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Dialogue: 0,0:00:09.39,0:00:24.31,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:27.09,0:00:29.76,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Dear Thay,\Ndear Sangha,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:29.76,0:00:34.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,What should one do when a teacher makes\Nfun of you in front of the whole class
Dialogue: 0,0:00:34.32,0:00:36.32,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and your class laughs about you?
Dialogue: 0,0:00:37.36,0:00:39.09,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Very difficult.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:39.36,0:00:42.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Crowd laughs)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:47.19,0:00:53.54,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,I think the best way is to laugh along,\Nto laugh with the whole class,
Dialogue: 0,0:00:53.54,0:00:55.93,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Crowd laughs)
Dialogue: 0,0:00:55.93,0:00:58.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,to join the class in laughing.
Dialogue: 0,0:00:59.02,0:01:03.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That's the most beautiful thing to do\Nin those circumstances,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:06.19,0:01:16.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because sometimes something is not funny\Nbut people believe it to be funny.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:17.49,0:01:19.24,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,There is a wrong perception.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:26.11,0:01:26.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You know...
Dialogue: 0,0:01:29.99,0:01:33.19,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Maybe you will grow up\Nand become a teacher.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:34.60,0:01:38.68,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So we should prepare ourselves\Nnot to do like that.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:38.68,0:01:40.36,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Laughter)
Dialogue: 0,0:01:40.36,0:01:44.50,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Teachers need time to grow\Ninto a good teacher.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:48.74,0:01:52.58,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,It's not because you have graduated\Nfrom teacher's college,
Dialogue: 0,0:01:52.58,0:01:55.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that you can be a good teacher\Nright away.
Dialogue: 0,0:01:58.04,0:02:00.23,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So teachers can make mistakes.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:00.23,0:02:03.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thay also made mistakes\Nas a young teacher.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:04.38,0:02:07.88,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he still makes mistakes.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:09.08,0:02:12.81,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,But he learns everyday being a teacher.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:13.96,0:02:18.07,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he has learned so much\Nfrom his own students.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:23.09,0:02:28.08,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Not only teachers, but nobody\Nshould make fun of anyone,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:30.53,0:02:33.04,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because they will cause suffering.
Dialogue: 0,0:02:33.77,0:02:38.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes it is not the intention\Nto make you suffer
Dialogue: 0,0:02:38.80,0:02:43.59,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but it's because that person lacks\Nsome skillfulness,
Dialogue: 0,0:02:44.86,0:02:53.55,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,he may talk about the same thing, but\Nwill not hurt you with skillful speech
Dialogue: 0,0:02:54.69,0:03:02.65,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Even when he wants to teach you, he can\Nteach in a way that does not hurt you.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:03.79,0:03:08.26,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is something we have to learn,\Nteacher or not.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:09.98,0:03:14.29,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,We say the same thing,\Nbut the way we say it will not hurt people.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:15.66,0:03:20.75,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Thay has learned about that,\Nhe has many students.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:22.83,0:03:30.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes he wants to help\Nhis students to transform.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:32.71,0:03:35.62,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And he has learned to be very careful.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:36.06,0:03:42.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes he can\Ntell the disciple directly.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:43.03,0:03:52.99,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes he has to help a big brother\Nor a young sister to tell him,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:52.99,0:03:55.51,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,instead of telling him directly.
Dialogue: 0,0:03:55.52,0:03:59.02,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,Sometimes he can say it right away,
Dialogue: 0,0:03:59.26,0:04:03.91,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,sometimes he has to\Nwait for a few weeks and tell it later.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:04.42,0:04:08.17,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You have to choose the time\Nand the place to tell.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:08.87,0:04:15.67,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You may tell him in front of a group\Nor privately, you have to select.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:16.71,0:04:20.34,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you learn that through the process\Nof being a teacher.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:20.68,0:04:24.05,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So your teacher may not be\Nvery skillful now,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:24.05,0:04:27.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,but maybe he does not have\Nthe intention to hurt.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:27.86,0:04:31.49,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you should help your teacher.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:32.73,0:04:37.98,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,After the event you may like to\Ncome to your teacher and say:
Dialogue: 0,0:04:37.98,0:04:45.25,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,"My dear teacher, I hope next time\Nyou will not do like that,
Dialogue: 0,0:04:45.25,0:04:51.18,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,because I suffer when you make fun of me\Nin the class. I get hurt.
Dialogue: 0,0:04:52.94,0:04:58.78,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So I hope next time you will not do it\Nto me or to another student of yours."
Dialogue: 0,0:04:59.16,0:05:06.46,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And you help your teacher.\NYou do not reproach him. You help him.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:06.46,0:05:13.83,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you use compassion and love\Nin order to respond to something not kind
Dialogue: 0,0:05:13.83,0:05:15.73,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,that the other person has done to you.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:16.33,0:05:19.57,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,You are a good practitioner.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:21.41,0:05:27.20,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,And everyone can make that kind of\Nmistake, also Thay in the past.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:27.20,0:05:31.41,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,So you yourself and all of us\Nhave to learn.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:31.79,0:05:36.11,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,That is the fourth mindfulness training:
Dialogue: 0,0:05:36.60,0:05:41.82,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,learning to speak in such a way that\Nyou can tell the truth
Dialogue: 0,0:05:41.82,0:05:46.84,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,and help the other person,\Nand not hurt him or her.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:47.36,0:05:51.77,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,This is a wonderful practice,\Nthe fourth mindfulness training.
Dialogue: 0,0:05:59.46,0:06:08.70,Default,,0000,0000,0000,,(Bell)