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Tonight,on the girl's guide to 21st century sex

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secret of the female orgasm

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and how women can ejaculate like men

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the best way to make love with your overweight

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what hapen inside the vagina during men ejaculation.

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and what men can learn from women who have sex with other women.

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Subtitled by laser of the forum http://www.jlpzj.com

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A girl's guide to 21st century sex, Episode One

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welcome to a girl's guide to 21st century sex

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the definitive coaching manual for having better sex

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I am doctor Catherine Hood.

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and over the next eight weeks

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I will be exploring every aspects of love making to improve you and your partner's performance

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Each time in the show

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We will demostrate and analyze the world's famous sexal positions

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with our specially designed camera

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we will see what really happen to your body during intercourse

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and we will explore sexual mysteries

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from how to get biger penis

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how to find the G-spot,have safe anal sex

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and how to have sex while you are pregnant

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we will also bring cautionary details of sexual transmitted infections

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and horrible story of how sex can go wrong

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and on every show,our world-famous sexal therapist Lou Paget from Los Angeles

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would be vedio very own personal expert coaching sections

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on anything from stimulating your G-spot

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to exercises for the perfect penis

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coming up tonight, we will discover how being a clinically a beast

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is no barrier to having great sex

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first,most women can have orgasm with practice

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and some can even ejaculate

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here is what you need to know about female orgasm

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the female orgasm is also called coming climaxing

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or having a big O

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lying and ? with pleasure

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a spike ? orgasm is the climax to great sex

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wheter you have view from full penetrated sex

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or sex with you partner,or by masturbation

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there are ways to make your orgasm longer or even more explosive

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my orgasm are amazing,really intense

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it just feel like going to heaven

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34 year old Moorgen from Corson has been in relationship with PE Phsyis for years

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but doesn't find orgasm easy

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I can't come up of myself from penetrated sex alone

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the data suggested that 30 percent of women can achieve orgasm with traditional penial-vaginal intercourse

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the female orgasm is a feeling of increasing sex excitement

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the building point of mood from ecstasy

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this orgasm moment is characterized by surge of muscle contraction of sexual organs

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the breathing becomes shallower and it becomes faster

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the heart rating increases

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and often the women can become quite warm, quite hot

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and inside the vagina, the glands that lie on the wall of the vagina will start to sweat

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the big news is,the women can have orgasm in several place simultaneously

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we have uniorgasm which is either a clitoris orgasm

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or a G-spot orgasm,then we have a biorgasm

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which is the two orgasm at the same time

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and the triorgasm, which is the anus,G-spot and clitoris at the same time

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I also like it when my clit,G-spot and anus stimulated

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because that is like three in want, this is amazing

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just feel really hot

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at the point of orgasm, some women have reported the explosion of mysterious liquid

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however,the medical community is divided on

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whether this claim is scientifically justifiable

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female ejaculation is a phenomenon

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it's hotly debated by many researchers,scientists,and doctors

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we feel it may be, and we know for certain definitely happen

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it is that women have experiences what they call an explosion of fluid

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the point of orgasm

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so the juice is till out for female ejaculation

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but for some women,ejaculating fluid during orgasm is frequent to come

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for me,it starts out as a small ?

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and then it just took off from there

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I got really excited about it

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wow,my body can do this

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and I can ejaculate as ofen as I want

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well,the orgasm itself does not change

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it is deeper ?,it's really wonderful

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and it's a whole different experience,it's delightful,wonderful

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I type some partners who love it,some partners who a little fret about it first

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and it can be such a very erotic thing

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I mean when you both come over and ejaculate

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that's wonderful.easy all over the face

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and you have it all over youself

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it's very fun,it's very wet,it's very wild

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so it can be huge turn on and back

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especially when it was totally explosive

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and it's just gushing, you totally gushing,it's very hot

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women that can ejaculate have well developed skene's glands

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skene's glands are the equal prostate glands in men

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and it surround urethra

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and with sexual stimulation,whether it be clitoris,vagina,G-spot or others

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the skene's glands become engorged,and secret fluid

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the fluid is and has been studied,consistent with ? or blood

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so it has ?,potassium,calcium,it's also PSA in it, Prostate Specific Antigen

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and in some case,urine,in some case,it's urine

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in some case,it's the combination between ejaculated fluid and urine

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and sometimes it's purely skene's gland fluid

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there has been a lot of research done looking at this fluid

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but we still don't know whether it is urine or fluid from another part of vagina

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a woman can have orgasm through intercourse,oral sex or anal sex

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manual stimulation of the vulva by her partner

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body loving,or ?,or masturbation

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soem women may have orgasm by just touching their breasts

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or by fantasizing about sex

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for many women the contact has been much more direct

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right on the genitals

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and in regular ?

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most women would have one orgasm,and then it need to take a long break

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stop,or ? sex place before the nex one

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but some women can have several arouse,they can have multiple orgasm

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but about 10 percent of women are thought to be anal orgasm

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and others frigid

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Danid even discovered that by wearing socks during sex

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twice as many women are able to achieve orgasm

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and how can you spot a woman who is faking

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the difference is during a real orgasm

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her muscle may contract involantary

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not even a great chance can it take back

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most women will have times when they find achieving orgasm a challenge

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relationship issues,negative thought,simply just day stress

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can make it hard to climax

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but it of course it could be,be it simply being sexually stimulated

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and aroused,in the right way for you

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after a break,we will be teaching you everything you neeed to know

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about the most popular sexual poition,the missionary

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and how this women doesn't let her size

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stop having great and fulfilling sex life

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End of part one

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Part two

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welcoem back to a girl's guid to 21st century sex

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coming up,a sexually transmited disease that has no symptom

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and how being immobily a beast hasn't stop one woman enjoying the fulfilling sex life

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now oral sex,most men love it

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but 45 pencent women don't like doing it

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but if it was done properly

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it could be one of the most enjoyable part of sex for both of you

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Here is Hollywood sex educator Lou Paget with her formula for giving your men the best oral sex

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good evening,and welcome to tonigh's 21st century workshop

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this evening,you are going to learn how to give your men the ultimate sexual pleasure

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also known as blow job

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I do not like the term blow job,the term is rather iky

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and besides,we as women know it has nothing to do with blowing

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the action of this is more about mimicking

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and making your hands and your mouths and ? vagina

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that is really what you create here

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you creating the three sensations that men say

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absolutely made for great intercourse

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when they first centrol women

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it's a combination of heat,pressure and moisture

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so you mouth is creating heat and moisture

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your hand is creating pressure

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you would say that your jaw gets...

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yeah,my jaw always hurts...

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and now you are using your jaw for the pressure

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if you attach your hand to your mouth like this

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and imagine a little ball bearing right here

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your jaw isn't creating pressure

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your mouth is open,is more open

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and this is creating pressure

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your ring at this,and pulling up,or through up and down

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or and the other thing you do

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your tongue is not just hanging out,Ok?

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your tongue is creating sensation on the back area

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the most one of sensitive as clitoris

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your hand and your mouth seal together

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you got 4 main motions

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you got up and down motions

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you got twisting motion of your hand coming up

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you got this is creating pressure coming up

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you mouth is creating the heat and moisture

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and your tongue is doing a back and forth motion

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I am going to show something

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that you can be incooperative while your mouth is here

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different thing to do the scroll up

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this is also called the stepchildren

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named because they belong to someone else and they often get ignored

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some men who do not like that

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they do take pleasrue,jsut say it is not pleasurable

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but here is the point I am going to show you

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lend me your arm

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when you go from point A to point B in straight line

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scratching,that is one sensation,OK?

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now,when you put a reguler pattern into it

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it is a different thing altogether

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feel the difference?

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you can be doing this on the scrotum

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lie gently,folding it

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again,treat it like small breakable edge

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you can gently stretch it with fingers

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once you build the intensity of the sensation

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do not fall back to a milder stimulation

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or instend of this,so if you mouth is geting tired

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and you doing something...,working here

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and also you start here...on the top of your tongue

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you basically have to last yourself like that for 5 minutes

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so that's why,if you have your hand incooperate at the same time

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you are maintaining the sensations

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so that is how you give your man the best oral sex he has ever had

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and please,do enjoy!

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most of us only have sex in one or two positions

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but there are hundreds of imaginative and inventive positions

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to have intercourse with your partner

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each has its own particular benefit

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for instance,some are more appropriate to the overweight or pregnant

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and others more suitable if your man has small penis

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the first position we are about to demostrate

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is often considered the most likely to give your G-spot orgasm

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it is always thought of the one most practised

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and the one most likely to get you pregnant

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it's the missionary position

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I should warn you that the material you are about to see

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is of particularly explicit nature

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the new mysterious orgin of the term, missionary position

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the most accepted is to date some era of christian missioanry

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rumor has it that holy men tried to press the unruly sexual practice of the native

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and persuade them that this is the only acceptable sexual position in the eye of the lord

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back home in the Victoria in England

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the position was considered the only one acceptable within marriage

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the missionary position remained hugely popular

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toping the famous 1940s KingZ Pole as American favored position

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It gained further ? in 1960s

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making the pages of the Oxford English Dictionary in 1969

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missionary position,a position for sexual intercourse

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with the woman lying on her back and the man lying on top and facing her

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like any sexual position,it proceeds by foreplay

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a central part of intercourse which makes penetration easier

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foreplay is extremely important

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firstly,just so you allow the man and woman to be fully aroused

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you allow the entrance of vagina to open out

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the length of the vagina lubricated

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and for the vagina to enlongate,and to bloom at the end

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to allow penetration to take place without discomfortable pain

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foreplay involves just normal kissing,it involves touching,massage

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foreplay can extend beyond that to manual stimulation

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with the hand of the gentle area by the vagina and penis

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are oiling ? sex

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the stimulation,strolling and sucking

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make the breasts grow in size and nipples harden

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they can increase in height by up to centimeter

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the genital becomes excited too

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the ? rush to a red color and swell up to 3 times its normal size

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the stimulation of foreplay causes 6 times the normal amount of blood

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to rush the penis,making it fully erect

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so both bodies are fully prepared for intercourse

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the missionary position is scientificly thought to maximize your chance of production

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physiologically it's probably the most ultimate sexual uite you can achieve

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the missionary position is quite simply the woman lying on the back

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someone may have posiblly known

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she will part her legs,she may have a new bend

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or her legs straight out the other side

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the man will then get on top of her

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and enter from above,usually the woman maneuvers about the side

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to explore what happen to the body during missionary position

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cameras have been attached to the couple's skin

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the woman's nipple,man's pinis,and inside the vagina

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in the missionary position,the ? legs open slightly

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this allows the penis to penetrate directly right up to the hill

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and in this position, you get direct stimulation of clitoris ??

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the glans,or head of the penis,are highly sensitive

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and run along the vagina ??

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so the position is very stimulating for the man

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the woman's nipples stay erect throughout intercourse

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penetration in this position is thought to lead the orgasm for woman

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as if it stimulate the G-spot

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the G-spot is an area of very sensitive tissue

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which is just on the front wall of the vagina about 2-3 inches or so

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and during this position,the penis will stimulate this

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as the woman approaches orgasm,she may feel hard beating in her vagina

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and the ? in her ?

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at climax she experiences involantary muscle ?

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in the outering of her vagina and anus

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the man's orgasm pulls semen to be ejaculated deep inside the vagina

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and it's thought that sexual missioanry position is much more likely to lead conception

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the missionary position allows a pool of semen to collect at the surface next to the womb

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and this can make it easier for woman who tries to conceive

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after orgasm,the erection subsides rapidly

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and the major and minor lips of the vagina shrink back

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both bodies now return to pre-aroused state

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you may have thought the missionary position was a little doubt

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but there is far more to meet the eye

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but if you would like to try something even more advanturous

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there will be demonstrating other sexual positions in the coming weeks

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now sexually tansmitted infections is something we do ratherly ignore

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but here is what can happen if you do

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the old french word for brothel,clapier is thought to be the original slang term for gonorrhea,the clap

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it remains the most common sexually transmitted infection in the world

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up to 2/3 new cases are in young people under the age of 25

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many of who would not know what they have

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gonorrhea has been known about as a bacterial infection for over 150 years

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although the clap may not sound like serious

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but untreated,gonorrhea can cause both serious and permanant health problems

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in both men and women

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gonorrhea is a bacteria that spreads from sexual contact

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either oral sex,or unprotective vagina anal sex

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it can infect the throat,it can infect the rectum

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and it can infect cervix,and urethra of women and men

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gonorrhea is highly infectious

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you stand up to 1 in 4 chance to catch it

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from your infective partner throughout unprotective sex

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more men diagnosed gonorrhea have symptoms that are easy to spot

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this slide shows the case that young man who are complaining of discharge

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you can see,this is a thick yellow discharge coming out of the tip of the penis

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there is some slight red around the head of the penis also

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yeah,this yellow discharge which has been there for about 3 days

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and it's intensively painful when he went for a pee

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he described that it is just like that pin broken glass

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if gonorrhea isn't treated at this stage

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the infection can spread up to walls of the bladder

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down the channel with connects the prostate gland

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and in through the texticle,where it causes severe inflammation

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it can cause epididymitis,inflammation of the tissure around the testicle

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and the testicle itself,and it can be very painful conditon

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if you are a man, you are quite likely to know if you got gonorrhea

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but about 80 percent of women may not experience any symptoms at all

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gonorrhea is more of a problem for a woman

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because they can not have a slight discharge,no discharge at all

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and they don't know they got the infection

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and of course,after a while the infection can travel through the uterus into the Fallopian tubes

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and cause condition called pelvic inflammatory disease(PID)

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and that is where tubes float with scars,blocked and get all contorted

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and then it becomes a really painful acute condition

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and if that is not diagnosed and treated appropriately

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the tubes can be damaged permanantly

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the womb can be yeld with tube infertility and chronic pelvic pain

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the gonorrhea bacteria can attach the body in some kind surpring places

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this slide shows a young man has the gonorrhea of the eye

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how wold somebody get gonorrhea in the eye

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well,if somebody has discharge from the penis and go for pee

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and the discharge in on the finger,and they roll their eyes

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you can easily transmit to yourself like that

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the other ways,just use your imagination

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gonorrhea is currently rised among the young people

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particularly in the city

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so what can you do to protect youself

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you can either say no

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you can always say yes,but always with a condom

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and you can say,see,we make a mistake,let's go and get ourself checked

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it's amazing the gonorrhea is still on the rise after all these years

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use condom every time you have sex to protect yourself

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and remmember you can catch gonorrhea in the throat too from oral sex

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now many people aquire sexyness with being thin

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but 40 pencent of women who are ? or over

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so can you still have sex even when you are overweight

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swedish researchers found in a study of 2100 women

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there was no significant difference in terms of the satisfaction

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with sex life between the beast people and normal weight people

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but in order to achieve that level of satisfaction

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overweight people need to make adjustment to their love making

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depending on your size

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the penis and vagina become more hidden in excess wall of fat

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so not all sexual positions will be achievable

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can you still lead a fulfilling sex life?

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of course,these people can still have sex

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and very fulfilling satisfied sex life

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you don't have be looking like a model in order to be sexy

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lots of people will think these people are sexy

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culture will think these people are sexy

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for example,for Caribbee gernally tend to like corpulent wowen

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so do like American

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and we are in the condition of this country

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and to think that skimy is beautiful

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that is not neccesarily the case

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36-year-old Homa is 24 ston

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and he has faced some of the challege of sex

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only ocassionally I have had sex with larger woman

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yeah,it has been quite awkard

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for example,there is one time a lady have ? long legs

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she couldn't get across me,unfortunately

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there is big about it,seems obvious

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you try to find out a new position

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it does mean you can't do it

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it's just,obviously,you got to work around it

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it's unfortunate,in some times

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because you miss out on certain things you like to do

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because they are favored,but you can't do it,rigidly,for physical reason

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however,active sexual experience,achieving the right position is the center

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the best sexual position to be used is the one

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that is comfrotable and enjoyed by both,clearly

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sexual activity is,actually,a good form of exercise

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even for the more beast

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and for that so many should not be discouraged

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but what's important,something is done in a way

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that is confortable,not with signifant risk

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and one that bring for them both the actual satisfaction

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because the man supports his weight on his arms

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and being a big guy,you can't be there so long

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before you are tired out

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as well as ?,you do turn this way which is nice slfishly

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being big,it's not nice for the person underneath

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because,obviously,obesity takes effect

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so it is not best thing in the world unfortunately

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you can't really do a lot,you can't move

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it's hard to get up,because when you like that

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you got to use a lot of energy to push off and back up

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if you need to get up the way

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if you can't get into certain position at the time

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don't kill the mood,don't spoil it

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just get to something else

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the foreplay,keep on going,going....

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bacause at the end of the day,it's not all about the penetration

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a alternative to penetration is for the man to rub his penis

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along the fat foam on the woman's body

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this type of sex can be performed with greater ease

0:24:25.200,0:24:27.300
but whichever way you choose to have sex

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if you are overweight,you need to be cautious

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the health risk being a beast for a man

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are much greater to got heart disease

0:24:37.200,0:24:39.900
about 4 times the normal rate

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but if only become a super beast,you are looking at

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as many as 20 times to get heart disease

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4 times the risk to get diabetes

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and of course,erect disfunction problem

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having and maitaining erection

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and just physical inability to become sexually active

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super-size Teighlor weighs over 300 pounds

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yet she has no problem enjoying sex

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I think the bigest myths about fat people can't have sex

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orgasm is unachievable,nothing could be further from the truth

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Teighlor has no problem attracting the opposite sex

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?,but I do get a lot brothers

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because,for years,they drawn pictures of women like me

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thinking there is never anybody really out there that looks like that

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and then here I am in the flesh

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we call the men who like large women ?? fat admirer

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men who like large women can consider so very femaline and very ?

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because we do feel like a little cloud for then

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once the ? partner that have norm psychological reason

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why people who are overwight beast can enjoy sex

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it's bold self-esteem

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if they want someone who need some feel good

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then they could have a good sex life

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well,many people rule out the way will enjoy a healthy sex life

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you must be careful

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if you experience any breathlessness or chest pain during sex

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you should contact your doctor

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still to come,why some women prefer to have sex with other women

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what they can teach men about arousal and orgasm

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End of Part Two

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Part Three

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welcome back to a girl's guide to 21st century sex

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1 in 4 womem have fantasized about having sex with another woman

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it's because they believe another woman truly know to arouse them

0:26:46.400,0:26:50.300
many men admitted to fantasizing about lesbian sex

0:26:50.300,0:26:54.100
but by definition,lesbians are sexually interested in men

0:26:54.100,0:26:57.600
hollywood star Angelina Jolie has been voted as the woman

0:26:57.600,0:27:00.100
most lesbians want to have sex with

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it's now even considered cheat

0:27:02.100,0:27:06.000
and it doesn't take long for hollywood ???

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hollywood most famous lesbian couple in recent years

0:27:09.100,0:27:12.500
Ellen DeGeneres and Alexandra Hedison split last year

0:27:12.500,0:27:21.200
after Ellen's very public affairs with actress Portia de Rossi

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the word di,first appeared in newspaper in 1710

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to describe two crossdress in Climax

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once precieved ?,di has been ?by some lesbians

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who characterized themself bush di if they are more masculine

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or baby di if they are yound and ?

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and the term lipstick lesbian sometimes refers to women

0:27:46.800,0:27:50.300
who express their more glamous side

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in the UK,around 6 percent the population are gay,lesbian or bisexual

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it's impossible to determinate the exact figure

0:27:59.200,0:28:04.600
because people's sexual preference is going to change during the lifetime

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you find that a lot of ? and questioning women

0:28:08.400,0:28:10.800
who have experience look like lesbian saying these days

0:28:10.800,0:28:12.100
can be not just it used to be

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i think that's what our society is going

0:28:14.300,0:28:17.600
and you know that is not a healthy thing

0:28:17.600,0:28:20.100
a lot of women that will bisexual

0:28:20.100,0:28:21.900
and some lesbian women that will clearly tell you

0:28:21.900,0:28:23.400
that it is about the person

0:28:23.400,0:28:27.000
it may not be necessarily just about the body part

0:28:27.000,0:28:33.400
everybody is born with your ability love the same sex,physically and emotionally

0:28:33.400,0:28:39.500
but our evironment and our experiences,you know,deter who will become ?

0:28:39.500,0:28:42.400
in part of my life,i just want to love a woman

0:28:42.400,0:28:45.000
I am not interested in men,men as friends,great

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still fancy them,but I am not interested and have no relationship them

0:28:49.600,0:28:52.500
there is no facet of lesbian today

0:28:52.500,0:28:55.400
they can be anywhere and anyone

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they can be judges,they can be teachers,they be dancers

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and now it is just all about

0:29:01.500,0:29:05.900
if I look at famous women,I can't tell who is gay who is not

0:29:05.900,0:29:10.100
they got this all about them,hard to screen out

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I am a lesbian as well

0:29:13.800,0:29:16.200
because we are just like more femaline and girly

0:29:16.200,0:29:19.600
perhaps,we have not got that all about us

0:29:19.600,0:29:24.600
we live with women mysteriously,we are like "is she? isn't she?"

0:29:24.600,0:29:27.100
so you can't tell,quite like that way

0:29:27.100,0:29:29.000
it's more mysterious,more fun

0:29:29.000,0:29:31.500
we are female,we know our body really well

0:29:31.500,0:29:32.900
so we know what we like

0:29:32.900,0:29:38.200
it's probally easy for us to give a woman pleasure than perhaps a man

0:29:38.200,0:29:42.100
? and toutching such variety the connection is about

0:29:42.100,0:29:46.600
the body together,and just the way women are with one another

0:29:46.600,0:29:49.200
it's just,I almost think it's just a name

0:29:49.200,0:29:51.900
that two feeling that women have with each other

0:29:51.900,0:29:56.400
a lot of people think that lesbian sex is all gental classic

0:29:56.400,0:30:01.600
sweet,nice,as opposed to a man raviging a woman hetersexually

0:30:01.600,0:30:05.000
but no,women can pretty nasty with each other

0:30:05.000,0:30:07.200
and tear each other's clothes off and go at it

0:30:07.200,0:30:09.100
sex is sex

0:30:09.100,0:30:15.200
with lesbians it's posible to do every think-of position

0:30:15.200,0:30:17.900
that is for a male and female

0:30:17.900,0:30:24.900
from your oral 69 position to doggy,going on top

0:30:24.900,0:30:29.000
all of that,it's exactly what you could do with a guy

0:30:29.000,0:30:32.100
and there is no boundary because you can do everything

0:30:32.100,0:30:36.200
only put your mind to it,you can do anything you want to do

0:30:36.200,0:30:39.500
comparing the whole thing it used to be,women are more sxually ??

0:30:39.500,0:30:41.900
the better ability to express sensational desire

0:30:41.900,0:30:45.000
and to expect a man in being controll of sex

0:30:45.000,0:30:48.700
before,you know,probably up to 1970s adn 1980s

0:30:48.700,0:30:50.200
men are almost in charge of sex

0:30:50.200,0:30:53.500
but there is no woman that can quite happily take control

0:30:53.500,0:30:55.600
I like to have sex with women

0:30:55.600,0:30:58.800
pretty much the same way I do with men

0:30:58.800,0:31:01.700
I mean there is no difference especially when you use toys

0:31:01.700,0:31:04.000
instead of that overly penis

0:31:04.000,0:31:07.300
but sometimes it's even better because they ? break

0:31:07.300,0:31:12.600
67 percent women having sex with women use sex toys as part of their love making

0:31:12.600,0:31:15.600
and 15 percent admit to use a ?

0:31:15.600,0:31:18.800
but what's applea of the substitue penis

0:31:18.800,0:31:22.600
I feel quite masculine,it's not the easist thing to use

0:31:22.600,0:31:26.300
if you do have to get a nap of it because like swinging

0:31:26.300,0:31:30.100
it's swinging you have get the nap of that

0:31:30.100,0:31:31.800
partly engaged agressively there,I think

0:31:31.800,0:31:40.000
because the masculine thing wearing a cock,make you

0:31:40.000,0:31:43.800
because I feel like right on the man,I am taking controll

0:31:43.800,0:31:48.000
and cuase you are really taking controll,aren't you?

0:31:48.000,0:31:55.600
I really enjoy,because it needs you both do youself,I mean this

0:31:55.600,0:31:59.500
there is more on oral share,because by sharing at the same time

0:31:59.500,0:32:04.100
so it's very much,I can see the toy and her

0:32:04.100,0:32:05.900
she can see the toy and me

0:32:05.900,0:32:10.400
and we both working together,both giving each other the pleasure at the same time

0:32:10.400,0:32:14.000
you don't have to use like front on,you can turn around

0:32:14.000,0:32:17.100
you can do anything like that,like want to suck people

0:32:17.100,0:32:25.000
in each other,whatever,I just think it's more passionate toy

0:32:25.000,0:32:28.400
the bigest myth is that lesbians are waiting for a real man

0:32:28.400,0:32:31.200
who can change them

0:32:31.200,0:32:33.300
there is no real man out there

0:32:33.300,0:32:40.000
that can change their percetion,their love of other human female form

0:32:40.000,0:32:42.500
I can say the beauty in a woman

0:32:42.500,0:32:46.600
and why wouldn't you want to be a woman by selecting

0:32:46.600,0:32:49.400
god,they are amazing,they are gorgeous

0:32:49.400,0:32:55.600
much of us will have a pretty,beautiful,gorgeous,stuning girl

0:32:55.600,0:32:58.200
becuase that is what's nice to my eye

0:32:58.200,0:33:05.200
just make you think full

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our mission on a girl's guide to 21st century sex

0:33:08.700,0:33:12.000
is to get you experiencing and enjoying better sex

0:33:12.000,0:33:14.000
we can give you tips and advice

0:33:14.000,0:33:18.200
but ultimately it's up to you to express youself and put into action

0:33:18.200,0:33:20.600
so joint us next week,cause we continue our journey

0:33:20.600,0:33:25.200
to the facts,the myths and the science of human sexuality

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next time in a girl's guide to 21st century sex

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every man has a secret desire to be bigger

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but do the DIY penis enlargement work?

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the secret behide the stimulation of the female penis,the clitoris

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and the shocking terrible woman who cut off her husband's penis

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and the ground-breaking surgical attemp to reattach it