WEBVTT 00:00:00.100 --> 00:00:04.100 Tonight,on the girl's guide to 21st century sex 00:00:04.100 --> 00:00:06.200 secret of the female orgasm 00:00:06.200 --> 00:00:09.000 and how women can ejaculate like men 00:00:09.000 --> 00:00:12.300 the best way to make love with your overweight 00:00:12.300 --> 00:00:18.000 what hapen inside the vagina during men ejaculation. 00:00:18.000 --> 00:00:23.300 and what men can learn from women who have sex with other women. 00:00:23.300 --> 00:00:40.600 Subtitled by laser of the forum http://www.jlpzj.com 00:00:40.600 --> 00:00:42.500 A girl's guide to 21st century sex, Episode One 00:00:42.500 --> 00:00:45.800 welcome to a girl's guide to 21st century sex 00:00:45.800 --> 00:00:49.000 the definitive coaching manual for having better sex 00:00:49.000 --> 00:00:50.800 I am doctor Catherine Hood. 00:00:50.800 --> 00:00:52.300 and over the next eight weeks 00:00:52.300 --> 00:00:57.200 I will be exploring every aspects of love making to improve you and your partner's performance 00:00:57.200 --> 00:00:58.600 Each time in the show 00:00:58.600 --> 00:01:02.300 We will demostrate and analyze the world's famous sexal positions 00:01:02.300 --> 00:01:04.300 with our specially designed camera 00:01:04.300 --> 00:01:08.500 we will see what really happen to your body during intercourse 00:01:08.500 --> 00:01:10.200 and we will explore sexual mysteries 00:01:10.200 --> 00:01:12.000 from how to get biger penis 00:01:12.000 --> 00:01:15.500 how to find the G-spot,have safe anal sex 00:01:15.500 --> 00:01:18.000 and how to have sex while you are pregnant 00:01:18.000 --> 00:01:21.600 we will also bring cautionary details of sexual transmitted infections 00:01:21.600 --> 00:01:25.300 and horrible story of how sex can go wrong 00:01:25.300 --> 00:01:29.800 and on every show,our world-famous sexal therapist Lou Paget from Los Angeles 00:01:29.800 --> 00:01:33.100 would be vedio very own personal expert coaching sections 00:01:33.100 --> 00:01:36.000 on anything from stimulating your G-spot 00:01:36.000 --> 00:01:42.900 to exercises for the perfect penis 00:01:42.900 --> 00:01:46.300 coming up tonight, we will discover how being a clinically a beast 00:01:46.300 --> 00:01:52.900 is no barrier to having great sex 00:01:52.900 --> 00:01:55.800 first,most women can have orgasm with practice 00:01:55.800 --> 00:01:57.800 and some can even ejaculate 00:01:57.800 --> 00:02:04.000 here is what you need to know about female orgasm 00:02:04.000 --> 00:02:08.000 the female orgasm is also called coming climaxing 00:02:08.000 --> 00:02:09.700 or having a big O 00:02:09.700 --> 00:02:11.500 lying and ? with pleasure 00:02:11.500 --> 00:02:15.200 a spike ? orgasm is the climax to great sex 00:02:15.200 --> 00:02:18.500 wheter you have view from full penetrated sex 00:02:18.500 --> 00:02:21.000 or sex with you partner,or by masturbation 00:02:21.000 --> 00:02:26.000 there are ways to make your orgasm longer or even more explosive 00:02:26.000 --> 00:02:31.500 my orgasm are amazing,really intense 00:02:31.500 --> 00:02:35.200 it just feel like going to heaven 00:02:35.200 --> 00:02:41.000 34 year old Moorgen from Corson has been in relationship with PE Phsyis for years 00:02:41.000 --> 00:02:43.500 but doesn't find orgasm easy 00:02:43.500 --> 00:02:48.500 I can't come up of myself from penetrated sex alone 00:02:48.500 --> 00:02:58.200 the data suggested that 30 percent of women can achieve orgasm with traditional penial-vaginal intercourse 00:02:58.200 --> 00:03:02.000 the female orgasm is a feeling of increasing sex excitement 00:03:02.000 --> 00:03:05.100 the building point of mood from ecstasy 00:03:05.100 --> 00:03:13.400 this orgasm moment is characterized by surge of muscle contraction of sexual organs 00:03:13.400 --> 00:03:16.600 the breathing becomes shallower and it becomes faster 00:03:16.600 --> 00:03:18.500 the heart rating increases 00:03:18.500 --> 00:03:23.200 and often the women can become quite warm, quite hot 00:03:23.200 --> 00:03:30.300 and inside the vagina, the glands that lie on the wall of the vagina will start to sweat 00:03:30.300 --> 00:03:35.000 the big news is,the women can have orgasm in several place simultaneously 00:03:35.000 --> 00:03:38.500 we have uniorgasm which is either a clitoris orgasm 00:03:38.500 --> 00:03:42.000 or a G-spot orgasm,then we have a biorgasm 00:03:42.000 --> 00:03:45.200 which is the two orgasm at the same time 00:03:45.200 --> 00:03:50.600 and the triorgasm, which is the anus,G-spot and clitoris at the same time 00:03:50.600 --> 00:03:55.200 I also like it when my clit,G-spot and anus stimulated 00:03:55.200 --> 00:04:01.200 because that is like three in want, this is amazing 00:04:01.200 --> 00:04:03.800 just feel really hot 00:04:03.800 --> 00:04:09.100 at the point of orgasm, some women have reported the explosion of mysterious liquid 00:04:09.100 --> 00:04:11.200 however,the medical community is divided on 00:04:11.200 --> 00:04:15.900 whether this claim is scientifically justifiable 00:04:15.900 --> 00:04:18.800 female ejaculation is a phenomenon 00:04:18.800 --> 00:04:23.800 it's hotly debated by many researchers,scientists,and doctors 00:04:23.800 --> 00:04:27.700 we feel it may be, and we know for certain definitely happen 00:04:27.700 --> 00:04:32.200 it is that women have experiences what they call an explosion of fluid 00:04:32.200 --> 00:04:33.800 the point of orgasm 00:04:33.800 --> 00:04:37.000 so the juice is till out for female ejaculation 00:04:37.000 --> 00:04:42.700 but for some women,ejaculating fluid during orgasm is frequent to come 00:04:42.700 --> 00:04:45.300 for me,it starts out as a small ? 00:04:45.300 --> 00:04:46.900 and then it just took off from there 00:04:46.900 --> 00:04:48.700 I got really excited about it 00:04:48.700 --> 00:04:50.400 wow,my body can do this 00:04:50.400 --> 00:04:53.000 and I can ejaculate as ofen as I want 00:04:53.000 --> 00:04:55.900 well,the orgasm itself does not change 00:04:55.900 --> 00:04:59.000 it is deeper ?,it's really wonderful 00:04:59.000 --> 00:05:06.000 and it's a whole different experience,it's delightful,wonderful 00:05:06.000 --> 00:05:09.900 I type some partners who love it,some partners who a little fret about it first 00:05:09.900 --> 00:05:11.900 and it can be such a very erotic thing 00:05:11.900 --> 00:05:14.400 I mean when you both come over and ejaculate 00:05:14.400 --> 00:05:17.200 that's wonderful.easy all over the face 00:05:17.200 --> 00:05:19.300 and you have it all over youself 00:05:19.300 --> 00:05:22.600 it's very fun,it's very wet,it's very wild 00:05:22.600 --> 00:05:24.800 so it can be huge turn on and back 00:05:24.800 --> 00:05:27.000 especially when it was totally explosive 00:05:27.000 --> 00:05:29.800 and it's just gushing, you totally gushing,it's very hot 00:05:29.800 --> 00:05:35.000 women that can ejaculate have well developed skene's glands 00:05:35.000 --> 00:05:38.900 skene's glands are the equal prostate glands in men 00:05:38.900 --> 00:05:40.800 and it surround urethra 00:05:40.800 --> 00:05:45.100 and with sexual stimulation,whether it be clitoris,vagina,G-spot or others 00:05:45.100 --> 00:05:48.900 the skene's glands become engorged,and secret fluid 00:05:48.900 --> 00:05:56.000 the fluid is and has been studied,consistent with ? or blood 00:05:56.000 --> 00:06:02.000 so it has ?,potassium,calcium,it's also PSA in it, Prostate Specific Antigen 00:06:02.000 --> 00:06:05.400 and in some case,urine,in some case,it's urine 00:06:05.400 --> 00:06:08.900 in some case,it's the combination between ejaculated fluid and urine 00:06:08.900 --> 00:06:12.200 and sometimes it's purely skene's gland fluid 00:06:12.200 --> 00:06:16.100 there has been a lot of research done looking at this fluid 00:06:16.100 --> 00:06:23.000 but we still don't know whether it is urine or fluid from another part of vagina 00:06:23.000 --> 00:06:27.300 a woman can have orgasm through intercourse,oral sex or anal sex 00:06:27.300 --> 00:06:29.900 manual stimulation of the vulva by her partner 00:06:29.900 --> 00:06:33.400 body loving,or ?,or masturbation 00:06:33.400 --> 00:06:36.600 soem women may have orgasm by just touching their breasts 00:06:36.600 --> 00:06:39.300 or by fantasizing about sex 00:06:39.300 --> 00:06:42.200 for many women the contact has been much more direct 00:06:42.200 --> 00:06:43.900 right on the genitals 00:06:43.900 --> 00:06:46.400 and in regular ? 00:06:46.400 --> 00:06:50.400 most women would have one orgasm,and then it need to take a long break 00:06:50.400 --> 00:06:53.600 stop,or ? sex place before the nex one 00:06:53.600 --> 00:06:59.300 but some women can have several arouse,they can have multiple orgasm 00:06:59.300 --> 00:07:02.700 but about 10 percent of women are thought to be anal orgasm 00:07:02.700 --> 00:07:04.700 and others frigid 00:07:04.700 --> 00:07:08.600 Danid even discovered that by wearing socks during sex 00:07:08.600 --> 00:07:11.700 twice as many women are able to achieve orgasm 00:07:11.700 --> 00:07:14.000 and how can you spot a woman who is faking 00:07:14.000 --> 00:07:16.400 the difference is during a real orgasm 00:07:16.400 --> 00:07:19.800 her muscle may contract involantary 00:07:19.800 --> 00:07:26.200 not even a great chance can it take back 00:07:26.200 --> 00:07:30.000 most women will have times when they find achieving orgasm a challenge 00:07:30.000 --> 00:07:33.400 relationship issues,negative thought,simply just day stress 00:07:33.400 --> 00:07:35.200 can make it hard to climax 00:07:35.200 --> 00:07:38.600 but it of course it could be,be it simply being sexually stimulated 00:07:38.600 --> 00:07:41.200 and aroused,in the right way for you 00:07:41.200 --> 00:07:44.100 after a break,we will be teaching you everything you neeed to know 00:07:44.100 --> 00:07:47.200 about the most popular sexual poition,the missionary 00:07:47.200 --> 00:07:49.600 and how this women doesn't let her size 00:07:49.600 --> 00:07:53.300 stop having great and fulfilling sex life 00:07:53.300 --> 00:07:57.000 End of part one 00:07:57.000 --> 00:08:00.500 Part two 00:08:00.500 --> 00:08:03.500 welcoem back to a girl's guid to 21st century sex 00:08:03.500 --> 00:08:09.000 coming up,a sexually transmited disease that has no symptom 00:08:09.000 --> 00:08:18.400 and how being immobily a beast hasn't stop one woman enjoying the fulfilling sex life 00:08:18.400 --> 00:08:21.300 now oral sex,most men love it 00:08:21.300 --> 00:08:24.200 but 45 pencent women don't like doing it 00:08:24.200 --> 00:08:25.800 but if it was done properly 00:08:25.800 --> 00:08:29.000 it could be one of the most enjoyable part of sex for both of you 00:08:29.000 --> 00:08:39.300 Here is Hollywood sex educator Lou Paget with her formula for giving your men the best oral sex 00:08:39.300 --> 00:08:43.300 good evening,and welcome to tonigh's 21st century workshop 00:08:43.300 --> 00:08:47.600 this evening,you are going to learn how to give your men the ultimate sexual pleasure 00:08:47.600 --> 00:08:49.400 also known as blow job 00:08:49.400 --> 00:08:52.300 I do not like the term blow job,the term is rather iky 00:08:52.300 --> 00:08:55.500 and besides,we as women know it has nothing to do with blowing 00:08:55.500 --> 00:08:58.200 the action of this is more about mimicking 00:08:58.200 --> 00:09:02.200 and making your hands and your mouths and ? vagina 00:09:02.200 --> 00:09:04.300 that is really what you create here 00:09:04.300 --> 00:09:07.000 you creating the three sensations that men say 00:09:07.000 --> 00:09:10.200 absolutely made for great intercourse 00:09:10.200 --> 00:09:11.700 when they first centrol women 00:09:11.700 --> 00:09:15.000 it's a combination of heat,pressure and moisture 00:09:15.000 --> 00:09:17.600 so you mouth is creating heat and moisture 00:09:17.600 --> 00:09:20.600 your hand is creating pressure 00:09:20.600 --> 00:09:22.600 you would say that your jaw gets... 00:09:22.600 --> 00:09:25.600 yeah,my jaw always hurts... 00:09:25.600 --> 00:09:28.200 and now you are using your jaw for the pressure 00:09:28.200 --> 00:09:30.700 if you attach your hand to your mouth like this 00:09:30.700 --> 00:09:33.100 and imagine a little ball bearing right here 00:09:33.100 --> 00:09:36.000 your jaw isn't creating pressure 00:09:36.000 --> 00:09:38.400 your mouth is open,is more open 00:09:38.400 --> 00:09:40.700 and this is creating pressure 00:09:40.700 --> 00:09:45.000 your ring at this,and pulling up,or through up and down 00:09:45.000 --> 00:09:47.000 or and the other thing you do 00:09:47.000 --> 00:09:50.200 your tongue is not just hanging out,Ok? 00:09:50.200 --> 00:09:53.900 your tongue is creating sensation on the back area 00:09:53.900 --> 00:09:55.500 the most one of sensitive as clitoris 00:09:55.500 --> 00:09:58.100 your hand and your mouth seal together 00:09:58.100 --> 00:10:00.000 you got 4 main motions 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:02.000 you got up and down motions 00:10:02.000 --> 00:10:05.200 you got twisting motion of your hand coming up 00:10:05.200 --> 00:10:08.800 you got this is creating pressure coming up 00:10:08.800 --> 00:10:11.300 you mouth is creating the heat and moisture 00:10:11.300 --> 00:10:13.600 and your tongue is doing a back and forth motion 00:10:13.600 --> 00:10:15.400 I am going to show something 00:10:15.400 --> 00:10:18.000 that you can be incooperative while your mouth is here 00:10:18.000 --> 00:10:19.800 different thing to do the scroll up 00:10:19.800 --> 00:10:21.500 this is also called the stepchildren 00:10:21.500 --> 00:10:25.300 named because they belong to someone else and they often get ignored 00:10:25.300 --> 00:10:28.800 some men who do not like that 00:10:28.800 --> 00:10:32.000 they do take pleasrue,jsut say it is not pleasurable 00:10:32.000 --> 00:10:34.200 but here is the point I am going to show you 00:10:34.200 --> 00:10:35.800 lend me your arm 00:10:35.800 --> 00:10:39.000 when you go from point A to point B in straight line 00:10:39.000 --> 00:10:42.300 scratching,that is one sensation,OK? 00:10:42.300 --> 00:10:45.100 now,when you put a reguler pattern into it 00:10:45.100 --> 00:10:47.400 it is a different thing altogether 00:10:47.400 --> 00:10:48.900 feel the difference? 00:10:48.900 --> 00:10:52.900 you can be doing this on the scrotum 00:10:52.900 --> 00:10:54.900 lie gently,folding it 00:10:54.900 --> 00:10:57.500 again,treat it like small breakable edge 00:10:57.500 --> 00:11:07.200 you can gently stretch it with fingers 00:11:07.200 --> 00:11:10.800 once you build the intensity of the sensation 00:11:10.800 --> 00:11:15.000 do not fall back to a milder stimulation 00:11:15.000 --> 00:11:20.600 or instend of this,so if you mouth is geting tired 00:11:20.600 --> 00:11:23.200 and you doing something...,working here 00:11:23.200 --> 00:11:26.700 and also you start here...on the top of your tongue 00:11:26.700 --> 00:11:30.000 you basically have to last yourself like that for 5 minutes 00:11:30.000 --> 00:11:34.000 so that's why,if you have your hand incooperate at the same time 00:11:34.000 --> 00:11:36.700 you are maintaining the sensations 00:11:36.700 --> 00:11:40.800 so that is how you give your man the best oral sex he has ever had 00:11:40.800 --> 00:11:45.500 and please,do enjoy! 00:11:45.500 --> 00:11:48.800 most of us only have sex in one or two positions 00:11:48.800 --> 00:11:51.500 but there are hundreds of imaginative and inventive positions 00:11:51.500 --> 00:11:53.600 to have intercourse with your partner 00:11:53.600 --> 00:11:55.900 each has its own particular benefit 00:11:55.900 --> 00:11:59.600 for instance,some are more appropriate to the overweight or pregnant 00:11:59.600 --> 00:12:02.500 and others more suitable if your man has small penis 00:12:02.500 --> 00:12:04.600 the first position we are about to demostrate 00:12:04.600 --> 00:12:08.200 is often considered the most likely to give your G-spot orgasm 00:12:08.200 --> 00:12:11.300 it is always thought of the one most practised 00:12:11.300 --> 00:12:13.800 and the one most likely to get you pregnant 00:12:13.800 --> 00:12:15.200 it's the missionary position 00:12:15.200 --> 00:12:17.800 I should warn you that the material you are about to see 00:12:17.800 --> 00:12:23.500 is of particularly explicit nature 00:12:23.500 --> 00:12:27.900 the new mysterious orgin of the term, missionary position 00:12:27.900 --> 00:12:31.600 the most accepted is to date some era of christian missioanry 00:12:31.600 --> 00:12:36.500 rumor has it that holy men tried to press the unruly sexual practice of the native 00:12:36.500 --> 00:12:43.400 and persuade them that this is the only acceptable sexual position in the eye of the lord 00:12:43.400 --> 00:12:45.800 back home in the Victoria in England 00:12:45.800 --> 00:12:50.200 the position was considered the only one acceptable within marriage 00:12:50.200 --> 00:12:53.000 the missionary position remained hugely popular 00:12:53.000 --> 00:12:58.100 toping the famous 1940s KingZ Pole as American favored position 00:12:58.100 --> 00:13:01.300 It gained further ? in 1960s 00:13:01.300 --> 00:13:06.200 making the pages of the Oxford English Dictionary in 1969 00:13:06.200 --> 00:13:09.000 missionary position,a position for sexual intercourse 00:13:09.000 --> 00:13:14.000 with the woman lying on her back and the man lying on top and facing her 00:13:14.000 --> 00:13:18.400 like any sexual position,it proceeds by foreplay 00:13:18.400 --> 00:13:26.000 a central part of intercourse which makes penetration easier 00:13:26.000 --> 00:13:27.800 foreplay is extremely important 00:13:27.800 --> 00:13:32.400 firstly,just so you allow the man and woman to be fully aroused 00:13:32.400 --> 00:13:35.700 you allow the entrance of vagina to open out 00:13:35.700 --> 00:13:37.500 the length of the vagina lubricated 00:13:37.500 --> 00:13:41.200 and for the vagina to enlongate,and to bloom at the end 00:13:41.200 --> 00:13:46.400 to allow penetration to take place without discomfortable pain 00:13:46.400 --> 00:13:52.600 foreplay involves just normal kissing,it involves touching,massage 00:13:52.600 --> 00:13:56.300 foreplay can extend beyond that to manual stimulation 00:13:56.300 --> 00:14:00.600 with the hand of the gentle area by the vagina and penis 00:14:00.600 --> 00:14:03.000 are oiling ? sex 00:14:03.000 --> 00:14:05.200 the stimulation,strolling and sucking 00:14:05.200 --> 00:14:09.000 make the breasts grow in size and nipples harden 00:14:09.000 --> 00:14:12.000 they can increase in height by up to centimeter 00:14:12.000 --> 00:14:14.400 the genital becomes excited too 00:14:14.400 --> 00:14:20.200 the ? rush to a red color and swell up to 3 times its normal size 00:14:20.200 --> 00:14:24.400 the stimulation of foreplay causes 6 times the normal amount of blood 00:14:24.400 --> 00:14:27.400 to rush the penis,making it fully erect 00:14:27.400 --> 00:14:31.800 so both bodies are fully prepared for intercourse 00:14:31.800 --> 00:14:37.200 the missionary position is scientificly thought to maximize your chance of production 00:14:37.200 --> 00:14:43.900 physiologically it's probably the most ultimate sexual uite you can achieve 00:14:43.900 --> 00:14:47.500 the missionary position is quite simply the woman lying on the back 00:14:47.500 --> 00:14:49.100 someone may have posiblly known 00:14:49.100 --> 00:14:52.400 she will part her legs,she may have a new bend 00:14:52.400 --> 00:14:54.800 or her legs straight out the other side 00:14:54.800 --> 00:14:57.300 the man will then get on top of her 00:14:57.300 --> 00:15:02.400 and enter from above,usually the woman maneuvers about the side 00:15:02.400 --> 00:15:05.800 to explore what happen to the body during missionary position 00:15:05.800 --> 00:15:08.200 cameras have been attached to the couple's skin 00:15:08.200 --> 00:15:35.800 the woman's nipple,man's pinis,and inside the vagina 00:15:35.800 --> 00:15:39.200 in the missionary position,the ? legs open slightly 00:15:39.200 --> 00:15:44.300 this allows the penis to penetrate directly right up to the hill 00:15:44.300 --> 00:15:55.200 and in this position, you get direct stimulation of clitoris ?? 00:15:55.200 --> 00:16:00.300 the glans,or head of the penis,are highly sensitive 00:16:00.300 --> 00:16:02.600 and run along the vagina ?? 00:16:02.600 --> 00:16:06.100 so the position is very stimulating for the man 00:16:06.100 --> 00:16:09.200 the woman's nipples stay erect throughout intercourse 00:16:09.200 --> 00:16:13.000 penetration in this position is thought to lead the orgasm for woman 00:16:13.000 --> 00:16:17.200 as if it stimulate the G-spot 00:16:17.200 --> 00:16:21.000 the G-spot is an area of very sensitive tissue 00:16:21.000 --> 00:16:26.100 which is just on the front wall of the vagina about 2-3 inches or so 00:16:26.100 --> 00:16:31.100 and during this position,the penis will stimulate this 00:16:31.100 --> 00:16:35.800 as the woman approaches orgasm,she may feel hard beating in her vagina 00:16:35.800 --> 00:16:38.100 and the ? in her ? 00:16:38.100 --> 00:16:41.700 at climax she experiences involantary muscle ? 00:16:41.700 --> 00:16:44.400 in the outering of her vagina and anus 00:16:44.400 --> 00:16:49.000 the man's orgasm pulls semen to be ejaculated deep inside the vagina 00:16:49.000 --> 00:16:55.600 and it's thought that sexual missioanry position is much more likely to lead conception 00:16:55.600 --> 00:17:01.700 the missionary position allows a pool of semen to collect at the surface next to the womb 00:17:01.700 --> 00:17:14.000 and this can make it easier for woman who tries to conceive 00:17:14.000 --> 00:17:17.200 after orgasm,the erection subsides rapidly 00:17:17.200 --> 00:17:21.400 and the major and minor lips of the vagina shrink back 00:17:21.400 --> 00:17:28.600 both bodies now return to pre-aroused state 00:17:28.600 --> 00:17:31.200 you may have thought the missionary position was a little doubt 00:17:31.200 --> 00:17:33.200 but there is far more to meet the eye 00:17:33.200 --> 00:17:36.200 but if you would like to try something even more advanturous 00:17:36.200 --> 00:17:39.900 there will be demonstrating other sexual positions in the coming weeks 00:17:39.900 --> 00:17:43.300 now sexually tansmitted infections is something we do ratherly ignore 00:17:43.300 --> 00:17:49.500 but here is what can happen if you do 00:17:49.500 --> 00:17:57.000 the old french word for brothel,clapier is thought to be the original slang term for gonorrhea,the clap 00:17:57.000 --> 00:18:01.100 it remains the most common sexually transmitted infection in the world 00:18:01.100 --> 00:18:05.600 up to 2/3 new cases are in young people under the age of 25 00:18:05.600 --> 00:18:09.000 many of who would not know what they have 00:18:09.000 --> 00:18:14.400 gonorrhea has been known about as a bacterial infection for over 150 years 00:18:14.400 --> 00:18:17.200 although the clap may not sound like serious 00:18:17.200 --> 00:18:21.300 but untreated,gonorrhea can cause both serious and permanant health problems 00:18:21.300 --> 00:18:24.500 in both men and women 00:18:24.500 --> 00:18:27.800 gonorrhea is a bacteria that spreads from sexual contact 00:18:27.800 --> 00:18:31.000 either oral sex,or unprotective vagina anal sex 00:18:31.000 --> 00:18:33.900 it can infect the throat,it can infect the rectum 00:18:33.900 --> 00:18:39.200 and it can infect cervix,and urethra of women and men 00:18:39.200 --> 00:18:41.400 gonorrhea is highly infectious 00:18:41.400 --> 00:18:43.900 you stand up to 1 in 4 chance to catch it 00:18:43.900 --> 00:18:49.500 from your infective partner throughout unprotective sex 00:18:49.500 --> 00:18:55.400 more men diagnosed gonorrhea have symptoms that are easy to spot 00:18:55.400 --> 00:18:59.800 this slide shows the case that young man who are complaining of discharge 00:18:59.800 --> 00:19:03.600 you can see,this is a thick yellow discharge coming out of the tip of the penis 00:19:03.600 --> 00:19:06.900 there is some slight red around the head of the penis also 00:19:06.900 --> 00:19:09.800 yeah,this yellow discharge which has been there for about 3 days 00:19:09.800 --> 00:19:12.900 and it's intensively painful when he went for a pee 00:19:12.900 --> 00:19:16.200 he described that it is just like that pin broken glass 00:19:16.200 --> 00:19:18.600 if gonorrhea isn't treated at this stage 00:19:18.600 --> 00:19:21.700 the infection can spread up to walls of the bladder 00:19:21.700 --> 00:19:24.200 down the channel with connects the prostate gland 00:19:24.200 --> 00:19:28.400 and in through the texticle,where it causes severe inflammation 00:19:28.400 --> 00:19:32.300 it can cause epididymitis,inflammation of the tissure around the testicle 00:19:32.300 --> 00:19:37.000 and the testicle itself,and it can be very painful conditon 00:19:37.000 --> 00:19:40.500 if you are a man, you are quite likely to know if you got gonorrhea 00:19:40.500 --> 00:19:46.000 but about 80 percent of women may not experience any symptoms at all 00:19:46.000 --> 00:19:49.300 gonorrhea is more of a problem for a woman 00:19:49.300 --> 00:19:53.200 because they can not have a slight discharge,no discharge at all 00:19:53.200 --> 00:19:54.800 and they don't know they got the infection 00:19:54.800 --> 00:20:00.800 and of course,after a while the infection can travel through the uterus into the Fallopian tubes 00:20:00.800 --> 00:20:03.800 and cause condition called pelvic inflammatory disease(PID) 00:20:03.800 --> 00:20:08.200 and that is where tubes float with scars,blocked and get all contorted 00:20:08.200 --> 00:20:11.400 and then it becomes a really painful acute condition 00:20:11.400 --> 00:20:13.800 and if that is not diagnosed and treated appropriately 00:20:13.800 --> 00:20:15.900 the tubes can be damaged permanantly 00:20:15.900 --> 00:20:21.000 the womb can be yeld with tube infertility and chronic pelvic pain 00:20:21.000 --> 00:20:26.200 the gonorrhea bacteria can attach the body in some kind surpring places 00:20:26.200 --> 00:20:29.400 this slide shows a young man has the gonorrhea of the eye 00:20:29.400 --> 00:20:30.800 how wold somebody get gonorrhea in the eye 00:20:30.800 --> 00:20:34.300 well,if somebody has discharge from the penis and go for pee 00:20:34.300 --> 00:20:37.100 and the discharge in on the finger,and they roll their eyes 00:20:37.100 --> 00:20:39.900 you can easily transmit to yourself like that 00:20:39.900 --> 00:20:42.400 the other ways,just use your imagination 00:20:42.400 --> 00:20:45.500 gonorrhea is currently rised among the young people 00:20:45.500 --> 00:20:47.800 particularly in the city 00:20:47.800 --> 00:20:51.000 so what can you do to protect youself 00:20:51.000 --> 00:20:52.500 you can either say no 00:20:52.500 --> 00:20:56.000 you can always say yes,but always with a condom 00:20:56.000 --> 00:21:03.600 and you can say,see,we make a mistake,let's go and get ourself checked 00:21:03.600 --> 00:21:07.400 it's amazing the gonorrhea is still on the rise after all these years 00:21:07.400 --> 00:21:10.400 use condom every time you have sex to protect yourself 00:21:10.400 --> 00:21:15.000 and remmember you can catch gonorrhea in the throat too from oral sex 00:21:15.000 --> 00:21:18.700 now many people aquire sexyness with being thin 00:21:18.700 --> 00:21:22.100 but 40 pencent of women who are ? or over 00:21:22.100 --> 00:21:28.500 so can you still have sex even when you are overweight 00:21:28.500 --> 00:21:32.700 swedish researchers found in a study of 2100 women 00:21:32.700 --> 00:21:35.800 there was no significant difference in terms of the satisfaction 00:21:35.800 --> 00:21:39.900 with sex life between the beast people and normal weight people 00:21:39.900 --> 00:21:42.600 but in order to achieve that level of satisfaction 00:21:42.600 --> 00:21:45.800 overweight people need to make adjustment to their love making 00:21:45.800 --> 00:21:47.400 depending on your size 00:21:47.400 --> 00:21:51.300 the penis and vagina become more hidden in excess wall of fat 00:21:51.300 --> 00:21:54.300 so not all sexual positions will be achievable 00:21:54.300 --> 00:21:57.700 can you still lead a fulfilling sex life? 00:21:57.700 --> 00:22:00.300 of course,these people can still have sex 00:22:00.300 --> 00:22:02.400 and very fulfilling satisfied sex life 00:22:02.400 --> 00:22:08.600 you don't have be looking like a model in order to be sexy 00:22:08.600 --> 00:22:11.600 lots of people will think these people are sexy 00:22:11.600 --> 00:22:13.400 culture will think these people are sexy 00:22:13.400 --> 00:22:16.800 for example,for Caribbee gernally tend to like corpulent wowen 00:22:16.800 --> 00:22:18.500 so do like American 00:22:18.500 --> 00:22:20.600 and we are in the condition of this country 00:22:20.600 --> 00:22:22.700 and to think that skimy is beautiful 00:22:22.700 --> 00:22:25.200 that is not neccesarily the case 00:22:25.200 --> 00:22:28.800 36-year-old Homa is 24 ston 00:22:28.800 --> 00:22:33.000 and he has faced some of the challege of sex 00:22:33.000 --> 00:22:35.700 only ocassionally I have had sex with larger woman 00:22:35.700 --> 00:22:37.200 yeah,it has been quite awkard 00:22:37.200 --> 00:22:41.600 for example,there is one time a lady have ? long legs 00:22:41.600 --> 00:22:43.200 she couldn't get across me,unfortunately 00:22:43.200 --> 00:22:44.800 there is big about it,seems obvious 00:22:44.800 --> 00:22:46.500 you try to find out a new position 00:22:46.500 --> 00:22:47.700 it does mean you can't do it 00:22:47.700 --> 00:22:50.400 it's just,obviously,you got to work around it 00:22:50.400 --> 00:22:53.800 it's unfortunate,in some times 00:22:53.800 --> 00:22:56.400 because you miss out on certain things you like to do 00:22:56.400 --> 00:23:01.200 because they are favored,but you can't do it,rigidly,for physical reason 00:23:01.200 --> 00:23:06.200 however,active sexual experience,achieving the right position is the center 00:23:06.200 --> 00:23:09.300 the best sexual position to be used is the one 00:23:09.300 --> 00:23:11.500 that is comfrotable and enjoyed by both,clearly 00:23:11.500 --> 00:23:14.600 sexual activity is,actually,a good form of exercise 00:23:14.600 --> 00:23:16.300 even for the more beast 00:23:16.300 --> 00:23:18.700 and for that so many should not be discouraged 00:23:18.700 --> 00:23:21.400 but what's important,something is done in a way 00:23:21.400 --> 00:23:24.800 that is confortable,not with signifant risk 00:23:24.800 --> 00:23:29.300 and one that bring for them both the actual satisfaction 00:23:29.300 --> 00:23:32.200 because the man supports his weight on his arms 00:23:32.200 --> 00:23:35.200 and being a big guy,you can't be there so long 00:23:35.200 --> 00:23:38.000 before you are tired out 00:23:38.000 --> 00:23:42.100 as well as ?,you do turn this way which is nice slfishly 00:23:42.100 --> 00:23:45.000 being big,it's not nice for the person underneath 00:23:45.000 --> 00:23:48.000 because,obviously,obesity takes effect 00:23:48.000 --> 00:23:51.700 so it is not best thing in the world unfortunately 00:23:51.700 --> 00:23:54.200 you can't really do a lot,you can't move 00:23:54.200 --> 00:23:58.200 it's hard to get up,because when you like that 00:23:58.200 --> 00:24:01.500 you got to use a lot of energy to push off and back up 00:24:01.500 --> 00:24:03.300 if you need to get up the way 00:24:03.300 --> 00:24:05.800 if you can't get into certain position at the time 00:24:05.800 --> 00:24:08.000 don't kill the mood,don't spoil it 00:24:08.000 --> 00:24:10.100 just get to something else 00:24:10.100 --> 00:24:13.600 the foreplay,keep on going,going.... 00:24:13.600 --> 00:24:16.800 bacause at the end of the day,it's not all about the penetration 00:24:16.800 --> 00:24:20.100 a alternative to penetration is for the man to rub his penis 00:24:20.100 --> 00:24:22.400 along the fat foam on the woman's body 00:24:22.400 --> 00:24:25.200 this type of sex can be performed with greater ease 00:24:25.200 --> 00:24:27.300 but whichever way you choose to have sex 00:24:27.300 --> 00:24:32.100 if you are overweight,you need to be cautious 00:24:32.100 --> 00:24:35.300 the health risk being a beast for a man 00:24:35.300 --> 00:24:37.200 are much greater to got heart disease 00:24:37.200 --> 00:24:39.900 about 4 times the normal rate 00:24:39.900 --> 00:24:43.100 but if only become a super beast,you are looking at 00:24:43.100 --> 00:24:45.000 as many as 20 times to get heart disease 00:24:45.000 --> 00:24:47.500 4 times the risk to get diabetes 00:24:47.500 --> 00:24:50.300 and of course,erect disfunction problem 00:24:50.300 --> 00:24:52.200 having and maitaining erection 00:24:52.200 --> 00:24:55.900 and just physical inability to become sexually active 00:24:55.900 --> 00:25:00.600 super-size Teighlor weighs over 300 pounds 00:25:00.600 --> 00:25:04.200 yet she has no problem enjoying sex 00:25:04.200 --> 00:25:10.300 I think the bigest myths about fat people can't have sex 00:25:10.300 --> 00:25:15.200 orgasm is unachievable,nothing could be further from the truth 00:25:15.200 --> 00:25:18.900 Teighlor has no problem attracting the opposite sex 00:25:18.900 --> 00:25:22.900 ?,but I do get a lot brothers 00:25:22.900 --> 00:25:30.000 because,for years,they drawn pictures of women like me 00:25:30.000 --> 00:25:34.000 thinking there is never anybody really out there that looks like that 00:25:34.000 --> 00:25:35.900 and then here I am in the flesh 00:25:35.900 --> 00:25:40.800 we call the men who like large women ?? fat admirer 00:25:40.800 --> 00:25:46.500 men who like large women can consider so very femaline and very ? 00:25:46.500 --> 00:25:50.500 because we do feel like a little cloud for then 00:25:50.500 --> 00:25:53.300 once the ? partner that have norm psychological reason 00:25:53.300 --> 00:25:56.300 why people who are overwight beast can enjoy sex 00:25:56.300 --> 00:25:57.900 it's bold self-esteem 00:25:57.900 --> 00:26:00.200 if they want someone who need some feel good 00:26:00.200 --> 00:26:04.800 then they could have a good sex life 00:26:04.800 --> 00:26:07.600 well,many people rule out the way will enjoy a healthy sex life 00:26:07.600 --> 00:26:08.900 you must be careful 00:26:08.900 --> 00:26:12.000 if you experience any breathlessness or chest pain during sex 00:26:12.000 --> 00:26:14.800 you should contact your doctor 00:26:14.800 --> 00:26:18.800 still to come,why some women prefer to have sex with other women 00:26:18.800 --> 00:26:23.500 what they can teach men about arousal and orgasm 00:26:23.500 --> 00:26:27.200 End of Part Two 00:26:27.200 --> 00:26:31.100 Part Three 00:26:31.100 --> 00:26:34.600 welcome back to a girl's guide to 21st century sex 00:26:34.600 --> 00:26:38.600 1 in 4 womem have fantasized about having sex with another woman 00:26:38.600 --> 00:26:46.400 it's because they believe another woman truly know to arouse them 00:26:46.400 --> 00:26:50.300 many men admitted to fantasizing about lesbian sex 00:26:50.300 --> 00:26:54.100 but by definition,lesbians are sexually interested in men 00:26:54.100 --> 00:26:57.600 hollywood star Angelina Jolie has been voted as the woman 00:26:57.600 --> 00:27:00.100 most lesbians want to have sex with 00:27:00.100 --> 00:27:02.100 it's now even considered cheat 00:27:02.100 --> 00:27:06.000 and it doesn't take long for hollywood ??? 00:27:06.000 --> 00:27:09.100 hollywood most famous lesbian couple in recent years 00:27:09.100 --> 00:27:12.500 Ellen DeGeneres and Alexandra Hedison split last year 00:27:12.500 --> 00:27:21.200 after Ellen's very public affairs with actress Portia de Rossi 00:27:21.200 --> 00:27:25.100 the word di,first appeared in newspaper in 1710 00:27:25.100 --> 00:27:32.000 to describe two crossdress in Climax 00:27:32.000 --> 00:27:36.400 once precieved ?,di has been ?by some lesbians 00:27:36.400 --> 00:27:40.600 who characterized themself bush di if they are more masculine 00:27:40.600 --> 00:27:46.500 or baby di if they are yound and ? 00:27:46.500 --> 00:27:46.800 and the term lipstick lesbian sometimes refers to women 00:27:46.800 --> 00:27:50.300 who express their more glamous side 00:27:50.300 --> 00:27:56.000 in the UK,around 6 percent the population are gay,lesbian or bisexual 00:27:56.000 --> 00:27:59.200 it's impossible to determinate the exact figure 00:27:59.200 --> 00:28:04.600 because people's sexual preference is going to change during the lifetime 00:28:04.600 --> 00:28:08.400 you find that a lot of ? and questioning women 00:28:08.400 --> 00:28:10.800 who have experience look like lesbian saying these days 00:28:10.800 --> 00:28:12.100 can be not just it used to be 00:28:12.100 --> 00:28:14.300 i think that's what our society is going 00:28:14.300 --> 00:28:17.600 and you know that is not a healthy thing 00:28:17.600 --> 00:28:20.100 a lot of women that will bisexual 00:28:20.100 --> 00:28:21.900 and some lesbian women that will clearly tell you 00:28:21.900 --> 00:28:23.400 that it is about the person 00:28:23.400 --> 00:28:27.000 it may not be necessarily just about the body part 00:28:27.000 --> 00:28:33.400 everybody is born with your ability love the same sex,physically and emotionally 00:28:33.400 --> 00:28:39.500 but our evironment and our experiences,you know,deter who will become ? 00:28:39.500 --> 00:28:42.400 in part of my life,i just want to love a woman 00:28:42.400 --> 00:28:45.000 I am not interested in men,men as friends,great 00:28:45.000 --> 00:28:49.600 still fancy them,but I am not interested and have no relationship them 00:28:49.600 --> 00:28:52.500 there is no facet of lesbian today 00:28:52.500 --> 00:28:55.400 they can be anywhere and anyone 00:28:55.400 --> 00:29:00.000 they can be judges,they can be teachers,they be dancers 00:29:00.000 --> 00:29:01.500 and now it is just all about 00:29:01.500 --> 00:29:05.900 if I look at famous women,I can't tell who is gay who is not 00:29:05.900 --> 00:29:10.100 they got this all about them,hard to screen out 00:29:10.100 --> 00:29:13.800 I am a lesbian as well 00:29:13.800 --> 00:29:16.200 because we are just like more femaline and girly 00:29:16.200 --> 00:29:19.600 perhaps,we have not got that all about us 00:29:19.600 --> 00:29:24.600 we live with women mysteriously,we are like "is she? isn't she?" 00:29:24.600 --> 00:29:27.100 so you can't tell,quite like that way 00:29:27.100 --> 00:29:29.000 it's more mysterious,more fun 00:29:29.000 --> 00:29:31.500 we are female,we know our body really well 00:29:31.500 --> 00:29:32.900 so we know what we like 00:29:32.900 --> 00:29:38.200 it's probally easy for us to give a woman pleasure than perhaps a man 00:29:38.200 --> 00:29:42.100 ? and toutching such variety the connection is about 00:29:42.100 --> 00:29:46.600 the body together,and just the way women are with one another 00:29:46.600 --> 00:29:49.200 it's just,I almost think it's just a name 00:29:49.200 --> 00:29:51.900 that two feeling that women have with each other 00:29:51.900 --> 00:29:56.400 a lot of people think that lesbian sex is all gental classic 00:29:56.400 --> 00:30:01.600 sweet,nice,as opposed to a man raviging a woman hetersexually 00:30:01.600 --> 00:30:05.000 but no,women can pretty nasty with each other 00:30:05.000 --> 00:30:07.200 and tear each other's clothes off and go at it 00:30:07.200 --> 00:30:09.100 sex is sex 00:30:09.100 --> 00:30:15.200 with lesbians it's posible to do every think-of position 00:30:15.200 --> 00:30:17.900 that is for a male and female 00:30:17.900 --> 00:30:24.900 from your oral 69 position to doggy,going on top 00:30:24.900 --> 00:30:29.000 all of that,it's exactly what you could do with a guy 00:30:29.000 --> 00:30:32.100 and there is no boundary because you can do everything 00:30:32.100 --> 00:30:36.200 only put your mind to it,you can do anything you want to do 00:30:36.200 --> 00:30:39.500 comparing the whole thing it used to be,women are more sxually ?? 00:30:39.500 --> 00:30:41.900 the better ability to express sensational desire 00:30:41.900 --> 00:30:45.000 and to expect a man in being controll of sex 00:30:45.000 --> 00:30:48.700 before,you know,probably up to 1970s adn 1980s 00:30:48.700 --> 00:30:50.200 men are almost in charge of sex 00:30:50.200 --> 00:30:53.500 but there is no woman that can quite happily take control 00:30:53.500 --> 00:30:55.600 I like to have sex with women 00:30:55.600 --> 00:30:58.800 pretty much the same way I do with men 00:30:58.800 --> 00:31:01.700 I mean there is no difference especially when you use toys 00:31:01.700 --> 00:31:04.000 instead of that overly penis 00:31:04.000 --> 00:31:07.300 but sometimes it's even better because they ? break 00:31:07.300 --> 00:31:12.600 67 percent women having sex with women use sex toys as part of their love making 00:31:12.600 --> 00:31:15.600 and 15 percent admit to use a ? 00:31:15.600 --> 00:31:18.800 but what's applea of the substitue penis 00:31:18.800 --> 00:31:22.600 I feel quite masculine,it's not the easist thing to use 00:31:22.600 --> 00:31:26.300 if you do have to get a nap of it because like swinging 00:31:26.300 --> 00:31:30.100 it's swinging you have get the nap of that 00:31:30.100 --> 00:31:31.800 partly engaged agressively there,I think 00:31:31.800 --> 00:31:40.000 because the masculine thing wearing a cock,make you 00:31:40.000 --> 00:31:43.800 because I feel like right on the man,I am taking controll 00:31:43.800 --> 00:31:48.000 and cuase you are really taking controll,aren't you? 00:31:48.000 --> 00:31:55.600 I really enjoy,because it needs you both do youself,I mean this 00:31:55.600 --> 00:31:59.500 there is more on oral share,because by sharing at the same time 00:31:59.500 --> 00:32:04.100 so it's very much,I can see the toy and her 00:32:04.100 --> 00:32:05.900 she can see the toy and me 00:32:05.900 --> 00:32:10.400 and we both working together,both giving each other the pleasure at the same time 00:32:10.400 --> 00:32:14.000 you don't have to use like front on,you can turn around 00:32:14.000 --> 00:32:17.100 you can do anything like that,like want to suck people 00:32:17.100 --> 00:32:25.000 in each other,whatever,I just think it's more passionate toy 00:32:25.000 --> 00:32:28.400 the bigest myth is that lesbians are waiting for a real man 00:32:28.400 --> 00:32:31.200 who can change them 00:32:31.200 --> 00:32:33.300 there is no real man out there 00:32:33.300 --> 00:32:40.000 that can change their percetion,their love of other human female form 00:32:40.000 --> 00:32:42.500 I can say the beauty in a woman 00:32:42.500 --> 00:32:46.600 and why wouldn't you want to be a woman by selecting 00:32:46.600 --> 00:32:49.400 god,they are amazing,they are gorgeous 00:32:49.400 --> 00:32:55.600 much of us will have a pretty,beautiful,gorgeous,stuning girl 00:32:55.600 --> 00:32:58.200 becuase that is what's nice to my eye 00:32:58.200 --> 00:33:05.200 just make you think full 00:33:05.200 --> 00:33:08.700 our mission on a girl's guide to 21st century sex 00:33:08.700 --> 00:33:12.000 is to get you experiencing and enjoying better sex 00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:14.000 we can give you tips and advice 00:33:14.000 --> 00:33:18.200 but ultimately it's up to you to express youself and put into action 00:33:18.200 --> 00:33:20.600 so joint us next week,cause we continue our journey 00:33:20.600 --> 00:33:25.200 to the facts,the myths and the science of human sexuality 00:33:25.200 --> 00:33:28.100 next time in a girl's guide to 21st century sex 00:33:28.100 --> 00:33:31.000 every man has a secret desire to be bigger 00:33:31.000 --> 00:33:35.000 but do the DIY penis enlargement work? 00:33:35.000 --> 00:33:39.000 the secret behide the stimulation of the female penis,the clitoris 00:33:39.000 --> 00:33:42.400 and the shocking terrible woman who cut off her husband's penis 00:33:42.400 --> 99:59:59.999 and the ground-breaking surgical attemp to reattach it