Stop cry. Stop the tears. Don't cry. Take yourself [?] Stop the emotion. Don't be a pussy. Don't be a major suspect. Be cool. Your bitch. Mother fucker. Be a man. Be a man! The 3 most destructive words that every man receive when is a boy, or when is a toddler, is "be a man!" We've constructed an idea masculinity in United States that... young boys awaited feel secure in their masculinity. So, we make him go prove all the time. In good times guys are like really close to each other, but when things get a little bit worse you're on your own. From middle school I had four really close friends.