There are some
traits that we
learn from home
like
how your father
dealt with a
certain situation
like if in an argument,
your father
slapped her.
Then it may happen
that the child
will see it in such
a way that yes
if wife does
something wrong
then this is the
right way to
deal with this.
So these traits are
also there that
children learn.
They are, but when
you are mature,
when you're at a
marriageable age,
I'm assuming 20s
in your late 20s,
by then you
have a sense of
individuality.
You understand who
you are as a person
and who you want
to become,
right, so when
that importance
and value comes
then you don't
need to imitate
necessarily.
Sometimes you
can learn
from their mistakes
that if my father
has done this then
I won't become
that person.