Tonight,on the girl's guide to 21st century sex
secret of the female orgasm
and how women can ejaculate like men
the best way to make love with your overweight
what hapen inside the vagina during men ejaculation.
and what men can learn from women who have sex with other women.
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A girl's guide to 21st century sex, Episode One
welcome to a girl's guide to 21st century sex
the definitive coaching manual for having better sex
I am doctor Catherine Hood.
and over the next eight weeks
I will be exploring every aspects of love making to improve you and your partner's performance
Each time in the show
We will demostrate and analyze the world's famous sexal positions
with our specially designed camera
we will see what really happen to your body during intercourse
and we will explore sexual mysteries
from how to get biger penis
how to find the G-spot,have safe anal sex
and how to have sex while you are pregnant
we will also bring cautionary details of sexual transmitted infections
and horrible story of how sex can go wrong
and on every show,our world-famous sexal therapist Lou Paget from Los Angeles
would be vedio very own personal expert coaching sections
on anything from stimulating your G-spot
to exercises for the perfect penis
coming up tonight, we will discover how being a clinically a beast
is no barrier to having great sex
first,most women can have orgasm with practice
and some can even ejaculate
here is what you need to know about female orgasm
the female orgasm is also called coming climaxing
or having a big O
lying and ? with pleasure
a spike ? orgasm is the climax to great sex
wheter you have view from full penetrated sex
or sex with you partner,or by masturbation
there are ways to make your orgasm longer or even more explosive
my orgasm are amazing,really intense
it just feel like going to heaven
34 year old Moorgen from Corson has been in relationship with PE Phsyis for years
but doesn't find orgasm easy
I can't come up of myself from penetrated sex alone
the data suggested that 30 percent of women can achieve orgasm with traditional penial-vaginal intercourse
the female orgasm is a feeling of increasing sex excitement
the building point of mood from ecstasy
this orgasm moment is characterized by surge of muscle contraction of sexual organs
the breathing becomes shallower and it becomes faster
the heart rating increases
and often the women can become quite warm, quite hot
and inside the vagina, the glands that lie on the wall of the vagina will start to sweat
the big news is,the women can have orgasm in several place simultaneously
we have uniorgasm which is either a clitoris orgasm
or a G-spot orgasm,then we have a biorgasm
which is the two orgasm at the same time
and the triorgasm, which is the anus,G-spot and clitoris at the same time
I also like it when my clit,G-spot and anus stimulated
because that is like three in want, this is amazing
just feel really hot
at the point of orgasm, some women have reported the explosion of mysterious liquid
however,the medical community is divided on
whether this claim is scientifically justifiable
female ejaculation is a phenomenon
it's hotly debated by many researchers,scientists,and doctors
we feel it may be, and we know for certain definitely happen
it is that women have experiences what they call an explosion of fluid
the point of orgasm
so the juice is till out for female ejaculation
but for some women,ejaculating fluid during orgasm is frequent to come
for me,it starts out as a small ?
and then it just took off from there
I got really excited about it
wow,my body can do this
and I can ejaculate as ofen as I want
well,the orgasm itself does not change
it is deeper ?,it's really wonderful
and it's a whole different experience,it's delightful,wonderful
I type some partners who love it,some partners who a little fret about it first
and it can be such a very erotic thing
I mean when you both come over and ejaculate
that's wonderful.easy all over the face
and you have it all over youself
it's very fun,it's very wet,it's very wild
so it can be huge turn on and back
especially when it was totally explosive
and it's just gushing, you totally gushing,it's very hot
women that can ejaculate have well developed skene's glands
skene's glands are the equal prostate glands in men
and it surround urethra
and with sexual stimulation,whether it be clitoris,vagina,G-spot or others
the skene's glands become engorged,and secret fluid
the fluid is and has been studied,consistent with ? or blood
so it has ?,potassium,calcium,it's also PSA in it, Prostate Specific Antigen
and in some case,urine,in some case,it's urine
in some case,it's the combination between ejaculated fluid and urine
and sometimes it's purely skene's gland fluid
there has been a lot of research done looking at this fluid
but we still don't know whether it is urine or fluid from another part of vagina
a woman can have orgasm through intercourse,oral sex or anal sex
manual stimulation of the vulva by her partner
body loving,or ?,or masturbation
soem women may have orgasm by just touching their breasts
or by fantasizing about sex
for many women the contact has been much more direct
right on the genitals
and in regular ?
most women would have one orgasm,and then it need to take a long break
stop,or ? sex place before the nex one
but some women can have several arouse,they can have multiple orgasm
but about 10 percent of women are thought to be anal orgasm
and others frigid
Danid even discovered that by wearing socks during sex
twice as many women are able to achieve orgasm
and how can you spot a woman who is faking
the difference is during a real orgasm
her muscle may contract involantary
not even a great chance can it take back
most women will have times when they find achieving orgasm a challenge
relationship issues,negative thought,simply just day stress
can make it hard to climax
but it of course it could be,be it simply being sexually stimulated
and aroused,in the right way for you
after a break,we will be teaching you everything you neeed to know
about the most popular sexual poition,the missionary
and how this women doesn't let her size
stop having great and fulfilling sex life
End of part one
Part two
welcoem back to a girl's guid to 21st century sex
coming up,a sexually transmited disease that has no symptom
and how being immobily a beast hasn't stop one woman enjoying the fulfilling sex life
now oral sex,most men love it
but 45 pencent women don't like doing it
but if it was done properly
it could be one of the most enjoyable part of sex for both of you
Here is Hollywood sex educator Lou Paget with her formula for giving your men the best oral sex
good evening,and welcome to tonigh's 21st century workshop
this evening,you are going to learn how to give your men the ultimate sexual pleasure
also known as blow job
I do not like the term blow job,the term is rather iky
and besides,we as women know it has nothing to do with blowing
the action of this is more about mimicking
and making your hands and your mouths and ? vagina
that is really what you create here
you creating the three sensations that men say
absolutely made for great intercourse
when they first centrol women
it's a combination of heat,pressure and moisture
so you mouth is creating heat and moisture
your hand is creating pressure
you would say that your jaw gets...
yeah,my jaw always hurts...
and now you are using your jaw for the pressure
if you attach your hand to your mouth like this
and imagine a little ball bearing right here
your jaw isn't creating pressure
your mouth is open,is more open
and this is creating pressure
your ring at this,and pulling up,or through up and down
or and the other thing you do
your tongue is not just hanging out,Ok?
your tongue is creating sensation on the back area
the most one of sensitive as clitoris
your hand and your mouth seal together
you got 4 main motions
you got up and down motions
you got twisting motion of your hand coming up
you got this is creating pressure coming up
you mouth is creating the heat and moisture
and your tongue is doing a back and forth motion
I am going to show something
that you can be incooperative while your mouth is here
different thing to do the scroll up
this is also called the stepchildren
named because they belong to someone else and they often get ignored
some men who do not like that
they do take pleasrue,jsut say it is not pleasurable
but here is the point I am going to show you
lend me your arm
when you go from point A to point B in straight line
scratching,that is one sensation,OK?
now,when you put a reguler pattern into it
it is a different thing altogether
feel the difference?
you can be doing this on the scrotum
lie gently,folding it
again,treat it like small breakable edge
you can gently stretch it with fingers
once you build the intensity of the sensation
do not fall back to a milder stimulation
or instend of this,so if you mouth is geting tired
and you doing something...,working here
and also you start here...on the top of your tongue
you basically have to last yourself like that for 5 minutes
so that's why,if you have your hand incooperate at the same time
you are maintaining the sensations
so that is how you give your man the best oral sex he has ever had
and please,do enjoy!
most of us only have sex in one or two positions
but there are hundreds of imaginative and inventive positions
to have intercourse with your partner
each has its own particular benefit
for instance,some are more appropriate to the overweight or pregnant
and others more suitable if your man has small penis
the first position we are about to demostrate
is often considered the most likely to give your G-spot orgasm
it is always thought of the one most practised
and the one most likely to get you pregnant
it's the missionary position
I should warn you that the material you are about to see
is of particularly explicit nature
the new mysterious orgin of the term, missionary position
the most accepted is to date some era of christian missioanry
rumor has it that holy men tried to press the unruly sexual practice of the native
and persuade them that this is the only acceptable sexual position in the eye of the lord
back home in the Victoria in England
the position was considered the only one acceptable within marriage
the missionary position remained hugely popular
toping the famous 1940s KingZ Pole as American favored position
It gained further ? in 1960s
making the pages of the Oxford English Dictionary in 1969
missionary position,a position for sexual intercourse
with the woman lying on her back and the man lying on top and facing her
like any sexual position,it proceeds by foreplay
a central part of intercourse which makes penetration easier
foreplay is extremely important
firstly,just so you allow the man and woman to be fully aroused
you allow the entrance of vagina to open out
the length of the vagina lubricated
and for the vagina to enlongate,and to bloom at the end
to allow penetration to take place without discomfortable pain
foreplay involves just normal kissing,it involves touching,massage
foreplay can extend beyond that to manual stimulation
with the hand of the gentle area by the vagina and penis
are oiling ? sex
the stimulation,strolling and sucking
make the breasts grow in size and nipples harden
they can increase in height by up to centimeter
the genital becomes excited too
the ? rush to a red color and swell up to 3 times its normal size
the stimulation of foreplay causes 6 times the normal amount of blood
to rush the penis,making it fully erect
so both bodies are fully prepared for intercourse
the missionary position is scientificly thought to maximize your chance of production
physiologically it's probably the most ultimate sexual uite you can achieve
the missionary position is quite simply the woman lying on the back
someone may have posiblly known
she will part her legs,she may have a new bend
or her legs straight out the other side
the man will then get on top of her
and enter from above,usually the woman maneuvers about the side
to explore what happen to the body during missionary position
cameras have been attached to the couple's skin
the woman's nipple,man's pinis,and inside the vagina
in the missionary position,the ? legs open slightly
this allows the penis to penetrate directly right up to the hill
and in this position, you get direct stimulation of clitoris ??
the glans,or head of the penis,are highly sensitive
and run along the vagina ??
so the position is very stimulating for the man
the woman's nipples stay erect throughout intercourse
penetration in this position is thought to lead the orgasm for woman
as if it stimulate the G-spot
the G-spot is an area of very sensitive tissue
which is just on the front wall of the vagina about 2-3 inches or so
and during this position,the penis will stimulate this
as the woman approaches orgasm,she may feel hard beating in her vagina
and the ? in her ?
at climax she experiences involantary muscle ?
in the outering of her vagina and anus
the man's orgasm pulls semen to be ejaculated deep inside the vagina
and it's thought that sexual missioanry position is much more likely to lead conception
the missionary position allows a pool of semen to collect at the surface next to the womb
and this can make it easier for woman who tries to conceive
after orgasm,the erection subsides rapidly
and the major and minor lips of the vagina shrink back
both bodies now return to pre-aroused state
you may have thought the missionary position was a little doubt
but there is far more to meet the eye
but if you would like to try something even more advanturous
there will be demonstrating other sexual positions in the coming weeks
now sexually tansmitted infections is something we do ratherly ignore
but here is what can happen if you do
the old french word for brothel,clapier is thought to be the original slang term for gonorrhea,the clap
it remains the most common sexually transmitted infection in the world
up to 2/3 new cases are in young people under the age of 25
many of who would not know what they have
gonorrhea has been known about as a bacterial infection for over 150 years
although the clap may not sound like serious
but untreated,gonorrhea can cause both serious and permanant health problems
in both men and women
gonorrhea is a bacteria that spreads from sexual contact
either oral sex,or unprotective vagina anal sex
it can infect the throat,it can infect the rectum
and it can infect cervix,and urethra of women and men
gonorrhea is highly infectious
you stand up to 1 in 4 chance to catch it
from your infective partner throughout unprotective sex
more men diagnosed gonorrhea have symptoms that are easy to spot
this slide shows the case that young man who are complaining of discharge
you can see,this is a thick yellow discharge coming out of the tip of the penis
there is some slight red around the head of the penis also
yeah,this yellow discharge which has been there for about 3 days
and it's intensively painful when he went for a pee
he described that it is just like that pin broken glass
if gonorrhea isn't treated at this stage
the infection can spread up to walls of the bladder
down the channel with connects the prostate gland
and in through the texticle,where it causes severe inflammation
it can cause epididymitis,inflammation of the tissure around the testicle
and the testicle itself,and it can be very painful conditon
if you are a man, you are quite likely to know if you got gonorrhea
but about 80 percent of women may not experience any symptoms at all
gonorrhea is more of a problem for a woman
because they can not have a slight discharge,no discharge at all
and they don't know they got the infection
and of course,after a while the infection can travel through the uterus into the Fallopian tubes
and cause condition called pelvic inflammatory disease(PID)
and that is where tubes float with scars,blocked and get all contorted
and then it becomes a really painful acute condition
and if that is not diagnosed and treated appropriately
the tubes can be damaged permanantly
the womb can be yeld with tube infertility and chronic pelvic pain
the gonorrhea bacteria can attach the body in some kind surpring places
this slide shows a young man has the gonorrhea of the eye
how wold somebody get gonorrhea in the eye
well,if somebody has discharge from the penis and go for pee
and the discharge in on the finger,and they roll their eyes
you can easily transmit to yourself like that
the other ways,just use your imagination
gonorrhea is currently rised among the young people
particularly in the city
so what can you do to protect youself
you can either say no
you can always say yes,but always with a condom
and you can say,see,we make a mistake,let's go and get ourself checked
it's amazing the gonorrhea is still on the rise after all these years
use condom every time you have sex to protect yourself
and remmember you can catch gonorrhea in the throat too from oral sex
now many people aquire sexyness with being thin
but 40 pencent of women who are ? or over
so can you still have sex even when you are overweight
swedish researchers found in a study of 2100 women
there was no significant difference in terms of the satisfaction
with sex life between the beast people and normal weight people
but in order to achieve that level of satisfaction
overweight people need to make adjustment to their love making
depending on your size
the penis and vagina become more hidden in excess wall of fat
so not all sexual positions will be achievable
can you still lead a fulfilling sex life?
of course,these people can still have sex
and very fulfilling satisfied sex life
you don't have be looking like a model in order to be sexy
lots of people will think these people are sexy
culture will think these people are sexy
for example,for Caribbee gernally tend to like corpulent wowen
so do like American
and we are in the condition of this country
and to think that skimy is beautiful
that is not neccesarily the case
36-year-old Homa is 24 ston
and he has faced some of the challege of sex
only ocassionally I have had sex with larger woman
yeah,it has been quite awkard
for example,there is one time a lady have ? long legs
she couldn't get across me,unfortunately
there is big about it,seems obvious
you try to find out a new position
it does mean you can't do it
it's just,obviously,you got to work around it
it's unfortunate,in some times
because you miss out on certain things you like to do
because they are favored,but you can't do it,rigidly,for physical reason
however,active sexual experience,achieving the right position is the center
the best sexual position to be used is the one
that is comfrotable and enjoyed by both,clearly
sexual activity is,actually,a good form of exercise
even for the more beast
and for that so many should not be discouraged
but what's important,something is done in a way
that is confortable,not with signifant risk
and one that bring for them both the actual satisfaction
because the man supports his weight on his arms
and being a big guy,you can't be there so long
before you are tired out
as well as ?,you do turn this way which is nice slfishly
being big,it's not nice for the person underneath
because,obviously,obesity takes effect
so it is not best thing in the world unfortunately
you can't really do a lot,you can't move
it's hard to get up,because when you like that
you got to use a lot of energy to push off and back up
if you need to get up the way
if you can't get into certain position at the time
don't kill the mood,don't spoil it
just get to something else
the foreplay,keep on going,going....
bacause at the end of the day,it's not all about the penetration
a alternative to penetration is for the man to rub his penis
along the fat foam on the woman's body
this type of sex can be performed with greater ease
but whichever way you choose to have sex
if you are overweight,you need to be cautious
the health risk being a beast for a man
are much greater to got heart disease
about 4 times the normal rate
but if only become a super beast,you are looking at
as many as 20 times to get heart disease
4 times the risk to get diabetes
and of course,erect disfunction problem
having and maitaining erection
and just physical inability to become sexually active
super-size Teighlor weighs over 300 pounds
yet she has no problem enjoying sex
I think the bigest myths about fat people can't have sex
orgasm is unachievable,nothing could be further from the truth
Teighlor has no problem attracting the opposite sex
?,but I do get a lot brothers
because,for years,they drawn pictures of women like me
thinking there is never anybody really out there that looks like that
and then here I am in the flesh
we call the men who like large women ?? fat admirer
men who like large women can consider so very femaline and very ?
because we do feel like a little cloud for then
once the ? partner that have norm psychological reason
why people who are overwight beast can enjoy sex
it's bold self-esteem
if they want someone who need some feel good
then they could have a good sex life
well,many people rule out the way will enjoy a healthy sex life
you must be careful
if you experience any breathlessness or chest pain during sex
you should contact your doctor
still to come,why some women prefer to have sex with other women
what they can teach men about arousal and orgasm
End of Part Two
Part Three
welcome back to a girl's guide to 21st century sex
1 in 4 womem have fantasized about having sex with another woman
it's because they believe another woman truly know to arouse them
many men admitted to fantasizing about lesbian sex
but by definition,lesbians are sexually interested in men
hollywood star Angelina Jolie has been voted as the woman
most lesbians want to have sex with
it's now even considered cheat
and it doesn't take long for hollywood ???
hollywood most famous lesbian couple in recent years
Ellen DeGeneres and Alexandra Hedison split last year
after Ellen's very public affairs with actress Portia de Rossi
the word di,first appeared in newspaper in 1710
to describe two crossdress in Climax
once precieved ?,di has been ?by some lesbians
who characterized themself bush di if they are more masculine
or baby di if they are yound and ?
and the term lipstick lesbian sometimes refers to women
who express their more glamous side
in the UK,around 6 percent the population are gay,lesbian or bisexual
it's impossible to determinate the exact figure
because people's sexual preference is going to change during the lifetime
you find that a lot of ? and questioning women
who have experience look like lesbian saying these days
can be not just it used to be
i think that's what our society is going
and you know that is not a healthy thing
a lot of women that will bisexual
and some lesbian women that will clearly tell you
that it is about the person
it may not be necessarily just about the body part
everybody is born with your ability love the same sex,physically and emotionally
but our evironment and our experiences,you know,deter who will become ?
in part of my life,i just want to love a woman
I am not interested in men,men as friends,great
still fancy them,but I am not interested and have no relationship them
there is no facet of lesbian today
they can be anywhere and anyone
they can be judges,they can be teachers,they be dancers
and now it is just all about
if I look at famous women,I can't tell who is gay who is not
they got this all about them,hard to screen out
I am a lesbian as well
because we are just like more femaline and girly
perhaps,we have not got that all about us
we live with women mysteriously,we are like "is she? isn't she?"
so you can't tell,quite like that way
it's more mysterious,more fun
we are female,we know our body really well
so we know what we like
it's probally easy for us to give a woman pleasure than perhaps a man
? and toutching such variety the connection is about
the body together,and just the way women are with one another
it's just,I almost think it's just a name
that two feeling that women have with each other
a lot of people think that lesbian sex is all gental classic
sweet,nice,as opposed to a man raviging a woman hetersexually
but no,women can pretty nasty with each other
and tear each other's clothes off and go at it
sex is sex
with lesbians it's posible to do every think-of position
that is for a male and female
from your oral 69 position to doggy,going on top
all of that,it's exactly what you could do with a guy
and there is no boundary because you can do everything
only put your mind to it,you can do anything you want to do
comparing the whole thing it used to be,women are more sxually ??
the better ability to express sensational desire
and to expect a man in being controll of sex
before,you know,probably up to 1970s adn 1980s
men are almost in charge of sex
but there is no woman that can quite happily take control
I like to have sex with women
pretty much the same way I do with men
I mean there is no difference especially when you use toys
instead of that overly penis
but sometimes it's even better because they ? break
67 percent women having sex with women use sex toys as part of their love making
and 15 percent admit to use a ?
but what's applea of the substitue penis
I feel quite masculine,it's not the easist thing to use
if you do have to get a nap of it because like swinging
it's swinging you have get the nap of that
partly engaged agressively there,I think
because the masculine thing wearing a cock,make you
because I feel like right on the man,I am taking controll
and cuase you are really taking controll,aren't you?
I really enjoy,because it needs you both do youself,I mean this
there is more on oral share,because by sharing at the same time
so it's very much,I can see the toy and her
she can see the toy and me
and we both working together,both giving each other the pleasure at the same time
you don't have to use like front on,you can turn around
you can do anything like that,like want to suck people
in each other,whatever,I just think it's more passionate toy
the bigest myth is that lesbians are waiting for a real man
who can change them
there is no real man out there
that can change their percetion,their love of other human female form
I can say the beauty in a woman
and why wouldn't you want to be a woman by selecting
god,they are amazing,they are gorgeous
much of us will have a pretty,beautiful,gorgeous,stuning girl
becuase that is what's nice to my eye
just make you think full
our mission on a girl's guide to 21st century sex
is to get you experiencing and enjoying better sex
we can give you tips and advice
but ultimately it's up to you to express youself and put into action
so joint us next week,cause we continue our journey
to the facts,the myths and the science of human sexuality
next time in a girl's guide to 21st century sex
every man has a secret desire to be bigger
but do the DIY penis enlargement work?
the secret behide the stimulation of the female penis,the clitoris
and the shocking terrible woman who cut off her husband's penis
and the ground-breaking surgical attemp to reattach it