1 00:00:09,152 --> 00:00:16,944 (磬声) 2 00:00:27,236 --> 00:00:29,020 亲爱的一行老师,亲爱的僧团, 3 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:38,704 (西班牙语)有时我控制着即将暴发的愤怒。 4 00:00:38,704 --> 00:00:43,469 我收在内,但是它会突然暴发。 5 00:00:43,475 --> 00:00:45,048 在没有任何理由和没有办法控制它的情况下, 6 00:00:45,173 --> 00:00:49,307 我让它一次过都暴发出来。 7 00:00:49,557 --> 00:00:56,660 当我的愤怒暴发时,另外一个人被我伤害得很深。 8 00:00:59,639 --> 00:01:03,500 而我对于那个人没有任何的慈悲心。 9 00:01:06,697 --> 00:01:13,407 当我将所有的愤怒暴发了,在冷静下来后, 10 00:01:13,470 --> 00:01:17,070 我才会有慈悲心而我才意识到我让他受苦了。 11 00:01:17,098 --> 00:01:19,802 不过在那一刻时,我什么都做不了。 12 00:01:20,479 --> 00:01:22,129 我怎么会这么做呢? 13 00:01:24,783 --> 00:01:26,603 亲爱的一行老师,我们的朋友说... 14 00:01:26,603 --> 00:01:30,099 这是另外一个有关愤怒的提问。 15 00:01:30,099 --> 00:01:33,595 她感到有时会有有很多的愤怒升起 16 00:01:34,081 --> 00:01:36,760 而她并不想它暴发出来。 17 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:41,176 所以她尝试着将愤怒控制着,她将它压下去。 18 00:01:41,176 --> 00:01:44,498 但是在某个时候,愤怒会暴发出来 19 00:01:44,498 --> 00:01:48,489 而她会伤害到另外一个人。 20 00:01:48,489 --> 00:01:50,882 她为伤害到另外一个人而感到抱歉。 21 00:01:50,882 --> 00:01:54,739 她造成的他受苦而感到慈悲。 22 00:01:54,959 --> 00:02:00,227 而她要知道她该如何更好地处理这种情况。 23 00:02:02,669 --> 00:02:07,080 她有能力看到另外一个人所受的苦吗? 24 00:02:09,592 --> 00:02:15,245 (法语)她有看到另外一个人所受的苦吗? 25 00:02:15,681 --> 00:02:20,760 是什么时候?暴发之前还是之后? 26 00:02:39,822 --> 00:02:42,685 我看到他们受苦 27 00:02:42,685 --> 00:02:46,817 可是我还是有很强烈的情绪。 28 00:02:46,817 --> 00:02:48,830 我该怎么做? 29 00:02:56,037 --> 00:02:57,987 单是控制是不够的。 30 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,749 控制可能是压抑。 31 00:03:03,561 --> 00:03:05,505 压抑是不好的, 32 00:03:06,256 --> 00:03:10,200 因为它总是在那里,只是你将它牵制著 33 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:12,161 但它还是在的。 34 00:03:12,677 --> 00:03:16,922 所以压抑是不好的。 35 00:03:16,922 --> 00:03:20,786 我们要转化。 36 00:03:20,786 --> 00:03:24,650 而要转化你需要慈悲心。 37 00:03:24,650 --> 00:03:28,516 愤怒、暴力唯一的解药是慈悲心。 38 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:35,171 没有其他的方法。 39 00:03:37,424 --> 00:03:39,406 但是要如何产生慈悲心呢? 40 00:03:40,368 --> 00:03:44,486 要如何形成慈悲的能量呢? 41 00:03:44,486 --> 00:03:46,600 那才是真正的问题。 42 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,264 而在这次的禅修我们学到了 43 00:03:49,264 --> 00:03:53,640 如何认识痛苦。 44 00:03:54,379 --> 00:03:56,960 因为一个人的痛苦是 45 00:03:59,050 --> 00:04:01,861 出自于他行动 46 00:04:01,868 --> 00:04:07,000 47 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:14,922 48 00:04:16,845 --> 00:04:22,440 49 00:04:25,540 --> 00:04:32,120 50 00:04:32,121 --> 00:04:40,291 51 00:04:40,317 --> 00:04:46,288 这是非常重要的。 52 00:04:46,288 --> 00:04:48,310 这是佛陀的教义: 53 00:04:49,768 --> 00:04:52,676 看痛苦 54 00:04:52,676 --> 00:04:54,732 和了解痛苦。 55 00:04:54,732 --> 00:04:58,119 当你了解了自己的苦后, 56 00:04:58,119 --> 00:05:01,200 你就能了解他人的苦。 57 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:06,158 了解苦能带来慈悲心。 58 00:05:06,158 --> 00:05:09,436 而只有慈悲能够转化愤怒和暴力。 59 00:05:09,436 --> 00:05:17,192 我们当中有许多人认为自己 60 00:05:19,009 --> 00:05:23,581 可以将自己的整块的愤怒取出 61 00:05:25,351 --> 00:05:28,958 就像做手术一样。 62 00:05:30,243 --> 00:05:34,078 但是你不能这么做。 63 00:05:37,929 --> 00:05:40,264 你不能将愤怒取出来。 64 00:05:40,264 --> 00:05:45,392 你只能转化它。 65 00:05:45,392 --> 00:05:48,157 愤怒可以转化为其他。 66 00:05:48,157 --> 00:05:52,239 愤怒可以转化成了解和慈悲。 67 00:05:52,239 --> 00:05:55,889 而那是修持者的工作: 68 00:05:56,530 --> 00:06:02,000 看苦, 69 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,120 看自己的苦和他人的苦。 70 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:07,437 而尽力了解苦的主因。 71 00:06:07,437 --> 00:06:11,890 那是产生慈悲能量 72 00:06:11,890 --> 00:06:16,498 的方法。 73 00:06:16,498 --> 00:06:19,395 而当有了慈悲心, 74 00:06:19,395 --> 00:06:21,840 它能转化愤怒。 75 00:06:21,840 --> 00:06:23,960 你不用将它取出来。 76 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:28,507 有一些人会尝试取出来 77 00:06:29,317 --> 00:06:33,452 有些人会建议你... 78 00:06:33,842 --> 00:06:36,451 用“发泄”来将愤怒去除。 79 00:06:36,451 --> 00:06:42,462 这就像你的房间里有烟雾 80 00:06:42,462 --> 00:06:46,116 而你要通风来驱出烟雾。 81 00:06:46,116 --> 00:06:50,481 而方法是进入你的房间锁门 82 00:06:50,481 --> 00:06:57,242 然后尝试用10分钟,15分钟的时间 83 00:06:57,242 --> 00:07:04,355 用拳头猛击你的枕头。 84 00:07:04,928 --> 00:07:10,812 而他们相信这么做 85 00:07:10,812 --> 00:07:13,199 你或许...可以将内心的愤怒消除 86 00:07:13,199 --> 00:07:20,067 “我知道我的愤怒在那里。” 87 00:07:21,107 --> 00:07:23,569 “我要消除愤怒。” 88 00:07:23,569 --> 00:07:26,598 因为他们觉得击打枕头 89 00:07:27,458 --> 00:07:30,445 比直接击打他人还要安全。 90 00:07:30,445 --> 00:07:33,880 而他们叫做 ”从你的系统内消除愤怒“。 91 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,746 而这是没有用的。 92 00:07:39,573 --> 00:07:41,646 它没有效用。 93 00:07:43,050 --> 00:07:45,442 它还可能会使你的愤怒变本加厉。 94 00:07:45,442 --> 00:07:48,316 这就像在为你的愤怒做彩排一样。 95 00:07:50,326 --> 00:07:54,161 而他们将这叫做 96 00:07:58,608 --> 00:08:02,764 97 00:08:03,634 --> 00:08:07,081 98 00:08:07,081 --> 00:08:12,200 99 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:16,420 100 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:18,932 101 00:08:18,932 --> 00:08:23,302 102 00:08:23,962 --> 00:08:31,323 103 00:08:32,433 --> 00:08:37,000 104 00:08:39,123 --> 00:08:41,802 105 00:08:41,802 --> 00:08:44,755 106 00:08:44,755 --> 00:08:47,240 107 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,449 108 00:08:50,449 --> 00:08:52,720 109 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:56,906 110 00:08:56,906 --> 00:08:59,175 111 00:08:59,178 --> 00:09:01,919 112 00:09:01,919 --> 00:09:04,121 113 00:09:04,121 --> 00:09:05,754 114 00:09:05,754 --> 00:09:06,964 115 00:09:06,964 --> 00:09:08,816 116 00:09:08,816 --> 00:09:13,287 117 00:09:14,205 --> 00:09:15,772 118 00:09:15,772 --> 00:09:20,842 119 00:09:21,343 --> 00:09:23,469 120 00:09:24,239 --> 00:09:29,921 121 00:09:31,831 --> 00:09:34,865 122 00:09:35,675 --> 00:09:40,129 123 00:09:40,129 --> 00:09:44,044 124 00:09:44,044 --> 00:09:47,023 125 00:09:47,023 --> 00:09:48,986 126 00:09:49,779 --> 00:09:53,048 127 00:09:53,048 --> 00:09:59,160 128 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:04,804 129 00:10:04,804 --> 00:10:06,782 130 00:10:08,257 --> 00:10:10,220 131 00:10:10,220 --> 00:10:12,769 132 00:10:12,769 --> 00:10:14,614 133 00:10:14,614 --> 00:10:16,767 134 00:10:16,767 --> 00:10:18,491 135 00:10:18,491 --> 00:10:21,740 136 00:10:21,740 --> 00:10:25,080 137 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,839 138 00:10:27,839 --> 00:10:30,297 有两种能量: 139 00:10:30,297 --> 00:10:33,205 140 00:10:33,205 --> 00:10:37,110 141 00:10:37,215 --> 00:10:39,803 142 00:10:39,803 --> 00:10:43,407 143 00:10:43,407 --> 00:10:49,992 144 00:10:50,004 --> 00:10:52,952 145 00:10:56,922 --> 00:11:01,250 146 00:11:01,250 --> 00:11:04,100 147 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