Personally,
I feel there are only a few
The first one
I can appreciate time
Then the second one
I can please others more
Especially to parents
In my community
I see that
Among fellow members of the community
They are more open to each other
So, between one community
with other communities
They are more open to each other
Second, they are also more sensitive
More respect for each other
Both from men to women
And women to men
It feels like the same
Nothing is different
So, respect each other
In the community itself
That is the change
We take one another
Become an alarm
or a reminder for others
If there is an error
Or misunderstanding in the community
Or turn from what we learned
Like positive values
In our lives
We are from one another
Remind each other
Then
there are certainly many obstacles
And the challenges we will face
And especially myself
As the leader
Where should I continue
Give a good example
For its own constraints, namely
Most come from within me
I sometimes can't control myself
I can't sometimes be
good examples for friends
But there I continued to study
And I keep reminding friends
For us together
Achieving something good
In our lives
We must continue together
We must remind each other
Between one another
First time
I am involved in the LLB (Laki - laki Baru) community
This New Men's Movement
From church youth
Incidentally at that time LLB
Working directly with church youth
And communities are formed
In the youth of the church
I am also involved in it
Which is the background
Why do I have to
involved in it
Mindset
About the purpose of the LLB itself
That is about gender equality
And violence against women
More specifically
I am interested in gender itself
Because in my mind
Gender is actually
An act of crime
And
Apparently
After being in this community
The mindset that is in my mind
That is still wrong
New Men's Movement
In a community
Occurs in Mata Air Village
Organized by the CIS
Very useful for
Not only for the church
But it also has an impact on society
Especially in Mata Air Village
We feel helped by this movement
Because at least
There are paradigm changes
Changing mindsets
From the youth
Parents
Problem living side by side
With his wife and children
Because that is what happens in society
And also to the church
Specifically
This New Men's Movement
in this region
Especially young people
Who follows it
He has a positive impact
In the church specifically
They have already begun to show
Who are they
Young people who think positively
But also young people
Not only
Keep quiet
But has a role
In their particular church
When given space
They work responsibly
There are new creations
What they met
Even they provide solutions
In a problem
I am personally
As a priest in this place
Feeling helped
Why
Because it's almost mostly
Youth
Feeling that they are no longer
Give responsibility, then they act
But they have started to have
Sort of their past work
Start doing activities
In church life
But also society
About how
Difficult
Sad
sad
Odd
Worry
Means that communication is important
Here it's said communication is important
In building relationships
My biggest challenge is
Comes from within myself
And also the closest people
Where do I invite people
Around me
Even people
Don't know me
For them don't do violence
But at least
We have great hope
As a woman
We don't want more than men
But we want to be the same as men
We don't want to
Higher than men
But we want to be appreciated
I hope in the future
This movement
can be maintained continuously
Then don't just be limited to the community
But if there can be programs
That touches up outside the community
With help
From members of the community
It certainly can strengthen information
Keep strengthening
Actions which is
Characterizing this LLB
I hope
That not only in the church
But they have more access
To the community
Especially us in the Mata Air Village, right?
There are several churches
Not only ...
But there is Catholicism
There is a GBI
This group must have more access
For that
So not only
Here in the village ...
Desa Mata Air
But overall to other hamlets
The embryo starts from the church
Not questioned
But they must access
Must jump
In the midst of the community
So that this community develops forward
And don't keep quiet
I have one hope
I hope so
communities that I have built
We have built it together
Keep standing, stay strong
We want to stay together
To keep fighting
To keep voicing
Stop violence against women
Wherever we are
I also hope that
Other friends from other regions
Good friends of SIO
Or other communities
Let us support one another
We motivate each other for
in the same destination
So that we speak the same thing
And I believe that
When we move
For something good
Then that will come true
Then my last hope is
I hope to friends from CIS
More specifically
which handles this New Male program
To always give us motivation
Always give us support
In the future we try
Better
Maybe that's all
I have a poem
For this New Men's movement
That is this
Go to the market to buy fish
Don't forget to buy basil
Life without violence
Is a real man
Thank you