There are some traits that we learn from home like how your father dealt with a certain situation like if in an argument, your father slapped her. Then it may happen that the child will see it in such a way that yes if wife does something wrong then this is the right way to deal with this. So these traits are also there that children learn. They are, but when you are mature, when you're at a marriageable age, I'm assuming 20s in your late 20s, by then you have a sense of individuality. You understand who you are as a person and who you want to become, right, so when that importance and value comes then you don't need to imitate necessarily. Sometimes you can learn from their mistakes that if my father has done this then I won't become that person.