Personally, I feel there are only a few The first one I can appreciate time I can appreciate time Then the second one I can please others more Especially to parents In my community I see that Among fellow members of the community They are more open to each other So, between one community with other communities They are more open to each other Second, they are also more sensitive More respect for each other Both from men to women And women to men It feels like the same Nothing is different So, respect each other In the community itself That is the change We take one another Become an alarm or a reminder for others If there is an error Or misunderstanding in the community Or turn from what we learned Like positive values In our lives We are from one another Remind each other Then there are certainly many obstacles And the challenges we will face And especially myself As the leader Where should I continue Give a good example For its own constraints, namely Most come from within me I sometimes can't control myself I can't sometimes be good examples for friends But there I continued to study And I keep reminding friends For us together Achieving something good In our lives We must continue together We must remind each other Between one another First time I am involved in the LLB (Laki - laki Baru) community This New Men's Movement From church youth Incidentally at that time LLB Working directly with church youth And communities are formed In the youth of the church I am also involved in it Which is the background Why do I have to involved in it Mindset About the purpose of the LLB itself That is about gender equality And violence against women More specifically I am interested in gender itself Because in my mind Gender is actually An act of crime And Apparently After being in this community The mindset that is in my mind That is still wrong New Men's Movement In a community Occurs in Mata Air Village Organized by the CIS Very useful for Not only for the church But it also has an impact on society Especially in Mata Air Village We feel helped by this movement Because at least There are paradigm changes Changing mindsets From the youth Parents Problem living side by side With his wife and children Because that is what happens in society And also to the church Specifically This New Men's Movement in this region Especially young people Who follows it He has a positive impact In the church specifically They have already begun to show Who are they Young people who think positively But also young people Not only Keep quiet But has a role In their particular church When given space They work responsibly There are new creations What they met Even they provide solutions In a problem I am personally As a priest in this place Feeling helped Why Because it's almost mostly Youth Feeling that they are no longer Give responsibility, then they act But they have started to have Sort of their past work Start doing activities In church life But also society About how Difficult Difficult Sad sad Odd Odd Worry Worry Means that communication is important Here it's said communication is important In building relationships My biggest challenge is Comes from within myself And also the closest people Where do I invite people Around me Even people Don't know me For them don't do violence But at least We have great hope As a woman We don't want more than men But we want to be the same as men We don't want to Higher than men But we want to be appreciated I hope in the future This movement can be maintained continuously Then don't just be limited to the community But if there can be programs That touches up outside the community With help From members of the community It certainly can strengthen information Keep strengthening Actions which is Characterizing this LLB I hope That not only in the church But they have more access To the community Especially us in the Mata Air Village, right? There are several churches Not only ... But there is Catholicism There is a GBI This group must have more access For that So not only Here in the village ... Desa Mata Air But overall to other hamlets The embryo starts from the church Not questioned But they must access Must jump In the midst of the community So that this community develops forward And don't keep quiet I have one hope I hope so I hope so communities that I have built We have built it together Keep standing, stay strong We want to stay together To keep fighting To keep voicing Stop violence against women Wherever we are I also hope that Other friends from other regions Good friends of SIO Or other communities Let us support one another We motivate each other for in the same destination So that we speak the same thing And I believe that When we move For something good Then that will come true Then my last hope is I hope to friends from CIS More specifically which handles this New Male program To always give us motivation Always give us support In the future we try Better Maybe that's all I have a poem For this New Men's movement That is this Go to the market to buy fish Don't forget to buy basil Life without violence Is a real man Thank you