WEBVTT 00:00:16.755 --> 00:00:19.105 My name is Michaela DePrince. 00:00:20.361 --> 00:00:22.281 When I first started to write my speech, 00:00:22.286 --> 00:00:26.188 I thought, maybe, I could give it a fairytale kind of twist. 00:00:26.190 --> 00:00:29.939 But only because most people tell me that my life is a fairytale. 00:00:30.549 --> 00:00:33.394 But I have to say I strongly disagree. 00:00:33.975 --> 00:00:38.023 Yes, I got what I've always dreamed of, but I have to fight for it. 00:00:38.955 --> 00:00:41.754 I wasn't always called Michaela DePrince. 00:00:41.755 --> 00:00:44.231 My original name is Mabinty Bangura, 00:00:44.232 --> 00:00:48.431 and I was born in Sierra Leone, West Africa in 1995, 00:00:48.432 --> 00:00:52.191 four years after the bloody civil war. 00:00:52.192 --> 00:00:55.651 This war would displace thousands of men, 00:00:55.652 --> 00:00:59.747 it would cause thousands of women and children to be raped, 00:01:00.636 --> 00:01:04.095 and over 50,000 people would be killed. 00:01:04.096 --> 00:01:06.564 My parents were among them. 00:01:07.567 --> 00:01:10.917 I was born with vitiligo, a skin condition. 00:01:11.682 --> 00:01:14.272 It left white patches all over my body. 00:01:14.966 --> 00:01:16.536 I was different. 00:01:17.257 --> 00:01:19.169 In Sierra Leone, they didn't understand 00:01:19.170 --> 00:01:22.059 the fact that just because I had white patches on my skin, 00:01:22.060 --> 00:01:23.630 that I was just born this way, 00:01:23.631 --> 00:01:26.040 they thought I was a curse. 00:01:26.041 --> 00:01:28.596 They started to call me "the devil's child," 00:01:28.597 --> 00:01:32.520 because anybody who would look like this would be the child of the devil. 00:01:33.561 --> 00:01:37.760 I was ridiculed and harassed, 00:01:37.761 --> 00:01:39.940 because I looked different. 00:01:39.941 --> 00:01:42.497 My parents tried to defend me as much as they could, 00:01:42.498 --> 00:01:44.779 but they understood I'd never get married 00:01:44.780 --> 00:01:46.473 because of the way I looked. 00:01:46.474 --> 00:01:49.430 They tried to educate me, they taught me to read, 00:01:49.430 --> 00:01:51.897 and they started to save money for my education. 00:01:54.102 --> 00:01:58.142 But when my parents passed away, I was defenseless and alone. 00:01:58.142 --> 00:02:00.631 I've never been so scared in my life. 00:02:02.100 --> 00:02:04.109 My uncle took me to the orphanage, 00:02:04.110 --> 00:02:07.530 knowing that he could never get a good price for me as a bride, 00:02:07.530 --> 00:02:09.732 and never came back for me. 00:02:10.739 --> 00:02:13.699 In the orphanage we were taken care of by aunties, 00:02:13.699 --> 00:02:17.264 not like the aunties you have at home, the aunties who love you. 00:02:17.265 --> 00:02:19.402 They care about you no matter what you do. 00:02:19.402 --> 00:02:22.168 These aunties were uneducated women, 00:02:22.168 --> 00:02:25.355 who only take care us to bring food home for their kids. 00:02:25.355 --> 00:02:28.889 They would wash our clothes and give us food. 00:02:28.889 --> 00:02:32.079 But these aunties had their favorites. 00:02:32.079 --> 00:02:34.847 There were 27 kids in the orphanage. 00:02:35.802 --> 00:02:40.794 Number 1 got the biggest portion of food and the first choice of clothes. 00:02:41.778 --> 00:02:46.602 Number 27 got the smallest portion of food and the last choice of clothes. 00:02:49.230 --> 00:02:52.030 I was number 27. 00:02:52.030 --> 00:02:55.190 Everyday in the orphanage, I was starving. 00:02:57.884 --> 00:03:00.804 I have never felt so alone before. 00:03:01.517 --> 00:03:03.517 How could this happen to me? 00:03:04.236 --> 00:03:07.641 This is when I realized it was much easier to not care about anybody 00:03:07.642 --> 00:03:10.242 because they always ended up leaving me. 00:03:11.553 --> 00:03:15.133 But then I made a friend in the orphanage. 00:03:15.133 --> 00:03:18.191 Her name was Mabinty, Mabinty Suma. 00:03:19.221 --> 00:03:24.631 Number 26 was always in ill health, sick, but she always had a kind heart. 00:03:24.638 --> 00:03:27.538 And she was always [full of good cheer]. 00:03:27.538 --> 00:03:32.034 Number 26 would always listen to all my fears, and all my dreams. 00:03:32.034 --> 00:03:34.893 Whenever I was scared, she would sing to me. 00:03:34.893 --> 00:03:38.272 When I couldn't fall asleep, she would tell me a bedtime story. 00:03:39.187 --> 00:03:43.625 And Number 26 is still doing that 15 years later, as my sister Mia. 00:03:46.055 --> 00:03:47.605 And one day, 00:03:48.559 --> 00:03:53.069 the big wind threw a magazine right onto the gate at the orphanage. 00:03:53.069 --> 00:03:55.771 I reached out, and I grabbed it. 00:03:55.771 --> 00:03:58.473 And I saw something. 00:03:58.473 --> 00:04:01.297 This amazing creature, this person I have never seen before, 00:04:01.297 --> 00:04:05.481 she is on her tippytoes, and in this beautiful pink costume. 00:04:05.481 --> 00:04:10.201 But what really struck me the most was the fact that she looked so happy. 00:04:10.204 --> 00:04:13.174 I hadn't been happy in a long time. 00:04:13.176 --> 00:04:17.966 So I thought to myself, if she is happy because this is what she is doing, 00:04:17.966 --> 00:04:20.872 then, maybe, I could be happy too someday. 00:04:20.872 --> 00:04:22.957 I had to be this person, I just had to be, 00:04:22.957 --> 00:04:25.297 in order to become something. 00:04:26.294 --> 00:04:29.511 So I ripped the cover off the magazine, and put it in my underwear 00:04:29.512 --> 00:04:32.002 because I had nowhere else to put it. 00:04:32.004 --> 00:04:35.242 Because as number 27, I didn't have anything to do, 00:04:35.242 --> 00:04:37.767 they would never give me toys or any clothes, 00:04:37.767 --> 00:04:40.297 so where else could I put it? 00:04:41.299 --> 00:04:45.450 And then, a teacher came to the orphanage to teach us English. 00:04:45.450 --> 00:04:47.857 She was also pregnant at that time. 00:04:47.857 --> 00:04:50.376 I showed teacher Sarah the magazine cover, 00:04:50.376 --> 00:04:53.172 and she explained to me this person was dancing ballet. 00:04:53.172 --> 00:04:55.048 She was a ballerina. 00:04:55.048 --> 00:04:58.516 I was going to be this ballerina, I just had to be. 00:04:59.133 --> 00:05:04.555 I'd always go onto my tippytoes everyday and practice just like the ballerina. 00:05:04.555 --> 00:05:07.286 I thought, maybe, one day, with everything going so well, 00:05:07.288 --> 00:05:09.828 I finally had somebody who cared about me, 00:05:09.828 --> 00:05:12.678 maybe one day I could be this ballerina. 00:05:13.900 --> 00:05:15.769 Teacher Sarah cared about me so much, 00:05:15.769 --> 00:05:18.983 and she knew how important it was for me to get a good education, 00:05:18.983 --> 00:05:22.364 so she would always give me extra lessons. 00:05:22.364 --> 00:05:27.185 After a few extra lessons, teacher Sarah and I started to walk towards the gate. 00:05:27.185 --> 00:05:31.169 Me twirling around, trying to be the ballerina on the magazine. 00:05:31.169 --> 00:05:34.543 And all of a sudden, two rebels come towards the gate, 00:05:34.543 --> 00:05:36.681 [with] a little rebel lagging behind them. 00:05:36.681 --> 00:05:39.744 And around the corner, a truck full of them. 00:05:39.744 --> 00:05:42.215 They were laughing and cheering. 00:05:42.215 --> 00:05:46.799 They must have been drinking a lot or under some type of drug. 00:05:46.799 --> 00:05:48.572 And they saw us. 00:05:48.572 --> 00:05:51.601 They saw that teacher Sarah was pregnant. 00:05:51.601 --> 00:05:55.355 They started betting on whether or not it was a girl or a boy. 00:05:55.355 --> 00:05:57.774 And so they decided to find out. 00:05:58.492 --> 00:06:01.650 They took their machetes out and cut her stomach. 00:06:01.650 --> 00:06:03.978 It was a baby girl. 00:06:03.978 --> 00:06:06.087 If it was a boy, maybe she would have lived 00:06:06.087 --> 00:06:09.870 because they would taught him to become a rebel when he was older. 00:06:09.870 --> 00:06:13.453 But it was a girl, so they cut her arms and legs off in front of me, 00:06:13.453 --> 00:06:17.104 and I tried to go save her so I went underneath the gate. 00:06:17.104 --> 00:06:20.818 The little boy thought he should try to copy the older rebels. 00:06:20.818 --> 00:06:25.007 He took his machete out and cut my stomach. 00:06:28.523 --> 00:06:32.058 Now that you've heard my story, the beginning of my life, 00:06:32.752 --> 00:06:35.222 do you think it's a fairytale? 00:06:37.041 --> 00:06:39.531 But soon, my life would turn around. 00:06:39.531 --> 00:06:42.655 Soon, I would have positivity in my life. 00:06:42.655 --> 00:06:46.323 I would find out I was going to be adopted by an American family. 00:06:47.488 --> 00:06:50.428 It took me a while to get to my adopted family. 00:06:50.428 --> 00:06:54.371 We had to walk, all the orphanages, all the orphan kids had to walk 00:06:54.371 --> 00:06:57.901 from Makeni, Sierra Leone, all the way to Guinea, 00:06:57.901 --> 00:07:01.106 and from Guinea we took a plane to [Accra, Ghana]. 00:07:04.949 --> 00:07:09.591 I was very sick when I got off the plane, and just miserable, and you know... 00:07:10.801 --> 00:07:13.314 How could my life get any better? 00:07:13.314 --> 00:07:17.286 I was a devil's child; of course nothing good could happen to me. 00:07:18.586 --> 00:07:23.274 And also I was miserable because I thought I would never see my best friend again. 00:07:24.181 --> 00:07:30.133 But then I saw her, the lady in the bright red shoes. 00:07:31.590 --> 00:07:35.902 With the bright white, white, white hair; I have never seen anything like it before. 00:07:36.881 --> 00:07:39.178 She was my new mamma. 00:07:39.178 --> 00:07:43.278 She reached out and said, "I'm your new mamma." 00:07:43.278 --> 00:07:45.963 She grabbed my hand, and my best friend's hand, 00:07:45.963 --> 00:07:48.061 and walked us away. 00:07:48.061 --> 00:07:51.261 I was getting adopted with my best friend. 00:07:53.059 --> 00:07:54.919 We got to the hotel, 00:07:54.919 --> 00:07:58.222 and once my mum put her luggage down, I looked through everything, 00:07:58.223 --> 00:08:00.137 I looked through every nook and cranny 00:08:00.137 --> 00:08:02.908 trying to find my pointe shoes, my tiara, and my tutu, 00:08:02.908 --> 00:08:06.157 because isn't that what always happens in a fairytale? 00:08:06.157 --> 00:08:08.041 But they weren't there. 00:08:08.041 --> 00:08:09.588 I didn't speak any English, 00:08:09.589 --> 00:08:13.804 so I thought the only way I could show her was to show her the magazine. 00:08:13.804 --> 00:08:16.493 I took it out of my underwear, and I showed her, 00:08:16.493 --> 00:08:18.614 and she understood right away. 00:08:18.614 --> 00:08:21.150 She said: "You will dance." 00:08:22.427 --> 00:08:25.780 When I got to the U.S., I started taking ballet classes. 00:08:25.780 --> 00:08:28.422 My mum drove me every single day. 00:08:28.422 --> 00:08:30.229 Except before my first ballet class, 00:08:30.229 --> 00:08:34.478 I was so scared to show my spots for the kids to make fun of me. 00:08:34.478 --> 00:08:38.877 I begged my mamma to please buy me a leotard to hide all my spots. 00:08:38.877 --> 00:08:42.513 It was a long sleeved leotard that went all the way up to my neck. 00:08:42.513 --> 00:08:45.760 It was so hot in it she had to take it off right away. 00:08:45.760 --> 00:08:48.558 And I put on my pink leotards and tights. 00:08:49.369 --> 00:08:51.783 I went to class once a week, twice a week, 00:08:51.784 --> 00:08:54.653 and then, eventually, by the time I was 10 years old, 00:08:54.654 --> 00:08:57.341 I was dancing five times a week. 00:08:57.341 --> 00:09:00.801 I worked as hard as I possibly could because I had to be this ballerina; 00:09:00.801 --> 00:09:03.802 it was the only way for me to be happy. 00:09:04.793 --> 00:09:08.485 But while I was working hard, I lost somebody. 00:09:09.750 --> 00:09:12.800 I lost my 24-year-old brother, Teddy. 00:09:13.549 --> 00:09:17.852 He was the person who made me be able to trust men again, 00:09:17.852 --> 00:09:20.987 to not be scared of black men who were shouting, 00:09:20.987 --> 00:09:25.060 to not be scared of men in general, to not be scared of my own father. 00:09:26.571 --> 00:09:29.945 And again, this is what always happens when I care about people. 00:09:30.900 --> 00:09:33.250 They always die and leave me. 00:09:34.469 --> 00:09:36.055 I decided to push my family away 00:09:36.055 --> 00:09:39.011 because if they died and left me I don't know what I could do. 00:09:39.011 --> 00:09:41.887 I didn't want them to die because I cared about them. 00:09:42.796 --> 00:09:45.014 But my parents were able to convince me 00:09:45.014 --> 00:09:48.092 that even though the people I love may die, 00:09:48.092 --> 00:09:50.741 their love will always stay with me. 00:09:50.741 --> 00:09:53.819 Their love is a part of who I am today. 00:09:56.864 --> 00:10:02.519 I worked hard for many, many years. and then, finally, my hard work paid off. 00:10:03.331 --> 00:10:06.861 I got accepted into a professional ballet company. 00:10:06.861 --> 00:10:11.102 I had become the ballerina that I've always dreamed of. 00:10:11.102 --> 00:10:12.244 I couldn't believe it. 00:10:12.244 --> 00:10:15.739 How could this happen to me? Again, I was the devil's child. 00:10:17.808 --> 00:10:19.975 With all this hard work going on, 00:10:21.282 --> 00:10:24.533 I didn't think that any dream like this could ever come true. 00:10:25.520 --> 00:10:28.748 I was very happy, finally. For once. 00:10:30.546 --> 00:10:35.140 But the reason why I am here today, the reason why I am telling you my story 00:10:35.140 --> 00:10:39.258 is because I want to encourage young people to aspire to dream. 00:10:39.258 --> 00:10:40.993 I want people to understand 00:10:40.993 --> 00:10:45.250 that it is OK to be different, it is OK to stand out. 00:10:45.250 --> 00:10:47.018 I'm different. 00:10:47.018 --> 00:10:49.867 And I want you to understand to believe in yourself, 00:10:49.867 --> 00:10:53.509 to believe that you have talent even if you don't think you do. 00:10:53.509 --> 00:10:55.574 No matter what circumstances you are under, 00:10:55.574 --> 00:10:59.160 no matter how poor, or how sad you are at any given moment, 00:10:59.160 --> 00:11:00.992 believe. 00:11:00.992 --> 00:11:03.925 And dare to dream. Dare to push boundaries. 00:11:03.926 --> 00:11:08.110 Dare to be different, dare to stand out, and all above. 00:11:09.283 --> 00:11:14.381 And last but not least, don't be afraid of living and loving. 00:11:14.381 --> 00:11:17.521 And this is how I express myself. 00:11:23.374 --> 00:11:25.634 (Ballet dancing) 00:12:23.511 --> 00:12:25.581 (Applause)