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Let's first recap last episode.
Nana gave Tianqi the model car.
Those two were really letting loose in that playroom.
-Lovey-dovey. -Touchy feely.
And then at the campsite, they shared a slice of pizza, and she wiped his "butt".
Wiping his mouth is one thing but why did she say "butt"?
For real, ugh.
It was their first time out as a group, the whole vibe was great.
Our Mr. CEO Liu went the extra mile, he helped everyone else
let down their hair a bit.
They celebrated Tianqi's and Binshen's birthdays.
Binshen announced he was leaving.
And everyone cried so hard.
-Especially Yujie. -It's so sad.
This episode, we'll see Binshen leave. Will he be able to leave without a hitch?
Is there a chance he'll stay?
-Who knows? -Someone might change his mind.
Maybe. Let's watch.
-She'll say: Don't leave! He'll say: ok. -He never really meant to leave.
Episode 11, Week 6 "When We Meet Again"
It's okay, I've got it.
[panelist] He really is leaving.
-Binshen is leaving. -I'm leaving now.
-Don't cry. -I'm not crying!
You guys look so devastated.
It's not like we'll never see each other again.
By the time
the Asia Cup begins, you can all come and watch the game.
Ok.
Can I see some smiles?
I'm going now.
Take care.
I'm going.
Go on.
[panelist] If they hug they won't let go.
Bye bye.
I'm leaving now.
Take care of yourself!
Where's your car?
On its way.
I wanted to say that
the way I handled things,
my emotions and feelings, as well as
the things with you and Carmon
I didn't handle that well.
It was pretty immature.
It's really not a big deal anymore.
I'm okay.
I've sorted it out with myself, my feelings.
I get where you're coming from.
I totally understand you, actually.
I, um...
I want to wish you well in the Asia Cup,
and if you need anything just let me know.
And,
well,
I have something for you.
-What is it? -Let me find it.
-I'm looking. -Okay I won't look.
It's a necklace.
You were just wearing this?
If you don't want it, you don't have to...
-I do. -Here you go.
It'll be for good luck, because I've worn it.
It's just to wish you first place in the cup.
-Right. -Good luck.
-You're the lucky charm? -Yep.
"Lucky girl".
Then I'll consider this,
I'll consider it my birthday present.
You could say that.
I could say that? So you mean there's something else for me?
This is enough.
-Happy Birthday. -Great.
I'm keeping it.
Best of luck! You should go.
I'm going.
[panelist] Is that really it?
[panelist] Crap, he's getting in the car.
[Bin-- I'm so glad we met. One day when you start own business, let
me know, I'll do all I can to help! Hope we can stay friends forever, my Brother!]
[Bin: If I do need help, hope you don't think I'm a pain!]
Come in.
Hello.
Hi.
Were you feeling
kind of down just now?
Binshen,
when he said goodbye to you, the last thing he said was that
he didn't want to burden you.
So how do I put this...
I feel like he's always giving off warmth, he gives so much to all of us.
Yeah, he does.
But when I went to see him off today,
I really
I really felt so bad.
I felt bad about it too.
I think about how we all met, then finally everyone got
so close to each other,
and having to say goodbye so soon, of course it's going to be hard.
But I believe
our friendship will go on for a long time.
[panelist] These two -- the Benevolent Society.
-Don't cry! -It's fine.
-Are you not... -Yesterday's tears are coming out today!
You're a "tsundere" lion, [T/N: a "tough" character trope]
so don't cry over this.
It's okay.
I just wanted to be alone for a while.
But I think it could help you to talk it out.
You might feel a little better.
We're all a big family here.
We can share each other's joy and also share our pain.
Long time no see. I have so much to tell you.
What's going on?
So in this program I'm in, there's this guy called Binshen
and...he's been really good to me.
And I have a crush on him too.
And?
And then,
he confessed to me the other day.
But I turned him down.
Why?
So there's this other girl in the house. He did something with her that I thought
he really botched. And I couldn't say yes to him then and there.
So you're giving up?
I don't know.
I think at least right now, this idea of being together...
isn't something we can do.
Because he's playing in the Asia Cup.
I don't want to distract him while
he's training.
Such a pity. You don't feel like it's a pity?
-Of course. -Yeah.
You finally met someone who you like, and he likes you back,
and giving him up just because he maybe didn't think things through.
Walking out because of one incident,
I don't think it's worth it.
He's already gone.
But I think honestly
he left because of me.
I rejected him, that's a big reason he left.
It's okay.
Then what are you going to do now?
I was thinking maybe next year
I should go back to school.
But I really don't want to leave.
But my time's coming up, so I do need to face the future.
But the problem is I'm finding it hard to let go.
You don't want to let go, we don't want to let you go either.
Nor does Binshen.
Binshen would find it hard too.
He found it hard, but did it anyway.
But are you willing to let go of him?
Have some juice.
I'm back.
What are you doing?
You made this for me?
-What do you think? -Not bad.
Isn't this the one I talked about the other day?
Yes.
I made these meatballs myself.
You worked so hard.
I don't... I don’t even know where to start.
Let me tell you.
This one's fried bean paste noodles, which you already know.
Today these are your longevity noodles.
Then mushroom scrambled eggs, didn't you say you like mushrooms?
And, you were talking the other day about meatball...
soup.
[panelist] These two, a match made in heaven.
Thank you.
Tuck in.
This feels too precious to eat.
I'll start with this.
Don't be so extra.
Delicious.
Wait a sec, let me try it first.
Let me try.
It might be a bit salty. I've never made this before.
-It's my first time. -Learning on-the-spot.
Yep.
It's still pretty salty.
It's okay, it's delicious.
I like strong flavors. I like things salty.
Tasty.
[panelist] Tasty. Tasty, tasty!
[panelist] Anything you make is good. I would eat anything.
I'm so exhausted from making you all this.
-I'll make it for you next time. -If I make it, it's tasty.
Can't say the same about yours.
It becomes a matter of edibility with you.
It's a little cold.
Only a little.
-It's okay. -Should I blanch it again for you?
I'll do it.
Let me do it.
Just tell me how. Do you just pour boiling water over it?
One quick rinse should be enough.
So what has been your most memorable birthday so far?
The most memorable...
Did anyone ever give you a surprise or anything like that?
I don't remember any. Maybe there hasn't been one.
So you don't usually celebrate birthdays?
I would go out for it, that's all. Never any surprises.
Wait. Let it soak a bit.
Ok.
So, Auntie, does she usually celebrate your birthday?
My mom?
No, she doesn't.
Auntie doesn't celebrate your birthday?
She would say,
She says that my birthday reminds her of her day of suffering,
so she doesn't celebrate.
My mom once said the same thing to me.
-Noodles ready? -Maybe.
Try it, are they warm now?
How is it?
Delicious.
Yesterday you asked me if I'd gotten you a birthday present.
Then I said I didn't, right?
How did you feel then?
How did I feel?
I just thought...
Maybe you're not the type that cares a lot about these things.
Were you disappointed?
Teeny tiny disappointment.
Teeny tiny?
This small?
Did you almost cry?
No.
I'm used to it.
It's okay, if we can some time we'll celebrate your birthday, ok?
[panelist] Celebrate your birthday sometime?
So generous?
[panelist] Let's find some time to grab a meal together.
Like that?
[panelist] Find time to celebrate?
[panelist] How would you say it?
[panelist] Like: We'll celebrate your birthday every year from now on.
Correct.
Let's go watch a movie, you full?
I'm full.
What should we watch?
-What kind of movie? -Something we've already seen.
[panelist] So much effort.
[panelist] Isn't this what a guy would do for a girl?
[panelist] Girls love to do these.
[panelist] But Tianqi IS a little girl.
Are you happy?
This is so birthday-y.
Happy?
I've never had a birthday that's so birthday-like.
Aren't we making up for all your losses?
[panelist] I think this calls for a hug.
[panelist] Should be together by now.
[panelist] It's almost the right moment now.
[panelist] Gotta hug, now.
Are you happy?
You...
-Do you want some water? -Yeah, I'd like some.
Then wait for me. I'll go fetch some water.
[panelist] Why does she always need water in this room?
[panelist] She's embarrassed.
[panelist] Can we put some water in this room already?
Happy Birthday to you,
Happy birthday to Tianqi!
-Thank you thank you. -Happy Birthday.
Thank you thank you.
-This is your real birthday present. -I can see that.
This is,
how did this get rubbed off?
-Where? -Here.
This is what I made for you today, by myself.
So, the cake, the decoration and the color
I made everything myself.
There's a pig here too. That pig is you, right?
It's you!
Quick, quick.
Time to make a wish.
Make another wish?
You're pretty lucky this year, you've made a lot of wishes.
Make the wish, then blow the candles.
Do you blow the candles after?
-Yes. -Ok.
Are you ready?
Happy Birthday to you.
Happy Birthday!
Thank you.
-Are you happy? -I'm happy.
[panelist] Hug, hug, hug.
I'll thank you with a hug.
[panelist] It's coming.
This is too cute.
Thank you.
This is the only one in the entire world. It's completely unique.
I wanted to use your birthday as an opportunity to tell you
that in Shanghai, you're not alone.
When you're working hard, you still have me, and all of us
we'll be here for you like your family.
Maybe you haven't had a proper birthday celebration before.
But this time, you "Godmother" is making it up for you.
And, just like this sentence I wrote to you
I hope that what you wished for
will come true.
I still hope we can work hard together. Do great things together.
Happy Birthday.
Thank you.
Have some.
-Delicious. -How is it?
Is it okay?
It's so delicious.
-She really likes acting like a mom. -I hate that.
Those things she says, like: "Mommy cooks for you".
"Godmother" whatever. It completely spoils the mood.
That's right. It was so good up to then.
The she said that and it undid everything.
"Godmother" just doesn't work.
Can we stop saying that, okay?
She might think what Tianqi needs is maternal love.
Even if that's true, you shouldn't put yourself in that position.
That's not right.
She may want to lighten the atmosphere.
But I think that hug Tianqi gave to Nana...
You do it. It's full of maternal love.
Like this.
Gotta pat her once or twice. Like this.
But he patted her like this.
Normally it should be like this. Like this, right?
You're still patting, why are you still patting?
Don't pat her, just hug!
Let's try it without the pat.
-Yes, almost there. -Hold the head.
-This is almost it. -Yes, like that.
So the way that girl entered into the hug
made it impossible for him to do a normal hug.
-Yeah. -Tianqi did this.
But she was like that, yeah.
-That means Nana was still-- -Still feeling shy.
-No, not shy. -She doesn't want to make it romantic.
I think that's why.
But she was enjoying the vibe.
She likes their flirtation.
These two love the flirty dynamic.
They don't want to take the next step.
But they're both enjoying the process.
Not necessarily. I think what she said before still applies here.
"I like you very much, but it's not the right time."
Yeah, it's not the right time.
She wants to tell him he's not alone in Shanghai, he has a family here.
And his "Godmother".
Her exact words were,
"You're not alone, you have me."
Then she added "And you have all of us".
If she didn't add, "You have all of us",
then I think that would mean something.
Yes, but she said something about us, everyone.
I think she's distancing herself.
So when Tianqi saw that,
he also said, "I've never had a birthday that's so much like a birthday."
He got emotional like a little kid,
probably because the way he grew up, he really never had a birthday
that someone put so much effort into.
And so he completely melted.
But he's a lucky guy. If you think about it,
this entire time he was celebrated, apart from a little confession
on his part, he did absolutely nothing,
It was all her! This is someone who rejected him!
She's so good to him. Imagine how good she'd be if they were dating.
But he's one of those people who are born to be pampered.
Wherever he goes, people will dote on him.
I think you'e right.
The moment this kid comes home,
there's dinner ready on the table for him.
And the girl goes, "Is it too salty?"
What did he do? Just eat, and say a few words. "It's tasty" or something.
That's it. In this world, some people just thrive on doing things for others.
But when they do things, they need people to appreciate their labor.
That makes the work itself fulfilling.
If he didn't appreciate her, then it wouldn't work.
Her work wouldn't have the same value.
So when two people like this come together, they're a perfect fit.
I think she has this in her, this drive to look after people.
She likes taking care of people.
And then she happens to meet someone like Tianqi, and they go so well together.
So where can I find myself someone like that?
There's one of them right here -- Curry.
He loves doing things.
When Binshen left, he cried harder than Jin Yujie.
Actually, I was really moved by that scene.
Carmon and Curry care about others so much, and when they talked,
they talked about Binshen and said: "Look, he's still thinking about us".
And when Curry cried, his tears were speaking volumes.
I think the two of them just understood each other.
I don't think he made himself clear at all. He said it implicitly.
But Carmon understood straight away. They silently got to the same page.
Those two should be together. I think it would work.
-No way. No way. -Why not?
Those two are like the same person.
Yeah. It defeats the point of being in a relationship.
Like dating yourself.
Two very neutral people can't fall in love.
-It won't get off the ground. -They're just good friends.
They'll become good friends and confidantes.
Yujie gave Binshen a necklace.
A necklace she wore, still warm from her body.
She handed it over.
I think it was kind of...
never mind.
Say it, tell us what you think.
- Speak your mind. - It's just not possible to
have everything. She wants both friendship
and love at the same time.
Then when he was leaving, she was still asking,
should I pursue a relationship with him?
If you want everything, you'll end up with nothing.
She deserved that. I'm sorry. That's how I feel.
Life often plays out like this.
Sometimes if you miss one opportunity,
it will never return ever again.
So I personally hope this relationship between them
ends here. It doesn't need to go on.
Yes. She hesitated at the end because she wanted everything.
- Correct. - No! When girls are in this type
of situation, they feel unsure. They have reservations. That makes sense.
I can understand her.
Well then, when she gifted the necklace
to Binshen, what was the message there?
- To give him hope! - "I want to keep a hold on you".
She's giving him hope. "Even if you leave, don't forget about me."
No.
I don't think so. You're making her look too sneaky.
Think about it, she actually liked this guy.
But she didn't want to be the villain.
She couldn't square it with herself, so she decided
not to be with him for the time being. But now he's actually
leaving, and she realizes that she can't let him go.
So what does she do -- she finds something she really treasures
and gives it to him.
I don't agree.
I agree with her view.
Teacher Chen, high-five, Teacher Chen!
Then I agree with yours.
Let's watch the next section.
You're watering plants in winter?
It's not winter yet.
It's getting pretty cold now.
The sun is out today, so I'm watering some flowers.
Erlang, come here!
Erlang, come!
-Good dog. -You're free today?
So good.
I have nothing planned today.
So good.
I want to tell you something。
Is it good or bad?
Um.
Um, I don’t know if it counts as good news or bad news.
Alright.
It's that
I'm leaving. I'm going back to Korea for school.
So I can't be the lead actress in your series anymore.
It's a beautiful day,
and I made a point to ask first if it was good news or bad news.
And it ended up being
a piece of bad news that you say isn't exactly good or bad.
Why are you leaving?
I need to go back for school, it's time.
Because this is just my reality, I can't escape from it.
I've always had to go back, school's always been there.
It's not because of Binshen?
[panelist] The boy I like is gone.
There's no point in staying anymore.
[panelist] That's the correct reading of it.
Don't go.
School has started yet, right?
Why do you have to leave so early?
I've been away for too long. There's a lot to do--
housing, and other stuff,
I have to figure that out. Then there's stuff for the fall,
like forms and things that I need to take care of ahead of time.
And I skipped some classes, so I need to get a head start.
I don't really want to say goodbye to everyone like this,
because you guys are becoming like my family and my best friends
here in Shanghai.
The other day when you sat next to me, I accidentally saw
on your phone, that you've pinned our group chat to the top.
I saw that.
And I actually did the same.
I've gotten used to sharing my everyday life with everyone.
And hanging out, to me it's kind of been my
emotional support, like my support network.
But there's no other way.
Those who are to move on have to get on.
Life moves on regardless.
Stay for a bit longer then.
You're not in a hurry anyway.
I won't leave that soon, I don't think. I think.
Look, we started out with six, it'll be down to four if you leave.
Feels like if you guys leave, it'll be my turn soon.
But you still need to stay here to find love and relationships.
You're not exactly young anymore.
You've come all the way here, why not wait and see who arrives next?
Find yourself a partner or something?
I'm not young -- I am still young, okay?
Make more friends. If you make more female friends,
you'll have more options, right?
Alright?
Fine.
Tell us your departure date in advance.
Ok.
With Binshen's sudden departure, everything feels so uneasy.
The house feels empty.
Yeah, it was so sudden.
- I remember the first day we met. - Oh, yeah!
That image has been on my mind recently.
Yes, I often find myself picturing all of us moving in together on our first day.
Wanna come down for a chat?
Carmon!
When we first met, it still felt like summer. Now it feels like
like an entire season has gone past. We've changed into winter clothes.
It feels like just yesterday when we had barbecue together last time.
- Now we've lost one person. - It happened so abruptly.
We've spent days and nights together for so long,
but
being together means that there will come a time when we part.
Togetherness implies separateness, right?
It's just Binshen who's left, right?
We will see him again.
I'm scared to lose you guys too.
- No, if we leave... - We have to leave together.
- Promise? - Pinky promise.
- We won't. - We won't.
Pinky promise.
I'm so happy to have met you two.
- Me too. - Me too.
Let's not part ways, okay?
We'll stay together, always.
Think about it, we'll witness each other's growth in the future.
- Yes. - Finding a partner...
Witnessing you guys finding the person you love and getting married.
We can also organize everyone to travel together.
We'll bring our significant others. - Yes.
- Awesome! - It's fun to think about.
I will say that, when you get married, we have to be your bridesmaids.
For sure. For sure.
Then I also want to be your childrens' godmother.
I have to start preparing now. I have to get ready to earn a fortune
to give the children gift money.
I'll get the gift money ready.
Then we've settled it. This is our agreement. Alright?
- Ok. - We won't part.
We'll never part.
I'm crying.
- This is female friendship. - They will part ways.
- Of course. - But I'm very envious.
Let's interview the girls. At a younger age, did you often experience this?
If it's communal living, the bond develops very naturally.
Like in that program I recorded before, we were on set together for almost 5 months.
We ate together every day, and we did our laundry together.
For real. When anyone had to leave, we all felt like we would cry.
I think this changes as you age and your life experience grows.
It changes. I had the same experience when I was young. I had a friend.
A few years back, we would curl up together at night and say all of that.
She visited Shanghai recently and lived with me. She only stayed two days.
I told her, "Can you stop talking to me?"
I feel like as I get older, I'm already an auntie now.
I can no longer feel how a teenage girl feels. Those heart-to-heart feelings.
It has to do with how busy you are in life.
Sometimes when you're busy, you talk about this thing that's worrying you once,
and you just don't want to repeat yourself a second or third time.
So in reality, it's not that you don't want to talk to your friends
and open up your heart, it's just that there are too many things on your mind.
Every time you open up your heart, it feels very strenuous.
You'd rather be on your own and stare into the blanket.
Yeah.
I now understand what it's like to be a man.
So with guys.
Actually guys, even when they're young, they rarely talk to each other like this.
- Yeah, I agree. - We'll never part ways.
We are bros.
But it feels really good to have a hug.
Men need to be intoxicated to do that.
When guys get shitfaced, they will definitely hug.
- Yes. - But in the hug, the things they say
are dead simple.
There would never be such intricate planning for the future. None.
They say: "We are bros for life."
- "Bros." - That's it.
But back in the dorms, we'd really ask,
"When you get married, what'll we do?"
"We'll all go to the wedding, and we'll do this and that."
Guys don't. Because guys know that they will never attend it!
So there is only "bros for life".
But Yujie has a problem. When she talked to Curry, she said she was leaving.
She didn't mention it to the girls.
She always values friendship a bit more. Yujie said that many times.
It's not about friendship or love. I think she is someone
who's very driven by emotions. She froze.
She couldn't think in the girl's room. So she decided, better not say it.
But with Curry, she felt like well, I want to say it.
Because Curry makes you feel like you can tell him anything and it's okay.
It's like you can say anything, and nothing will get to him.
And it won't hurt you. "Then I'll try this on him -- I'm leaving now."
But he asked, "When are you leaving?" And Yujie couldn't give him an exact date.
I think leaving the house was an idea that came to her at that very moment.
I find that conversation between them so interesting.
Yujie was having a dramatic moment, she was crying and
she said "I have to leave for Korea!"
And Curry sat there facing away, not looking at her, and he said,
"Don't go".
Very halfheartedly. Then later on he says,
"You better not go."
And towards the end, he says, "When are you going?"
"When are you leaving, I'll see you off."
There's no heartstrings being pulled at all.
So you all think Curry doesn't like Yujie?
- No. - It doesn't look like he does.
He probably treats her as a member that he looks after.
- Yes. - He might feel conflicted.
He wants to work it out. He does treat her well.
It feels like Curry is like "Someone in my company is resigning."
"I'll try to talk them down."
"Can you not resign?"
"I can raise your pay."
"No, you won't?" "Okay, then when are you going?"
It probably was how he felt.
Let's take a look. I don't know if...
I don't think she'll leave yet. Let's see.
- Probably not. - Not this soon.
She won't leave.
[panelist] Is that a newcomer? - What?
A newcomer?
Please come in.
CEO Xing. Your suitcase is ready.
Thanks for your hard work.
No problem. I'll go now.
Okay, no problem.
What projects are you working on recently?
I'm working on an outbound investment.
I want to acquire a company listed in Germany.
- Where is it listed? - The Frankfurt Stock Exchange.
- Frankfurt? - Yes.
- That is Euronext. Right? - Correct.
- Actually, it is part of Euronext. - Yes.
[panelist] The real boss is here. - How've you been?
I'm about to go on a reality show called "Shanghai Share Life".
It's a good opportunity for me to meet a diverse group of young people.
I can get to know their perspectives.
Through it, I'm hoping to find like-minded friends.
Is it like-minded friends or like-minded girls?
[panelist] Here comes another Curry.
Of course it’d be great if fate brings me the chance to meet someone there.
Have a drink.
To a happy journey.
- Thank you. - Cheers.
The purpose of this section was to announce a new person's arrival.
Someone rich.
Not necessarily rich. But he feels like an elite.
This is a grown-up Curry.
I think this is the authentic Curry.
The one we know so far, our Curry, has the personality of a CEO.
but he doesn’t have an established business like a CEO.
Here we have someone with the personality of a CEO.
And probably owns a real business. - Maybe he's also the age of a CEO.
The key is that he said, "I want to meet some young people".
He used the word: "young people".
I think this will be interesting.
Yujie!
Yujie must like him.
Why?
No? Then who do you think would fall for him?
- Isn't Yujie leaving? - She won't leave now.
She won't leave soon as she sees this person.
- Really? - According to Teacher Chen.
No. Because you can't have a house with six people altogether,
and lose two of them, to have four. That won't work.
- They can send in another girl. - That's not possible.
With this person joining, I think Yujie will not leave.
Like Teacher Chen said, right now we have a bunch of young people
in Shanghai Share Life.
And more often than not, they're childish and naive.
If someone so mature comes, can he fit in?
Can they cook together?
Can they walk the dogs together?
It depends on the new person.
His age as well. He might be the same age as you or me.
I feel
I feel a little upset now, suddenly.
But it's different. You two don't dress up like that.
Look at what you're wearing.
What's this crap we're wearing? Look what he wore.
He wore a watch.
Look what we're drinking. Look what he was drinking.
I feel like he won't fit in.
They'll feel nervous when they see him.
I think the house won't feel the same as before.
They all got along so well before.
But he'll be fine if it's one-on-one.
- Fit in. - Yeah.
- Win them one by one. - Correct.
With his experience, he'll manage everyone without them noticing.
Will Curry start to feel a little uneasy?
He will for sure feel uneasy.
His leadership is being challenged.
Either Curry will get defeated and break down, or he'll grow from it.
But there's another possibility that we can't ignore.
In today's society, it's common to see people drinking wine in a suit
Frauds.
It's possible that this person is only about appearances.
When he comes, these youth will give him a hard time
they'll harass him, and he'll get exposed as a liar.
That's also possible.
Yes, there's this possibility.
The genre will turn into a thriller.
Correct.
You don't need to answer me now, I'm talking to the audience.
Just replay that scene in your mind.
What do you think, was that a well-established gentleman?
Or was that a fraudster? If you thought "gentleman", think again.
Don't answer yet! Just ponder it.
Let's wait for the next episode of Shanghai Share Life to discover
who he really is. Ok? See you next episode! Bye bye!
[Translated and timed by JChai & cissy] [Reviewed by MinnieDK]