1 00:00:13,477 --> 00:00:16,088 Five years ago, I moved to a remote village 2 00:00:16,088 --> 00:00:18,499 in South West Java, Indonesia. 3 00:00:19,053 --> 00:00:23,183 imagine, a quiet fishing village 4 00:00:23,183 --> 00:00:27,907 surrounded by seas of rice fields and black sand beaches. 5 00:00:28,417 --> 00:00:32,375 Imagine a place that smells like salt and tastes like sugar, 6 00:00:33,015 --> 00:00:35,336 a place where time slows 7 00:00:35,336 --> 00:00:40,073 and days roll languidly one into another. 8 00:00:40,823 --> 00:00:42,875 Electricity there was unpredictable, 9 00:00:42,875 --> 00:00:45,533 we had no television, no air conditioning, 10 00:00:45,533 --> 00:00:48,533 no hot water, no oven, no washing machine, 11 00:00:49,103 --> 00:00:51,918 I used to walk the long muddy path to the well, 12 00:00:51,918 --> 00:00:54,759 where local women taught me how to wash my clothes, 13 00:00:55,799 --> 00:00:59,077 those same women taught me how to harvest rice, 14 00:00:59,077 --> 00:01:03,629 we stood side by side, our legs sunk in the thick black mud, 15 00:01:03,629 --> 00:01:05,380 sickle in hand. 16 00:01:06,863 --> 00:01:11,528 I worked alongside the villagers, I made beautiful friendships, 17 00:01:12,418 --> 00:01:14,660 I was adopted by a local family, 18 00:01:15,110 --> 00:01:17,350 I lived for a long time there with very little, 19 00:01:17,350 --> 00:01:20,361 yet I felt like I lacked nothing. 20 00:01:21,271 --> 00:01:23,962 For the first time in my life, 21 00:01:24,932 --> 00:01:27,541 I felt like I had community. 22 00:01:28,578 --> 00:01:31,117 I fell in love with a local man and I got married, 23 00:01:31,687 --> 00:01:33,007 we had a baby, 24 00:01:33,477 --> 00:01:37,408 and for a while, we lived that simple village life. 25 00:01:38,835 --> 00:01:40,798 But things changed. 26 00:01:41,839 --> 00:01:45,033 In the last year I was there things became very difficult, 27 00:01:46,278 --> 00:01:48,666 my best friend tragically died, 28 00:01:48,666 --> 00:01:51,086 and my marriage failed. 29 00:01:51,796 --> 00:01:54,079 I returned home to Australia. 30 00:01:55,088 --> 00:01:58,363 It was two years ago now, and when I returned home 31 00:01:58,363 --> 00:02:02,039 I wanted to live in Perth, the city I had grown up in, 32 00:02:02,039 --> 00:02:03,993 but I couldn't afford it, 33 00:02:03,993 --> 00:02:07,222 so I moved to a remote regional town. 34 00:02:08,388 --> 00:02:13,796 In Indonesia, my daily life had been steeped in intense relationships. 35 00:02:13,796 --> 00:02:17,107 I had lived with little, but I had lacked nothing. 36 00:02:17,107 --> 00:02:21,045 Now, I was a single isolated mother in a new place, 37 00:02:21,465 --> 00:02:24,033 and I had access to everything, 38 00:02:24,748 --> 00:02:27,189 but I lacked what I needed most: 39 00:02:27,773 --> 00:02:33,685 Connection, belonging, community. 40 00:02:34,465 --> 00:02:37,328 So, I went in search of people, 41 00:02:37,328 --> 00:02:39,283 I went to parks and coffee shops, 42 00:02:39,283 --> 00:02:40,867 but more than anything, 43 00:02:41,533 --> 00:02:43,205 I went to the shopping malls, 44 00:02:43,205 --> 00:02:46,117 because in Australia, that is where the people are, 45 00:02:47,817 --> 00:02:50,520 I wasn't there because I wanted to shop, 46 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:54,583 I was there because I didn't want to be alone! 47 00:02:55,985 --> 00:02:57,901 And it happened on Christmas eve, 48 00:02:57,901 --> 00:03:02,535 I was shopping in a big department store that was packed full of people, 49 00:03:02,535 --> 00:03:06,686 there was a constant stream of jingles about joy and happiness, 50 00:03:06,686 --> 00:03:11,798 yet somehow, everywhere I looked everyone looked miserable. 51 00:03:12,599 --> 00:03:15,931 People were pushing trolleys piled high full of plastic junk, 52 00:03:15,931 --> 00:03:18,451 I watched these two people pushed past each other 53 00:03:18,451 --> 00:03:21,446 to grab at the last of the gaudy Christmas crackers. 54 00:03:23,106 --> 00:03:25,108 I was horrified. 55 00:03:25,750 --> 00:03:29,773 I looked at myself, I looked at my baby, I looked at my trolley 56 00:03:29,773 --> 00:03:34,233 and I realized that somehow I had become a part of this. 57 00:03:35,630 --> 00:03:37,907 I was disgusted in myself. 58 00:03:39,126 --> 00:03:40,525 So I stepped out of the queue 59 00:03:40,525 --> 00:03:43,365 and I traced my way back through the labyrinth of aisles, 60 00:03:43,365 --> 00:03:48,282 and I returned every single item to its place. 61 00:03:49,685 --> 00:03:53,530 It was at that moment that the "nothing new" project was born. 62 00:03:53,530 --> 00:03:56,281 I decided I would pay it back on what I would buy, 63 00:03:56,281 --> 00:04:00,536 in fact, I decided I would buy nothing new for 12 months, 64 00:04:00,536 --> 00:04:01,864 except the necessities. 65 00:04:03,402 --> 00:04:06,882 Could it be done? I wasn't sure. 66 00:04:06,882 --> 00:04:09,392 I started by sharing my project online, 67 00:04:09,392 --> 00:04:12,310 everyone had something to say about it at first. 68 00:04:12,310 --> 00:04:14,479 Some people were really enthusiastic, 69 00:04:14,479 --> 00:04:17,653 though constantly told me they couldn't possibly do it. 70 00:04:17,653 --> 00:04:22,271 Other people were curious, many were doubtful. 71 00:04:22,271 --> 00:04:28,397 You know, quite a number of people took my project as a personal attack, 72 00:04:28,397 --> 00:04:31,713 and instantly defended their own spending. 73 00:04:32,761 --> 00:04:34,975 Everyone thought it would be difficult, 74 00:04:34,975 --> 00:04:36,684 so did I! 75 00:04:37,685 --> 00:04:39,262 But it wasn't. 76 00:04:40,424 --> 00:04:44,350 First I had to get over the fact that my clothes did get a few holes, 77 00:04:44,350 --> 00:04:47,415 and the soles of my sandals were stuck on with blu-tack, 78 00:04:47,415 --> 00:04:52,161 but after that, I realized that my value as a human being 79 00:04:52,161 --> 00:04:56,249 has absolutely nothing to do with what I own or what I wear. 80 00:04:57,136 --> 00:05:00,210 I realized by living with less of what we don't need, 81 00:05:00,210 --> 00:05:04,440 we make all of this space for the things that we do. 82 00:05:05,485 --> 00:05:07,612 But what do we need? 83 00:05:08,371 --> 00:05:10,880 Now, we all know that we can live happily 84 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,200 without designer clothes and constant upgrades, 85 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:14,390 we know this. 86 00:05:15,416 --> 00:05:20,007 But what we can't live without is each other. 87 00:05:20,830 --> 00:05:25,512 At the beginning of this project, I was an isolated single mother 88 00:05:25,512 --> 00:05:28,442 in a new place with very few friends, 89 00:05:28,442 --> 00:05:29,760 and now? 90 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,159 Now I have community. 91 00:05:32,159 --> 00:05:35,106 By taking away my ability to buy, 92 00:05:35,106 --> 00:05:37,727 I had to step out of my comfort zone, 93 00:05:37,727 --> 00:05:41,988 I had to borrow, and when I borrowed, I also lent. 94 00:05:41,988 --> 00:05:47,502 I started exchanging my skills and trading what I had for what I needed. 95 00:05:48,974 --> 00:05:52,778 I took everything in my home that I no longer used 96 00:05:52,778 --> 00:05:55,741 and I gave it to someone who would use it. 97 00:05:55,741 --> 00:05:59,805 I exchanged my skills as a photographer for fresh organic produce. 98 00:06:01,345 --> 00:06:04,631 Simple things like organizing a pay-what-you-want garage sale 99 00:06:04,631 --> 00:06:09,274 became this amazing opportunity to connect with people. 100 00:06:09,274 --> 00:06:12,632 People I hardly knew came and brought coffee, 101 00:06:12,632 --> 00:06:16,172 kids came and played, everyone stayed longer than they needed. 102 00:06:16,752 --> 00:06:19,602 I watched these strangers sat in my front yard 103 00:06:19,602 --> 00:06:22,220 and just talked to each other over a cuppa. 104 00:06:24,731 --> 00:06:27,949 At about six months into the project, 105 00:06:27,949 --> 00:06:30,702 I decided to challenge myself further. 106 00:06:32,056 --> 00:06:34,357 My daughter and I moved out of our rental home, 107 00:06:34,357 --> 00:06:37,282 and we started experimenting with transitional accommodations, 108 00:06:37,282 --> 00:06:39,082 such as house-sitting and wwoofing. 109 00:06:40,268 --> 00:06:43,162 We went and lived for a while on a beautiful organic farm, 110 00:06:44,138 --> 00:06:46,294 we helped with the mandarin harvest, 111 00:06:46,294 --> 00:06:49,261 we painted, we baked, we fed chickens, 112 00:06:49,261 --> 00:06:52,445 and through this very simple transaction, 113 00:06:52,445 --> 00:06:55,170 we connected with some of the most beautiful people 114 00:06:55,170 --> 00:06:58,188 that I have ever had the opportunity to meet. 115 00:07:00,105 --> 00:07:02,833 At first, I thought the "nothing new project" 116 00:07:02,833 --> 00:07:05,277 was a kind of personal activism, 117 00:07:05,277 --> 00:07:08,819 a stand against the culture of consumerism and waste, 118 00:07:10,386 --> 00:07:15,946 but as it turned out, this project, it was about something much bigger, 119 00:07:20,564 --> 00:07:24,892 it really was about something so much bigger. 120 00:07:24,892 --> 00:07:29,889 I know that this project, that this lifestyle, 121 00:07:29,889 --> 00:07:32,027 it's not for everyone. 122 00:07:32,027 --> 00:07:35,278 But what I have learned is something that is valuable for all of us, 123 00:07:35,278 --> 00:07:37,643 regardless of the way we live our lives. 124 00:07:38,543 --> 00:07:42,087 I have learned the value of human connection. 125 00:07:42,917 --> 00:07:45,433 I have learned that the opportunity we have every day 126 00:07:45,433 --> 00:07:48,059 to make real human relationships 127 00:07:48,059 --> 00:07:52,450 is far more valuable than anything we could possibly buy. 128 00:07:53,644 --> 00:07:58,946 In Indonesia, my life was steeped in relationships: 129 00:07:58,946 --> 00:08:01,340 you could find community in the market place 130 00:08:01,340 --> 00:08:05,868 where every transaction was an opportunity for conversation. 131 00:08:07,073 --> 00:08:10,765 Here in Australia, our market places are large, sterile malls, 132 00:08:10,765 --> 00:08:13,392 where there is plenty of transactions, 133 00:08:14,322 --> 00:08:15,855 but no community. 134 00:08:16,590 --> 00:08:21,845 Through this project, I have learned that every day, we have a choice: 135 00:08:21,845 --> 00:08:25,542 we can choose the kind of world we want to live in, 136 00:08:25,542 --> 00:08:29,670 we can choose to prioritize product or people. 137 00:08:30,460 --> 00:08:32,924 If we continue to prioritize product, 138 00:08:32,924 --> 00:08:36,690 we will surely destroy the social fabric of our communities. 139 00:08:37,980 --> 00:08:41,551 We all know that the way that we live right now is not sustainable. 140 00:08:41,551 --> 00:08:44,996 We all know that we need an alternative. 141 00:08:45,507 --> 00:08:47,880 The alternative I propose, I call 142 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,625 "the economy of human connection", 143 00:08:50,625 --> 00:08:53,503 where people come first, 144 00:08:53,503 --> 00:08:56,656 where communities come before capital gain, 145 00:08:56,656 --> 00:08:59,748 where our human need to consume 146 00:08:59,748 --> 00:09:04,688 serves our greater need for community and for connection. 147 00:09:05,793 --> 00:09:08,184 But where can you start? 148 00:09:08,884 --> 00:09:10,556 You just start where it's simple. 149 00:09:10,556 --> 00:09:13,396 You can start by getting to know your neighbors, 150 00:09:13,396 --> 00:09:15,173 by giving someone a lift to work, 151 00:09:15,445 --> 00:09:19,246 you can start by giving some of your time to a community project, 152 00:09:19,246 --> 00:09:22,456 or to a local school, or to a retirement home, 153 00:09:22,456 --> 00:09:24,244 organize a street party, 154 00:09:24,527 --> 00:09:25,908 cook someone a meal, 155 00:09:26,729 --> 00:09:29,008 trust each other, 156 00:09:29,175 --> 00:09:33,185 when you trust in the good in people unequivocally, 157 00:09:33,185 --> 00:09:37,833 you shine a light on the good that already exists within them. 158 00:09:38,817 --> 00:09:42,043 Buy locally produced whenever possible, 159 00:09:42,043 --> 00:09:46,268 take an extra five minutes to talk to the people who grow what you eat, 160 00:09:46,268 --> 00:09:47,718 or make what you buy, 161 00:09:47,730 --> 00:09:52,822 make every transaction an opportunity for connection. 162 00:09:56,332 --> 00:09:58,648 When we extend ourselves, 163 00:09:59,288 --> 00:10:02,471 when we work for the benefit of each other, 164 00:10:02,471 --> 00:10:04,408 when we share what we have, 165 00:10:04,408 --> 00:10:06,841 we create communities. 166 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:14,436 Together we have the power to make great and lasting social change. 167 00:10:14,436 --> 00:10:19,593 Together we have the power to demand a more human centered economy 168 00:10:19,593 --> 00:10:23,523 that is driven by the people for the people, 169 00:10:24,423 --> 00:10:27,997 the economy of human connection. 170 00:10:29,007 --> 00:10:29,832 Thank you. 171 00:10:29,832 --> 00:10:33,964 (Applause)