1 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:12,380 [Sally Mann: "The Two Virginias"] 2 00:00:27,860 --> 00:00:30,900 My parents couldn't agree on where to live. 3 00:00:31,340 --> 00:00:33,720 My mother found the South unbearable. 4 00:00:35,260 --> 00:00:36,920 [May 11, 2000] Well, they went to New Orleans 5 00:00:36,930 --> 00:00:38,090 [May 11, 2000] as soon as they were married, 6 00:00:38,090 --> 00:00:39,450 [May 11, 2000] and she was miserable. 7 00:00:40,149 --> 00:00:41,540 She was 98 pounds. 8 00:00:41,540 --> 00:00:43,500 She was sleeping on the floor in a sweat. 9 00:00:43,500 --> 00:00:45,940 She was living off Coca-Colas. 10 00:00:47,219 --> 00:00:49,019 So they just looked at a map, 11 00:00:49,019 --> 00:00:50,879 and they split the difference between New Orleans-- 12 00:00:50,879 --> 00:00:53,269 where my father was in heaven-- 13 00:00:53,269 --> 00:00:55,629 and Boston, and found Charlottesville, 14 00:00:55,629 --> 00:00:58,169 and then they found Lexington. 15 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,380 And then they found this farm. 16 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:09,600 [Lexington, Virginia] 17 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,120 There are a number of things that set Southern artists apart 18 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:24,360 from anyone else. 19 00:01:27,070 --> 00:01:28,790 Their love of the past 20 00:01:28,790 --> 00:01:31,370 and their susceptibility to myth. 21 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:37,960 And their willingness to experiment with romanticism. 22 00:01:38,950 --> 00:01:40,250 Their obsession with place 23 00:01:40,250 --> 00:01:43,530 and their obsession with family. 24 00:01:43,990 --> 00:01:44,950 My parents were important, 25 00:01:44,950 --> 00:01:50,570 but Virginia may have been the single most important person in my life. 26 00:01:50,570 --> 00:01:52,630 She's an extraordinary woman. 27 00:01:53,340 --> 00:01:54,960 She was my family. 28 00:01:57,100 --> 00:01:58,740 I was raised by Virginia, 29 00:01:58,740 --> 00:02:02,760 [Virginia & Sally] who worked for my parents for 30 years. 30 00:02:03,750 --> 00:02:06,930 Virginia Carter was born right down the road 31 00:02:06,930 --> 00:02:11,150 and lived in a black community of freed slaves called Buck Hill, 32 00:02:11,150 --> 00:02:13,790 and married very young and had five children. 33 00:02:13,790 --> 00:02:17,030 And, remarkably, with what she earned, 34 00:02:17,030 --> 00:02:19,660 sent all five children away to boarding school. 35 00:02:19,660 --> 00:02:23,580 Because, of course, you didn't have public school for black children 36 00:02:23,590 --> 00:02:25,530 here in Virginia. 37 00:02:25,860 --> 00:02:28,960 And then she sent every one of them through college. 38 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,640 That's a remarkable woman-- 39 00:02:32,640 --> 00:02:34,380 she's just breathtaking. 40 00:02:34,380 --> 00:02:35,960 And compassionate, and warm, 41 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:37,520 and big, and generous, 42 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,800 and embraced us in a way... 43 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:41,070 [SIGHS] 44 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:50,300 [VIRGINIA MANN] 45 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:51,880 [VIRGINIA MANN] Thanks, mom. 46 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:53,780 [SALLY MANN] Take a picture of you? 47 00:02:53,780 --> 00:02:54,820 [VIRGINA] No, thanks. 48 00:02:56,140 --> 00:02:58,300 [SALLY] This is good. What is this thing? 49 00:02:58,300 --> 00:02:59,400 Do that again. 50 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:00,800 Good girl! [LAUGHS] 51 00:03:01,740 --> 00:03:05,900 ["The Two Virginas" (1988–1991)] 52 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:14,960 Going to church with Virginia was an ecstatic moment. 53 00:03:15,500 --> 00:03:19,300 First of all, you'd have to get dressed up, which we didn't do. 54 00:03:19,620 --> 00:03:22,260 [Easter Sunday, 1956] We didn't get dressed up in our family. 55 00:03:22,270 --> 00:03:24,290 We didn't go to church. 56 00:03:24,860 --> 00:03:27,540 She'd get us all dressed up and we'd go. 57 00:03:27,540 --> 00:03:30,099 And the singing, and the clapping... 58 00:03:30,099 --> 00:03:31,260 it's like a great tide. 59 00:03:31,260 --> 00:03:33,090 You felt like you were roiled around 60 00:03:33,090 --> 00:03:36,050 and in waves of emotion and song 61 00:03:37,060 --> 00:03:38,720 and feeling. 62 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:44,180 When I think of the hardships in her life 63 00:03:44,180 --> 00:03:46,300 and the inequities, 64 00:03:46,300 --> 00:03:49,599 it's astonishing that she could love three white children 65 00:03:49,599 --> 00:03:52,279 who didn't have a clue. 66 00:03:58,690 --> 00:04:05,690 [Virginia Franklin Carter, 1894–1994]