What does it mean to spend our time well?
I spend a lot of my time
thinking about how to spend my time.
Probably too much.
I probably obsess over it --
my friends think I do.
But I feel like I kind of have to,
because these days,
it feels like little bits of my time
kind of slip away from me,
and when that happens,
it feels like parts of my life
are slipping away.
Specifically,
it feels like little bits of my time get
slipped away to various things like this.
Like technology --
I check things --
I'll give you an example.
If this email shows up --
how many of you have gotten
an email like this, right?
I've been tagged in a photo.
When this appears,
I can't help but click on it right now.
Right?
Because what if it's a bad photo?
So I have to click it right now.
But I'm not just going
to click "See photo,"
what I'm actually going to do
is spend the next 20 minutes.
(Laughter)
But the worst part
is that I know that this
is what's going to happen,
and even knowing that that's
what's going to happen
doesn't stop me from
doing it again the next time.
Or I find myself
in a situation like this ...
where I check my email
and I pull down to refresh,
right?
But the thing is that 60 seconds later,
I'll pull down to refresh again.
Like, why am I doing this?
This doesn't make any sense.
But I'll give you a hint
why this is happening.
What do you think makes more
money in the United States
than movies, game parks
and baseball combined?
Slot machines.
How can slot machines make all this money
when we play with such small
amounts of money?
We play with coins.
How is this possible?
Well, the thing is ...
my phone is a slot machine.
Every time I check my phone,
I'm playing the slot machine to see,
what am I going to get?
What am I going to get?
Every time I check my email,
I'm playing the slot machine
[to say], "What am I going to get?"
Every time I scroll a news feed,
I'm playing the slot machine to see,
what am I going to get next?
Right?
And the thing is
that again knowing
exactly how this works --
and I'm a designer,
I know exactly how
the psychology of this works,
I know exactly what's going on --
but it doesn't leave me with any choice,
I still just get sucked into it.
So what are we going to do?
Because it leaves us
with this all-or-nothing relationship
with technology, right?
You're either on,
and your connected
and distracted all the time,
or you're off,
but then you're wondering,
am I missing something important?
In other words,
you're either distracted
or you have Fear of Missing Out,
right?
So we need to restore choice.
We want to have
a relationship with technology
that gives us back choice
about how we spend time with it,
and we're going to need
help from designers
because knowing this stuff doesn't help.
We're going to need design help,
so what would that look like?
So let's take an example that we all face:
chat --
text messaging.
So let's say there's two people.
Nancy's on the left and she's
working on a document,
and John's on the right.
And John suddenly remembers,
"I need to ask Nancy for
that document before I forget!"
Right?
So when he sends her that message,
it blows away her attention.
Right?
And that's what we're doing all the time,
we're bulldozing each other's
attention left and right.
And there's serious cost to this,
because every time
we interrupt each other ...
it's takes us about 23 minutes on average
to refocus our attention.
We actually cycle through
two different projects
before we come back
to the original thing we were doing.
This is Gloria Mark's research
combined with Microsoft's
research that showed this.
And her research also shows
that it actually trains bad habits.
The more interruptions we get externally,
it's conditioning and training us
to interrupt ourselves.
We actually self-interrupt
every three and a half minutes.
This is crazy,
so how do we fix this?
Because Nancy and John are in this
all-or-nothing relationship.
Nancy might want to disconnect,
but then she'd be worried --
what if I'm missing something important?
So design can fix this problem.
Let's say you have
Nancy again on the left,
John on the right,
and John remembers,
"I need to send Nancy that document,"
except this time,
Nancy can mark that she's focused.
Let's say she drags a slider and says,
"I want to be focused for 30 minutes,"
so "bam," she's focused.
Now when John wants the message her,
he can get the thought off of his mind --
because he has a need, right?
He has this thought
and he needs to dump it out
before he forgets,
except this time
it holds the messages
so that Nancy can still focus
but John can get the thought
off of his mind, right?
But this only works
if one last thing is true,
which is that Nancy needs to know
that if something is truly important
that John can still interrupt.
But instead of having constant
accidental or mindless interruptions,
we're now only creating
conscious interruptions,
right?
So we're doing two things here.
We're creating a new choice
for both Nancy and John,
but there's second, subtle thing
we're doing here, too.
And that's that we're changing
the question that we're answering.
Instead of the goal of chat
being let's design it
so that it's easy to send a message --
that's the goal of chat,
it should be really easy to send
a message to someone --
we change the goal to something
deeper and a human value,
which is let's create the highest
possible quality communication
and relationship between two people.
So we upgraded the goal.
Now, do designers
actually care about this?
Do we want to have conversations
about what these deeper human goals are?
Well I'll tell you one story
which is about a year ago,
a little over a year ago,
I got to help organize a meeting
between some of technology's
leading designers and Thich Nhat Han.
Thich Nhat Hanh is an international
spokesperson for mindfulness meditation,
and it was the most amazing meeting.
You have to imagine --
picture a room --
on one side of the room you have
a bunch of tech geeks;
on the other side of the room,
you have a bunch of long brown robes,
shaved heads, Buddhist monks.
And the questions were about
the deepest human values,
like what does the future
of technology look like
when you're designing
for the deepest questions
and the deepest human values?
And our conversation centered on listening
more deeply to what those values might be.
He joked in our conversation
that what if instead of a spell check
you had a compassion check?
Meaning you might highlight a word
that might be accidentally abrasive --
perceived as abrasive by someone else.
So does this kind of conversation
happen in the real world,
not just in these design meetings?
Well the answer is yes,
and one of my favorites is Couchsurfing.
If you didn't know,
Couchsurfing is a website
that matches people who are looking
for a place to stay with a free couch,
from someone who's trying to offer it.
So, great service --
what would there design goal be?
What are you designing for
if you work at Couchsurfing?
Well you would think
it's to match guests with hosts.
Right?
That's a pretty good goal.
But that would kind of be like
our goal with messaging before,
where we're just trying
to deliver a mesasge.
So what's the deeper, human goal?
Well, they set their goal
as the need to create lasting, positive
experiences and relationships
between people who have never met before.
And the most amazing thing about this
was in 2007,
they introduced a way to measure this,
which is incredible.
I'll tell you how it works.
Every design goal that you have,
you have to have a corresponding
measurement to know how you're doing --
a way of measuring success.
So what they do
is let's say you take
two people who meet up
and they take the number of days
those two people spent together,
right?
And then they estimate how many
hours were in those days.
How many hours did those two
people spend together?
And then after they
spend that time together,
they ask both of them:
how positive was your experience?
Did you have a good experience
with this person that you met?
And they subtract
form those positive hours
the amount of time
people spent on the website,
because that's a cost to people's lives.
Why should we value that as success?
And what you were left with
is something they refer to as net
"Orchestrated Conviviality,"
or really just a net "Good Times" created.
The net hours that would have never
existed had Couchsurfing not existed.
Can you imagine how inspiring it would be
to come to work every day
and measure your success
in the actual net new contribution
of hours in people's lives
that are positive,
that would have never existed
if you didn't do what you were
about to do at work today?
Can you imagine a whole world
that worked this way?
Can you imagine a social network that --
let's you care about cooking
and it measured its success
in terms of cooking nights organized
and the cooking articles
that you were glad you read,
and subtracted from that the articles
you weren't glad you read
or the time you spent scrolling
that you didn't like?
Imagine a professional social network,
that instead of measuring its success
in terms of connections created
or messages sent,
instead measured its success in terms
of the job offers that people got
that they were excited to get.
Right?
And subtracted the amount of time
people spent on the website.
Or imagine dating services,
like maybe Tinder or something,
where instead of measuring the number
of swipes left and right people did,
which is how they measure success today,
and instead measured
the deep, romantic, fulfilling
connections people created --
whatever that was for them, by the way.
But can you imagine a whole world
that worked this way,
that was helping you spend your time well?
Now to do this you also need a new system,
because you're probably thinking,
today's Internet economy --
today's economy in general --
is measured in time spent.
The more users you have,
the more usage you have,
the more time people spend,
that's how we measure success.
But we've solved this problem before.
We solved it with organic,
when we said we need
to value things a different way.
We said this is a different kind of food.
So we can't compare it
just based on price;
this is a different category of food.
We solved it with Leed Certification,
where we said this is
a different kind of building
that stood for different values
of environmental sustainability.
What if we had something
like that for technology?
What if we had something whose
entire purpose and goal
was to help create net new positive
contributions to human life?
And what if we could
value it a different way,
so it would actually work?
Imagine you gave this different
premium shelf space on app stores.
Imagine you had web browsers
that helped route you
to these kinds of design products.
Right?
Can you imagine how exciting it would be
to live and create that world?
We can create this world today.
Company leaders,
all you have to do --
only you can prioritize a new metric,
which is your metric for net positive
contribution to human life.
And have an honest
conversation about that.
Maybe you're not
doing so well to start with,
but let's start that conversation.
Designers,
you can redefine success,
you can redefine design.
Arguably, you have more power
than many people in your organization
to create the choices
that all of us live by.
Maybe like in medicine,
where we have a Hippocratic oath
to recognize the responsibilty
and this higher value
that we have to treat patients,
what if designers had something like that
in terms of this new kind of design?
And users,
for all of us,
we can demand technology
that works this way.
Now it may seem hard,
but McDonald's didn't have salads
until the consumer demand was there.
Walmart didn't have organic food
until the consumer demand was there.
We have to demand
this new kind of technology.
And we can do that.
And doing that
would amount to shifting
from a world that's driven and run
entirely on time spent ...
to world that's driven by time well spent.
I want to live in this world
and I want this conversation to happen.
Let's start that conversation now.
Thank you.
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