 00:04:04,179 --> 00:04:09,065 that Title IX and other fights along the way made possible. 85 00:04:09,089 --> 00:04:13,477 And for women, there are generations who have also experienced teamwork. 86 00:04:13,501 --> 00:04:17,754 They got to play team sports in a way they hadn't before. 87 00:04:18,146 --> 00:04:23,227 So you had a legacy already built in terms of being an athlete, 88 00:04:23,251 --> 00:04:28,506 a legacy of the work you did to lobby for equal pay for women athletes 89 00:04:28,530 --> 00:04:30,804 and the Women's Sports Foundation. 90 00:04:31,368 --> 00:04:34,070 What now are you looking to accomplish 91 00:04:34,094 --> 00:04:37,050 with The Billie Jean King Leadership Initiative? 92 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:40,208 BJK: I think it goes back to an epiphany I had at 12. 93 00:04:40,232 --> 00:04:43,233 At 11, I wanted to be the number one tennis player in the world, 94 00:04:43,257 --> 00:04:46,568 and a friend had asked me to play and I said, "What's that?" -- 95 00:04:47,098 --> 00:04:50,573 tennis was not in my family -- basketball was, other sports. 96 00:04:50,597 --> 00:04:52,465 Fast forward to 12 years old, 97 00:04:52,489 --> 00:04:54,149 (Laughter) 98 00:04:54,173 --> 00:04:57,655 I'm finally starting to play in tournaments where you get a ranking -- 99 00:04:57,679 --> 00:04:59,408 you know, at the end of the year. 100 00:04:59,432 --> 00:05:02,801 So I was daydreaming at the Los Angeles Tennis Club, 101 00:05:02,825 --> 00:05:07,237 and I started thinking about my sport and how tiny it was, but also 102 00:05:07,613 --> 00:05:11,262 that everybody who played wore white shoes, white clothes, 103 00:05:11,286 --> 00:05:14,007 played with white balls -- everybody who played was white. 104 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:19,842 And I said to myself, at 12 years old, "Where is everyone else?" 105 00:05:22,222 --> 00:05:25,373 And that just kept sticking in my brain. 106 00:05:25,397 --> 00:05:26,548 And that moment 107 00:05:26,572 --> 00:05:29,526 I promised myself I'd fight for equal rights and opportunities 108 00:05:29,550 --> 00:05:32,298 for boys and girls, men and women, the rest of my life. 109 00:05:32,779 --> 00:05:36,991 And that tennis, if I was fortunate enough to become number one -- 110 00:05:37,015 --> 00:05:39,970 and I knew, being a girl, it would be harder to have influence, 111 00:05:40,530 --> 00:05:42,108 already at that age -- 112 00:05:42,531 --> 00:05:44,577 that I had this platform. 113 00:05:46,301 --> 00:05:47,969 And tennis is global. 114 00:05:49,451 --> 00:05:51,192 And I thought, "You know what? 115 00:05:52,185 --> 00:05:55,091 I've been given an opportunity that very few people have had." 116 00:05:55,115 --> 00:05:58,070 Now, I didn't know if I was going to make it, this was only 12. 117 00:05:58,094 --> 00:05:59,245 I sure wanted it -- 118 00:05:59,269 --> 00:06:01,222 but making it's a whole other discussion. 119 00:06:01,246 --> 00:06:05,449 I just remember I promised myself, and I really try to keep my word. 120 00:06:06,174 --> 00:06:09,976 That's who I truly am, just fighting for people. 121 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:14,210 And, unfortunately, women have had less, 122 00:06:15,031 --> 00:06:17,300 and we are considered less. 123 00:06:17,324 --> 00:06:19,592 And so my attentions, where did they have to go? 124 00:06:19,616 --> 00:06:21,801 It was just ... you have to -- 125 00:06:21,825 --> 00:06:23,881 And also learn to stick up for yourself, 126 00:06:23,905 --> 00:06:25,056 hear your own voice. 127 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:28,417 You hear the same words keep coming out all the time, 128 00:06:28,441 --> 00:06:32,158 and I got really lucky because I really had an education. 129 00:06:32,182 --> 00:06:34,460 And I think if you can see it you can be it, 130 00:06:34,484 --> 00:06:36,990 you know -- if you can see it, you can be it. 131 00:06:37,014 --> 00:06:39,018 You look at Pat, you look at other leaders, 132 00:06:39,042 --> 00:06:41,188 you look at these speakers, look at yourself, 133 00:06:41,212 --> 00:06:42,870 because everyone -- 134 00:06:42,894 --> 00:06:44,252 everyone -- 135 00:06:44,276 --> 00:06:46,089 can do something extraordinary. 136 00:06:46,113 --> 00:06:47,555 Every single person. 137 00:06:47,579 --> 00:06:51,812 PM: And your story, Billie, has inspired so many women everywhere. 138 00:06:52,287 --> 00:06:55,158 Now with the Billie Jean King Leadership Initiative, 139 00:06:55,182 --> 00:06:57,366 you're taking on an even bigger cause. 140 00:06:57,390 --> 00:07:00,680 Because one thing we hear a lot about is women taking their voice, 141 00:07:01,438 --> 00:07:04,865 working to find their way into leadership positions. 142 00:07:04,889 --> 00:07:07,721 But what you're talking about is even bigger than that. 143 00:07:07,745 --> 00:07:09,974 It's inclusive leadership. 144 00:07:09,998 --> 00:07:13,588 And this is a generation that has grown up thinking more inclusively -- 145 00:07:13,612 --> 00:07:15,664 BJK: Isn't it great? Look at the technology! 146 00:07:15,688 --> 00:07:20,309 It's amazing how it connects us all! It's about connection. 147 00:07:20,333 --> 00:07:23,947 It's simply amazing what's possible because of it. 148 00:07:23,971 --> 00:07:26,411 But the Billie Jean King Leadership Initiative 149 00:07:26,435 --> 00:07:29,499 is really about the workforce mostly, and trying to change it, 150 00:07:29,523 --> 00:07:31,685 so people can actually go to work 151 00:07:32,231 --> 00:07:33,868 and be their authentic selves. 152 00:07:33,892 --> 00:07:36,151 Because most of us have two jobs. 153 00:07:36,953 --> 00:07:39,572 One, to fit in -- I'll give you a perfect example -- 154 00:07:39,596 --> 00:07:43,066 an African American woman gets up an hour earlier to go to work, 155 00:07:43,090 --> 00:07:44,947 straightens her hair in the bathroom, 156 00:07:44,971 --> 00:07:47,959 goes to the bathroom probably four, five, six times a day 157 00:07:47,983 --> 00:07:50,984 to keep straightening her hair, to keep making sure she fits in. 158 00:07:51,008 --> 00:07:52,251 So she's working two jobs. 159 00:07:52,275 --> 00:07:54,774 She's got this other job, whatever that may be, 160 00:07:54,798 --> 00:07:57,008 but she's also trying to fit in. 161 00:07:57,032 --> 00:08:01,075 Or this poor man who kept his diploma -- 162 00:08:01,099 --> 00:08:02,815 he went to University of Michigan -- 163 00:08:02,839 --> 00:08:06,160 but he never would talk about his poverty as a youngster, ever, 164 00:08:06,184 --> 00:08:07,424 just would not mention it. 165 00:08:07,448 --> 00:08:09,624 So he made sure they saw he was well educated. 166 00:08:10,338 --> 00:08:12,782 And then you see a gay guy who has an NFL -- 167 00:08:12,806 --> 00:08:15,447 which means American football for all of you out there, 168 00:08:15,471 --> 00:08:17,449 it's a big deal, it's very macho -- 169 00:08:17,473 --> 00:08:19,430 and he talked about football all the time 170 00:08:19,454 --> 00:08:21,982 because he was gay and he didn't want anybody to know. 171 00:08:22,006 --> 00:08:24,874 So it just goes on and on. 172 00:08:24,898 --> 00:08:31,011 So my wish for everyone is to be able to be their authentic selves 24/7, 173 00:08:31,035 --> 00:08:32,841 that would be the ultimate. 174 00:08:32,865 --> 00:08:36,091 And we catch ourselves, I mean, I catch myself to this day. 175 00:08:36,415 --> 00:08:38,562 Even being gay I catch myself, you know, like, 176 00:08:38,586 --> 00:08:39,736 (Gasp) 177 00:08:40,464 --> 00:08:43,552 A little uncomfortable, a little surge in my gut, 178 00:08:43,576 --> 00:08:46,474 feeling not totally comfortable in my own skin. 179 00:08:48,655 --> 00:08:50,518 So, I think you have to ask yourself -- 180 00:08:50,908 --> 00:08:54,055 I want people to be themselves, whatever that is, just let it be. 181 00:08:54,079 --> 00:08:58,242 PM: And the first research that the Leadership Initiative did showed that -- 182 00:08:58,266 --> 00:09:01,051 these examples that you just used -- 183 00:09:01,075 --> 00:09:05,880 that many of us have the problem of being authentic. 184 00:09:05,904 --> 00:09:09,929 But what you've just looked at is this millennial generation, 185 00:09:09,953 --> 00:09:13,491 who have benefited from all these equal opportunities -- 186 00:09:13,515 --> 00:09:15,676 which may not be equal but exist everywhere -- 187 00:09:15,700 --> 00:09:17,419 BJK: First of all, I'm really lucky. 188 00:09:17,443 --> 00:09:21,975 Partnership with Teneo, a strategic company that's amazing. 189 00:09:21,999 --> 00:09:24,172 That's really the reason I'm able to do this. 190 00:09:24,593 --> 00:09:25,978 I've had two times in my life 191 00:09:26,002 --> 00:09:28,688 where I've actually had men really behind me with power. 192 00:09:28,712 --> 00:09:32,002 And that was with the old days with Philip Morris with Virginia Slims, 193 00:09:32,026 --> 00:09:34,360 and this is the second time in my entire life. 194 00:09:34,384 --> 00:09:35,733 And then Deloitte -- 195 00:09:37,157 --> 00:09:40,441 the one thing I wanted was data, facts -- 196 00:09:40,465 --> 00:09:42,192 so Deloitte sent out a survey, 197 00:09:42,216 --> 00:09:46,221 and we're around over 4,000 now, people who have answered, 198 00:09:46,245 --> 00:09:48,129 and we're continuing in the workplace. 199 00:09:48,871 --> 00:09:51,300 And what they feel, what the millennials feel? 200 00:09:52,157 --> 00:09:55,418 Well, they feel a lot, but what they're so fantastic about is -- 201 00:09:55,442 --> 00:09:58,970 you know, our generation was like, "Oh, we're going to get representation." 202 00:09:58,995 --> 00:10:01,663 So if you walk into a room you see everybody represented. 203 00:10:01,688 --> 00:10:04,277 That's not good enough anymore, which is so good! 204 00:10:04,301 --> 00:10:06,211 So the millennials are fantastic -- 205 00:10:06,235 --> 00:10:08,560 they want connection, engagement. 206 00:10:08,584 --> 00:10:11,969 They just want you to tell us what you're feeling, what you're thinking, 207 00:10:11,993 --> 00:10:14,569 and get into the solution -- they're problem solvers -- 208 00:10:14,593 --> 00:10:17,407 and of course, you've got the information at your fingertips 209 00:10:17,431 --> 00:10:20,133 compared to when I was growing up. 210 00:10:20,157 --> 00:10:22,685 PM: What did the research show you about millennials? 211 00:10:22,709 --> 00:10:24,428 Are they going to make a difference? 212 00:10:24,452 --> 00:10:28,469 Are they going to create a world where there is really an inclusive work force? 213 00:10:28,493 --> 00:10:34,385 BJK: Well, in 2025, 75 percent of the global workforce 214 00:10:34,409 --> 00:10:35,849 is going to be millennials. 215 00:10:36,202 --> 00:10:38,489 So I think they are going to help solve problems. 216 00:10:38,513 --> 00:10:40,514 I think they have the wherewithal to do it. 217 00:10:40,538 --> 00:10:42,204 I know they care a lot. 218 00:10:42,228 --> 00:10:46,704 They have big ideas and they can make big things happen. 219 00:10:47,109 --> 00:10:49,352 I want to stay in the now with the young people, 220 00:10:49,376 --> 00:10:51,285 I don't want to get behind. 221 00:10:52,673 --> 00:10:54,344 (Laughter) 222 00:10:54,368 --> 00:10:56,174 PM: I don't think there's any chance! 223 00:10:57,604 --> 00:11:00,599 PM: But what you found out in the research about millennials 224 00:11:00,623 --> 00:11:05,250 is not really the experience that a lot of people have with millennials. 225 00:11:05,274 --> 00:11:09,038 BJK: No, well, if we want to talk -- OK, I've been doing my little mini survey. 226 00:11:09,062 --> 00:11:12,353 I've been talking to the Boomers, who are their bosses, and I go, 227 00:11:12,713 --> 00:11:16,073 "What do you think about the millennials? I'm pretty excited!" 228 00:11:16,098 --> 00:11:17,248 Like, it's good. 229 00:11:17,273 --> 00:11:18,706 And they get this face -- 230 00:11:19,093 --> 00:11:21,735 (Laughter) 231 00:11:21,759 --> 00:11:23,442 "Oh, you mean the 'Me Generation'?" 232 00:11:23,466 --> 00:11:25,047 (Laughter) 233 00:11:25,071 --> 00:11:28,560 And I say, "Do you really think so? I do think they care about environment 234 00:11:29,123 --> 00:11:31,418 and all these things." 235 00:11:31,442 --> 00:11:32,646 And they go, "Oh, Billie, 236 00:11:34,458 --> 00:11:35,927 they cannot focus." 237 00:11:35,951 --> 00:11:38,736 (Laughter) 238 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:43,814 They actually have proven that the average focus for an 18 year old is 37 seconds. 239 00:11:43,838 --> 00:11:45,407 (Laughter) 240 00:11:45,431 --> 00:11:46,830 They can't focus. 241 00:11:46,854 --> 00:11:48,263 And they don't really care. 242 00:11:48,287 --> 00:11:50,128 I just heard a story the other night: 243 00:11:50,152 --> 00:11:52,582 she owns a gallery and she has these workers, 244 00:11:53,547 --> 00:11:55,752 she gets a text from one of the workers -- 245 00:11:56,736 --> 00:11:59,384 she's like an intern, she's just starting -- she goes, 246 00:11:59,408 --> 00:12:02,790 "Oh, by the way, I'm going to be late because I'm at the hairdresser's." 247 00:12:02,815 --> 00:12:07,727 (Laughter) 248 00:12:07,751 --> 00:12:10,450 So she arrives, and this boss says, 249 00:12:11,587 --> 00:12:12,738 "What's going on?" 250 00:12:12,762 --> 00:12:15,288 And she says, "Oh, I was late, sorry, how's it going?" 251 00:12:15,312 --> 00:12:19,412 She says, "Well, guess what? I'd like you leave, you're finished." 252 00:12:19,436 --> 00:12:20,802 She goes, "OK". 253 00:12:20,826 --> 00:12:23,895 (Laughter) 254 00:12:24,410 --> 00:12:26,057 "No problem!" 255 00:12:26,081 --> 00:12:29,107 I know, but that's what scares the boomers -- 256 00:12:29,131 --> 00:12:31,994 I'm just telling you -- so I think it's good for us to share. 257 00:12:32,018 --> 00:12:33,641 (Laughter) 258 00:12:33,665 --> 00:12:35,095 No, it is good for us to share 259 00:12:35,119 --> 00:12:38,030 because we're our authentic self and what we're really feeling 260 00:12:38,054 --> 00:12:40,483 and we've got to take it both ways, you know? 261 00:12:40,507 --> 00:12:42,455 But I have great faith because -- 262 00:12:42,479 --> 00:12:44,356 if you've been in sports like I have -- 263 00:12:45,396 --> 00:12:47,029 every generation gets better. 264 00:12:47,053 --> 00:12:48,338 It's a fact. 265 00:12:48,362 --> 00:12:52,371 With the Women's Sports Foundation being the advocates for Title IX still, 266 00:12:52,395 --> 00:12:55,865 because we're trying to keep protecting the law because it's always -- 267 00:12:55,889 --> 00:12:57,817 it's in a tenuous position always -- 268 00:12:57,841 --> 00:12:59,721 so we really are concerned, 269 00:12:59,745 --> 00:13:01,436 and we do a lot of research. 270 00:13:01,460 --> 00:13:03,134 That's very important to us. 271 00:13:03,158 --> 00:13:05,383 And I want to hear from people. 272 00:13:05,407 --> 00:13:10,856 But we really have to protect what Title IX stands for worldwide. 273 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:15,646 And you heard President Carter talk about how Title IX is protected. 274 00:13:16,598 --> 00:13:20,192 And do you know that every single lawsuit 275 00:13:20,216 --> 00:13:23,734 that girls, at least in sports, have gone up against -- 276 00:13:23,758 --> 00:13:26,167 whatever institutions -- 277 00:13:26,191 --> 00:13:27,592 has won? 278 00:13:27,616 --> 00:13:29,747 Title IX is there to protect us. 279 00:13:30,199 --> 00:13:31,788 And it is amazing. 280 00:13:31,812 --> 00:13:35,404 But we still have to get the hearts and minds -- 281 00:13:35,812 --> 00:13:38,549 the hearts and minds to match the legislation is huge. 282 00:13:38,573 --> 00:13:40,656 PM: So what gets you up every morning? 283 00:13:40,680 --> 00:13:43,112 What keeps you sustaining your work, 284 00:13:43,136 --> 00:13:46,334 sustaining the fight for equality, extending it, 285 00:13:46,358 --> 00:13:49,789 always exploring new areas, trying to find new ways ... ? 286 00:13:49,813 --> 00:13:53,583 BJK: Well, I always drove my parents crazy because I was always the curious one. 287 00:13:54,678 --> 00:13:56,422 I'm highly motivated. 288 00:13:56,446 --> 00:14:00,225 My younger brother was a Major League Baseball player. 289 00:14:00,745 --> 00:14:03,296 My poor parents did not care if we were any good, 290 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:04,562 (Laughter) 291 00:14:04,586 --> 00:14:07,325 And we just, we drove them crazy because we pushed, 292 00:14:07,349 --> 00:14:09,351 we pushed because we wanted to be the best. 293 00:14:09,735 --> 00:14:14,035 And, I really -- 294 00:14:14,059 --> 00:14:17,413 I think it's because of what I'm hearing today at TED Talks, 295 00:14:17,858 --> 00:14:21,514 I think to listen to these different women, 296 00:14:21,538 --> 00:14:23,018 to listen to different people, 297 00:14:23,042 --> 00:14:24,824 to listen to President Carter. 298 00:14:24,848 --> 00:14:26,288 He's 90 years old, by the way, 299 00:14:26,312 --> 00:14:29,784 and he we was throwing these figures out that I would never -- 300 00:14:29,808 --> 00:14:30,962 I'd have to go, 301 00:14:30,986 --> 00:14:34,277 "Excuse me, wait a minute, I need to get a list out of these figures." 302 00:14:34,301 --> 00:14:36,978 He was rattling off -- I mean, that's amazing, I'm sorry. 303 00:14:37,931 --> 00:14:39,329 PM: He's an amazing man. 304 00:14:39,353 --> 00:14:42,061 (Applause) 305 00:14:42,085 --> 00:14:45,477 BJK: And then you're going to have President Mary Robinson, 306 00:14:45,501 --> 00:14:47,386 who's a former president -- 307 00:14:47,410 --> 00:14:52,292 Thank you, Irish! 62 percent! LGBTQ! Yes! 308 00:14:52,316 --> 00:14:53,470 (Applause) 309 00:14:53,494 --> 00:14:56,911 Congress is voting in June on same-sex marriage, 310 00:14:56,935 --> 00:15:00,871 so these are things that for some people are very hard to hear. 311 00:15:00,895 --> 00:15:03,676 But always remember, every one of us is an individual, 312 00:15:03,700 --> 00:15:06,192 a human being with a beating heart, who cares 313 00:15:06,968 --> 00:15:09,408 and wants to live their authentic life. 314 00:15:10,306 --> 00:15:13,905 OK? You don't have to agree with somebody, but everyone has the opportunity. 315 00:15:15,824 --> 00:15:18,999 I think we all have an obligation 316 00:15:19,023 --> 00:15:23,887 to continue to keep moving the needle forward, always. 317 00:15:23,911 --> 00:15:25,909 And these people have been so inspiring. 318 00:15:26,775 --> 00:15:27,926 Everyone matters. 319 00:15:27,950 --> 00:15:29,764 And every one of you is an influencer. 320 00:15:29,788 --> 00:15:33,268 You out there listening, out there in the world -- plus the people here -- 321 00:15:33,292 --> 00:15:35,007 every single person's an influencer. 322 00:15:35,032 --> 00:15:37,579 Never, ever forget that. OK? 323 00:15:37,603 --> 00:15:39,923 So don't ever give up on yourself. 324 00:15:40,622 --> 00:15:42,900 PM: Billie, you have been an inspiration for us. 325 00:15:42,924 --> 00:15:44,075 BJK: Thanks, Pat! 326 00:15:44,099 --> 00:15:47,913 (Applause) 327 00:15:47,937 --> 00:15:49,088 Thanks, TED! 328 00:15:49,112 --> 00:15:51,104 (Applause) 329 00:15:51,128 --> 00:15:52,278 Thanks a lot!