[Script Info] Title: [Events] Format: Layer, Start, End, Style, Name, MarginL, MarginR, MarginV, Effect, Text Dialogue: 0,0:00:05.44,0:00:06.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in this video Dialogue: 0,0:00:06.32,0:00:08.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we'll discuss the power of persuasion Dialogue: 0,0:00:08.88,0:00:10.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this will include a discussion on Dialogue: 0,0:00:10.24,0:00:11.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,different strategies you can use to be Dialogue: 0,0:00:11.84,0:00:13.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,more persuasive in the way you deliver Dialogue: 0,0:00:13.44,0:00:15.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,arguments and communicate generally Dialogue: 0,0:00:15.12,0:00:17.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the use of fear and how others process Dialogue: 0,0:00:17.68,0:00:20.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and perceive what you're saying Dialogue: 0,0:00:20.56,0:00:22.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there's so many times in life where we Dialogue: 0,0:00:22.40,0:00:23.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,want people to do something but we Dialogue: 0,0:00:23.92,0:00:25.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,aren't in position to simply order them Dialogue: 0,0:00:25.60,0:00:26.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,around Dialogue: 0,0:00:26.48,0:00:29.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even when we're in a leadership position Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.04,0:00:30.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,constantly ordering Dialogue: 0,0:00:30.00,0:00:31.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,subordinates around can create Dialogue: 0,0:00:31.36,0:00:33.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,resentment and disloyalty Dialogue: 0,0:00:33.20,0:00:36.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's very helpful and often necessary to Dialogue: 0,0:00:36.00,0:00:37.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get people to do what you want Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.44,0:00:40.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,through persuasion rather than power Dialogue: 0,0:00:40.64,0:00:42.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,persuasion has been studied for Dialogue: 0,0:00:42.00,0:00:43.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thousands of years going back to the Dialogue: 0,0:00:43.68,0:00:44.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,ancient Dialogue: 0,0:00:44.00,0:00:46.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,greeks and refined in multi-million Dialogue: 0,0:00:46.08,0:00:47.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dollar ad campaigns Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.84,0:00:49.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's an essential tool of corporations Dialogue: 0,0:00:49.52,0:00:50.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,looking to sell products Dialogue: 0,0:00:50.88,0:00:52.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,politicians looking to convince citizens Dialogue: 0,0:00:52.80,0:00:54.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to vote for them Dialogue: 0,0:00:54.08,0:00:55.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attorneys trying to get jurors to render Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.84,0:00:57.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,verdicts in their favor Dialogue: 0,0:00:57.28,0:00:58.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,parents trying to get their kids to eat Dialogue: 0,0:00:58.80,0:01:01.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well and in countless other situations Dialogue: 0,0:01:01.68,0:01:03.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's very helpful for leaders to develop Dialogue: 0,0:01:03.68,0:01:05.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,skills that enable them to establish Dialogue: 0,0:01:05.52,0:01:07.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,useful partnerships with others Dialogue: 0,0:01:07.20,0:01:09.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and maintain positive relationships with Dialogue: 0,0:01:09.52,0:01:10.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,employees Dialogue: 0,0:01:10.80,0:01:12.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,robert cialdini a psychologist and one Dialogue: 0,0:01:12.88,0:01:14.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of the leading experts in the world on Dialogue: 0,0:01:14.32,0:01:15.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,persuasion Dialogue: 0,0:01:15.36,0:01:16.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,recommends a number of approaches for Dialogue: 0,0:01:16.88,0:01:18.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,getting others to do what you want Dialogue: 0,0:01:18.80,0:01:20.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the first strategy is reciprocity Dialogue: 0,0:01:20.88,0:01:22.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,followed by commitment and consistency Dialogue: 0,0:01:22.80,0:01:25.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,social proof likability and finally Dialogue: 0,0:01:25.68,0:01:26.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,authority Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.72,0:01:29.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first reciprocity can be a highly useful Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.12,0:01:30.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,strategy Dialogue: 0,0:01:30.00,0:01:31.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you do a small unsolicited favor for Dialogue: 0,0:01:31.92,0:01:33.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,someone they'll be more likely to do Dialogue: 0,0:01:33.52,0:01:34.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you want Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.96,0:01:37.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for many years hari krishnas and eastern Dialogue: 0,0:01:37.12,0:01:38.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,religious sect Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.24,0:01:39.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would raise money by approaching Dialogue: 0,0:01:39.68,0:01:41.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,strangers in a public place to give them Dialogue: 0,0:01:41.44,0:01:43.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a gift like a book or a flower Dialogue: 0,0:01:43.76,0:01:46.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if a person initially refused they would Dialogue: 0,0:01:46.00,0:01:47.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,insist it was a gift Dialogue: 0,0:01:47.52,0:01:49.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,only after the gift was accepted would Dialogue: 0,0:01:49.68,0:01:51.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they ask for a financial donation which Dialogue: 0,0:01:51.52,0:01:52.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they often received Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.96,0:01:54.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people felt like they owed something to Dialogue: 0,0:01:54.64,0:01:56.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the krishnas and they resolved this debt Dialogue: 0,0:01:56.88,0:01:59.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with money second if you can get an Dialogue: 0,0:01:59.92,0:02:01.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,initial commitment from people Dialogue: 0,0:02:01.44,0:02:02.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they'll often behave in ways that are Dialogue: 0,0:02:02.96,0:02:05.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,highly consistent with that commitment Dialogue: 0,0:02:05.12,0:02:06.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thus commitment and consistency are Dialogue: 0,0:02:06.96,0:02:09.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,helpful persuasion strategies Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.12,0:02:10.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,small behaviors get followed by more Dialogue: 0,0:02:10.80,0:02:12.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,committed behaviors Dialogue: 0,0:02:12.40,0:02:13.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people are much more likely to vote for Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.84,0:02:15.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,candidates on election day Dialogue: 0,0:02:15.44,0:02:16.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you can get them to put a sign in Dialogue: 0,0:02:16.88,0:02:19.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their yard supporting that candidate Dialogue: 0,0:02:19.04,0:02:20.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get people to make an initial commitment Dialogue: 0,0:02:20.88,0:02:22.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they will often behave Dialogue: 0,0:02:22.24,0:02:24.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in very consistent ways psychologist Dialogue: 0,0:02:24.88,0:02:25.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thomas moriarty Dialogue: 0,0:02:25.92,0:02:27.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,did a compelling study on this related Dialogue: 0,0:02:27.76,0:02:29.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to bystander intervention where he Dialogue: 0,0:02:29.44,0:02:30.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,staged thefts on a public beach Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.96,0:02:32.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and measured whether bystanders would Dialogue: 0,0:02:32.56,0:02:34.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,get involved in his experiment Dialogue: 0,0:02:34.96,0:02:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a person who was lying in a blanket near Dialogue: 0,0:02:36.64,0:02:38.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,others and listening to the radio Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.24,0:02:39.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,got up and went for a stroll on the Dialogue: 0,0:02:39.60,0:02:41.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,beach minutes later Dialogue: 0,0:02:41.28,0:02:42.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,another person came by and stole the Dialogue: 0,0:02:42.88,0:02:44.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,radio in 20 trials Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.72,0:02:46.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,only four people who were lying next to Dialogue: 0,0:02:46.64,0:02:48.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the blanket and radio got involved and Dialogue: 0,0:02:48.48,0:02:50.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stopped the thief however Dialogue: 0,0:02:50.56,0:02:52.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in another condition the person Dialogue: 0,0:02:52.40,0:02:53.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,listening to the radio Dialogue: 0,0:02:53.68,0:02:55.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,asked the person next to them to watch Dialogue: 0,0:02:55.60,0:02:58.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,my things before walking away Dialogue: 0,0:02:58.40,0:03:01.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in that case in 19 out of 20 times Dialogue: 0,0:03:01.04,0:03:02.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people intervened with a thief Dialogue: 0,0:03:02.56,0:03:04.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,confronting him and chasing him down the Dialogue: 0,0:03:04.40,0:03:06.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,beach people are more likely to do what Dialogue: 0,0:03:06.56,0:03:07.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you want Dialogue: 0,0:03:07.28,0:03:10.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you make a small request first Dialogue: 0,0:03:10.72,0:03:13.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,third we look to others for social proof Dialogue: 0,0:03:13.44,0:03:14.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that means that if you want someone to Dialogue: 0,0:03:14.80,0:03:15.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,do something Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.52,0:03:17.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,put peer pressure on them show them what Dialogue: 0,0:03:17.84,0:03:18.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the norm is Dialogue: 0,0:03:18.96,0:03:21.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is what other people are doing what Dialogue: 0,0:03:21.04,0:03:22.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,other businesses are doing Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.40,0:03:24.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and what other communities are doing Dialogue: 0,0:03:24.56,0:03:26.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people want to belong Dialogue: 0,0:03:26.08,0:03:27.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they often have considerable Dialogue: 0,0:03:27.76,0:03:32.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,difficulty violating social norms fourth Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.64,0:03:34.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it matters a lot who asks us to do Dialogue: 0,0:03:34.96,0:03:35.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,things Dialogue: 0,0:03:35.68,0:03:38.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for example we're much more persuaded by Dialogue: 0,0:03:38.00,0:03:39.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people we like Dialogue: 0,0:03:39.36,0:03:40.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there are two big components of Dialogue: 0,0:03:40.88,0:03:43.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,likability physical appeal Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.04,0:03:46.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and similarity typically we like people Dialogue: 0,0:03:46.16,0:03:47.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who are attractive Dialogue: 0,0:03:47.28,0:03:50.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's a cliche it's superficial but it's Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.24,0:03:50.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,true Dialogue: 0,0:03:50.96,0:03:54.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sex sells that's true in advertising and Dialogue: 0,0:03:54.00,0:03:55.52,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's also true in interpersonal Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.52,0:03:56.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,interactions Dialogue: 0,0:03:56.56,0:03:58.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we tend to be more persuaded by Dialogue: 0,0:03:58.24,0:04:00.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,good-looking people Dialogue: 0,0:04:00.40,0:04:02.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of course not everyone is blessed with Dialogue: 0,0:04:02.32,0:04:03.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,six-pack abs luscious hair and a Dialogue: 0,0:04:03.76,0:04:04.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,stunning face Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.88,0:04:07.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,however all's not lost because we also Dialogue: 0,0:04:07.68,0:04:09.12,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,tend to like people who are similar to Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.12,0:04:09.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,us Dialogue: 0,0:04:09.92,0:04:11.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our friends and romantic partners are Dialogue: 0,0:04:11.92,0:04:13.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,often people we share key interests or Dialogue: 0,0:04:13.76,0:04:14.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,values with Dialogue: 0,0:04:14.96,0:04:16.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in commercials on tv if an actor isn't Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.72,0:04:18.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,attractive they're often trying to Dialogue: 0,0:04:18.24,0:04:20.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,portray someone who is hopefully Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.32,0:04:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,similar to you on some level chaldini Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.00,0:04:25.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also focuses on the importance of Dialogue: 0,0:04:25.76,0:04:27.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,authority Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.04,0:04:28.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,certainly being in a position of Dialogue: 0,0:04:28.56,0:04:30.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,authority can make others have to do Dialogue: 0,0:04:30.40,0:04:31.28,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you want Dialogue: 0,0:04:31.28,0:04:33.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it can also make them want to do Dialogue: 0,0:04:33.20,0:04:34.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you want Dialogue: 0,0:04:34.32,0:04:36.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people have a tendency to be deferential Dialogue: 0,0:04:36.08,0:04:37.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to those in power even if the power Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.92,0:04:41.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,isn't directly over them Dialogue: 0,0:04:41.28,0:04:43.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,similarly we tend to be highly Dialogue: 0,0:04:43.44,0:04:45.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,influenced by credibility factors Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.92,0:04:47.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,credibility is made up of two factors Dialogue: 0,0:04:47.92,0:04:50.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,trustworthiness and expertise Dialogue: 0,0:04:50.00,0:04:52.16,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,let's start with trustworthiness if a Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.16,0:04:53.60,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,person seems trustworthy because of Dialogue: 0,0:04:53.60,0:04:55.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their personality or because of their Dialogue: 0,0:04:55.20,0:04:57.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,role like a priest Dialogue: 0,0:04:57.04,0:05:00.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well they're often more persuasive in Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.00,0:05:00.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,addition Dialogue: 0,0:05:00.56,0:05:03.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we tend to trust experts and individuals Dialogue: 0,0:05:03.04,0:05:04.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who seem more like Dialogue: 0,0:05:04.08,0:05:06.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,experts thus making them more persuasive Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.48,0:05:08.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,having formalized credentials such as a Dialogue: 0,0:05:08.40,0:05:10.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,phd can be helpful on this front Dialogue: 0,0:05:10.72,0:05:12.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,also bringing in others who have Dialogue: 0,0:05:12.48,0:05:14.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,credentials to support your position Dialogue: 0,0:05:14.32,0:05:17.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can be very effective Dialogue: 0,0:05:18.24,0:05:20.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,interestingly the way you communicate Dialogue: 0,0:05:20.24,0:05:21.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and deliver messages can make you seem Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.92,0:05:23.44,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like more of an expert and make you more Dialogue: 0,0:05:23.44,0:05:24.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,credible Dialogue: 0,0:05:24.00,0:05:26.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and persuasive people who talk faster Dialogue: 0,0:05:26.48,0:05:27.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are judged to be more knowledgeable Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.76,0:05:29.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,about a topic than people Dialogue: 0,0:05:29.20,0:05:31.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who deliver the same message but talk Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.84,0:05:32.96,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,slower Dialogue: 0,0:05:32.96,0:05:34.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in terms of delivering a message one Dialogue: 0,0:05:34.80,0:05:36.64,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,consideration is whether you should only Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.64,0:05:38.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,give your position or whether you should Dialogue: 0,0:05:38.72,0:05:40.56,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,start by explaining both sides of the Dialogue: 0,0:05:40.56,0:05:41.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,matter 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with Dialogue: 0,0:06:03.28,0:06:05.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in general a two-sided appeal works best Dialogue: 0,0:06:05.76,0:06:07.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if the person or group you're talking to Dialogue: 0,0:06:07.20,0:06:08.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is either mixed in their opinion Dialogue: 0,0:06:08.80,0:06:10.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or is likely to oppose what you're Dialogue: 0,0:06:10.48,0:06:12.40,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,trying to persuade them to do Dialogue: 0,0:06:12.40,0:06:14.48,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you use the two-sided appeal you'll Dialogue: 0,0:06:14.48,0:06:16.80,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,appear less biased Dialogue: 0,0:06:16.80,0:06:18.72,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,one-sided appeals work best only when Dialogue: 0,0:06:18.72,0:06:20.00,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the person or people you're trying to Dialogue: 0,0:06:20.00,0:06:21.92,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,convince are already inclined to agree Dialogue: 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