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Stop cry.

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Stop the tears.

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Don't cry.

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Take yourself [?]

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Stop the emotion.

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Don't be a pussy.

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Don't be a major suspect.

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Be cool.

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Your bitch.

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Mother fucker.

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Be a man.

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Be a man!

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The 3 most destructive words that every man receive when is a boy, or when is a toddler,

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is "be a man!"

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We've constructed an idea masculinity in United States that...

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young boys awaited feel secure in their masculinity.

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So, we make him go prove all the time.

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In good times guys are like really close to each other,

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but when things get a little bit worse you're on your own.

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From middle school I had four really close friends.