Unforgiveness is an enemy that masks itself as a friend.
What do I mean?
It pretends to be your friend by placing you at the centre of attention,
so that while you're busy focusing on the wrong done to you,
licking your wounds, nursing self-pity, whilst you are busy doing that,
unforgiveness is busy stabbing you in the back -
stealing your time,
robbing your joy,
polluting your peace,
stoking division in your family,
reliving past pain.
Unforgiveness is not your friend.
It may temporarily satisfy your desire for attention but it cannot solve your problem.