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Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Today I want to talk to you\Nabout the mathematics of love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think we can all agree \Nthat mathematicians
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are famously excellent \Nat finding love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But it's not just because\Nof our dashing personalities
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our superior conversational skills,\Nour our excellent pencil cases,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's also because we've done\Na lot of work into the maths
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of how to find the perfect partner.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,In my favorite paper on the subject,\Nwhich is entitled,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"Why I Don't Have a Girlfriend", \NPeter Backus tries to rate
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,his chances at finding love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now, peter is not a \Nvery greedy man.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Of all of the available \Nwomen in the UK,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,all that Peter's looking for is \Nsomebody who lives near him,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,somebody in the \Nright age range,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,somebody with a\Nuniversity degree,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,somebody he's likely \Nto get on well with,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,somebody attractive,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,somebody who is likely \Nto find him attractive
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter),
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and comes up with an \Nestimate of 26 women
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the whole of the UK.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not looking very good, \Nis it Peter?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now just to put that\Ninto perspective,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's about 400 times fewer\Nthan the best estimates
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of how many intelligent\Nextra-terrestrial life forms there are.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And it also gives Peter a \N1 in 285,000 chance
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of bumping into any one\Nof these special ladies
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on a night out.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I'd like to think that's why\Nmathematicians don't really bother
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,going on nights out anymore.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,The thing is is that I personally
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't subscribe to \Nsuch a pessimistic view.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I know, just as well \Nas you do,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that love doesn't \Nreally work like that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,human emotion\Nisn't neatly ordered,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rational, or easily predictable.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But I also know that that doesn't\Nmean that mathematics
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,doesn't have something \Nit can offer us
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because, love, as \Nwith most of life,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is full of patterns
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and mathematics is, ultimately,\Nall about the study of patterns.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,patterns from predicting\Nthe weather,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the fluctuations of \Nthe stock market,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to the movement \Nof the planets,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or the growth of cities.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,If we're being honest, none \Nof those things are neatly ordered
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Or easily predictable, either.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Because I believe\Nthat mathematics
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is so powerful that\Nis has the potential
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to offer us a new way of looking\Nat almost anything.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even something as \Nmysterious as love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And so, to try \Nto persuade you
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of how totally, excellent\Nand relevant mathematics is,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I want to give you my top three\Nmathematically verifiable tips for love.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, so top tip #1:
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,How to win at online dating.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So my favorite \Nonline dating website
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is OkayCupid,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not least because it was
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,started by a group \Nof mathematicians.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Now because they're \Nmathematicians,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they have been collecting\Ndata on everyone
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whose been using their site\Nfor almost a decade.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they've been\Ntrying to search
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for patterns in the way that\Nwe talk about ourselves\N
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the way that we \Ninteract with each other
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on online dating websites.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And they've come up with\Nseriously interesting findings.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But my particular favorite\Nis that it turns out
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that on an online \Ndating website,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how attractive you are
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,does not dictate \Nhow popular you are
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and actually having people\Nthink that you're ugly
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can work to your advantage.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Let me show you\Nhow this works.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, in a thankfully \Nvoluntary section,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are allowed to rate \Nhow attractive people are
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,between 1 and 5.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And if we compare this score, \Nthis average score
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to how many messages a\Nselection of people receive,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You can begin to get a sense\Nof how attractiveness
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,links to popularity \Non online dating.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So this is a graph \Nthat the online
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,OkayCupid guys \Nhave come up with
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the important \Nthing to notice
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that it's not totally true\Nthat the more attractive you are,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the more messages you get.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But the question arises then
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of what is it about people up here\Nwho are so much more popular
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than people down here
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even though they have the\Nsame score of attractiveness?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,same score of attractiveness
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the reason why is that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's not just straight forward looks
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that are important
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so, let me try to illustrate their findings
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with an example
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you take someone like porcia di rossi
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,everybody agrees that porcia di rossi
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is a very beautiful woman
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nobody thinks that she's ugly
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but she's not a supermodel
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if you compare porcia di rossi
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to someone like sarah jessica parker
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now, a lot of people
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,myself included
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think that sarah jessica parker
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is seriously fabulous
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and possibly one of
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the most beautiful creatures to have evr
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,walked the face of the earth
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but, some other people
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,e.i., most of the internet
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,seem to think that she looks a bit like a horse
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(laughter)
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now, i think that if you ask people
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how attractive sarah jessica parker \Nor porcia di rossi are
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you ask them to give them a score between one and five
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i reckon that they would average out to the same score
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the way that people would vote
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would be dry different
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so porcia's scores would all be clustered around
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the four because everybody agrees that she's
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,very beautiful
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whereas sarah jessica parker divides opinion
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,there a huge spread in her scores
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and actually it's this spread that counts
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's this spread that makes you more popular
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on online internet dating websites
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so what this means then
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is that if some people think that \Nyou're attractive
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you're actually better off\Nhaving some other people
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,think that you're a massive minger
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that's much better than everybody\Nthinking that you're the cute girl next door
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think that this makes a bit more sense
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when you think in terms of the people
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who are sending these messages
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so let's say that you think somebody's attractive
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but you suspect that other people
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,won't necessarily be that interested
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that means that there is less competition for you
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and that there's an extra incentive
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for you to get in touch
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whereas compare that to if you think
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,somebody is attractive but
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you suspect that everybody is going
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to think they're attractive
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well, why would you bother humiliating yourself
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,here's where the really interesting part comes
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people choose the pictures\Nthat they use on an online, dating website
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they often try to minimize the things
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they think people will find unattractive
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the classic example is that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,people who are a little but overweight
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,deliberately choosing a very cropped phto
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or bald men for example
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,deliberatly choosing pictures
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where they're wearing hats
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but this is the opposite of
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you should do if
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,want to be succesful
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you should really instead
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,play up to whatever it is that makes you different
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,even if you think that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,some people will find you unattractive
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because the people who fancy you
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are just going to fancy you anyway
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the unimportant losers who don't
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,well, they only play out to you r advantage
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Okay, top tip #2, how to pick\Nthe perfect partner
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so let's imagine then that\Nyou're a roaring success
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,on the dating scene
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the question arises of how\Ndo you then convert
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that success into longer term happiness
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in particular,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how do you decide when is the
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,right time to settle down
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now generally, it's not advisable
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to just cash in the first person
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who comes along and shows you any interest
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,at all
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but, equally, you don't want to leave it
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,too long if you want to maximize your \Nchances of long term happiness
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as my favorite author, jane austen put it,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"an unmarried woman of seven and twenty
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can never hope to feel or
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,inspire affection again."
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,laughter
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thanks, jane
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so the question is then
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how do you know when is the right
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,time to settle down
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,given all the people that you
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can date in your lifetime
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thankfully, there is a rather delicious bit
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of mathematics that we can use to
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,help us out here
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so lets imagine then,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you start dating when you're 15
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and ideally, you'd like to be
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,married by the time you're 35
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the number of people that you
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,could potentially date across your lifetime
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and they'll be at kind of varying levels
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of goodness
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now the rules are that when you cash in
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and get married
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can't look ahead and see
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what you could have had
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and equally, you can't go back
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and change your mind
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in my experience at least
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i find that people don't typically
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,like being recalled years after
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,being passed up
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for somebody else, or that's just me
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so the math says then
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that what you should do
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the first 37 percent of your dating window
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you should reject everybody \Nas serious marriage potential
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then, you should pick the \Nnext person who comes along
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who is better than everyone that you've seen before
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so here's the example
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now if you do this
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it can be mathematically proven in fact
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that this is the best possible way of
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maximizing your chances of
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,finding your perfect partner
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now, unfortunately i have to tell
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you that this method does come with some risks
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for instance, imagine if your
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,perfect partner appeared during your
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,first 37 percent
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now Uunfortunately, you'd have to reject them
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now, if you're following the maths
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im afraid that no one else comes along
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,better than anyone you've seen before
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so you have to go on rejecting everyone
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and die along
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,laughter
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,probably surrounded by cats
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,nibbling at your remains
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,okay, another risk
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is, let's imagine instead
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the first people that you dated
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in your first 37 percent are just incredibly
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,dull, terrible people
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now, that's okay, cause you're in your
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,rejection phase, so you can reject them
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but, then imagine that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the next person to cmd along
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is just marginally less boring, dull and terrible
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than everybody that you've seen before.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now, if you are following the maths
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,im afraid that you have to
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,marry them
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and end up in a relationship
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that is frankly suboptimal
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sorry about that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but i do think that there's an opportunity here
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for hallmark to cash in on
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and really cater to this market
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with a valentines day card like this
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,[my darling husband,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you are marginally less terrible
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than the first 37 percent
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of people i dated]
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,it's actually more romantic
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than i normally manage
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,okay, so this method doesn't
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,give you a 100 percent success rate
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but there's no other
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,possible strategy that can do any better
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and actually, in the wild there are certain
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,types of fish that follow
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,this exct strategy
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so they reject every possible suitor that turns up in
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the first 37 percent of the mating season, then they
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,pick the next fish
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who comes along after
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that window who is, i don't know
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,bigger and burlier than all the fish that they've seen
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i also think that subconsciously
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,humans, we sort of do this anyway
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,we give ourselves enough time to
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,play the field, get a feel for the market place
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or whatever
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,when we're young
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and then we only start looking seriously at
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,potential marriage candidates when we hit
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,our mid to late 20's
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think this is conclusive prrof
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,if ever it were needed
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that everybody's brains are prewired to be
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,just a little bit mathematical
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,okay, so that was top tip #2
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,top tip #3 how to avoid divorse
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,okay so let's imagine then that yu
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,picked your perfect partner
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and you're settling into a lifelong relationship with them
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now, i like to think that everybody
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,would like to avoid divorce
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from, piers morgan's wife, maybe?
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's a sad fact in modern life
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that one in two marriages end in divorce
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with the rest of the world
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,not being far behind
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now, you can be forgiven, perhaps
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for thinking that the arguments
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that precede a marital breakup
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are not an ideal candidate for mathematical
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,investigation
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for one, it's very hard to know what you should
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be measuring and what you should be
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,quantifying.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but this didn't stop a psychologist,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,john gotman,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,who did exactly THAT
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he observed, hotman observed
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,hundreds of couples having a conversation
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and recorded well, everything you could think of
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so he recorded what was said in \Nthe conversation
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he recorded skin conductivity
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he recorded their facial expresisons
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,heart rates, their blood pressure
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,basically everything apart
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from whether or not the wife was always right
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,, which incidentally she totally is
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but what got man found
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,what got man and his team found
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was that one of the most
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,important predictors for whether
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,or not a couple is going to get divorced
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is how positive or negative
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,each partner was being in the conversation
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now couples that were very low risk
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,scored a lot more positive on got man's scale
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,than negative.
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whereas bad relationship
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,as in, those that are pribably
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,going to get divorced,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they found themselves getting into
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a spiral of negativity
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now just by using these very simple ideas
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,gotman and his group were able to predict
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,whether a given couple
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,was going to get divorced
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with a 90 percent accuracy
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it wasn't until he teamed up
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,with a mathematician james murray
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that they really started to understand what caused
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these negativity spirals and how they occur
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the results that they found
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,i think are just incredibly, impressively, simple
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and interesting
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so these equations, they predict
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how the wife or husband is going
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to respond in the next turn\Nof the conversation
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how positive or negative\Nthey're going to be
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and these equations, they depend on
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mood of the person when they're on their own
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the mood of the person when they're with\Ntheir partner
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but most importantly, they depend on
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how much the husband and wife
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,influence one another
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now i think it's important to point out
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that at this stage that these exact
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,equations have also been shown t
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to be perfectly
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,able to describe what happens between two
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,countries in an arms race
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,laughter
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so that an arguing couple
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,spiraling into negativity
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,teetering on the brink of divoirce
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,is actually mathematically equivalent to
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the beginning of a nuclear war
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,laughter
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but the really important term
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in this equation is the influence
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that people have on one another
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and in particular
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,something called the negativity threshhold
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now the negativity threshhold
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you can think of as
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,how annoying the husband can
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,be before the wife starts to get really pissed of
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and vice versa
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now i always thought that good marriages
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are about compromise and understanding
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and allowing the person
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have the space to be themselves
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so i would have thought that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,perhaps the most successful relationships
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are the ones where there is
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a really high negativity threshhold
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,where couples let things go
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and only brought things up if there
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really were a big deal
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but actually, the mathematics
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and subsequent findings by the team
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,have shown that the exact opposite is true
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,the best couples of the most successful couples
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,are the ones are the ones with a
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,really low negativity threshold
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these are the couples that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,don't let anything go unnoticed
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they allow each other some room to complain
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these are the couples that are continually trying to repair
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,their own relationship
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that have a much more positive outlook on their marriage
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,couples that don't let things go
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and couples that don't let trivial things end up being
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a really big deal
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,now of course, it takes more than just a low negativity
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,threshold and not compromising
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have a succesful relationship
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but i think that it's quite interesting
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to know that there is really
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mathematical evidence to support that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,you should never let the sun
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,go down on your anger
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so those are my top three tips for how
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,maths can help you with
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,love and relaitonships
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but i hope that aside form
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,these aside form these tips
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they also give you a little bit of
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,insight into the power of mathematics
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because for me,
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,equationsand symbols
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,aren't just a thing
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,they are a voice that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,speaks out about the incredible richness
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,of nature
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and the startling simplicity
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,in the patterns that
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,twist and turn
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and warp and evolve
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,around us
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,from how the world wokrs
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to how we behave
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,so i hope that perhaps
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for just a couple of you
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,a little bit of insight into
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,mathematics of love
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,can persuade you
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to have a little bit more love
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,for mathematics
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,thank you
Dialogue: 0,9:59:59.99,9:59:59.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,applause