WEBVTT 00:00:00.586 --> 00:00:05.356 Mendoni se eshte e mundshme te kontrolloni vemendjen e dikujt? 00:00:05.356 --> 00:00:06.500 Edhe me shume, 00:00:06.500 --> 00:00:09.816 po sikur te parashikoni sjelljen njerezore? 00:00:09.816 --> 00:00:12.035 Mendoj se keto jane ide interesante, apo jo? 00:00:12.035 --> 00:00:14.162 E kam fjalen se per mua kjo do ishte nje superfuqi perfekte, 00:00:14.162 --> 00:00:16.579 ne fakt do ishte nje menyre keqdashese. 00:00:16.579 --> 00:00:19.743 Por per veten time, ne te kaluaren, kam shpenzuar 20 vitet fundit 00:00:19.743 --> 00:00:23.245 duke studiuar sjelljen njerezore ne nje menyre jo ortodokse: 00:00:23.245 --> 00:00:25.201 si hajdut xhepash. 00:00:25.201 --> 00:00:26.741 Kur mendojme per gabimin, 00:00:26.741 --> 00:00:29.045 na vjen ne mendje dicka qe shohim rrotull, 00:00:29.045 --> 00:00:31.773 nderkohe qe shpesh gjerat qe jane perpara nesh 00:00:31.773 --> 00:00:32.978 jane me te veshtirat per te pare, 00:00:32.978 --> 00:00:35.941 gjerat qe shikoni perdite por jeni i verber ndaj tyre. NOTE Paragraph 00:00:35.941 --> 00:00:38.107 Per shembull, sa prej jush i keni celularet 00:00:38.107 --> 00:00:40.671 me vete tani? 00:00:40.671 --> 00:00:41.912 Shume mire. Kontrolloni. 00:00:41.912 --> 00:00:43.238 Sigurohuni qe i keni akoma me vete. 00:00:43.238 --> 00:00:46.173 Po vija rrotull pak me pare. 00:00:46.173 --> 00:00:47.974 Mund ti keni pare disa here sot, 00:00:47.974 --> 00:00:49.426 por do t'ju bej nje pyetje per ato. 00:00:49.426 --> 00:00:51.343 Pa kontrolluar telefonin tuaj direkt, 00:00:51.343 --> 00:00:55.784 mund te kujtoni ikonen ne fund te cepit te djathte? 00:00:55.784 --> 00:00:58.540 Nxirrini ato, kontrollojini, dhe shikoni se sa te kujdesshem keni qene. 00:01:01.969 --> 00:01:05.966 Si dolet? Tregoni duart? E kuptuam? NOTE Paragraph 00:01:05.966 --> 00:01:08.121 Tani qe mbaruat duke i pare ato, ulini, 00:01:08.121 --> 00:01:09.878 sepse cdo telefon ka dicka te zakonshme. 00:01:09.878 --> 00:01:11.943 Nuk ka rendesi se si i sistemon ikonat, 00:01:11.943 --> 00:01:13.703 ti sido qe te jete e ke nje ore perpara. 00:01:13.703 --> 00:01:17.390 Pra, pa i kontrolluar telefonat, sa ishte ora? 00:01:17.390 --> 00:01:19.473 Sapo kontrolluat oren tuaj, sakte? 00:01:19.473 --> 00:01:22.909 Eshte nje ide interesante. Tani do ju kerkoj te shkojme pak me para me nje loje besimi. 00:01:22.909 --> 00:01:24.717 Mbyllini syte. 00:01:24.717 --> 00:01:27.365 E kuptoj qe po ja u kerkoj kete edhe pse sapo degjuat qe 00:01:27.365 --> 00:01:30.655 ka nje xhepist ne salle, por mbyllini syte. NOTE Paragraph 00:01:30.655 --> 00:01:33.929 Ju me keni pare per rreth 30 sekonda. 00:01:33.929 --> 00:01:37.742 Me syte mbyllur, cfare kam veshur? 00:01:37.742 --> 00:01:39.163 Beni hamendesimin tuaj me te mire. 00:01:39.163 --> 00:01:42.528 Cfare ngjyre ka kemisha ime? Cfare ngjyre eshte kollarja ime? 00:01:42.528 --> 00:01:44.046 Tani hapini syte. 00:01:44.046 --> 00:01:46.666 Ngrini duart kush kishte te drejte? NOTE Paragraph 00:01:46.666 --> 00:01:48.885 Eshte interesante apo jo? Disa nga ne jane pak 00:01:48.885 --> 00:01:50.888 me te mprehte se te tjeret. Keshtu duket. 00:01:50.888 --> 00:01:53.902 Por une kam nje teori tjeter per kete, per modelin e vemendjes. 00:01:53.902 --> 00:01:57.614 Ka disa modele vemendjeje, modeli i vemendjes, triniteti i Posner. 00:01:57.614 --> 00:02:00.801 Per mua, me pelqen ta mendoj me thjesht, pak a shume si nje sistem mbikqyrjeje. 00:02:00.801 --> 00:02:03.763 Eshte pak a shume sikur te kesh gjithe keto sensoret e bukur, 00:02:03.763 --> 00:02:06.016 dhe brenda mendjes tende ndodhet nje roje sigurie. 00:02:06.016 --> 00:02:08.282 Mua me pelqen ta quaj Frank. 00:02:08.282 --> 00:02:10.512 Pra Frank eshte ulur ne nje tavoline. 00:02:10.512 --> 00:02:12.730 Ka shume informacione te kendshme para tij, 00:02:12.730 --> 00:02:14.749 aparatura te teknologjise se larte, ka kamera, 00:02:14.749 --> 00:02:17.879 ka nje telefon te vogel qe mund te degjoje 00:02:17.879 --> 00:02:20.354 gjithe keto sensor, gjithe keto perceptime. 00:02:20.354 --> 00:02:22.923 Por vemendja eshte ajo qe orienton perceptimet e tua, 00:02:22.923 --> 00:02:26.576 eshte ajo qe kontrollon realitetin. Eshte rruga per ne mendje. 00:02:26.576 --> 00:02:29.411 Nese nuk i jep vemendje dickaje, nuk mund te jesh ne dijeni per te. 00:02:29.411 --> 00:02:32.922 Por ironikisht, mund ti japesh vemendje dickaje pa qene ne dijeni per te. 00:02:32.922 --> 00:02:34.409 Prandaj ekzsiton efekti i koktejlit: 00:02:34.409 --> 00:02:36.903 Kur je ne nje feste, je duke biseduar me dike, 00:02:36.903 --> 00:02:38.334 dhe perseri ti e njeh emrin tend 00:02:38.334 --> 00:02:40.915 dhe nuk e kupton se si je duke e degjuar ate. NOTE Paragraph 00:02:40.915 --> 00:02:43.858 Une, per shak te punes, duhet te loz me teknika per ta shfrytezuar ate, 00:02:43.858 --> 00:02:46.919 te luaj me vemendjen tuaj si nje burim i limituar. 00:02:46.919 --> 00:02:50.054 Pra nese do mundesha te kontrolloja se si e shpenzoni vemendjen tuaj 00:02:50.054 --> 00:02:53.087 Nese do mund te vidhja vemendjen tuaj permes nje hutimi. 00:02:53.087 --> 00:02:55.871 Tani, ne vend qe ta bej si nje orientim te gabuar 00:02:55.871 --> 00:02:57.323 dhe duke e hedhur ate jashte ane, 00:02:57.323 --> 00:02:59.903 ne vend te kesaj, ajo cka zgjedh per perqendrim eshte Frank, 00:02:59.903 --> 00:03:02.503 per te patur mundesi te luani me Frankun brenda mendjes tuaj, 00:03:02.503 --> 00:03:03.443 me rojen e sigurise tuaj, 00:03:03.443 --> 00:03:06.480 dhe tju bej, ne vend qe te fokusoheni ne shqisat e jashtme, 00:03:06.480 --> 00:03:09.365 thjesht te beheni te brendshem per nje sekond. 00:03:09.365 --> 00:03:12.575 Pra nese ju kerkoj te hyni ne nje memorie, si, cfare eshte kjo? 00:03:12.575 --> 00:03:14.187 Cfare ndodhi? Ju ndodhet nje portofol? 00:03:14.187 --> 00:03:16.078 Ju ndodhet nje karte krediti ne portofolin tuaj? 00:03:16.078 --> 00:03:19.850 Dhe kur e bej kete, Franku i juaj kthehet pas. 00:03:19.850 --> 00:03:22.105 Ai hyn ne dosje. I duhet ta riktheje kaseten. 00:03:22.105 --> 00:03:24.268 Dhe ajo cka eshte interesante eshte se ai nuk mund ta rikthej kaseten 00:03:24.268 --> 00:03:27.198 ne te njejten kohe qe po perpiqet te perpunoje te dhena te reja. NOTE Paragraph 00:03:27.198 --> 00:03:28.553 Dua te them qe kjo duket si nje teori e mire, 00:03:28.553 --> 00:03:31.271 por mund t'ju flisja per nje kohe te gjate e t'ju thoja shume gjera, 00:03:31.271 --> 00:03:33.257 dhe ato mund te jene te verteta, nje pjese e tyre, 00:03:33.257 --> 00:03:35.987 por do ishte me mire t'ju tregoja juve ketu drejt per se drejti. 00:03:35.987 --> 00:03:38.414 Pra nese zbres poshte, do bej pak pazar. 00:03:38.414 --> 00:03:41.923 Qendroni ne vend aty ku jeni. NOTE Paragraph 00:03:43.345 --> 00:03:46.211 Pershendetje, si jeni? Eshte kenaqesi qe ju shoh. 00:03:46.211 --> 00:03:47.629 Kryet nje pune te mire ne skene. 00:03:47.629 --> 00:03:49.339 Keni nje ore te bukur e cila nuk hiqet lehte. 00:03:49.339 --> 00:03:50.666 E keni dhe unazen tuaj gjithashtu? 00:03:50.666 --> 00:03:52.910 Mire. Thjesht po kryej nje inventar. ju jeni si nje bufe. 00:03:52.910 --> 00:03:55.492 Eshte e veshtire t'ja nisesh, ka kaq gjera te bukura. NOTE Paragraph 00:03:55.492 --> 00:03:57.625 Pershendetje, si jeni? Kenaqesi qe ju shoh. NOTE Paragraph 00:03:57.625 --> 00:04:00.474 Si jeni zoteri, a mund te ngriheni per mua ju lutem? Aty ku jeni. 00:04:00.474 --> 00:04:02.143 Oh, jeni i martuar. Ju i ndiqni udhezimet mire. 00:04:02.143 --> 00:04:03.326 Eshte kenaqesi t'ju takosh, zoteri. 00:04:03.326 --> 00:04:07.176 Nuk keni shume gjera neper xhepa. Dicka ketu ne kete xhep? 00:04:07.176 --> 00:04:09.720 Fatmiresisht po. Mund te uleni. Po ja dilni mire. NOTE Paragraph 00:04:09.720 --> 00:04:11.628 Pershendetje zoteri, si jeni? 00:04:11.628 --> 00:04:13.658 Kenaqesi qe ju shoh. Ju keni nje unaze, nje ore. 00:04:13.658 --> 00:04:15.839 A keni nje portofol me vete? Joe: Jo nuk kam. 00:04:15.839 --> 00:04:17.167 Apollo Robbins: Mire, do e gjejme nje per ju. 00:04:17.167 --> 00:04:18.408 Mund te vini ketej, Joe. 00:04:18.408 --> 00:04:19.720 Jepini Joes nje duartrokitje. 00:04:19.720 --> 00:04:21.400 Eja lart Joe. Le te luajme nje loje. NOTE Paragraph 00:04:21.400 --> 00:04:26.437 (Duartrokitje) NOTE Paragraph 00:04:26.437 --> 00:04:28.535 Me falni. NOTE Paragraph 00:04:28.535 --> 00:04:30.651 Nuk me duhet kjo telekomande me. Mund ta merni. 00:04:30.651 --> 00:04:32.603 Faleminderit shume. E vleresoj. NOTE Paragraph 00:04:32.603 --> 00:04:34.562 Eja ne skene Joe. Te nisim nje loje te vogel tani. 00:04:34.562 --> 00:04:38.275 Ke dicka ne xhepat perpara? Joe: Para. 00:04:38.275 --> 00:04:40.345 AR: Para. Ne rregull, le ta provojme ate. 00:04:40.345 --> 00:04:43.059 A mund te qendrosh ne kete menyre per mua? 00:04:43.059 --> 00:04:44.457 Kthehu para, le te shohim, 00:04:44.457 --> 00:04:46.102 nese te jap dicka qe me perket, 00:04:46.102 --> 00:04:50.027 kjo eshte dicka qe kam, nje monedhe pokeri. 00:04:50.027 --> 00:04:52.786 Zgjate doren per mua. Shikoje pak me kujdes. 00:04:52.786 --> 00:04:55.320 Tani kjo eshte nje detyre per ju qe te perqendroheni. 00:04:55.320 --> 00:04:58.152 I ke parate ne kete xhepin perpara? Joe: Po. 00:04:58.152 --> 00:05:00.303 AR: Mire. Realisht nuk do e fus doren time ne xhepin tend. 00:05:00.303 --> 00:05:02.173 Nuk jam i gatshem per ate lloj angazhimi. 00:05:02.173 --> 00:05:03.578 Nje here nje djale kishte nje vrime ne xhepin e tij, 00:05:03.578 --> 00:05:05.655 dhe ajo ishte pak tramatizuese per mua. 00:05:05.655 --> 00:05:07.219 Une po kerkoja per portofolin e tij dhe ai me dha numrin e telefonit. 00:05:07.219 --> 00:05:08.819 Ishte nje komunikim i gabuar. NOTE Paragraph 00:05:08.819 --> 00:05:12.158 Pra le ta bejme kete thjesht. Shtrengoji duart. 00:05:12.158 --> 00:05:15.144 Shtrengoji fort. E ndjen monedhen e pokerit ne doren tende? Joe: Po. 00:05:15.144 --> 00:05:17.626 AR: Do ishe i suprizuar nese do ta largoja nga dora jote? Thuaj po. 00:05:17.641 --> 00:05:18.829 Joe: Shume. AR: Mire. 00:05:18.829 --> 00:05:21.034 Hape doren. Faleminderit shume. 00:05:21.034 --> 00:05:22.679 Do bej hile nese ti me jep nje mundesi. 00:05:22.679 --> 00:05:24.846 Ma bej me te veshtire. Thjesht perdor doren tende. 00:05:24.846 --> 00:05:26.815 Me kap kycin, por shtrengoje fort. 00:05:26.815 --> 00:05:28.337 E pe tek tu largua? 00:05:28.337 --> 00:05:30.321 Joe: Jo. AR: Jo nuk eshte ketu. Hape doren. 00:05:30.321 --> 00:05:31.737 E shikon, teksa jemi te fokusuar tek dora, 00:05:31.737 --> 00:05:34.933 eshte duke qendruar ne supin tend ketu. 00:05:34.933 --> 00:05:36.566 Jepi, mund ta marresh. 00:05:36.566 --> 00:05:38.038 Tani, ta provojme perseri. 00:05:38.038 --> 00:05:39.914 Mbaje doren te hapur. Hape komplet. 00:05:39.914 --> 00:05:42.426 Ngrije pak doren me lart, por shikoje me kujdes Joe. 00:05:42.426 --> 00:05:45.983 Shikon po ta bej pak me ngadale, do ishte perseri ne supin tend. 00:05:45.983 --> 00:05:47.423 (Te qeshura) 00:05:47.423 --> 00:05:49.750 Joe, do ta bejme kete derisa ti ta kapesh ate. 00:05:49.750 --> 00:05:51.288 Do ta kuptosh perfundimisht. Kam besim tek ty. 00:05:51.288 --> 00:05:54.030 Shtrengoje fort. Ti je njeri, nuk je i avashte. 00:05:54.030 --> 00:05:56.400 Eshte perseri ne supin tend. 00:05:56.400 --> 00:05:58.279 Ishe i perqendruar ne doren tende. Prandaj ishe i hutuar. 00:05:58.279 --> 00:06:01.353 Ndersa ti po e shikoje kete, nuk mund ta hiqja lehte oren tende. Ishte e veshtire. 00:06:01.353 --> 00:06:03.131 Sidoqofte kishe dicka brenda xhepin tend te pare. 00:06:03.131 --> 00:06:05.269 E mban mend cfare ishte? 00:06:05.269 --> 00:06:06.246 Joe: Para. 00:06:06.246 --> 00:06:09.686 AR: Kontrollo xhepin tend. Shiko nese i ke ende aty. Jane aty? (Te qeshura) 00:06:09.686 --> 00:06:11.655 Oh, aty ishin. Vazhdo nxirri. 00:06:11.655 --> 00:06:14.243 Ne thjesht po bejme pazar. Kjo loje eshte me shume per kohen. E vertet. 00:06:14.243 --> 00:06:15.715 Do perpiqem ti shty brenda dores tende. 00:06:15.715 --> 00:06:18.748 Vere doren tjeter perpara, te lutem? 00:06:18.748 --> 00:06:20.368 Eshte mrekullueshem qarte tashme, apo jo? 00:06:20.368 --> 00:06:22.490 Ngjason pak me oren qe kisha vene, apo jo? NOTE Paragraph 00:06:22.490 --> 00:06:24.550 (Te qeshura) (Duartrokitje) NOTE Paragraph 00:06:24.550 --> 00:06:29.274 Joe: Kjo eshte shume e bukur. Shume e bukur. AR: Oh, faleminderit. 00:06:29.274 --> 00:06:32.130 Por eshte thjesht nje fillim. Le te perpiqemi ta ribejme, pak me ndryshe. 00:06:32.130 --> 00:06:34.426 Mbaji duart bashke. Ngrije doren tjeter lart. 00:06:34.426 --> 00:06:36.337 Nese e shikon kete fishen e vogel, 00:06:36.337 --> 00:06:39.220 kjo qartesisht eshte kthyer ne nje objektiv te vogel. Eshte si nje harenge e kuqe. 00:06:39.220 --> 00:06:41.573 Nese do e shohim me nga afer, duket sikur eshte duke u larguar. 00:06:41.573 --> 00:06:43.673 Nuk eshte me ne supin tend. 00:06:43.673 --> 00:06:46.000 Bie dhe ulet perseri ne dore. 00:06:46.000 --> 00:06:48.213 E pe te zhdukej? 00:06:48.213 --> 00:06:51.566 Po, eshte e kendshme. Kemi nje djale te vogel. Ai eshte nje sindikate. Punon gjithe diten aty. 00:06:51.566 --> 00:06:53.402 Nese do e beja me ngadale, nese do ikte drejtperdrejt, 00:06:53.402 --> 00:06:56.146 ulet ne xhepin tend. Besoj se ndodhet ne kete xhep, zoteri? 00:06:56.146 --> 00:06:58.371 Jo, mos u drejto ne xhepin tend. Kjo eshte nje tjeter shfaqje. 00:06:58.371 --> 00:07:01.476 Pra --(duke shfryre) -- kjo eshte disi e cuditshme. Kane te shtena per ate. 00:07:01.476 --> 00:07:04.600 A mund t'ja u tregoj atyre cfare eshte? Eshte pak e cuditshme. Eshte e juaja kjo zoteri? 00:07:04.600 --> 00:07:06.878 Nuk e kam idene si funksionon kjo. Thjesht do ta veme kete aty. NOTE Paragraph 00:07:06.878 --> 00:07:08.810 Mrekulli. Me duhet ndihme me kete. 00:07:08.810 --> 00:07:10.392 Qendro ketu per mua. 00:07:10.392 --> 00:07:13.238 Tani, mos u largo. Kishe dicka ne xhepin e pantallonave. 00:07:13.238 --> 00:07:15.454 Po kontrolloja timin. Nuk mund te gjeja gjithcka, 00:07:15.454 --> 00:07:16.759 por vura re qe ti kishe dicka aty. 00:07:16.759 --> 00:07:19.131 A mund ta prek per nje moment xhepin nga jashte? 00:07:19.131 --> 00:07:21.389 Ketu poshte vura re kete. Eshte kjo e juaja, zoteri? 00:07:21.389 --> 00:07:24.034 Eshte? Nuk e kam idene. Eshte nje karkalec. NOTE Paragraph 00:07:24.034 --> 00:07:26.160 Joe: Po. Po e ruaj ate per me vone. NOTE Paragraph 00:07:26.160 --> 00:07:29.208 AR: I ke zbavitur gjithe keta njerez ne nje dite te bukur, 00:07:29.208 --> 00:07:30.373 me shume sec ti mund te dish. 00:07:30.373 --> 00:07:34.134 Pra do na pelqente te te dhuronim kete oren e bukur. (Te qeshura) 00:07:34.134 --> 00:07:35.522 Fatmiresisht shkon me shijet e tij. 00:07:35.522 --> 00:07:37.245 Por gjithashtu, kemi dhe disa gjera te tjera, 00:07:37.245 --> 00:07:40.488 disa para, dhe disa te tjera. 00:07:40.488 --> 00:07:41.921 Keto ju perkasin juve, 00:07:41.921 --> 00:07:44.880 bashke me nje duartrokitje te madhe nga te gjithe ju miq. (Duartrokitje) NOTE Paragraph 00:07:44.880 --> 00:07:46.467 Joe, te falenderoj shume. NOTE Paragraph 00:07:46.467 --> 00:07:53.863 (Duartrokitje) NOTE Paragraph 00:07:53.863 --> 00:07:56.387 Pra, e njejta pyetje qe ju bera me pare, 00:07:56.387 --> 00:07:59.403 por kete here nuk duhet te mbyllni syte. 00:07:59.403 --> 00:08:01.848 Cfare kam veshur? NOTE Paragraph 00:08:01.848 --> 00:08:04.739 (Te qeshura) NOTE Paragraph 00:08:04.739 --> 00:08:10.550 (Duartrokitje) NOTE Paragraph 00:08:10.550 --> 00:08:12.899 Vemendja eshte dicka e fuqishme. 00:08:12.899 --> 00:08:15.698 Sic ju thashe, i jep forme realitetit tuaj. 00:08:15.698 --> 00:08:18.319 Pra, ma merr mendja me duhet t'ju parashtroj ate pyetjen juve. 00:08:18.319 --> 00:08:20.190 Nese do kishit mundesi te kontrollonit vemendjen e dikujt, 00:08:20.190 --> 00:08:22.409 cfare do benit me te? NOTE Paragraph 00:08:22.409 --> 00:08:23.711 Falemnderit. NOTE Paragraph 00:08:23.711 --> 00:08:30.188 (Duartrokitje)